I\'d really like to know if its just me who has had this experience or if others have found this to be true.
I was very hesitant to continue meeting new people after we found out I was pregnant because I want to again give birth at home with the assistance of a midwife and the only way that would be possible to avoid contact with sexually transmitted diseases.
Thankfully I have thus far been able to do so, even with having contact with some new people, but I have been annoyed to no end by the number of guys who think that because I\'m pregnant they don\'t even need to have the courtesy to ask if they should use a condom. I mean unless you are ready, willing, and able to provide me with documentation that you have been tested recently I have no reason to believe that you are completely clean of anything that might affect my health or the health of my baby.
So I guess what I\'m saying is that unless you have prior consent from a pregnant woman that no condom is needed, guys you still need to ask and be prepared to use a condom. In fact there aren\'t any circumstances in which its ok to just decide on your own whether you need one or not. The only way you can know for sure is if you have discussed it with the woman ahead of time.
-SG
I was very hesitant to continue meeting new people after we found out I was pregnant because I want to again give birth at home with the assistance of a midwife and the only way that would be possible to avoid contact with sexually transmitted diseases.
Thankfully I have thus far been able to do so, even with having contact with some new people, but I have been annoyed to no end by the number of guys who think that because I\'m pregnant they don\'t even need to have the courtesy to ask if they should use a condom. I mean unless you are ready, willing, and able to provide me with documentation that you have been tested recently I have no reason to believe that you are completely clean of anything that might affect my health or the health of my baby.
So I guess what I\'m saying is that unless you have prior consent from a pregnant woman that no condom is needed, guys you still need to ask and be prepared to use a condom. In fact there aren\'t any circumstances in which its ok to just decide on your own whether you need one or not. The only way you can know for sure is if you have discussed it with the woman ahead of time.
-SG
While meaning no disrespect, I kind of have to laugh at the assumption that if \"getting pregnant\" isn\'t an issue, that a condom is irrelevant. What I mean is that I often forget that that function of a condom even exists. I\'ve been \"fixed\" so long that pregnancy just doesn\'t enter my mind - so the entire point of a condom is sexual safety.
And, by the way, I know I\'m not alone in thinking that a pregnant woman is REALLY very sexy!
Overall, it\'s just a reminder that we all need to have that little discussion before we head to the bedroom - and stick to the rules.
And, by the way, I know I\'m not alone in thinking that a pregnant woman is REALLY very sexy!
Overall, it\'s just a reminder that we all need to have that little discussion before we head to the bedroom - and stick to the rules.
Two comments from the male half:
Not asking about a condom ANYTIME is the sign of a rude lover. I always ask even with females that do not \"require\" them. Most of the time I just grab one (and one of those godforsaken nonlatex ones when needed)
Preg Females are SO hot.....
Not asking about a condom ANYTIME is the sign of a rude lover. I always ask even with females that do not \"require\" them. Most of the time I just grab one (and one of those godforsaken nonlatex ones when needed)
Preg Females are SO hot.....
How funny - the hubby and I were talking about that today, as I might be meeting someone tonight.
The very first thing we told this person when it became more likely that we would be meeting is that despite my pregnancy, condoms are still required. I am not being given the option of a natural birth but still want to ensure my safety and that of my unborn child - who wouldn\'t?
I understand that many people think condoms are simply for the prevention of pregnancy, but in this lifestyle I would expect safety to be the higher priority for people, especially since in most committed relationships other avenues to prevent pregnancy are being utilized. I would be insulted, probably to the point of not wanting to meet with the person, if they assumed I would be okay with not taking steps to ensure my own safety.
~Ang
The very first thing we told this person when it became more likely that we would be meeting is that despite my pregnancy, condoms are still required. I am not being given the option of a natural birth but still want to ensure my safety and that of my unborn child - who wouldn\'t?
I understand that many people think condoms are simply for the prevention of pregnancy, but in this lifestyle I would expect safety to be the higher priority for people, especially since in most committed relationships other avenues to prevent pregnancy are being utilized. I would be insulted, probably to the point of not wanting to meet with the person, if they assumed I would be okay with not taking steps to ensure my own safety.
~Ang
SEE my point EXACTLY about HOT HOT Preg ladies
Okay, so let see how many people actually do read these forums:-) Magin just recently (as of New Years eve) found out she was pregnant. We have received nothing but great remarks, of how beautiful women are when they are pregnant, or how they glow. Yea, there is the weight gain, but that goes with the sexiness of it! Yes, for all our friends out there, magin is pregnant AGAIN! So now, none of you can get mad we didn\'t tell you:-)
Congratulations!
We only have about six weeks left of this pregnancy, and as much as I love the attention while I\'m pregnant, we\'re planning for this to be our last.
