Just wonder how the gals of swingular feel others in family and regular life view them?
Have folks asked you flat out if you swing?
Would folks bet the farm that you would be the last person on Earth to do so?
Where are you?
Have folks asked you flat out if you swing?
Would folks bet the farm that you would be the last person on Earth to do so?
Where are you?
No clue, but we've only been in for such a short time. 
My family knows....but don't want any more information. And yes, I was the LAST person they suspected to ever do this. I'm the oldest of 6 kids and come from a strict Mormon background. My sibilngs rebelled and I was the only "active" one in church. Then a few years ago when my marriage ended, I backed off from the church, and suddenly now my siblings are all active and I'm persona non grata. Even when I went thru 2 rounds of chemo the only family support I got was phone calls from my father. He still reaches out to me...but I feel really uncomfortable when I'm around the rest of my family.
I'm the last one suspected. I'm very conservative, though still outgoing, in my everyday life. But no one knows about the other activities. I like it that way.
Yeah I was the good kid growing up. Always met or exceeded my parents expectations. My friends were the wild ones. Now they are all goody two shoes and active Mormons and I'm the rebel. Although I seriously doubt any of them have a clue as to how "alternative" I am. LOL
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If my family knew I was swinging I think they would not be surprised one bit. If they found out my husband was doing it as well they would be very surprised. His sister is coming for a visit and he told me to make sure all of our caches are clear when she comes or she will think I am cheating on him, cause it would never cross her mind that he could be swinging.
I sure hope they don't suspect anything!!!!
I've always been the one ppl think are doing naughty things and more often than not..they were right!! My man however, is the very strong quiet type that you never suspect!
(Jamze) My parents know we are swingers. Ironically, they are even members of this site. No, we aren't true to the redneck stereotype! Lol (Jami) Her sister knows and wasn't surprised in the slightest but her parents do not know, at least not outright. If they did, they wouldnt ask or even talk about it. They tend to be silent Mormons who refuse to talk about sex with their kids. Oddly enough, we both agree. Talking to them about our sex life would be a little like talking to the pope about our being Pagan or something like that.
My mom knows...but that is cause I'm extremely close with her and she is probably the coolest mom in the entire world. She is totally nonjudgmental. Although she was a little shocked when I first told her. My husband's mom would propably be ok if she found out. I bet rest of his family wouldn't speak to us ever again. But as far as them being surprised or not if they found out, I don't think either of them really would be, especially since they all know my hubby is a wicked pervert. 
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
My family knows....but don't want any more information. And yes, I was the LAST person they suspected to ever do this. I'm the oldest of 6 kids and come from a strict Mormon background. My sibilngs rebelled and I was the only "active" one in church. Then a few years ago when my marriage ended, I backed off from the church, and suddenly now my siblings are all active and I'm persona non grata. Even when I went thru 2 rounds of chemo the only family support I got was phone calls from my father. He still reaches out to me...but I feel really uncomfortable when I'm around the rest of my family.
In the 3+ years I've been on Swingular, I've read some pretty incredible stories about Mormanism.
To some folks, those stories might be hard, or even impossible to believe - but I believe them.
Why?
Because most of you would be very surprised at the similarities between Mormons and the holier-than-thou born-agains down here in the southern Bible Belt.
We don't think anybody knows but have been
asked by almost everybody we know if we are.
Not sure why though?
asked by almost everybody we know if we are.
Not sure why though?
Both my parents know, and they are on the site. But we keep our sexual encounters to ourselves. My parents probably expected me to be the "bad" girl, my sister on the other hand is totaly different and don't agree with the lifestyle. But we have been honest with our friends and have told them we are Swingers.