I would just like to say to all the Single Males out there New and Old. The bootycall posting area of this site is not for SM's . If a couple wants a single male they have a stable full to choose from. Stop flooding the Bootycall Postings with desperate attempts to get laid. It is annoying and classless. Learn the the lifestyle is about before you join a site like this thinking that it is just a place to find hot sluts that want cock.. cause it isn't. No one cares its your day off and your horny? lol..
With that said. If the SM's don't start learning the lifestyle they might just remove us all from the site.
And please also stop getting in the chat room on cam and asking every single person on if they want to see you jerk your cock,. NO ONE DOES....
With that said. If the SM's don't start learning the lifestyle they might just remove us all from the site.
And please also stop getting in the chat room on cam and asking every single person on if they want to see you jerk your cock,. NO ONE DOES....
haha, I think you guys are your own worst enemy!
Lol, I'm not even sure I want to see myself jerk off on cam! Just wouldnt be fair to make all of you suffer thru it either...lol
I agree RandMR, SM's are their own worst enemy. Their are some really great ones out there that understand what the lifestyle is all about, but they are outnumbered by the blanket calls for "I wanna get laid and can't find/keep a girlfriend".
And for the record you have some fantastic pictures!
And for the record you have some fantastic pictures!
I think someone is trying to score brownie points. Haaaaa The booty call list is for everyone on this site. As we have all learned, there is a need/want for everyone on this site.
BLACKSLC wrote:
I think someone is trying to score brownie points. Haaaaa The booty call list is for everyone on this site. As we have all learned, there is a need/want for everyone on this site.
You obviously dont know what the lifestyle is about then. Rob almost banned all the SM's from even joining the site and it is still under consideration. Look at the 8 SM on bootycall and only 3 couples. The SAME LOSER GUYS post on there day in and day out.
The lifestyle is about COUPLES. There is no NEED for SM's just a random urge every now and then!
MISPLACEDTXN1969 wrote:
did a single male just say there is no need for single males?
YES as far as everyday need... not saying that we are not a fun PART of the lifestyle but we are definately not a STAPLE...
lol... we are no unicorns..
Hush you. Next to go will be us single females. LOL.
I actually beg to differ. Depends on the couple. Some couples only enjoy single males and there is also the bi or curious flavor that want to experiment. You speak of unicorns yet there are also single straight females. Do they not "belong"? The lifestyle is about freedom, fun, and sexploration. I have friends that I do not play regularly with that are still friends. Also single males and females. Nobody ever wants to be a backseat or last resort. We have feelings, fantasies, wants, etc just as everyone else on this site does. You wanna trash yourself, feel free, but us single guys catch enough flack over the stupidity of a majority. Don't need the extra help dude
Id have to agree with most of the responses - Even though there could be 8 SM and 3 couples on the Booty call list, I see no problem with it. So what if you have to scroll down a little.
This thread is going to hell in a basket. LOL
You all have points. SOME single males abuse the BC. But there is a need for them.
Now everyone put down your pitchforks and your flame throwers. First single males and next thing you know *I'm* on the hit list. LOL
You all have points. SOME single males abuse the BC. But there is a need for them.
Now everyone put down your pitchforks and your flame throwers. First single males and next thing you know *I'm* on the hit list. LOL
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
This thread is going to hell in a basket. LOL
You all have points. SOME single males abuse the BC. But there is a need for them.
Now everyone put down your pitchforks and your flame throwers. First single males and next thing you know *I'm* on the hit list. LOL
All depends on the "hit" you're referring to!
No one is changing anything, random rants will ways happen, and the views will always be "to each their own"...Not all of us are looking "just to get laid" i have been in the lifestyle for many years when i was married. I enjoyed it and really joined more to see if i could meet a like minded lady...
Personally never use the bc list..
I guess what I am trying to say is don't lump all of us single men into that "that just trying to laid" category. Just because one is single does not mean they are not truly into the lifestyle
Personally never use the bc list..