I guess that\'s partly why we\'re wanting to get me as much physical attention as possible over the next few weeks - we want to be able to record it for posterity so we can both look back and remember how hot the sex was.
So many things about pregnancy make sex that much greater - it\'s nice to know there\'s a good chunk of the population that thinks so too.
We only have about six weeks left of this pregnancy, and as much as I love the attention while I\'m pregnant, we\'re planning for this to be our last.
I guess that\'s partly why we\'re wanting to get me as much physical attention as possible over the next few weeks - we want to be able to record it for posterity so we can both look back and remember how hot the sex was.
So many things about pregnancy make sex that much greater - it\'s nice to know there\'s a good chunk of the population that thinks so too.
Congrats to the pregnant ladies. :-) And yes a pregnant lady is SSOOOOO VERY HOT. :-)
Pregnancy definately turns my hubby on too...... He finds it incredibly sexy. Seems he\'s not alone huh??
DARN if you were not so far away... attention would be yours. It could be just a foot massage or a back rub.
First of all, we had a homebirth with our last too!!! IT WAS AWESOME!!!!!
We have talked so much about this too, as we don\'t use birth control and are wanting another baby pretty soon, too.
For us, we will not continue swinging if/when I do get pregnant. I commend those hot mama\'s that are able to swing while pregnant, but we have decided not to go that route for various reasons, including:
~My level of self confidence ( I feel soooo unsexy while pregnant lol)
~Hormones go crazy for a while, and I know I wouldn\'t be secure enough to let hubby swing with some little hottie who isn\'t all fat and swollen (LOL)
~ We both feel wierd about me having sex with another man while pregnant with hubbies child....NOT TO SAY THERE\'S ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT........That\'s just OUR personal feelings. Please don\'t respond with rude comments about that, its just our personal choice.
Now on the other hand, the one couple that we swing with on a regular basis is pregnant, and she is totally comfortable swinging still......and that is fine with us. And yes, he still always uses protection with her, there is no question, never even thought it was an option.
Its all about sexual safety first, and pregnancy prevention second (IMO)...
I would be offended anytime some guy thought he could just stick it in me without a condom...we make sure everyone that we talk to knows that condoms are not a choice, it is a must...
PS CONGRATS to all the pregnant mommies!!!
This pic is of me at 30 weeks with our twins
We have talked so much about this too, as we don\'t use birth control and are wanting another baby pretty soon, too.
For us, we will not continue swinging if/when I do get pregnant. I commend those hot mama\'s that are able to swing while pregnant, but we have decided not to go that route for various reasons, including:
~My level of self confidence ( I feel soooo unsexy while pregnant lol)
~Hormones go crazy for a while, and I know I wouldn\'t be secure enough to let hubby swing with some little hottie who isn\'t all fat and swollen (LOL)
~ We both feel wierd about me having sex with another man while pregnant with hubbies child....NOT TO SAY THERE\'S ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT........That\'s just OUR personal feelings. Please don\'t respond with rude comments about that, its just our personal choice.
Now on the other hand, the one couple that we swing with on a regular basis is pregnant, and she is totally comfortable swinging still......and that is fine with us. And yes, he still always uses protection with her, there is no question, never even thought it was an option.
Its all about sexual safety first, and pregnancy prevention second (IMO)...
I would be offended anytime some guy thought he could just stick it in me without a condom...we make sure everyone that we talk to knows that condoms are not a choice, it is a must...
PS CONGRATS to all the pregnant mommies!!!
This pic is of me at 30 weeks with our twins
It\'s hot to us. Two thumbs up.
-R & T
-R & T
I would have to agree with the post a couple up from ours - I personally wouldn\'t be able to swing if I was pregnant. I remember how I felt during both mine and it was not sexy lol. It\'s great that some women feel good enough to be able to I just couldn\'t. I did not feel sexy at all and my hormones were berserk, poor hubby lol...
And yes both hubby and I agree pregnant women are sexy!!
Congratulations to all who are expecting!!!
And yes both hubby and I agree pregnant women are sexy!!
Congratulations to all who are expecting!!!
my wife and i have been thinking of having another baby (she has been off birth controll for 2 wks.) we are also conserned about this... but i do piercings and tattoos and am training her to pierce and the only precaution a obgyn has about reciving piercings and tattoos durring pregnancy are the same that we equate to swinging....its the transmission of hepatitis and hiv. any Q\'S just ask. dennis and sara
I totally understand how some women feel totally unsexy while pregnant. Although I feel like a whale right now, it\'s probably the only time in my life I\'ve felt okay about my size and still thought I was at least mostly sexy. Don\'t ask me to wax poetic about those stretch marks though!!!
