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im just kinda Confused, i look at profiles and they say the women are into girls, and I hear everyone say how they would love a 3some (fmf) but just cant find a single girl.... and yet when i meet people NOTHING HAPPENS! i just dont get it, are people just shy? or what could be the issue? ( hahaha ISSUE)
I like girls and I sooooooo flirted with you hot stuff!!! Was very nice meeting you!!!

Should have gotten wet. Lots of hotties in the pool having a awesome fun.

Lol once we were all done with the hot tub half the water was empty because 10-12 people where in a 5 person hot tub.

Fun times had a blast!!! Cant wait to see you again hottie!!
Haha maybe they get scared! To finally get what u want..then they freeze up! The unicorn right...I know we would throw down...not flaky or back out once we make plans...we love sex!
Maybe they are new & nervous, or the female in the couple developes jealousy issues because you are young and hot. Regardless, it's their loss...we would take real good care of you down in Florida...lol Good luck!!
Well what are your expectations? Are you meeting potential couples thinking that you will be getting naked that night? Are these couples up front about when they will play? Are you perhaps coming off as "not interested" "hesitant" "non-committal" or even "too aggressive"? Having not met you (at least sober so I'd remember) I can't pin point what the issue is. However, it's perfectly ok and reasonable for YOU to ask the couple what the intention is and to find out if they are interested.

Sometimes during the initial meeting you find that for one reason or another you just aren't attracted to each other. If it's just lack of sexual attraction but you enjoy each other's company then just continue the evening with a no pressure non sexual activity. If it's clear that you don't mentally connect either, well say thank you for their time, be polite in your good bye and end the evening.

If you really are feeling sexual and want a 3 sum, put up a booty call and be SPECIFIC with what you want and wait for the right couple to respond. Or perv couple profiles and email them expressing your interest.

I'd say it isn't that hard, but we all know it can be hard to find the right compatibility.

Good Luck!

xox
Tammy
Good Job Tammy.....That is how I feel even being part of a couple. You take it one person at a time!!!

sara
I agree with Tammy. take it one person at a time set of meets for the people you are attracted to and dont be afraid to say you are attracted to them. That is why we are here. If you want things to go farther say so be subtle or not. you would be surprised how often all it takes is for someone to just stop being shy and say something.
RIGHT - and EVERYTHING you read in a profile is 100% accurate and truthful.

Just like EVERYTHING you read on the Internet is accurate and truthful.

Uh huh.

Yep.

Sure it is.
we have had the pleasure of a few unicorns, the first time is kinda awkward and wierd but after that things get rolling right along! plus like stated it is much easier if you lay down the law with what you want to happen that night :)
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we also have yet to find a 'unicorn'. but its worth the wait for me. ;) and i knew it wasnt going to be easy. just got to have patience.
-TnT
So I got called a unicorn last week by this really fun couple I joined one night last week. I had to text her and ask her what the hell that meant. LOL I'm usually familiar with being referred to as a mythical creature ie...witch, dragonlady, etc. This was a nice change. ;)
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

So I got called a unicorn last week by this really fun couple I joined one night last week. I had to text her and ask her what the hell that meant. LOL I'm usually familiar with being referred to as a mythical creature ie...witch, dragonlady, etc. This was a nice change. ;)


haha definetly a good looking unicorn!
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

So I got called a unicorn last week by this really fun couple I joined one night last week. I had to text her and ask her what the hell that meant. LOL I'm usually familiar with being referred to as a mythical creature ie...witch, dragonlady, etc. This was a nice change. ;)



thats awesome!
Sadly when you read profiles on this site or any of the Lifestyle Sites and they list themselves as a single woman it turns out not to be the case!!! While we have found a few (VERY FEW) to actually be whom they say they are, they are few and far in between! Its not to say that all folks lie, but lets face the facts alot of folks do, especially when it comes to listing themselves as a single woman who is in the Lifestyle! All of our Unicorns (Single Bi Females) we have in fact met online! So yes they are on sites, just have to be careful when trying to contact one if in fact they are who they say they are. We always insist that everyone contact us by phone, couple or single woman. If they dont do that, then we know they are bogus. WE ALWAYS SPEAK AS A COUPLE, so they can talk to us both! This way they are secure we are in fact a REAL COUPLE! And not some perv guy trying to get some nude pictures, like the internet isnt full enough with them!
While having a Unicorn is the ideal of most LS couples it takes both work and effort to find one and then even more luck to find the right one! If you have the pleasure of having one of those it can be the best time playtime of you're lives!!

L&L
people here can read?
Our only problem is finding a bi woman in LA on this site. We also like the bi women that write us and say but let the girls hook up this time and maybe next time the guy can be involved......
We meet a cute 19 yr old bi girl online and after going back & forth with the wife about age we meet her and she was very nice and the wifes concerns we put to rest as she's allowed her too lick heer too orgasm and was the only the second girl she let do this to her cause the first time she was not into the female that much and stopedd her only minutes after starting, ando we only play soft even with single females for now anyways, I don't have intercourse with our unicorn yet . So atraction is still very important even when finding a unicorn, don't feel bad blue eyes, our unicorn did know that saying either lol. But she found a bf and is consentratin on that relationship for now so we are loking for another to come be pampered socialize with us lol
UTAH-CPLE-2006 wrote:

people here can read?


LMAO...that's been running through my mind as well whilst reading this thread...
CPL4FUN13 wrote:

Our only problem is finding a bi woman in LA on this site.


WHAT??? Aren't all women bi in LA? I thought that was a prerequisite to get a California drivers license.

Mav
We have yet to find that elusive unicorn. Maybe one day. If there are any single women in the San Jose California area, or even traveling to this area, let us know. We would love to get together.

Debbie and Jay
someone posted a funny as hell definition of a unicorn, I wish i could find it! something about only there for sex, you wake up alone covered in glitter or sparkles. if any one remembers it post up please!
We agree, we have been looking for a single female to play for months now (In Utah). We think we're both in physically good shape and have good figures to attract a sexy female but never seem to find one. We've played with a few fun couples, but have both always fantasized about that elusive unicorn we know know nothing about. If there are any in UT we'd love to know more!
FOXYCPL wrote:

We agree, we have been looking for a single female to play for months now (In Utah). We think we're both in physically good shape and have good figures to attract a sexy female but never seem to find one. We've played with a few fun couples, but have both always fantasized about that elusive unicorn we know know nothing about. If there are any in UT we'd love to know more!


you are a very sexy couple! which may slightly intimidate other women...
but I'm convinced there aren't any in utah... we've been trying to get a single girl for a year. I message girls on this site all the time and rarely get a response. the few times that we have received a response, all that happened was exchanging a few emails. every time I have sent an email asking to meet a single girl, she ignores us and we never hear from her again.
the misses