So I'm noticing no more Utah events until after thanksgiving? That can't be right. Some of us don't get the luxury of celebrating Halloween and so are feeling left out now. I know we could host our own big event but that requires a level of involvement beyond what we are capable right now (hats off to those who do throw these events!). I can't really expect others to throw events whenever I would like them either so I guess I'm just whining to make noise. That's all, thanks.
We will be launching all new official Swingular Events for Xmas and New Years! Keep an eye out in the next few days for them. These are going to be crazy events and are going to change the lifestyle party scene in Utah in a HUGE way.
Hmmm. Sounds interesting.
Take a chance to enjoy a breather cuz once the holidays hit...it's gonna be Party Central. In the mean time, hit the meet and greets and you never know when a m&g can turn into an afterparty. 
xox
Tammy
xox
Tammy
blueyeyes you said you was out of commision today lol or we could have brought the party to your house
We're sorry it has taken us a bit to get everything up and running on the site but we promise it will be worth waiting. We have spared no expense when it comes to the events Swingular is going to be hosting in the future. Make sure you friend request Swingular_events... HINT HINT there may be special benefits to being friends
EDANY0178 wrote:
blueyeyes you said you was out of commision today lol or we could have brought the party to your house
Stupid head cold. ~pout~
Would really like to see some mng up north close to home so anyone have any ised ideas lets do it
Actually one group is having one on 11-11-11, it's the same host who threw the big Halloween bash this last weekend. And it's not Elite Parties but the co-host who's house was used for that party.. contact Ross/Vickie if you are interested, private mail us.
Although it'd be nice to find some slightly less expensive parties both before and during the holiday season. I can't afford the $50 tickets let alone the $120+ tickets. Guess I'm stuck at home through the party season. 
As we are aware that some of you may not be able to afford the cost of tickets for some events, we will be having contests to giveaway tickets. Keep an eye out for our newly designed photo contest.
Sounds like fun! We'll defiantly be there. DJ Fances is soooo much fun
Just bought my ticket for the December 3rd Frosty Frolic. Whoot!
xox
Tammy
xox
Tammy
I miss our Northern Nights meet & greets that our lovely Trixxie always put together.
xox
Tammy
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Tammy
So for this Frosty Frolic is there going to be anything besides just drinking and loud music? Nothing wrong with those parties but at a club sexual options are more limited and the music tends to be too loud to really get to know anyone and we don't really drink so they just aren't for us unless there is some sort of entertainment. I saw there is going to be some adult film star there. Is she going to be doing any sort of performance or just exist at the party? (text doesn't portray tone very well. I'm sure she is great, I just haven't heard of her so I think I would be more inclined to meet other locals unless there is entertainment involved.)
Just saw the thread with more the more complete description of the event. It seems to have answered my questions. Should be fun for the club people but it looks like it isn't really our scene. We'll catch you all at one of the non club parties instead.
The events will have tons of entertainment including go-go dancers, amazing interactive DJ's who perform concert type shows, and much more. Yes it is similar to a club scene but we have several Playful areas away from the dance floor, that are quieter, where you can sit down and mingle with other people and enjoy the company of others. With this being our private venue, the options are limitless. We are not a club this is our private location, which allows our members to enjoy themselves. The Entertainment is world class not just a house DJ that plays music. We are bringing professional DJ's that love doing lifestyle events.. Utah has never seen this level of event and we a excited to bring it. We understand that this type of event may not cater to everyone and respect that. This is why we support other local lifestyle events. Our celebrity guests bring a sexual energy to the party that is exciting and dynamic, adding to the party as a whole. They are a blast to party with and get to experience them. We welcome everyone to come and experience what these events have to offer.
We look forward to seeing you all there!
We look forward to seeing you all there!
Ok all how do we find out about the meet and greets? We have the weekend of the 19th off and we are way overdue for some time away from home.
We really do appreciate the Meet n Greets on Fridays, wish there were more events planned on Fri nights since we work Sat nights and cant get to any of the major parties.
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
I miss our Northern Nights meet & greets that our lovely Trixxie always put together.
xox
Tammy
We have to agree, Tammy!
Just a random thought here..and perhaps a place to vent "just a bit". While big parties are a lot of fun..and the turnout at our last one was incredible...they are a lot of work..and can easily "outgrow" the available room at a hosts place.
When you advertise them here in these pages...it's often a crap shoot as to who mght actually show up....so A host plans for a moderate to large turnout..and even tho most times guests bring snacks and drinks..there is still often a substantial outlay of cash..and time on the hosts part...and often..few actually show up. It is particulairly frustrating when you had quite a bunch rsvp and say they were coming!
