Swingers Forum - money for sex??

We all have different moral codes and I would not push mine on anyone else. I would never offer money for that favor. To me money, dinner, shows, nothing equates to a woman being required or expected to have sex with a man etc. But I am sure that it does happen to a lot of women and I think it is despicable. I have known men that would pimp out their wives and I completely disapprove of that action as well. Yet I also think or feel that if a woman wants to charge for that service that it should be within her rights to do so. I simply do not think that it should be against the law if both are of age and freely consent to the transaction like any other service.

I've had a few single males offer Mark money to "borrow" me for a night. Makes me shake my head and wonder. I just block them and move on.

Well I have always heard it was pay her to leave.... LOL

HOTFIRELOVERS wrote:

SEAKINGHER wrote:

Good that you treat women like this (seakingher) and that is how I feel they should be treated too. Not paid and bought to feel guilty or have to sleep with ya!!! It should be a choice and if she chooses to she will seduce you to the greatest length. A women needs to hear you want her not buy her.



Yes sometimes I have been asked and propisitioned. However I am not a prostitute and its against the law for a reason!!!

I am very independent and do not need a man to pay for anything!

I choose who I get to be with and have been lucky to have the men in my life that i do. However they excell on standards and love me for me not what they can get for money.

I know men are genetically different but go find them on the internet they are on there......we are swinger!!!!

well said!! its just a shame that along with all the great men in the world there are a lot more pigs. haha. i would like to show my gratitude to all the men who do NOT make women feel cheap. )

First, I personally believe that prostitution should be legal, controlled, monitored, and taxed like any other professional service.

That being said, if a woman has a fantasy of being "sold", "rented", "whored out", or of being a "prostitute" I don't see any issue with it. I've seen plenty of women who wanted to do this as a fantasy, granted most have been very specific what people they were willing to do this with, as oposed to a real prostitute.

I have never offered to pay a unicorn more than dinner or an evening out, let alone offered to pay for a married woman. We have been offered quite a few times, normally from people on an amateur exhibitionism website we belong to. Most offers have been polite though, very few have I considered outright rude.


And for the record, LadyJedi has no interest in being rented out.

Me, I'm for rent, hell at least I admit I'm a whore for money <WEG>

SPYDER_MYKE wrote:

every so often, if i am only talking to the male half of the couple, he can get a little too bothered and at a desperate measure offers money for a quick fuck. i was just wondering who all has this happened to, how many times?

I dont ever offer to pay for sex. I offer to pay for them to leave afterwards.. lol.. but never for sex

Uh, no...NEVER. Been swinging longer than you've been ALIVE and this has never happened.

Everyone has a price.

5 Million US Dollars. Is he going to pay with Cash or a wire transfer?

Evildoers, really I have to agree with SLC, everyone has a price. It's not always money, and it may not even be realistic, but it's always there.

And BTW, I love the FSM picture!

I have been asked to be a Christmas present for a husband from his wife. She really wanted to me to sleep with him. Way before I was a swinger with my hubby. HOwever I got to know them both better and it was a blast. I also had the wife asked me a lot of times to be with him.

So I finally agreed and after we played and she was watching my kids. The wife then got drunk and could not take it anymore.....so there is always a twist to every rule!!!

We all were still friends but to them it came with a cost. I was single at the time.

I would say indecent propsals are close enough for me and I never did that again!!!

BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

How much to pay to watch? *munching popcorn*

Oh hell yeah!! LMAO!! Better be inviting me over for that, I'll even bring the popcorn!!

i agree with BLUEEYESINUTAH id pay to watch, ill even earn my keep in video taping for ya!

Ok, let me be the pig here (of course I am the male half). What I see is a bunch of guys try to suck up to the girls or couples on here. Talking about how it is some big sin to offer money for sex. Well I think it is all a bunch of bull. We all pay for sex or pay with sex. Maybe not outright and certainly not all the time, but get real people. I have sex because it is fun, I do not have some great spirital moment when I am having sex. If you pay for sex, well you get sex. That is a lot different than what you get from a marriage or a long term relationship. OK, fell free to bash away.

POET_RAYL wrote:

What's there to bash your a little more blunt than me (Male Half) I'd probly add my 2cents more often but cant spell worth crap. And I'd get bashed for my spelling and Gramer.
Now if you wine and dine a female or male and you get sex after wards you just paid for sex.

By that assertion, if you have sex at all, you just paid for it. You could have been working. :-P (ignoring fuel, vehicle, road tax, or rent, utilities, insurance if you host.. Taxes if in public place, theft if in someone else's private place.. Ad nauseum..)

POET_RAYL wrote:

What's there to bash your a little more blunt than me (Male Half) I'd probly add my 2cents more often but cant spell worth crap. And I'd get bashed for my spelling and Gramer.
Now if you wine and dine a female or male and you get sex after wards you just paid for sex.

no. i believe thats called chivalry. paying for the date. :P

SLOWHAND311 wrote:

I've been a birthday present a couple of times but never been offer cash... Maybe someday I'll be so lucky..LMAO

Proves my point. You were paid with sex for sex. Cashless transaction. Perfect

POUNDCAKE wrote:

Now if you wine and dine a female or male and you get sex after wards you just paid for sex.

I was not aware of this. What's it called when we wine and dine and don't have sex? or when we fuck to the point of being hungry and then go out for dinner and drinks? Sometimes we fuck after yard work too. Sometimes we fuck for no reason and then fuck again.

I am all fucked up now. I guess when I buy my buddies lunch I should be expecting a handjob afterwards.

And it just occurred to me.........my mom and wife had dinner together last week!!!!!!!!!! what the fuck is going on?

ROFLMAO No wonder people have business lunches all the time. Now I know how people land accounts or merge companies. Nice.

I have been told by couples before that I should pay them to be with them. Or "we pick the restaurant you pay for dinner and all drinks and wine for the night and then we will see if we want to have fun with you"...that seems like a joke to me...I am all upfor making friends, getting to know couples and all that and going from there...and yeah those that know me know that I have no issues picking up that tab and paying for drinks and stuff..but seriously to just jump out and say we pick restaurant (and been told multiple time we like this high class steak place blah blah) and all that...sorry i am not someone's expensive night out...and to be honest I don't want to play with people i don't click with so not interested in blowing $300 bucks to hang out with people i don't know really well. . .