Why is it that couples, who the female is BI, will accept a bi-female (on their Profile) but not a lesbian.?
I know the difference but it's going to be alot of girl on girl action anyway which turns the guy on and some Lesbians I know don't mind being finished off by a cock.
I know the difference but it's going to be alot of girl on girl action anyway which turns the guy on and some Lesbians I know don't mind being finished off by a cock.
We don't discriminate. We would welcome either.
A website like this has an objective. We all know what the objective is so one would hope that folks on here would label themselves, not necessarily based on what they would label themselves in life but by what will obtain them the results they are hoping for. For example, Mrs. crazyfoxtcu is actually strait and doesn't seek out women but on our profile she has listed herself as bi-comfortable because in the electricity of a group session she will enjoy women as well. If lesbians want action from those who would like their male half to participate as well they should label as bi something. If they don't want to be bothered by couples who want more than girl on girl then they should label as lesbian.
Interesting question and I would love to know the truth. Just sorry that I did not post it. Maybe we can get someone pissed off enough to give us the real answer. Who thinks we will get the real story? The only thing I know for sure is that you can
Just my thoughts here but when I think of a "lesbian" an image of a butch looking female comes to mind (yes, I know there are some damn sexy girlie lesbians out there so nobody get mad) where as bi I picture "lipstick lesbian" if you will. Is this thinking right, probably not, some would even say stereotyping, but just being honest here...also I want a bi female so my man can enjoy her as much as I do, after all we're here to both have fun. Yes he is ok with only girl on girl (what guy wouldn't be) then me giving him his fun after but I know he loves a little strange too....
Just my 0.05
Just my 0.05
MASSMN wrote:
Why is it that couples, who the female is BI, will accept a bi-female (on their Profile) but not a lesbian.?
I know the difference but it's going to be alot of girl on girl action anyway which turns the guy on and some Lesbians I know don't mind being finished off by a cock.
Why does everyone just naturally assume it's a turn on for EVERY guy to see 2 women together?
Back when that was an obligatory scene in every porn flick - I fast forwarded through it.
Not a turn OFF to see it in person - just not a turn ON. (him)
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:
We do not think it is a question that can be answered in generalities or that the drop down boxes we select in our profiles can even begin to fully answer such questions. There are probably almost as many answers as there are profiles. As with everything else in life some people understand themselves enough to understand most of their druthers and some people are still trying to figure themselves out. All of us to at least some degree still find at least part of our own self a mystery. Hey that is normal. Now to try and make a bunch of broad statements in a matter of fact manner that you know why people do what they do, especially when those statements are derogatory makes us suspicious you either have control issues or you have a radio talk show. As for us bisexual females in general seems more appropriate because she would possibly be interested in the two of us but a lesbian would be fine too. In fact it really depends on the woman. A really great lesbian sexual relationship for the wife with a woman we both could connect with as friends would be great and better than a sexual relationship we both could enjoy with bisexual woman where there was not a lot of connection. It all really depends.
Agreed, I don't think there's any one answer for this. It all comes down to the moment, so it falls on us to talk to people to see where things might lead to have an idea of what you're getting into.
I just heard on npr that a new anti-depressant is hitting the market with the target audience being lesbian women. The marketing strategy sounded brilliant and it all comes down to a name. TryCoxAgain.
The joke simply seemed appropriate... not to demonstrate any prejudice one way or another. Love who you want to love.
The joke simply seemed appropriate... not to demonstrate any prejudice one way or another. Love who you want to love.
Presumably a lesbian would not be interested in the man, so a real threesome would be out. With a bi female, she would play with both. The labels do have meaning, even if they are sometimes mis-applied. If the guy just wants to watch, then it would work. It's not a question of discrimination in the negatives sense; it is discrimination in the sense of choosing one thing and not another.
MASSMN wrote:
some Lesbians I know don't mind being finished off by a cock.
Liking a cock would make them bisexual, as in liking two sexes.
If the female truly is a lesbian then I do not think that they want to finished off with a cock as you say. No matter how hot she is if she has no intention of pleasing my hubby then I would not be interested in playing with her. We are in this to see each other being pleased and girl/girl is only a small part of it.
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mmmmmmmm.....definitely!
I see (always have) gay as being gay - makes no difference if we're talking men or women. PERIOD!
Gay guys have no interest in women, and Lesbians have no interest in men. PERIOD!
Therefore, the thing that just totally makes no sense to me is Lesbians who wouldn't even think of being with a man, strapping on a plastic cock and fucking one another.
Wonder if there are any statistics available on how many Lesbians buy dildos?
Hmmmmm................. maybe I could get a multi-million dollar government grant to do a study.
Gay guys have no interest in women, and Lesbians have no interest in men. PERIOD!
Therefore, the thing that just totally makes no sense to me is Lesbians who wouldn't even think of being with a man, strapping on a plastic cock and fucking one another.
Wonder if there are any statistics available on how many Lesbians buy dildos?
Hmmmmm................. maybe I could get a multi-million dollar government grant to do a study.
well the word lesbian means they dont like cock right? gay men dont fuck women
Now wait a minute. Gay men do fuck women and are often married to one especially to hold a position in the community at large. And there are Lesbians that fuck men on occasion as well as do other things like BDSM. The original word comes from the Isle of Lesbos and has little to do with cock. I suggest you read your Greek history. Today it simply means that they prefer women as partners and has nothing to do with dislike although some may dislike cock as you put it.