So..I think most do as we do...consult friends..and ones that we actually THINK will show up, and invite them to invite others, rather than announce it here. Not because we are "snobs" that don't want others at our parties, but rather, to try and lessen not only the risk of being overwhelmed...but also to assure that enough actually show to make it a party..we always fear not that "no one will come"...but more often that only one or two others will..expecting a party..and not getting it.
And ..yes..we HAVE planned..AND announced a party..gotten a number of RSVP's..and had NO ONE come. I'm sure others have had the same experience. Sort of sours you on that method of hosting a party.
Our advice..attend M & G's...get to know people..and you'll hear of parties..and then GO when you say you will....works for us!
Of course..as the ad always says.."You may experience different results"....
When you advertise them here in these pages...it's often a crap shoot as to who mght actually show up....so A host plans for a moderate to large turnout..and even tho most times guests bring snacks and drinks..there is still often a substantial outlay of cash..and time on the hosts part...and often..few actually show up. It is particulairly frustrating when you had quite a bunch rsvp and say they were coming!
So..I think most do as we do...consult friends..and ones that we actually THINK will show up, and invite them to invite others, rather than announce it here. Not because we are "snobs" that don't want others at our parties, but rather, to try and lessen not only the risk of being overwhelmed...but also to assure that enough actually show to make it a party..we always fear not that "no one will come"...but more often that only one or two others will..expecting a party..and not getting it.
And ..yes..we HAVE planned..AND announced a party..gotten a number of RSVP's..and had NO ONE come. I'm sure others have had the same experience. Sort of sours you on that method of hosting a party.
Our advice..attend M & G's...get to know people..and you'll hear of parties..and then GO when you say you will....works for us!
Of course..as the ad always says.."You may experience different results"....
TIFFND wrote:
Just a random thought here..and perhaps a place to vent "just a bit". While big parties are a lot of fun..and the turnout at our last one was incredible...they are a lot of work..and can easily "outgrow" the available room at a hosts place.
When you advertise them here in these pages...it's often a crap shoot as to who mght actually show up....so A host plans for a moderate to large turnout..and even tho most times guests bring snacks and drinks..there is still often a substantial outlay of cash..and time on the hosts part...and often..few actually show up. It is particulairly frustrating when you had quite a bunch rsvp and say they were coming!
So..I think most do as we do...consult friends..and ones that we actually THINK will show up, and invite them to invite others, rather than announce it here. Not because we are "snobs" that don't want others at our parties, but rather, to try and lessen not only the risk of being overwhelmed...but also to assure that enough actually show to make it a party..we always fear not that "no one will come"...but more often that only one or two others will..expecting a party..and not getting it.
And ..yes..we HAVE planned..AND announced a party..gotten a number of RSVP's..and had NO ONE come. I'm sure others have had the same experience. Sort of sours you on that method of hosting a party.
Our advice..attend M & G's...get to know people..and you'll hear of parties..and then GO when you say you will....works for us!
Of course..as the ad always says.."You may experience different results"....
It's hard getting on the lists for the parties when you're new. We go to the m&g's, and they have been a great way to meet some awesome people. We were lucky enough to attend your party. It was an amazing turnout, and we were grateful for the hosts. If anything we have found, show up, be respectful, be appreciative, and try to get to meet all you can.
SPEXDEX wrote:SPEXDEX wrote:
[quote=TIFFND]It's hard getting on the lists for the parties when you're new. We go to the m&g's, and they have been a great way to meet some awesome people. We were lucky enough to attend your party. It was an amazing turnout, and we were grateful for the hosts. If anything we have found, show up, be respectful, be appreciative, and try to get to meet all you can.
Absolutely agree! Great advice. You are right about it being hard for new people to get invited. One other thing we do is when we meet new people, we usually mention to them that we host parties sometimes, and if they show any interest in that, we ask them to send us a friends request. When we send the invites, we always go through our friends list first..if after sending a couple of invites with no response at all from them...we assume they are not interested..and we stop sending them.
In short, I guess we kind of feel like if you get an invite from a friend...you owe them the courtesy of a reply..one way or the other. We don't care, nor need to know the reason you can't come...but a simple "sorry..can't make this time" is really appreciated.
I would add, too, that we feel the host has a certain amount of responsibility, as well. If you advertise a party, and someone responds to the announcement..you OWE it to them to send the info..or at the very least a reply of some sort.
BTW..Thanks for coming to the party! It was nice to meet so many new people! It was a lot of fun..and we plan to do a Halloween party every year..so keep it in mind!
Thank you again for having us, it was a great turnout. You two are excellent hosts with a beautiful home. We are really glad we went!