We get so frustrated when couples contact us, exchange several emails and when we tell them we would like to meet they never contact us again. We are a real couple, that I think are easy on the eyes and very sexual. Maybe we are scarier then we think!! ha ha Why lead on that you want to meet if you don't? I'm sure a few are single guys posting as couple (pervs) but most are real couples that are VIP. We just don't get it, just because this is a swinger site you should still be respectful. Do other people have the same problem or is it just us? Thanks for all replies!
Sweet the female half
Sweet the female half
I dont understand any of that especially...people possibly posing as a couple when they are single. How does someone like that expect to get anywhere like that? In any case...I would show up if invited for sure! 
That seams to be normal for us too, but worest of all is you get to the m-N-g and you sit there 4 about 2 hours thinking they are just running late. But having been on this site since 05 and going to m&g's we still get alot who just talk or they dont show for the M&G.
Must be some stupid people then 
Well POET_RAYL maybe the reason you have problems is most of your pics are from 2001! And you had one from 2006. You have been on here since 2005 and in 6 years no comments. Makes you think huh? And on your profile you demand couple have a pic on thier public profile. Ever thought maybe some people didn't want to post thier face pics for the world to see? We have jobs and don't want just lookers seeing our pics. If your swingers like us that's one thing I can't speak for everyone but we just didn't want anyone to see our faces on a swingers site. Anyone thats been on this site for more then 2 years without a comment gives us a red flag.
As for answering the question why do so many couples flake? It's because with most couples it's just the man posting and his wife has no clue he is posting her pics.
As for answering the question why do so many couples flake? It's because with most couples it's just the man posting and his wife has no clue he is posting her pics.
Rsbsinc for our pic are looks haven't realy changed. Oh almost forgot the spelling and gramer is perfect so she's the one who filled out the profile.
TNT4FUN2 wrote:
Must be some stupid people then
Thanks TNT we need to meet up in Wendover again!
STICKYANDSWEET wrote:TNT4FUN2 wrote:
Must be some stupid people then
Thanks TNT we need to meet up in Wendover again!
Yes we do, we'll be there on Oct 1st
You guys are probably a little intimidating because you're so attractive. I hope you guys have fun in Wendover, that's where we got our proverbial cherry popped....
We have ran into this a lot! I think we have at least 12 people on our friends list right now that fit this discription. (you know who you are) I've though of many reasons. like you said, maybe they aren't accually a couple, maybe thier one of the many couples that like the idea of swinging but will never accually do it, maybe thier too nervous to make the leap to meet people, maybe their just plain rude. We always try and meet couples that contact us. If there turns out to be no interest, we just enjoy the evening. We'd come meet you if you weren't so far away 
STICKYANDSWEET wrote:TNT4FUN2 wrote:
Must be some stupid people then
Thanks TNT we need to meet up in Wendover again!
StickyandSweet:
I've got a good reason why people act like they want to meet up with you and then they don't. It's quite a detailed and highly technical explanation though, so sit down, get comfortable, grab your ipad for some internet research as necessary, and get ready for the most plausible explanation you've ever heard: Some people are Stupid! (Yep, what TNT said, only backwards!)
Honestly though, I suspect we all experience that. I've had guys do it--they've seen all my pics so they know what I look like and are still pursuing. I don't like to email back and forth a lot but we've done that some and they're still pursuing. Then? When I'm like, "OK, Lets meet somewhere?" They disappear. WTF? Time wasters, gotta love em. I picture some troll sitting in the corner of his dank basement typing away on his 1970's original IBM PC.
Did someone say "Wendover?" I don't know ya but I suspect I'd love getting stranded with you guys in the decadence that is Wendover!? Ever go to a concert over there? We do that quite frequently...and for some reason I just seem to find it umm...a fun place to play!
(Of course, while I love 'em, that could also simply be due to getting rid of the kids for a day and having hotel sex!!!) 
speaking wendover concerts....Ralphie May the comedian is coming in 3 weeks...hes hilarious.....