Human sexuality has preferences on a sliding scale. If you believe that there are completely Straight men and women then you must accept the idea of completely Gay or completely Lesbian humans. Some men have proctology phobia because most Proctologists are men. Are these men Straight or just afraid that they might be Gay and does an exam really have anything to do with sex. It is kind of a stupid question, is it not? A lot of supposedly Straight men seem to act like it is a sexual violation though. In society a hundred years ago doctors were allowed to feel a woman
Human sexuality has preferences on a sliding scale. If you believe that there are completely Straight men and women then you must accept the idea of completely Gay or completely Lesbian humans. Some men have proctology phobia because most Proctologists are men. Are these men Straight or just afraid that they might be Gay and does an exam really have anything to do with sex. It is kind of a stupid question, is it not? A lot of supposedly Straight men seem to act like it is a sexual violation though. In society a hundred years ago doctors were allowed to feel a woman
well i was thinking in technical terms...gay means u like same sex...bi means u like both...straight means u like the opposite sex...so if a lesbian or gay man crosses the line ...wouldnt they be bi, but just prefer one more than the other...this may just be my small minded, narrow thinking...i am from Tennessee so maybe im wrong..
Maybe the majority of the human race is Bi? Or at least has the potential to be so?
We welcome gay and bi women, it is all about having fun!!!
@ CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL
I agree with ur statement: "Therefore, the thing that just totally makes no sense to me is Lesbians who wouldn't even think of being with a man, strapping on a plastic cock and fucking one another."
I could never understand why a chick would rather be fucked by a dildo then the real thing, unless she's just totally turned off by a man touch/scent. Maybe she's just Jellious of a man cock???
Does the one wearing the strap-on actually get of doing it?
To your second point: I also agree, as a guy I'm kind of tired of seeing girl/girl action (well,maybe for the first 5 minutes). It's just become the norm today, I think people r getting desensitized to it even in the stores and regular clubs girls are teasing guy's with it even if they're not BI.
I think, given the right circumstance's, most if not all female's will try another girl even if it's just one time. With guy's I believe either you are or you're not.
I agree with ur statement: "Therefore, the thing that just totally makes no sense to me is Lesbians who wouldn't even think of being with a man, strapping on a plastic cock and fucking one another."
I could never understand why a chick would rather be fucked by a dildo then the real thing, unless she's just totally turned off by a man touch/scent. Maybe she's just Jellious of a man cock???
Does the one wearing the strap-on actually get of doing it?
To your second point: I also agree, as a guy I'm kind of tired of seeing girl/girl action (well,maybe for the first 5 minutes). It's just become the norm today, I think people r getting desensitized to it even in the stores and regular clubs girls are teasing guy's with it even if they're not BI.
I think, given the right circumstance's, most if not all female's will try another girl even if it's just one time. With guy's I believe either you are or you're not.
@ MASSMN
I somewhat disagree with your last "either you are or you're not" comment.
I've (he) been in and around the Lifestyle long enough to witness a LOT of couples (and single males) who post STRAIGHT as the man's sexual orientation, but get them behind closed doors, and it's an entirely different situation.
Not in ALL cases, of course, but far more often than most people realize.
Why?
Because where males are concerned, the "HOMO STIGMA" still applies, even if it describes the guy as "bi curious" - but NOT to women.
Women go to the rest room together, hug one another every time they meet, hold hands, touch and kiss one another, etc., etc.......................
So the thought of them engaging in sexual activity together isn't that much of a stretch to be considered as offensive as it would be for us "macho" guys to show any sort of vulnerability or affection toward one another.
It's just not the manly thing to do - it's not socially acceptable.
It's like I've posted here a number of times in the past:
"A man can fuck 1,000 women, and NO ONE will call him a stud - but let him get caught with 1 cock in his mouth, and he'll be labeled a cocksucker the rest of his life".
I somewhat disagree with your last "either you are or you're not" comment.
I've (he) been in and around the Lifestyle long enough to witness a LOT of couples (and single males) who post STRAIGHT as the man's sexual orientation, but get them behind closed doors, and it's an entirely different situation.
Not in ALL cases, of course, but far more often than most people realize.
Why?
Because where males are concerned, the "HOMO STIGMA" still applies, even if it describes the guy as "bi curious" - but NOT to women.
Women go to the rest room together, hug one another every time they meet, hold hands, touch and kiss one another, etc., etc.......................
So the thought of them engaging in sexual activity together isn't that much of a stretch to be considered as offensive as it would be for us "macho" guys to show any sort of vulnerability or affection toward one another.
It's just not the manly thing to do - it's not socially acceptable.
It's like I've posted here a number of times in the past:
"A man can fuck 1,000 women, and NO ONE will call him a stud - but let him get caught with 1 cock in his mouth, and he'll be labeled a cocksucker the rest of his life".
[quote=MASSMN the thing that just totally makes no sense to me is Lesbians who wouldn't even think of being with a man, strapping on a plastic cock and fucking one another." [/quote]
Different folks like different things and different times and a million reasons for them. Older men are often better at sex because for the most part we put the woman
Different folks like different things and different times and a million reasons for them. Older men are often better at sex because for the most part we put the woman
Easy SUGAR/SPICE. All I meant was i don't see how the one wearing the strap-on get's turned on by it.
and if you're gpong to use one why not a real one.
Obviously, whatever turns u on is what it's about.
As far as me reading men's sex magizines, do people really read them.
If I want to know something I'll read a study done by professional's not a writer.
This point in my life I could write a book, well, maybe a long pamplet.
and if you're gpong to use one why not a real one.
Obviously, whatever turns u on is what it's about.
As far as me reading men's sex magizines, do people really read them.
If I want to know something I'll read a study done by professional's not a writer.
This point in my life I could write a book, well, maybe a long pamplet.
May I suggest reading more than men