My girl and I are interested in bringing another girl into our sex life but is unsure how
To go about it. How did you start and what are some tips you could give?
To go about it. How did you start and what are some tips you could give?
We started slow. We were together for 7 years before the subject ever came up ..... That being said be open and Honest about everything If you start in this lifestyle and try to keep secrets it will backfire and cause lots of problems..
Not a good start for us, no real Internet and only a monthly magazine you needed a P.O. Box to use left us no real options. We made a trip to Vegas for a few days, ended up winning a bunch of money so stayed a few more,
After partying for 4 days and consuming more alcohol than we should, we were walking down the strip grabbed a few flayers in the boxes and headed to our room. With a few more drinks and checking all the escort services we called one.
Told them what we wanted, a bi female to be with her and he would only watch, an hour later a girl shows up and after talking found out the sent the wrong girl she was not bi and wouldn't do it. Guess you could call that strike one.
The next girl they sent was twice our size and looked like she had just came fro a homeless shelter. We nicely told her no thanks, gave her 40 dollars and now we are at strike two, but feeling nasty as hell wasn't about to give up.
Well we bagged that flier and tried another one. When she got to the casino we had to go down and get her because for some unknown reason to us she couldn't come up unless we escorted her. Humm, do you think they may have known who she. Anyway she was hot as hell, about our age and after talking a bit, telling her what we wanted but were a little shy. She said no problem she would take care of it but it would be 400 dollars up front. Well the money exchanged, she ripped her and Tam's clothes of and pretty much raped her for about an hour, glen sat on a chair and jacked of in amazement, well when time was up the escort jumped up instantly, said thanks and headed for the door.. Tam said i"m not done yet and we will pay more for her to stay. She said that another client was waiting for her and would see if another girl was available, well their was so for the next 2 hours we did it again. It only cost us 840 dollars to get our first experience but we had won a lot of money and were still way ahead so it was no big deal, so do you think we struck out or not. Well lets finish the story.
We fucked like rabbits for a week fantasizing about our adventure. Then Tam got up one morning and had a strange discharge that caused us to freak out and head for planned parenthood. Sure enough one or both of the girls had given us an STD. Luckily it was a week of pills and a few check ups to clear it up. That scared us so bad that we did not try again for 2 years thinking everyone had something to give us. So ya guess we struck out.
After 2 years of no play and wanting it badly, lol we finally found swingular and never had anything like that ever happen again
The only advice we have is don't be scared and message people you might be interested in on here, You will get a lot of no answers, meet some people and walk away for different reason but if your persistent new friendships will find you. We have met so many great people on this site wouldn't think their is a better than where you are to find your adventure.
Tam and Glen
After partying for 4 days and consuming more alcohol than we should, we were walking down the strip grabbed a few flayers in the boxes and headed to our room. With a few more drinks and checking all the escort services we called one.
Told them what we wanted, a bi female to be with her and he would only watch, an hour later a girl shows up and after talking found out the sent the wrong girl she was not bi and wouldn't do it. Guess you could call that strike one.
The next girl they sent was twice our size and looked like she had just came fro a homeless shelter. We nicely told her no thanks, gave her 40 dollars and now we are at strike two, but feeling nasty as hell wasn't about to give up.
Well we bagged that flier and tried another one. When she got to the casino we had to go down and get her because for some unknown reason to us she couldn't come up unless we escorted her. Humm, do you think they may have known who she. Anyway she was hot as hell, about our age and after talking a bit, telling her what we wanted but were a little shy. She said no problem she would take care of it but it would be 400 dollars up front. Well the money exchanged, she ripped her and Tam's clothes of and pretty much raped her for about an hour, glen sat on a chair and jacked of in amazement, well when time was up the escort jumped up instantly, said thanks and headed for the door.. Tam said i"m not done yet and we will pay more for her to stay. She said that another client was waiting for her and would see if another girl was available, well their was so for the next 2 hours we did it again. It only cost us 840 dollars to get our first experience but we had won a lot of money and were still way ahead so it was no big deal, so do you think we struck out or not. Well lets finish the story.