I guess what I am trying to say is don't lump all of us single men into that "that just trying to laid" category. Just because one is single does not mean they are not truly into the lifestyle
wow , i dont reply to any of these threads , but i do read them for entertainment . this thread is an affront to my sensitivities not only as a person but as a single male .could sexyuscfan be more offensive and categorical and opinionated . i think not . if there is aomeone abusing the system be it sm , sf , or a couple then that person should be dealt with on an individual basis . to be honest i look at the booty calls and haven't really ever seen someone using it improperly . maybe those individuals are just taking the initiative to create an opportunity for themselves . no one has to read there posts or answer them . they should have the right to any advantage that anyone else has . hmmn theres my piece , not stated that eloquently but i tried .
There should be a place for everyone here that is respectful of others. Many of us wind up single after being married and that includes divorces in the lifestyle. Should we be removed simply because we are now single? You should not have to be married to be here.
A respectful person learns or knows what boundaries are. We all have them even if they are slightly different in the lifestyle. We are all here for different reasons and I would like to think that those who do not belong here will slowly weed themselves out.
Some married folks want just sex and some want friends and what ever you wish to find is also there. The lifestyle should be about acceptance. At least here we don
A respectful person learns or knows what boundaries are. We all have them even if they are slightly different in the lifestyle. We are all here for different reasons and I would like to think that those who do not belong here will slowly weed themselves out.
Some married folks want just sex and some want friends and what ever you wish to find is also there. The lifestyle should be about acceptance. At least here we don
SEAKINGHER wrote:
There should be a place for everyone here that is respectful of others. Many of us wind up single after being married and that includes divorces in the lifestyle. Should we be removed simply because we are now single? You should not have to be married to be here.
Thank you for offering a well-balanced if not articulate way of stating what I was contemplating while reading this post.
Of the 6 years I have been a member of this site...5 1/2 of them were spent married (for those of you that don't know "THOUGHTGARDEN", yes...we were BOTH involved in the Lifestyle), and by far the memories created between my former wife and I and our interactions on here have vastly been positive.
In fact, when our marriage dissolved, I had temporarily considered withdrawing from this site as well as the goings on of swinging; however, I quickly realized how many great friends and experiences I/we had over the years, both sexual and non-sexual, and decided to remain an active member. Simply for the sake of honoring the friendships that have been created, but also for the possibility of new ones yet to come.
Truly, for me, my participation is not about sex...but social interaction. I find the social interaction I seek...and it works for me. Those couples that want single play, whether they be male/female...find that as well. So it works for them. Those that are wishing to engage in couple/couple play only find what they seek....and guess what, it works for them as well.
To sweep those of us on this site who fit into a particular "demographic", into a single paradigm of narrow-minded thought through broad generalized statements is simply ignorant. While I honor the opinions of those who would be grabbing the pitchforks, torches and tar on this proverbial witch hunt, I simply cannot agree.
We all are here for our own reasons, my reasons may or may not resonate with your senses...either way, you are still at choice to simply move on and create what works for you, or waste energy dwelling on issues that are completely nonproductive to your endeavors here (I'm hoping it's the former).
Really, who gives a fuck WHO posts on the Booty Call, and how often? Who cares if they are single males/females/couples? Do you truly have that much free time to worry about investing energy in whining about it?
Simply live and let live...and step out of judgement...you may be surprised at just how much funner the Lifestyle can be without that element.
Peace
~J
I think to make a label here that can really stick to a group is really more a dis-service to all involved than anything else. I we judge the war by a single battle, we have already lost...
"A narrow mind and a fat head invariably come on the same person."
SEXYUSCFAN wrote:
I would just like to say to all the Single Males out there New and Old. The bootycall posting area of this site is not for SM's.
Since you are a SM and having trouble posting, I found the link so you can post your booty call.
1. Go to the booty call link, easiest way is clicking on the number at the top bar. This number shows how many people are currently viewing the list.
2. Look for the big button that says "Get on the booty call list!".
3. Click it.
From this page, it's pretty self explanatory if you understand dates, options, english, check boxes, & radio buttons/circles. Then you just press the submit button and that's it! If you don't get any responses, maybe no one was interested in that time and you may try again at a later date. If there is a bug w/ the site that is allowing single males to post, you may want to try emailing the administrator and submit a ticket.
TRIXIEE wrote:
Just a random comment: SHAVE your hairy balls SM's!!!