CANDJ23 wrote:
speaking wendover concerts....Ralphie May the comedian is coming in 3 weeks...hes hilarious.....
I'd ask if you were going except for the fact that I hate you. Nothing personal, I hate all sexy, big-boobed gals. It's just a quirk of mine.
**off to check on the aforementioned "concert" now...just in case**
Thanks for all the replies and emails pertaining to this. Glad we are not the only ones that are experiencing this issue on a frequent basis.
Deliciouslywet-- At least you try to set up a meet but it just does not work out and I assume you are letting the other couple know. That would be great but we hate it when they say they want to meet and when we agree and try to set something up they never write back.
Different subject but what is up with the Booty calls on here. How hard is it to send a thank you but we do not think we are compatible or a hell yes lets meet up.
Deliciouslywet-- At least you try to set up a meet but it just does not work out and I assume you are letting the other couple know. That would be great but we hate it when they say they want to meet and when we agree and try to set something up they never write back.
Different subject but what is up with the Booty calls on here. How hard is it to send a thank you but we do not think we are compatible or a hell yes lets meet up.
FUN4MWF: Great reply and profile! It looks like Loverboy on the 30th and then Dwight Yoakum on the 1st. We are looking into going to both if you are interested in meeting up for hotel sex!? Depend on that four letter dirty work (work) on Friday for Loverboy.
RSBSINC wrote:
Anyone thats been on this site for more then 2 years without a comment gives us a red flag.
Not saying its always true, but some people don't allow the comments to be visible. You can choose that option.
The other difficulty is finding the time to get out. Our problem is that we have three young children, and family that we rely on for babysitting...and as most would no...family flakes out for the lamest reasons ever. We'd love to have more free time, but by no means should it suggest that we're not interested...
That four letter dirty word keeps us from doing as much as we would like,,,,, (WORK) and when we can go it's a bummer to be stood up,,good luck everyone
Tammy = Shy as hell
Blueeyes = Flirty Bitch
Buzzed Blueeyes = Horny Flirty Bitch
I think people react to how the situation around them makes them feel. For instance, I don't care how hot you are, if you are wearing a black business suit and their is a coffin anywhere near I'm not going to get turned on. But if you are chatty, flirty, engaging me mentally later over sliced ham, funeral potatoes, and jello salad, I might actually mentally go there....but you will never know it.
Meet and Greets are 6 one way, half a dozen the other. I react to the chemistry that is present. No chemistry, no playtime. I think people need to get away from the assumption that getting naked is a requirement just because 2 swingers are in proximity with each other. It's ok to hold out for a connection - physical or mental. It doesn't make you any less of a swinger if you don't fuck everyone you meet. Altho if you do, it might make you dehydrated.
There is a whole host of reasons why or why not. Control what you can, fuck the rest. Figuratively and literally.
xox
Tammy
Blueeyes = Flirty Bitch
Buzzed Blueeyes = Horny Flirty Bitch
I think people react to how the situation around them makes them feel. For instance, I don't care how hot you are, if you are wearing a black business suit and their is a coffin anywhere near I'm not going to get turned on. But if you are chatty, flirty, engaging me mentally later over sliced ham, funeral potatoes, and jello salad, I might actually mentally go there....but you will never know it.
Meet and Greets are 6 one way, half a dozen the other. I react to the chemistry that is present. No chemistry, no playtime. I think people need to get away from the assumption that getting naked is a requirement just because 2 swingers are in proximity with each other. It's ok to hold out for a connection - physical or mental. It doesn't make you any less of a swinger if you don't fuck everyone you meet. Altho if you do, it might make you dehydrated.
There is a whole host of reasons why or why not. Control what you can, fuck the rest. Figuratively and literally.
xox
Tammy
Some will, some won't, so what! Next!
Some will, some won't, so what! Next!
