in our private pics you will be able to see what we look like. Probably not naked but you will be able to see our faces. We suggest others do the same - show your face. We arent going to mess with you unless we know what u look like and that means even if you have the body of a god or goddess if you have the face of a troll the tone of the interaction will definitely change. That being said if you dont have the perfect body but have a good looking face and an interesting personality we might not care. now we dont do bbw but hey she has a pretty much perfect natural 21 year old kid free body but he is built like a ogre - haha- we both hate six packs but love skinny women. He likes some meat when things get fierce and a big set of tits is always awesome to. SEE we are diverse but if your face is busted no thank you. If you are worried someone is going to see you in the private just remember that means they joined this pervy sespool of sin as well - lol
Well sometimes who's lookin at the face..this is for sex...and a face doesn't have much to do with it! Jk jk cute faces r required and the chill personality...but I think some people on here don't want their faces even in private pics til u know for sure who ur dealin with...some people need their privacy all the way...and its not like u cant email them or send them later...btw we do have face pics in ours...I can just see the reasonong some people don't want to
We would never even think of showing face pics on a site like this!!!!!! how irresponsible!
Hey my face is my bread and butter. I dont have a great body I am a 30 year old woman that has had 2 kids and never had the best body to begin with. But my face is cute. (and I have huge tits).I dont really have anyone to hide my face from though. I figure anyone that see's me on here is on here, no big deal.
TINK21 wrote:
Sorry about the miss spelling and weird words speech to text . Lolisn't working as great as I thought it would
I think RANDMR was kidding.
ALLWENEEDISU wrote:mmmmmmm i love huge tits
Hey my face is my bread and butter. I dont have a great body I am a 30 year old woman that has had 2 kids and never had the best body to begin with. But my face is cute. (and I have huge tits).I dont really have anyone to hide my face from though. I figure anyone that see's me on here is on here, no big deal.
Haha, yeah, I somewhat forgot that the current profile pic did sort of have her face covered, that was for the photo shoot however and had nothing to do with covert identity. Just check our pics and you will see how we feel about the face pics topic.
BADBEHAVIOR wrote:
in our private pics you will be able to see what we look like. Probably not naked but you will be able to see our faces. We suggest others do the same - show your face. We arent going to mess with you unless we know what u look like and that means even if you have the body of a god or goddess if you have the face of a troll the tone of the interaction will definitely change. That being said if you dont have the perfect body but have a good looking face and an interesting personality we might not care. now we dont do bbw but hey she has a pretty much perfect natural 21 year old kid free body but he is built like a ogre - haha- we both hate six packs but love skinny women. He likes some meat when things get fierce and a big set of tits is always awesome to. SEE we are diverse but if your face is busted no thank you. If you are worried someone is going to see you in the private just remember that means they joined this pervy sespool of sin as well - lol
Peoples' profiles contain what they're comfortable presenting on a site such as this, depending upon what they're looking for.
I've got enough regular buddies right now that my profile is pretty much just silliness. I'm not interested in meeting more at the moment. It just seems to me that if I WERE looking for guys right now, I'd have a picture of ME in my public profile and NOT just a picture of my husband?
The idea that the original poster is looking for women but ONLY has a pic of a girl in the public profile, then laments about how other folks' profiles are lacking, was at least good for a laugh!
(It WAS meant to be funny, wasn't it?)
My face pic is my profile pic. It's also a professional pic. In my albums I have included my everyday look (ie no professional makeup artist or hair stylist and photo shopping) to give people a clear view of what I look like not to mention I always attend the meet & greets and parties as naturally myself. Trust me, if I spent all that money to look like that I'm not wasting the $$$ having sex to ruin the look. And before you say it....if having sex with you won't ruin that look, then sex with you would boring as hell. 
If people don't have public face in their profile and approach me via online I can pretty much guarantee I will not be interested. The exceptions are if they include a face pic in their introduction email or if they invite me to view their cam during chat. Of course, if we have met in person then it no longer becomes a deal breaker.
I personally don't get the whole "oh my god, i don't want my bishop/business partners/in-laws/dog groomer to see my face on this site but that's you. I have my face blurred to nonmembers. If they are a paid member, well I guess then we are bound to run into each other somewhere at an event. Whatever.
Oh and FUN4MWF, would you please hurry up and feel social again. I'm feeling neglected. If you don't believe me, come feel me.
If people don't have public face in their profile and approach me via online I can pretty much guarantee I will not be interested. The exceptions are if they include a face pic in their introduction email or if they invite me to view their cam during chat. Of course, if we have met in person then it no longer becomes a deal breaker.
I personally don't get the whole "oh my god, i don't want my bishop/business partners/in-laws/dog groomer to see my face on this site but that's you. I have my face blurred to nonmembers. If they are a paid member, well I guess then we are bound to run into each other somewhere at an event. Whatever.
