Just met a pretty sexy girl. We like to fuck and she gives the best BJs ever! She has told me that she has had sex in theaters, on golf courses and many other (unnamed) places.
I told her that I have gone to sex clubs and it didn't seem to faze her at all.
I also told her I have had 3-sums.
She said, "I don't think I can keep up with you!"
Question: I don't want to ruin our relationship...but would like to ask her if she would be interested in the lifestyle. How do I broach this subject?
I told her that I have gone to sex clubs and it didn't seem to faze her at all.
I also told her I have had 3-sums.
She said, "I don't think I can keep up with you!"
Question: I don't want to ruin our relationship...but would like to ask her if she would be interested in the lifestyle. How do I broach this subject?
I feel like "I don't think I can keep up with you!" in a playful tone is something we less forward girls say. I love the lifestyle but I still lean towards being shy and need a gentle push every now and then. I say just talk about it honestly and gently. When my boyfriend brought it up 3 years ago I thought "That's crazy!!" Then I talked about it, asked questions, and now I've been in it almost 3 years and I married him 
Just my female perspective!
Kisses!
Kayleigh
Just my female perspective!
Kisses!
Kayleigh
You know my husband was the last person I though would ever join in the lifestyle but once I stopped joking about it and got serious he was up for it. I was scared to bring it up for a long time scared he would run away or not be into it. Now he is happy with everything we have done and wants to do more. He has enjoyed meeting some awesome people in the LS and we both feel it has done nothing but help our sex lives.
Just my two cents. You should live your life as stress free as possible. If you are into this lifestyle and you are going to continue to enjoy it, just be open with her and honest. I think most people are curious about alot, but may be shy and not comfortable talking about it. if you are willing to respect her boundaries, then just tell her. you both should be comfortable with it, if you are in a serious relationship and just mentioning it to her like that, may have her doubting your relationship. Have a good conversation with her about it and let her know you are not going to do anything to jeopardize your relationship, if thats how you feel.
On a side note, i think that you should be comfortable "being yourself" around the person you spend the most time with. If you are not compatible with that person. There is someone out there that is compatible with you. The person may not be wrong, just not right for you.
On a side note, i think that you should be comfortable "being yourself" around the person you spend the most time with. If you are not compatible with that person. There is someone out there that is compatible with you. The person may not be wrong, just not right for you.
SLIMGUY wrote:
Question: I don't want to ruin our relationship...but would like to ask her if she would be interested in the lifestyle. How do I broach this subject?
I'm just hoping that picture is not of her. Even with the face "blocked" out, it is very easy to identify.
Mav
MAVENX wrote:
I'm just hoping that picture is not of her. Even with the face "blocked" out, it is very easy to identify. Mav
Mavenx, Get a life. The only reason would be inference from him in the picture with her. Not likely!
Counter to many person
SEAKINGHER wrote:MAVENX wrote:
I'm just hoping that picture is not of her. Even with the face "blocked" out, it is very easy to identify. Mav
Mavenx, Get a life. The only reason would be inference from him in the picture with her. Not likely!
You haven't even been on here a year so who are you to speak up and say "Get a Life." I have more friends than you have denials. She can (and will) be identified from this photo. The necklace. The hairstyle. And yes, what you said, her association with him. Easily done and carelessly done by him.
Mavenx, Your are such a petulant child and having friends on here is such a great way to make an argument. If he wishes he can delete this whole blog at any point. Castigating him for the use of picture only makes you look big and tough. He did not ask your opinion of the photo.
Thanks for
Thanks for showing your ignorance as a single dude. You make it easy for the rest of us. Any guy wanting to be in the lifestyle knows that permission is paramount to pictures.
Proudly Signed,
Mav
SEAKINGHER wrote:
Mavenx, Your are such a petulant child and having friends on here is such a great way to make an argument. If he wishes he can delete this whole blog at any point. Castigating him for the use of picture only makes you look big and tough. He did not ask your opinion of the photo.
Thanks for showing your ignorance as a single dude. You make it easy for the rest of us. Any guy wanting to be in the lifestyle knows that permission is paramount to pictures.
Proudly Signed,
Mav
Misplaced, I would agree with you. However that was not the original question and Mav should phrase is words better.
As I recall the law in most states the permission to post an identifiable picture is legally paramount in or out of this lifestyle unless it was taken in a public environment etc,etc,etc. I am sure that there are those that can quote the law much better than I can. But you then have to define identify. She may want to kill him but legally I think he is in the clear.