Well all I gotta say is..I find many in this thread very extremely attractive and IF I were ever invited to meetup for whatever reason be it sex or otherwise, I'd be showing up! And thats no bs lol. I do travel so obviously, things could come up, but no lame rude excuses here!
HELLO_KITTY12984 wrote:[/quote]HELLO_KITTY12984 wrote:
[quote=RSBSINC]Anyone thats been on this site for more then 2 years without a comment gives us a red flag.
Not saying its always true, but some people don't allow the comments to be visible. You can choose that option.
Ditto. I think it is very common for folks to have the comments turned off. We are turned off by folks with several comments or detailed comments.
As to your dilemma I think it is just part of how these things go. Not saying you dont have it more than most? Just so many reasons for this to happen.. Yes there are single males out there and new couples where one member is not on board or chickens out.
It appears that people are ruder and more inconsiderate than in the past. Unfortunately, those in the lifestyle are apparently no exception, and that's a shame.
It appears that people are ruder and more inconsiderate than in the past. Unfortunately, those in the lifestyle are apparently no exception, and that's a shame.
FUN4MWF wrote:STICKYANDSWEET wrote:
[quote=TNT4FUN2]Must be some stupid people then
Thanks TNT we need to meet up in Wendover again!
StickyandSweet:
I've got a good reason why people act like they want to meet up with you and then they don't. It's quite a detailed and highly technical explanation though, so sit down, get comfortable, grab your ipad for some internet research as necessary, and get ready for the most plausible explanation you've ever heard: Some people are Stupid! (Yep, what TNT said, only backwards!)
Honestly though, I suspect we all experience that. I've had guys do it--they've seen all my pics so they know what I look like and are still pursuing. I don't like to email back and forth a lot but we've done that some and they're still pursuing. Then? When I'm like, "OK, Lets meet somewhere?" They disappear. WTF? Time wasters, gotta love em. I picture some troll sitting in the corner of his dank basement typing away on his 1970's original IBM PC.
Did someone say "Wendover?" I don't know ya but I suspect I'd love getting stranded with you guys in the decadence that is Wendover!? Ever go to a concert over there? We do that quite frequently...and for some reason I just seem to find it umm...a fun place to play!
(Of course, while I love 'em, that could also simply be due to getting rid of the kids for a day and having hotel sex!!!) [/quote]FUN4MWF- We'll let you know next time we're headed to Wendover for concert
STICKYANDSWEET wrote:
We get so frustrated when couples contact us, exchange several emails and when we tell them we would like to meet they never contact us again. We are a real couple, that I think are easy on the eyes and very sexual. Maybe we are scarier then we think!! ha ha Why lead on that you want to meet if you don't? I'm sure a few are single guys posting as couple (pervs) but most are real couples that are VIP. We just don't get it, just because this is a swinger site you should still be respectful. Do other people have the same problem or is it just us? Thanks for all replies!
Sweet the female half
As I've said here many times in the past, unfortunately, there are a LOT of posers and wannabes here on Swingular. Don't ask me why - I honestly don't have a clue.
Other than to suspect that this is a little virtual fantasy world they can have some fun in without actually playing.
Don't give up.
There are REAL people in this world - and even here on Swingular.
You'll find what you're looking for - you just have to weed through the bad to get to the good.
STICKYANDSWEET wrote:
We get so frustrated when couples contact us, exchange several emails and when we tell them we would like to meet they never contact us again. We are a real couple, that I think are easy on the eyes and very sexual. Maybe we are scarier then we think!! ha ha Why lead on that you want to meet if you don't? I'm sure a few are single guys posting as couple (pervs) but most are real couples that are VIP. We just don't get it, just because this is a swinger site you should still be respectful. Do other people have the same problem or is it just us? Thanks for all replies!
Sweet the female half
haha we must be really scary cuz this use to happen to us all the time, i think its all pretty much just big joke to most people, now we just have an obnoxious profile and date vanilla people.