Oh and FUN4MWF, would you please hurry up and feel social again. I'm feeling neglected. If you don't believe me, come feel me.
The original poster is me and we are neither only looking for women, nor did I ever say to put a face pic on you public pictures. I said private at least. We see lots of reasons not to have them in the public pics and also don't. While we are fairly up front about our lifestyle there are a few people who just can't know. I again state I don't understand why you wouldnt put a face pic in the private at that point I can't see the reason
So I don't see what the good laugh was for, however I did get kinda dissed from someone who didn't even get there fact straight...lol
So I don't see what the good laugh was for, however I did get kinda dissed from someone who didn't even get there fact straight...lolOH and that pic was the only one that didn't have either of our faces and we are looking for couples and singles with bi women only so we figured they would both at least want to see something WE probably wouldn't even put a public pic up but most people wont except your friends request. Their 1 count it 1 person (and the people who know them) that can't find out we do this cause they would make our lives hell. He has many large easily recognizable tattoos so a picture of him is as good as a face pic so we are stuck with what we got
WE probably wouldn't even put a public pic up but most people wont except your friends request. Their 1 count it 1 person (and the people who know them) that can't find out we do this cause they would make our lives hell. He has many large easily recognizable tattoos so a picture of him is as good as a face pic so we are stuck with what we got BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
My face pic is my profile pic. It's also a professional pic. In my albums I have included my everyday look (ie no professional makeup artist or hair stylist and photo shopping) to give people a clear view of what I look like not to mention I always attend the meet & greets and parties as naturally myself. Trust me, if I spent all that money to look like that I'm not wasting the $$$ having sex to ruin the look. And before you say it....if having sex with you won't ruin that look, then sex with you would boring as hell.
If people don't have public face in their profile and approach me via online I can pretty much guarantee I will not be interested. The exceptions are if they include a face pic in their introduction email or if they invite me to view their cam during chat. Of course, if we have met in person then it no longer becomes a deal breaker.
I personally don't get the whole "oh my god, i don't want my bishop/business partners/in-laws/dog groomer to see my face on this site but that's you. I have my face blurred to nonmembers. If they are a paid member, well I guess then we are bound to run into each other somewhere at an event. Whatever.
Oh and FUN4MWF, would you please hurry up and feel social again. I'm feeling neglected. If you don't believe me, come feel me.
So we're ok right?... *sweating profusely...not in a good way...*
SPEXDEX wrote:
So we're ok right?... *sweating profusely...not in a good way...*
Um. Have you MET me....by the way, glad you like sushi since you got a small taste of it.
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:SPEXDEX wrote:
So we're ok right?... *sweating profusely...not in a good way...*
Um. Have you MET me....by the way, glad you like sushi since you got a small taste of it.
Had this weird craving ever since...
SPEXDEX wrote:BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
[quote=SPEXDEX]So we're ok right?... *sweating profusely...not in a good way...*
Um. Have you MET me....by the way, glad you like sushi since you got a small taste of it.
Had this weird craving ever since...
[/quote]patron? red headed sluts? sushi? Actually all 3 sound great to me. As long as the patron is dressed, the slut is cold, and the sushi has a kick.
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:SPEXDEX wrote:
[quote=BLUEEYESINUTAH][quote=SPEXDEX]So we're ok right?... *sweating profusely...not in a good way...*
Um. Have you MET me....by the way, glad you like sushi since you got a small taste of it.
Had this weird craving ever since...
[/quote]patron? red headed sluts? sushi? Actually all 3 sound great to me. As long as the patron is dressed, the slut is cold, and the sushi has a kick. [/quote]
sushi had a pretty decent kick last time as I recall....
FACE PICS??? Good hell I can't get my WIFE to fuck me unless I'm wearing a paper bag, have money stuck to my body with chocolate syrup, and slip her a "roofie" let alone hoping some desperate "Helen Keller"ish nympho stumbles across our profile and feels bad enough for her to "take one" for the female species. 
Great. I hate it when I crave something and have no access to it. You suck. *smooch*
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
Great. I hate it when I crave something and have no access to it. You suck. *smooch*
which part? lol
Sorry. My shiny halo has shut down my brain.
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
Sorry. My shiny halo has shut down my brain.
You have the brilliant glow either way.
PEBBLEROCK wrote:
FACE PICS??? Good hell I can't get my WIFE to fuck me unless I'm wearing a paper bag, have money stuck to my body with chocolate syrup, and slip her a "roofie" let alone hoping some desperate "Helen Keller"ish nympho stumbles across our profile and feels bad enough for her to "take one" for the female species.
I have a face pic of you. I'm not telling you what I use it for.
I feel so dirty...and used...and my face is hot and wet...and why does my tongue tickle??? Hmmm oh well. Some people have a fetish for horror pics. 
