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We are a funny Italian couple and we are on Swingular for 3 years,we are here not only for sex but for find new friends for go out for a dinner,dancing,strip club,camping,hot tubing etc etc. If there is the right chemistry we'll be happy to move on the next step if not the worst can happen is our friendship.Now we understand there are to many young couples here and they looking to meet people with the same age but there is here a good 50% of the people with the same of our age but we still not find any friends here.
We really would like to know what is the problem,we know we are not Barbie & Ken but we are not monster either.We been to the meet and greed and a few parties but nobody never say hi to us,we try to talk with a few couples but after a short presentation they just find an excuse for go away and never try to come close to us for the rest of the night. We don't know why and this hurt us more than anything.In our country we are very friendly and we always open our house and our heart to new friends,but here in 15 years we never found any friends,the only friends we have are Italians like us but we really would like to found American and any other race friends,Black,White,Yellow, Red we dont care we love everybody.We don't look at the color of the skin or the physical look
but what is inside the people.
The only people who contact us here or on other sites are single men but their purpose is only to fuck with us and nothing else,if we contact those guys for something else other than sex they are never available but if is for sex they are been happy to come.We love sex but for us sex in a friendship is just some thing extra for make a relationship more spice but if there is no sex we still happy anyway for us is enough only to see you for talking and have good time together.If somebody have any suggestions or want to be our friends we'll really appreciate.We are ready to open our heart and more to anybody want to be our friends are you ready to do the same with us?
Thanks to everybody for reading this and we really hope to find great friends here.
I don't think that being any race, ethnicity, color, or creed, should exclude anyone from the proverbial party. We are all here for pretty much the same reason. There are plenty of other forums about why we separate groups and cliques, and frankly we think it's a bunch of bs. True to fact though, there is a separation in those who look for sex alone, and then for those who seek friendship as well. We fit in the latter category merely because we feel that playtime is much easier, and more exciting when everyone is comfortable, and know what each other's wants are. Not to say that we think it's the right way, but it's the right way for us, and that's what's important for all parties concerned. That's our humble two cents on the matter. Wish you both the best in your search. ;)
Oh I love you guyzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!! You two are awesome!!! Would love to have dinner with you two again. we enjoyed ourselves and had alot of laughter. Do not worry so much people love ya!!! (=

Just keep getting out and meeting people....there are so many fun hot couples and the sky is the limit my friend!!!
Buongiorno!

Voglio amici italiani! Non parlo bene l'italiano e ho bisogno di practicarlo.

Siamo di quase la mesma eta.

Well, if you want to read more misspelled words in Italian or hear Italian in my really bad American accent; just let me know. (My wife speaks a little Spanish, no Italian.)
My italian is about enough to get my arrested...lol
We'd love to meet you guys! We've had some trouble, too, finding couples in our age group who just want to sometimes sit down to share a meal and conversation. If the sex happens, great. But that's not the only reason we're on here.
We get the most contact from single guys, too. Some want friendship, but a lot are just about the sex. Guess it's about a 50/50 mix. Since our male half sometimes doesn't play (even though he's always there), some couples aren't interested.
We like meeting people from different backgrounds. It's fun and interesting to find how often day-to-day life is the same wherever you're from.
Come see us in the big easy, SLC can be kind of a difficult place to break in.... too...
It seems that the more 'formal' SLC scenes are trying to replicate a bad porn. Certainly not a callback I'll respond to!

I came on-scene in a different city that was much more into real-life humans. All ages, sizes, genders, tastes, orientations, body mods, etc. -- because none of that really matters. A really good party had the fit and the fat, old and young; playing, talking, sucking, holding, eating, fucking, drinking, and generally making merry.

I think our younger folk are doing themselves a great disservice when they only fuck people who are just like them.

Give me delicious variety! "These 20 year old kids are cute, but what do you do with them for the other 23 hours and 45 minutes?"
VL3001 wrote:

We are a funny Italian couple and we are on Swingular for 3 years,we are here not only for sex but for find new friends for go out for a dinner,dancing,strip club,camping,hot tubing etc etc. If there is the right chemistry we'll be happy to move on the next step if not the worst can happen is our friendship.Now we understand there are to many young couples here and they looking to meet people with the same age but there is here a good 50% of the people with the same of our age but we still not find any friends here.
We really would like to know what is the problem,we know we are not Barbie & Ken but we are not monster either.We been to the meet and greed and a few parties but nobody never say hi to us,we try to talk with a few couples but after a short presentation they just find an excuse for go away and never try to come close to us for the rest of the night. We don't know why and this hurt us more than anything.In our country we are very friendly and we always open our house and our heart to new friends,but here in 15 years we never found any friends,the only friends we have are Italians like us but we really would like to found American and any other race friends,Black,White,Yellow, Red we dont care we love everybody.We don't look at the color of the skin or the physical look
but what is inside the people.
The only people who contact us here or on other sites are single men but their purpose is only to fuck with us and nothing else,if we contact those guys for something else other than sex they are never available but if is for sex they are been happy to come.We love sex but for us sex in a friendship is just some thing extra for make a relationship more spice but if there is no sex we still happy anyway for us is enough only to see you for talking and have good time together.If somebody have any suggestions or want to be our friends we'll really appreciate.We are ready to open our heart and more to anybody want to be our friends are you ready to do the same with us?
Thanks to everybody for reading this and we really hope to find great friends here.


Just read your profile. It doesn't sound like you are looking for couples. 8+ inch cocks and gang bangs probably eliminates a huge percentage of the population or might scare people off. If it is couples for friendship you are looking for, retool your profile.

Good Luck!
heh heh you said "TOOL" heh heh
PEBBLEROCK wrote:

heh heh you said "TOOL" heh heh


*Giggle snort*
you crack me up.
VL3001 wrote:

The only people who contact us here or on other sites are single men but their purpose is only to fuck with us and nothing else.


Observation. Every one of your pictures is of body parts or fucking, and not artistic, sensual, seductive fucking but raw genetelia bright lights garish fucking. If you emailed us we look at that and instantly close the window and go on no matter your race, weight, age etc.

Show one or two pics of some sensual sexual activity with low lights allowing the imagination do the majority of the work. Then show the majority of your pics in activities that both of you like to do. A pic at a restaurant, a fun bar you like, in front of a marquee of a show you really enjoyed. Then people will get an idea of what you like to do and get a feel for you as a person rather than a pair of tits, a cock and a stuffed vagina.

Best of luck to both of you.

:)

Invitesome
There is no specific reason y anyone hasnt been ur best friends....just let things happen...maybe u havent found that right couple..some couples just want to have sex and go...thats the main focus of this site right? eventually u will find the couple u click with out of the bedroom too...u dont need fancy pictures or to sell urself for anything but what u are and what u like! just let it happen! its kind of like when people are single and they want to know y they cant find a person...it just takes the right people at the right time