In a way, we have this pregnancy to really thank for blowing the doors open on our conversation and subsequent venture into the lifestyle. If my hormones hadn\'t been going so crazy and if hubby hadn\'t been so far away, we might have left all our conversations about swinging in the \'well it might be nice to do someday\' stage. Instead, the hormones allowed us to really talk more about why we actually WANTED to do this and go through with it and whatnot. I can\'t wait to swing while not pregnant anymore too, but I\'m particularly glad it opened the door for us to explore during this pregnancy.
I have to admit, with as sexy as I feel during pregnancy (most of the time, lol) and the awesomeness of swinging (I\'ll be honest, I really like the attention) it\'s hard not to be giddy about it.
Ang
In a way, we have this pregnancy to really thank for blowing the doors open on our conversation and subsequent venture into the lifestyle. If my hormones hadn\'t been going so crazy and if hubby hadn\'t been so far away, we might have left all our conversations about swinging in the \'well it might be nice to do someday\' stage. Instead, the hormones allowed us to really talk more about why we actually WANTED to do this and go through with it and whatnot. I can\'t wait to swing while not pregnant anymore too, but I\'m particularly glad it opened the door for us to explore during this pregnancy.
I have to admit, with as sexy as I feel during pregnancy (most of the time, lol) and the awesomeness of swinging (I\'ll be honest, I really like the attention) it\'s hard not to be giddy about it.
Ang
we never had the chance to swing while she was preg. becuase we started swinging after her hystarectamy .. but we think it is a hot thought .. and preg ladies are very sexy .. 4 thumbs up here
Ang... at the risk of being redundant... you (and the rest of the ladies here) are very sexy to us to begin with Add in the awesomness (it that a word???) of being preg.... WOW
AH, those stretch marks are just part of being a human..... and a damn sexy one at that....
Just the thoughts from the very cold and cheeseyland of Wisconsin
AH, those stretch marks are just part of being a human..... and a damn sexy one at that....
Just the thoughts from the very cold and cheeseyland of Wisconsin
We would have to agree pregnant woman are the most sexiest. Unfortuantly around us everyone takes a break from the lifestyle durring this time. This is more then likely why we have an attraction also to woman that have meat on then. Woman seem tobe sexier with meat on them instead of the small framed woman. Please dont get us wrong we like all shapes and sizes but just love full figured woman..
People please always practice safe sex, T got fixed 9 years ago and even with our old girlfriend that we had for a year he still practiced safe sex. It all really hit home for alot of people here in Idaho THis summer when in a swingers group we where memebers they had an out break of clamidia(may not be spelled right) it was scary because with B being bisexual she could have got it easy enough. so remember this if you use your toys on another woman cover them with condoms also. Safety first..
T & B
People please always practice safe sex, T got fixed 9 years ago and even with our old girlfriend that we had for a year he still practiced safe sex. It all really hit home for alot of people here in Idaho THis summer when in a swingers group we where memebers they had an out break of clamidia(may not be spelled right) it was scary because with B being bisexual she could have got it easy enough. so remember this if you use your toys on another woman cover them with condoms also. Safety first..
T & B
well when we found out holly was pregnant, we took time off from the lifestyle. we wet to parties. and clubs until she started showing, then it was over.
she didnt even wat to take the risk with the baby even by trying sex with aother man.
dont get us wrong our rule is i use condoms and the guy has to as well.
when it comes to that part of this we trust noone. it doesnt matter who they are.
lets face it there is just to much stuff going around out there not to be safe.
and those that dont use condoms can very well be takeing there lives on the line .
carl and holly
she didnt even wat to take the risk with the baby even by trying sex with aother man.
dont get us wrong our rule is i use condoms and the guy has to as well.
when it comes to that part of this we trust noone. it doesnt matter who they are.
lets face it there is just to much stuff going around out there not to be safe.
and those that dont use condoms can very well be takeing there lives on the line .
carl and holly
Michelle is 6 months pregnant now still sexy as hell. She is, of course, very self concious right now and fears people will not find that sexy. It is good to hear so many say how sexy you find the pregnant woman.
I think all women at sexy when pregnet and in my experience with my wife she enjoyed it more I un ortunately was to you toyoung understand what I was missing. all women are sexy in there own way it is atitude not looks if it feels good do it but use protection with others.
Here here for natural/home births! Me too! (Though I'm not pregnant)
And pregnant women? The hottest!
And pregnant women? The hottest!
I would call it Taboo, but agree a pregnant woman is so sexy. Just don't see us playing with couples or being with couples or playing if my girl was pregnant. One for the problem that I wouldn't want it to harm the baby or two the phycholical issues.