Just wanted to say that I am horny and my face shows it....lol
BADBEHAVIOR wrote:
in our private pics you will be able to see what we look like. Probably not naked but you will be able to see our faces. We suggest others do the same - show your face. We arent going to mess with you unless we know what u look like ...
...The original poster is me and we are neither only looking for women, nor did I ever say to put a face pic on you public pictures. I said private at least. We see lots of reasons not to have them in the public pics and also don't. While we are fairly up front about our lifestyle ..., however I did get kinda dissed from someone who didn't even get there fact straight...lol
I to do have face pics among private pics and used to have many more body shots among public pics when I was interested in meeting couples or guys. I guess I misunderstood your original statement "...We arent going to mess with you..." as if you'd not "waste time" asking for other pics etc if a gal didn't already have satisfactory pics in her private stock when she allowed you to look. Assuming she allows that.
It seems to me there are MANY more couples looking for women then the other way around. Why would a woman even grant you access to her private pics when you don't even make any effort to show her your overall physique in the first place? SHE's supposed to even be interested in the first place based on absolutely NO pics of you? Why would she "mess with you" rather than just move on to another of the 1000 profiles?
That was my point of my original post here. To place all the onus on the gal to pony up enough pics to be sure that YOU'RE satisfied BEFORE she even has ANY CLUE what you look like seems ... umm ... optimistic on your part?
Well I guess I am an optimist Have met plenty of people out there and have already quick friends on her both old and new. Don't remember saying anything about enough just simply talked about posting face pics so we know if you have a busted grill or something but again I guess what was actually said is pretty unimportant. And again not only looking for women, maybe you meant the fact that we are not looking for single men as well. Just not something either of us are interested in experiencing. Personally if she wanted to I would jump on board cause it doesn't really bother me but she really just isnt that interested.
Have met plenty of people out there and have already quick friends on her both old and new. Don't remember saying anything about enough just simply talked about posting face pics so we know if you have a busted grill or something but again I guess what was actually said is pretty unimportant. And again not only looking for women, maybe you meant the fact that we are not looking for single men as well. Just not something either of us are interested in experiencing. Personally if she wanted to I would jump on board cause it doesn't really bother me but she really just isnt that interested.Oh and concerning my physique (or lack thereof haha). you are probably right since there arent many even in the private of either of ours. We just are not big on pics and dont have many. We will have to bust out the cam this weekend.
I don't do face pics. At all. I don't want to have to explain them to my kid/boss/clients/grandmother.
My friends recognize my bare ass anyway...
It makes me uncomfortable to see a public face pic. Not sure why. Maybe it's because they seem to go with a too-detailed profile. I even saw one that talked about his golf game. (Cue the crickets.) I bet they're staying away in droves.
@FUN4MWF: "just move on to another of the 1000 profiles." LOL! Yes, we will.
My friends recognize my bare ass anyway...
It makes me uncomfortable to see a public face pic. Not sure why. Maybe it's because they seem to go with a too-detailed profile. I even saw one that talked about his golf game. (Cue the crickets.) I bet they're staying away in droves.
@FUN4MWF: "just move on to another of the 1000 profiles." LOL! Yes, we will.
I think my kid/boss/client/grandmother would have plenty of their own explaining to do if they saw my private pics on swingular haha
another thought.. to those not wanting to post face pix.
get out to the meetngreets and party events and meet us all in no pressure meeting zones.
then you will find you dont need see face picks on this site, as you will know us all by site
see ya at an event soon!
knk
get out to the meetngreets and party events and meet us all in no pressure meeting zones.
then you will find you dont need see face picks on this site, as you will know us all by site
see ya at an event soon!
knk
If I'm not mistaken...hasn't the site made it so that face pics are automatically blurred to people who are not members of the site?
CNAFORFUN wrote:
If I'm not mistaken...hasn't the site made it so that face pics are automatically blurred to people who are not members of the site?
doesnt really matter if they're on the site or not..
there is people on the site, that members may not want to be recognized by.. until they at least meet in common grounds such as a venue party,
you know like co workers, family, neighbors or such.. just lurking around.
there could be lots of reasons people dont want to post face pics here.
Just my 2 cents' worth.....
On one hand, I completely understand people wanting to be anonymous or protect their identity. At the same time, we're all here for essentially the same reason! Is someone from this site really going to "out" another publicly? Maybe I'm just being too simple, but I hope someone in public recognizes me from this site! What a great way to break the ice-"I saw your ad on Swingular...."
On one hand, I completely understand people wanting to be anonymous or protect their identity. At the same time, we're all here for essentially the same reason! Is someone from this site really going to "out" another publicly? Maybe I'm just being too simple, but I hope someone in public recognizes me from this site! What a great way to break the ice-"I saw your ad on Swingular...."
