Where is everybody from the bay at? My wife and I look through all the profiles and we find some nice looking people and they're always in Utah lol. We're new to the swinging mentality and we want to try but everybody is 900 miles away. Who can help us??
Most of us are from Utah because its mostly based out of here... LOL It's mostly between here and Nevada, I say move to Utah LOL JK... Hope you have luck soon . The best thing we have learned being in this lifestyle for 5 years + is to never give up looking, the right people will find you eventually.....
they moved to utah cause they heard there are 'more men' there
While web sites may be "everywhere" they tend to gather from different geographic regions. Swingular just happens to be very big in Utah.
But don't feel bad, CA is still a lot closer to UT than FL.
But don't feel bad, CA is still a lot closer to UT than FL.
Sexual Repression... Some of us have a lot of catching up to do... 
I believe admin said Florida has more members but Utah members are just more vocal so it seems everyone is from Utah lol We used to be but got the hell out of dodge lol
SPEXDEX wrote:
Sexual Repression... Some of us have a lot of catching up to do...
I am not "repressed"....just opportunity selective. LOL
Hey im from florida, and most of the people i would love to play with are from ut i send them invites to my friends list but they seem to block me i guess they dont love people from the east coast as my hippy dad says you snooze you loose
WICKEDWANDA4U wrote:
Hey im from florida, and most of the people i would love to play with are from ut i send them invites to my friends list but they seem to block me i guess they dont love people from the east coast as my hippy dad says you snooze you loose
Being geographically challenged is frustrating
Cause Utah is THE hotbed of swinging (little known fact). We started it all way back when with a little thing called polygamy and have been perfecting it ever since. But don't tell anyone. It's a secret. Shhhhhhhhh
Cuz admin moved here for a while in order to corrupt and recruit. hahaha
From what I understand Swingular started in Utah. Utah folks do tend to make this a primary site and we do most of the posting and you will find that our local culture will show up in the discussions. The main page shows local events and I would assume that they display them by state or even closer. I would suggest that you contact the person that posts those and get out and meet some people.
I like the forum here. It is a little different and geared more toward discussion than most I have seen elsewhere. However we have a tendency to flair up more in discussions than some sites. A lot more people read the forum than post to it and there is some excellent information and always differing opinions that are posted here. But I think that most who do write in them really care and have honest strong opinions and will answer most any question honestly. I would encourage you to join us and let us hear your voice.
But there are lots of swinging sites and most people I know belong to more than one. You may wish to look them up. To me Swingular is less of a hook up sex site than most and seems more of a real community than others I have connected with
I was at an M&G with friends in Idaho this weekend and most of those folks use AFF as a primary site. In my view there are not as many Utah couples on AFF as there was a few years ago and I switched when I found Swingular. A lot of couples seem to have dropped their memberships from AFF and moved to Swingular because of the local connection etc. But there are a few on here that claim AFF is better for them.
I think that AFF is better for the younger single men that just want sex and those that stay here long really are of a different mind set. I also don
I like the forum here. It is a little different and geared more toward discussion than most I have seen elsewhere. However we have a tendency to flair up more in discussions than some sites. A lot more people read the forum than post to it and there is some excellent information and always differing opinions that are posted here. But I think that most who do write in them really care and have honest strong opinions and will answer most any question honestly. I would encourage you to join us and let us hear your voice.
But there are lots of swinging sites and most people I know belong to more than one. You may wish to look them up. To me Swingular is less of a hook up sex site than most and seems more of a real community than others I have connected with
I was at an M&G with friends in Idaho this weekend and most of those folks use AFF as a primary site. In my view there are not as many Utah couples on AFF as there was a few years ago and I switched when I found Swingular. A lot of couples seem to have dropped their memberships from AFF and moved to Swingular because of the local connection etc. But there are a few on here that claim AFF is better for them.
I think that AFF is better for the younger single men that just want sex and those that stay here long really are of a different mind set. I also don
We are NYC and we ski Utah
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:SPEXDEX wrote:
Sexual Repression... Some of us have a lot of catching up to do...
I am not "repressed"....just opportunity selective. LOL
LOL I <3 YOU!!! You crack me up!
If I have my information correct swingular was actually started in FL. The admins did live in Utah for a while and did get a lot of people on the site when they were here. It has certainly expanded here. I wish more people would get in the chat room from other states. Would be good to hear from others.