Swingers Forum - Late 20's ... no man's land ???

So I have a question, Is it just me or does it seem that members in there twenties kind of get the the rough end of the stick ? I mean sometimes when I speak to members that are older they say I'm too young or if I speak to members around my age they say I'm not old enough ? LOL ... I totally understand that everyone has there own preferences but is it to strong to say that maybe swinging is for members/people over 30 ?

Considering I don't even remember my 20s I may not be qualified to answer this. I do know there are several 20 something year olds on this site...some do well some do not. I think it's personality, level of attractiveness, and truthfully, if you are single or part of a couple. Also, it's helpful if you are out being seen and participating in meet & greets, parties, and other social situations. As people get to know you, your age might become less of a hinderence.

Good luck.

xox
Tammy

.most people in there 20s arent comfortable with themselves let alone sharing their partners...so they are hard to find....That doesnt mean everyone so dont jump my case cause im in my 20s haha...but my girl likes younger men and women..but most of the couples on here are 30s and older..so just deal with what u can...we dont do over 40...cause for me specifically age is a number cause my parents are in their 40s

Seems to us that most folks here kind of stick to their own age group. That said tho, we have made friends and been with partners above..and considerably below ours, and if you look at our ages..THAT is a pretty big range! LOL It dosen't matter to us..we like the the variety, as long as the connection is there. It's just a bit harder, usually, to find that connection if the age difference is huge.

yeah, the thing is dude - I've found a few people on here I would call good friends, but I'm a single male who's a bit quirky in the personality department. Single Male is the key word here - it takes TIME to get to know people and make them comfortable with you.

And doing the booty call thing doesn't seem to work very often either - I know one rather attractive couple that keeps on trying and hasn't had a single message from it yet. Thing is - males - single ones especially - are not the most sought after commodity on here. In fact, we're the dregs and the dross, unless we're extremely attractive with a huge cock. It's just the way it is: this site is about fulfilling sexual fantasies, and we're not in the lead on being capable of fulfilling them.

HELLO_KITTY12984 wrote:

try being under 21 whilst in the lifestyle. that was awfully fun. hahaha

dammit Kitty. Stop making me feel old. And give me back my mini skirt.

SHAZAMER wrote:

VANILLASKY wrote:

I'm in my 20's and seem to have not problem finding people interested meeting us.

Mr. Vanillasky

Then why does your profile say you're 32? LMAO.

I play with 20-somethings all the time. It's more about how teachable you are, your attitude, etc. If you think you have a big cock, thus we must worship you, you're not gonna get very far with me. Actually right now I'm looking for an 18 yr. old cabana boy/slave. Send me your referrals.
xoxox
Monika

i hear costco has a great deal on cabana boys, but they only come in bulk. i say a few of us chip in and we can buy a pack. bahahahaha

SHAZAMER wrote:

VANILLASKY wrote:

I'm in my 20's and seem to have not problem finding people interested meeting us.

Mr. Vanillasky

Then why does your profile say you're 32? LMAO.


Monika

Whaaaat!? Your right, I'm not in my twenties, damn when did that happen? I guess I have been having too much fun to notice.

BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

*scrambling to find a $100 to chip in*

How many do we get each?

the more we buy at a time, the better deal we're gonna get. so we should go big. lulz.

Ain