I really don\'t know where to begin. It is impossible for me as a single male to find someone who would be interested in swinging, female or couple when all I can ever find is someone who is dedicated to jealousy or being possessive. I have married twice and divorced, I have had an interest in this lifestyle for years but I just can\'t get there.
I have tried to have a listing with pictures till the site blew up but still there have been no responses or inquiries. I don\'t even get any requests to chat or e-mail as if to find out if I am one that someone would like to meet. I have thought that maybe the location is the problem, would that be all? Would I have to move to Florida?
I can only do as suggested by code of conduct of the website but that doesn\'t seem to be enough.
I would like to ask if anyone else has had such an experience, what I should consider and what other suggestions you may have. Anyone want to chat? My IM is R121255 with Yahoo.
I have tried to have a listing with pictures till the site blew up but still there have been no responses or inquiries. I don\'t even get any requests to chat or e-mail as if to find out if I am one that someone would like to meet. I have thought that maybe the location is the problem, would that be all? Would I have to move to Florida?
I can only do as suggested by code of conduct of the website but that doesn\'t seem to be enough.
I would like to ask if anyone else has had such an experience, what I should consider and what other suggestions you may have. Anyone want to chat? My IM is R121255 with Yahoo.
Hi, You have had over 1100 view but no picture and a short profile. Spend some time making your profile more inviting and add pics. It is not hopeless but as a SM, you have to work at it.
Best wishes! Liberty
Best wishes! Liberty
We agree, we don\'t even look at profiles unless there are pictures. Add a few and then fill out your profile with interesting things about you...
yes as a couple we only look at profiles with pics. we dont even look at the profiles with blured faces like we do the regular normal pics we like to see the person. there needs to be some attraction even just a little attraction. profiles need real face shots.:h
No pics and very little in profile =FAKE to most cpls or at least you will be bypassed single guys with no pics = ZERO potential of meeting us and we are sure most cpls feel the same way.
I\'m going to go a little deaper than the responces I have seen so far.
First thing, you said that you have been divorced TWICE. That is not deadly in itself, but some personal examination of why is a good thing. For the most part, swingers are not looking for problems or \"bagage\" just fun social and sexual things with folks.
I guess what I am suggesting is that you need to be straight out in getting your house in order and yes as others have suggested, a well filled out profile and pics are in order.
Some couples like to add a single male, Some couple like to add a single female... but swinging in general is a couples game. Recognize the fact that you are a way over supply of single males that most couples will find you if they have any disire to add a single male.
At this point you really do need to be someone that is desirable to that couple. Do your best and hope for the best. Fill out your profile, post a few pics, ( not just cock shots, everyone knows that you have one) Be nice, be personable, be someone that others would enjoy being with and that includes social things as well.
OK, TJ off the soap box (TJ = the janitor just cleaning up the place)
First thing, you said that you have been divorced TWICE. That is not deadly in itself, but some personal examination of why is a good thing. For the most part, swingers are not looking for problems or \"bagage\" just fun social and sexual things with folks.
I guess what I am suggesting is that you need to be straight out in getting your house in order and yes as others have suggested, a well filled out profile and pics are in order.
Some couples like to add a single male, Some couple like to add a single female... but swinging in general is a couples game. Recognize the fact that you are a way over supply of single males that most couples will find you if they have any disire to add a single male.
At this point you really do need to be someone that is desirable to that couple. Do your best and hope for the best. Fill out your profile, post a few pics, ( not just cock shots, everyone knows that you have one) Be nice, be personable, be someone that others would enjoy being with and that includes social things as well.
OK, TJ off the soap box (TJ = the janitor just cleaning up the place)