We fucked like rabbits for a week fantasizing about our adventure. Then Tam got up one morning and had a strange discharge that caused us to freak out and head for planned parenthood. Sure enough one or both of the girls had given us an STD. Luckily it was a week of pills and a few check ups to clear it up. That scared us so bad that we did not try again for 2 years thinking everyone had something to give us. So ya guess we struck out.
After 2 years of no play and wanting it badly, lol we finally found swingular and never had anything like that ever happen again
The only advice we have is don't be scared and message people you might be interested in on here, You will get a lot of no answers, meet some people and walk away for different reason but if your persistent new friendships will find you. We have met so many great people on this site wouldn't think their is a better than where you are to find your adventure.
Tam and Glen
The STD issue is what scares us the most.
Taking someone you don't know is always a risk but you can't
Really do it with somebody you know to well. We'll just wait for the
Opportunity. I could just imagine you faces when that huge girl came to
The door lol hahahaha. Thanks again for all the help.
Taking someone you don't know is always a risk but you can't
Really do it with somebody you know to well. We'll just wait for the
Opportunity. I could just imagine you faces when that huge girl came to
The door lol hahahaha. Thanks again for all the help.
Mine started before his did. I for some reason have a vibe girls like. Even though I was straight at the time girls just liked me for some odd reason to me. My first girl is Morgan and I met her at a club one day when dancing. She instantly wanted my friendship soooo I thought but as the friendship rolled on she would tell me she loved girls. I just did not think it was me as I was no where near being a lesbian or like women in that way.
A few months into our freindship I met Josh and we clicked like magic. He was sexy as could be. I just love tht man to peices.
Now know that Morgan was also married to a man at the time and has 3 kids like I do. So when i met Josh she somewhat loved that we were three. She soon left her husband and dated another guy. Who thought Morgan liked my husband and its always been thta she liked me. So they broke up and she moved in with us. During this time we had lots of girls come play and I soon realized you did not have to be lesbian to please a girl and can still remain friends too.
Josh loved that women liked me that way why wouldnt a man not like that lol. So we expanded to more girls and had Morgan play too.
About 6 months later we were full swingers with women. We decided to start looking for couples as it seemed hard to find a pair who would play. We looked on Craigs list and found just single boys or lots of red flags.
We went to club edge often which also Utah Uncensored would host sex parties and we fell in love with all the sexual people who came to them.
WE were told to go to swingular and have had a wonderful time since.
Josh and I have been together for almost 4 years and got married in April of 2010. We have never looked back and just keep going. We have enjoyed meeting playmates and new friends on here. We finally found were we like to be socially and love it completely!!!
We have not played with anyone but our friends here and there and then coming here has opened the door to enormous possiblities and we have had soooooo many fantasies come true can not wait for more!!!
sara n josh
A few months into our freindship I met Josh and we clicked like magic. He was sexy as could be. I just love tht man to peices.
Now know that Morgan was also married to a man at the time and has 3 kids like I do. So when i met Josh she somewhat loved that we were three. She soon left her husband and dated another guy. Who thought Morgan liked my husband and its always been thta she liked me. So they broke up and she moved in with us. During this time we had lots of girls come play and I soon realized you did not have to be lesbian to please a girl and can still remain friends too.
Josh loved that women liked me that way why wouldnt a man not like that lol. So we expanded to more girls and had Morgan play too.
About 6 months later we were full swingers with women. We decided to start looking for couples as it seemed hard to find a pair who would play. We looked on Craigs list and found just single boys or lots of red flags.
We went to club edge often which also Utah Uncensored would host sex parties and we fell in love with all the sexual people who came to them.
WE were told to go to swingular and have had a wonderful time since.
Josh and I have been together for almost 4 years and got married in April of 2010. We have never looked back and just keep going. We have enjoyed meeting playmates and new friends on here. We finally found were we like to be socially and love it completely!!!
We have not played with anyone but our friends here and there and then coming here has opened the door to enormous possiblities and we have had soooooo many fantasies come true can not wait for more!!!
sara n josh
Ares was with my wife's x sister in-law. The sister always had a thing for the wife and so yeah we all had a threesome (very hot) and it was hook line and sinker we wanted more found this site and here we are today with a bunch of good friends.