Slimguy does not have any public pics so I am surprised that he posted this picture and it may not even be of him. I don
As I recall the law in most states the permission to post an identifiable picture is legally paramount in or out of this lifestyle unless it was taken in a public environment etc,etc,etc. I am sure that there are those that can quote the law much better than I can. But you then have to define identify. She may want to kill him but legally I think he is in the clear.
Slimguy does not have any public pics so I am surprised that he posted this picture and it may not even be of him. I don
Hmmm....I wonder how many women out there have that same/similar necklace and hairstyle...Nah, I'm sure she is the ONLY one. While I was surprised to see a pic, he never identified it as being her...it could be any of his playmates *shrug*. I'm just saying, no one is going to go out of their way to look for a woman wearing that necklace with that hairstyle. The man asked a question...answer it intelligently and move on without snarky remarks. At least he's brave enough to post a pic of HIS face on here and not just ones of him from the neck down or just his dick (or face blurred)...very nice and considerate for ppl seeking a single male to see.
As far as an answer to your question Slimguy....be honest and upfront with her. Just keep in mind that you will have to decide if she and her bj's are worth giving up the lifestyle if she doesn't want to be involved in it. However, think of the fun that can be had if she says "hell yeah!"
Just my 2 cents
As far as an answer to your question Slimguy....be honest and upfront with her. Just keep in mind that you will have to decide if she and her bj's are worth giving up the lifestyle if she doesn't want to be involved in it. However, think of the fun that can be had if she says "hell yeah!"
Just my 2 cents
Perhaps with her telling you about her sexcapdes in public places, she is trying to broach the subject. I would simply talk to her and ask if she has ever had a 3-some and if she says no I would ask if she would like to. If answer is still no I would set up some public sex and have some folks catch you and see her reaction. In any case good luck.
If she says she's not interested, that should be the end of it.
I told my vanilla girlfriend about the lifestyle when she got into town and well....
Turns out I'm more vanilla then she is. Now....could someone please either untie me or just bring me coffee.
xox
Tammy
p.s. New girlfriend will be on display at Habits tonight and I'm sharing. Sort of.
Turns out I'm more vanilla then she is. Now....could someone please either untie me or just bring me coffee.
xox
Tammy
p.s. New girlfriend will be on display at Habits tonight and I'm sharing. Sort of.
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
I told my vanilla girlfriend about the lifestyle when she got into town and well.... Turns out I'm more vanilla then she is. Now....could someone please either untie me or just bring me coffee. xox Tammy p.s. New girlfriend will be on display at Habits tonight and I'm sharing. Sort of.
Do you take it black or with cream and sugar.
Now now, boys........ Lighten up a little.....
No need for this to turn into a Mav vrs Seaking thing......
Lets stick to the original topic/question..........
I thought I knew what I wanted to say but I just can't seem get it to come out right lol
No need for this to turn into a Mav vrs Seaking thing......
Lets stick to the original topic/question..........
I thought I knew what I wanted to say but I just can't seem get it to come out right lol
SEAKINGHER wrote:
I was dating and playing with pussy when you were still trying to figure out what your prick was for.
Oh fuck! That was some funny shit!! I don't normally laugh when getting my ass chewed but shit, that was funny.
Mav
Man!!! I can't believe how this forums sometimes sound like high school... lol
DABOMB wrote:
Man!!! I can't believe how this forums sometimes sound like high school... lol
AMEN!
DABOMB wrote:
Man!!! I can't believe how this forums sometimes sound like high school... lol
LOL Have you been to a swinger's club lately? It's all a bunch of cliques just like in high school. If one doesn't like you...the whole clique doesn't like you LOL
Talk to her about it
MAVENX wrote:SEAKINGHER wrote:
I was dating and playing with pussy when you were still trying to figure out what your prick was for.
Oh fuck! That was some funny shit!! I don't normally laugh when getting my ass chewed but shit, that was funny.
Mav
What goes around comes around. Mav you'll still be dating and playing with pussy when seaking is trying to remember what his prick is for!!
What are these damn things for? I think it's the male "mood ring", I get happy it goes up, I get sad it does too, I get cold it hibernates... Seriously though, it is what it is, and our opinions on a single picture matter for nothing in concern to the original question. Plenty of testosterone in here, let's use the other head instead.
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