TRAVELING_GUY69 wrote:
Just my 2 cents' worth..... On one hand, I completely understand people wanting to be anonymous or protect their identity. At the same time, we're all here for essentially the same reason! Is someone from this site really going to "out" another publicly? Maybe I'm just being too simple, but I hope someone in public recognizes me from this site! What a great way to break the ice-"I saw your ad on Swingular...."
Exactly...what are they gonna say to out you? "Ooooo I saw they have a profile on a swingers site!" Oh yeah? What the hell were you doing on a swingers site?? Can't really out you without outting themselves
Blueeyes...didn't u say one time that you had ended up accecpting a friend request from a relative because neither of you had face pics? Aaaaaawkward :P lolMy hats off to all of you... I could meet you and in two months walk by you and not remember or recognize you. LOL I have had it happen. As one stated if you are on here and they are on here, guess what? You might have the same interests....IMO
I HATE IT!!!! i WAS TO MEET A CLP AT A BAR NO FACE PIC, TALK TO THEM 3 OR 4 TIMES. WHEN IT CAME TO MEET THEM THEY DIDNT HAVE THE BALLS TO COME UP AND SAY HI, LET ALONE TO SAY THANKS BUT NO THANK YOU. THEY HAD MY PIC THEY KNEW who I WAS, I SAT THERE ALL NITE NO ONE WOULD SAY HI, THATS BULLSHIT!!!!!! IF YOU ARE TO MEET THEY SHOULD SENT A FACE PIC.
CNAFORFUN wrote:
If I'm not mistaken...hasn't the site made it so that face pics are automatically blurred to people who are not members of the site?
Ideally, but I found it didn't always actually work that way.
It's not anyone who has legitimate interest here that concerns me. In the age where even Facebook pics are being used in advertising without knowledge or consent, there is no online privacy. Simple things like a breakup, or someone bitter about being rebuffed, can trigger a huge shitstorm. Can you handle the possible need to defend your Swingular profile in open court? If you want to stay out of jail, or keep custody of your kids, you may have to.
In a perfect world, we wouldn't have to worry about predators using our data in a way that is inconsistent with our wishes. I'm sorry that it doesn't always work out that way.
In a perfect world, we wouldn't have to worry about predators using our data in a way that is inconsistent with our wishes. I'm sorry that it doesn't always work out that way.
As a single male I feel that it is a simple matter of courtesy to have at least one face picture in the public section and as you can tell I am not worried at all. And now that my lady has consented to the switch I will be switching from single to couple stats in the next little while. I will change my post name to reflect that but I don
Face pics are "necessary" for an instant attraction. We are a couple if we're attracted to your faces, there's a 90% chance we will like your bodies. We get tired of asking couples to show the male side of the house. 50/50 people! If you are a "couple" then represent yourselves as a couple. We get people who write to us without ANY face pictures. One, they've received their 1st red flag for not reading our profile and the 2nd red flag for not showing us their faces. Not a very good first impression if you ask us. We understand and mostly respect the ones that have the privacy issues. All we ask is that if you contact us, please have at least ONE face pic (attatched) of both of you and we can take it from there. We feel it's more respectable that way. It's simple people, if you want to know if we'll have sex with you, let us know what you look like. Then we will give you our answer. Who is getting tired of seeing 1/0/0 under a couple's profile? Nine times out of ten, it's usually NOT a face pic, or a blurred out one or a pic where you need to place it under a microscope because it's so small. LOL! Bottom line people..."A Picture Is Worth a Thousand Words"
XXXFACTOR wrote:
Why would that be irresponsible? We do you have face pictures of private album but not in our public album. Just because there's no face pictures doesn't mean you're unrecognizable! I think it's only fair that people should put these pictures at least in their private album.
Mainly, I could see some hacker getting bored, and using face pics everywhere. Also, if you happen to be decent looking, people could steal your face pics and put them on another site. It's happened to at least one person I know. They had tons of face pics in their public album, they all ended up on a site without them giving permission. And I could see plenty of completely religious nuts justify being "on here" in order to bring the "sinners" back to the fold. Don't put anything past a religious nut. ANYthing.
Our face pics are available in our private albums, and if we have extended friendship to you (or vice/versa) they are there for your viewing pleasure.
For those of you who show face photos on your public profile and/or advocate everyone do the same, for all the world to see, how fortunate for you that you're not employed in the medical, education or other field where you have a "morals clause" in your work contract/agreement.
For us, losing a potential Lifestyle contact or two just isn't worth losing our livlihood over.
For those of you who show face photos on your public profile and/or advocate everyone do the same, for all the world to see, how fortunate for you that you're not employed in the medical, education or other field where you have a "morals clause" in your work contract/agreement.
For us, losing a potential Lifestyle contact or two just isn't worth losing our livlihood over.