Lately I have had people talk to me on the messanger who are not my friends but they can still talk to me and see my pictures. They have access to my pics.
Now I may have said yes to a request or to their request but when I go into their account it says we are not friends.
I think its not fair they can see me but I can not see them. Why is this happening. I have not seen this before. Its usually just my friends on the friendlist who talk to me.
Three in a few days and it feel wrong to have access to mine and I can not see theirs.
Please let me know if you know why its doing this. Has not happen til lately!!!
sara
Now I may have said yes to a request or to their request but when I go into their account it says we are not friends.
I think its not fair they can see me but I can not see them. Why is this happening. I have not seen this before. Its usually just my friends on the friendlist who talk to me.
Three in a few days and it feel wrong to have access to mine and I can not see theirs.
Please let me know if you know why its doing this. Has not happen til lately!!!
sara
Is it possible their looking then taking you off of their friends list? We have had a few that they send or request, we add, and by the time we go to look at theirs, we're deleted... Honestly people, you're giving me a complex!
TRIXIEE wrote:
your profile has an IM icon that is activated when u are online. ANYONE that views your profile can clik on it to start an IM session with you. Paid members can see your photos in your public album. As for seeing your "private" photos, they should NOT be able to if they aren't on your friend list.
Thank you soooooooo much. It was making me nervous that they were veiwing my profile. I did not approve them just they IM me. I am glad this is a feature and not a glitch problem.
Thank you so much fo ryoiur help!!!
sara n josh
someone told me there is a way to get folks who are not friends to show up on your who's online list by IM..I think it was if they check you as favorite's or something??
SPEXDEX wrote:
Is it possible their looking then taking you off of their friends list? We have had a few that they send or request, we add, and by the time we go to look at theirs, we're deleted... Honestly people, you're giving me a complex!
Yes that does happen to us too. Its the way things go in the lifestyle. I just thought it was a glitch in the IM Messanger but Trixxie told me that it was a feature. So not worried someone is veiwing me without permission.
Do not let that they take you off as a friend define you. Do not let it give you a complex. Different strokes for different folks!! So its better they are not friends if they just want to play that game. You will find so much fun and the sky is the limit and to each their own. So go and be naughty and fullfill those fantasies together. k
Thank you for your help too.
sara n josh
MAYBEMOR wrote:
someone told me there is a way to get folks who are not friends to show up on your who's online list by IM..I think it was if they check you as favorite's or something??
Thank you so much too!!! Glad to know!!!
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I turned off my IM feature. Got to the point that I couldn't chat in the chat room or check email without a ton of instant messages being sent. I'm ADD. I can't multi-task. LOL
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
I turned off my IM feature. Got to the point that I couldn't chat in the chat room or check email without a ton of instant messages being sent. I'm ADD. I can't multi-task. LOL
That's why we just stalk you, it's more personal that way.
HOTFIRELOVERS wrote:SPEXDEX wrote:
Is it possible their looking then taking you off of their friends list? We have had a few that they send or request, we add, and by the time we go to look at theirs, we're deleted... Honestly people, you're giving me a complex!
Yes that does happen to us too. Its the way things go in the lifestyle. I just thought it was a glitch in the IM Messanger but Trixxie told me that it was a feature. So not worried someone is veiwing me without permission.
Do not let that they take you off as a friend define you. Do not let it give you a complex. Different strokes for different folks!! So its better they are not friends if they just want to play that game. You will find so much fun and the sky is the limit and to each their own. So go and be naughty and fullfill those fantasies together. k
Thank you for your help too.
sara n josh
Oh if we let such a little thing like that define us, we would have already left. We are who we are, and the right people will find us, or we will find them.
no worries here, thanks for the comment though!SPEXDEX wrote:
That's why we just stalk you, it's more personal that way.
Bring me coffee next time.
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:SPEXDEX wrote:
That's why we just stalk you, it's more personal that way.
Bring me coffee next time.
Next time I'll just tap on your window dressed as a Starbucks employee..."this is just a dream, do what you want", and then prolly watch you drink the coffee thru a closed window...lol
I still have my starbucks apron. You should see what I can do with a can of whip cream and a bottle of caramel drizzle.....
(enjoy that little mental image!)
(enjoy that little mental image!)
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
I still have my starbucks apron. You should see what I can do with a can of whip cream and a bottle of caramel drizzle..... (enjoy that little mental image!)
thinking about it right now.... mmm...
I hate that people who are not on your friends list can IM you...gets really overwhelming sometimes 
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
I still have my starbucks apron. You should see what I can do with a can of whip cream and a bottle of caramel drizzle.....
(enjoy that little mental image!)
Wait am I still handcuffed?
MCD wrote:BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
I still have my starbucks apron. You should see what I can do with a can of whip cream and a bottle of caramel drizzle.....
(enjoy that little mental image!)
Wait am I still handcuffed?
ugh. I am STILL blushing after that.
And to answer your question....YES! Don't worry. You won't be wearing it long. I have a sweet tooth from hell.