Ares was with my wife's x sister in-law. The sister always had a thing for the wife and so yeah we all had a threesome (very hot) and it was hook line and sinker we wanted more found this site and here we are today with a bunch of good friends. [/quote]
That sounds pretty awesome! I think
We need to move to Utah haha
That sounds pretty awesome! I think
We need to move to Utah haha
I started clear back in Jr high with a few male friends we would swop out are girls friends. The wife started little bit befor we got married
This was something we both always wanted, but never got with our previous relationships. It only took for him to mention it once and I was all for it. Best decision of my life. Everything that I have wanted, he has made happen. I have loved every second of it!
I started noticing girls more and more but didn't know how to go about having an experience with one. None of my girlfriends at the time seemed open to anything like that. He was listening to Playboy radio and Dirty Marie was going to the Green Door in Vegas and talked all about it on air. The Mr. and I decided to visit and I had my first female experience there. We were both hooked at that moment and found a few websites to try to pursue meeting people since traveling to Vegas on a regular basis was outta the picture. We were referred to this site by someone on another site and started meeting couples. It's all history after that.
The mrs. had already had some group experiences beforehand, and I have always been curious. So we talked about it, and agreed that it would false to claim that just between the two of us that we had access to all sexual experience... So I asked one of her friends that was in the lifestyle about it, and tried to at least get some education on it, she referred us here, and it's been a long happy road so far...
Moderately intoxicated and very horny, Rachel found some new friends to play with and the rest is history.
Bob
Bob
My man and I are also looking to start exploring in the lifestyle and have yet to actually add anyone with us. We are very excited and I am glad there is posts on this.
The bosses wife started ours. She asked if I had ever been with a girl and she asked if she gould get me off. I had not but was toatly intrigued. The next day I told the Mr. About what had happend and he asked why I didn't do anything. Soon we started with the same room play and then that lead us to where we are now.
We won a sweepstakes and the prize was a free all expense paid evening at The Red Rooster (drinks not included...but all we could eat at the salsa bar).
From day one of our very
We had a freind that did bodyrubs and offered to show us some of her skills and that started everything rolling for me, and she came around slowly but here we are. These more to fill in the holes of the story but to much too text. And we st ill love love the erotic bodyrubs and sensual personal contact between freinds and strangers lol good luck y'all
We started the way many started. I had been with women before and was still attracted to them and wanted to bring them into out sex life. Next thing we knew we were having a great wonderful experiences with a couple girls first then some swapping. It was great!
I was totally bi curious and wanted to be with a woman...so after talking to my (ex)boyfriend who had a had a membership here for a few years prior, I joined up. I met a great woman who was so sweet. She and I text a few times, IMd, chatted on the phone....so when she asked me for a date I accepted (with bf's blessing) and we went to dinner. After dinner, stopped at a red light, she kissed me. Then she took me back to her house and I was able to experience my first girl on girl. Then later that night she and I checked into a hotel and my boyfriend joined us and I also had my first 3sum. My relationship with him is now over, but she and I are great friends to this day. She will always hold a special place in my heart. Every time I watch the video of our 3sum that night I still get horny and nostalgic all at the same time. 
I started in college ... with a swinger couple who generously invited me into their relationship. It went off and on over the period of about a year. Then, I fell in love with a woman who was NOT into swinging ... and then another one after that. A family later, I am divorced and still long for the sexual freedom and excitement I had been introduced to WAY back when by those very warm swingers. (:-)
How do u officially decided when u started the lifestyle? I've always been bi sexual and have even had steady gf so I have always bought women into my relationship. Find this site was my ex's doing have found it great for social functions which are always a blast to attend.
I was invited to be in a couple of amateur porn movies back in the 80's. It was after the first gang-bang scene that the cameraman gave me an issue of a swingers magazine. Did the whole thing with the PO box and snailmail. Which wasnt easy, even if you live and worked close to home. I was driving over the road, so meeting other swingers was almost impossible. Eventually the internet came along and sites like SDC, Fantasyswingers and Swingular made contacting people so much easier.
Started with a question to my better half. "What fanatsies do you have?" And the rest if pure bliss.