TRiX
I did as u requested before ur M&G and u still didn't check Trixiee. LOL
I don't get this guy last i read is ppl who post here are looking for 1 of 4 things
1.) lets hang and get to know each other with NO sex
2.) lets hang and we might think about sex
3.) if we like what we see aka if we click sex
4.) and last dont care lets fuck
everything is short team plans and i dont see anyone complaing about SF on BC
so i don't get this guy sept hes trying to make a new requierment for BC
and for video chat i dont go there anymore cus my comp went out with my old cam and i do fine with out it. If wife and i are wantting extras we know how to find what we are looking for thats why there is the site and BC.
so i'll get you some cheese for your wine
m2cents poet
1.) lets hang and get to know each other with NO sex
2.) lets hang and we might think about sex
3.) if we like what we see aka if we click sex
4.) and last dont care lets fuck
everything is short team plans and i dont see anyone complaing about SF on BC
so i don't get this guy sept hes trying to make a new requierment for BC
and for video chat i dont go there anymore cus my comp went out with my old cam and i do fine with out it. If wife and i are wantting extras we know how to find what we are looking for thats why there is the site and BC.
so i'll get you some cheese for your wine
m2cents poet
I agree with Poet. The designers of the website did a great job giving people the ability to filter their view of BC, and everything else for that matter. If you're not interested in single males, don't click on the checkbox, and you won't see them!
The single biggest "problem" I've seen in my years in the lifestyle (not sure problem is the best word, but I think it makes my point) is that many people have their opinion of "the lifestyle" and what it means to them. If someone else's version clashes with theirs, then crap like this gets started. Aside from the obvious, it's one of the major differences between us and the "vanilla" crowd.
I guess my ultimate point is this: If you aren't interested in single males, or single females, or couples, whatever your version of this lifestyle excludes, use the tools built into the website and overlook them!
The single biggest "problem" I've seen in my years in the lifestyle (not sure problem is the best word, but I think it makes my point) is that many people have their opinion of "the lifestyle" and what it means to them. If someone else's version clashes with theirs, then crap like this gets started. Aside from the obvious, it's one of the major differences between us and the "vanilla" crowd.
I guess my ultimate point is this: If you aren't interested in single males, or single females, or couples, whatever your version of this lifestyle excludes, use the tools built into the website and overlook them!
SEXYUSCFAN wrote:
I would just like to say to all the Single Males out there New and Old. The bootycall posting area of this site is not for SM's . If a couple wants a single male they have a stable full to choose from. Stop flooding the Bootycall Postings with desperate attempts to get laid. It is annoying and classless. Learn the the lifestyle is about before you join a site like this thinking that it is just a place to find hot sluts that want cock.. cause it isn't. No one cares its your day off and your horny? lol.. With that said. If the SM's don't start learning the lifestyle they might just remove us all from the site. And please also stop getting in the chat room on cam and asking every single person on if they want to see you jerk your cock,. NO ONE DOES....
After reading your post, as well as all the responses to it, I have a somewhat novel idea that just might work.
(yeah, I know - it's really out there, but............)
How about if we let EVERYBODY decide for THEMSELF what they find annoying and/or classless or not?
I've read the rules and regulations for Swingular multiple times, and I swear I have never seen ANYTHING that indicates, as you profess to know so factually, that "The bootycall posting area of this site is not for SM's".
Yeah, I'm a Single Male (under this screen name at least), but this is NOT a defense of Single Males in ANY way, shape or form.
Rather, it has to do with what's right and wrong.
Right is letting everyone make their own decisions.
Wrong is some Carnival Barker standing on a pulpit and pointing out to everyone how wrong they are.
Ohhhh Nooo no no....Can't have single guys posting booty calls...no sireeee!
Next thing you know..some girl will will actually reply to one..and they will be off having fun on their own..minding their own business..and not including us. Can't have that...nope...want to keep the "girl pool" all to ourselves...for sure!!!
Next thing you know..some girl will will actually reply to one..and they will be off having fun on their own..minding their own business..and not including us. Can't have that...nope...want to keep the "girl pool" all to ourselves...for sure!!!
This is Lia...specifically.
Single males?...hmm..I've had plenty of single males over the past 5 years who make their pointless attempts at hooking up with me and or my husband in a three way scenario. Granted, I am about as adventurous as you can get. I have no specific problem with the single guy hitting on me, but the drama that tends to wrap itself around me after is just something I don't need or want. I was very into a single guy a couple of years back and he did actually become one of my best friends to this day and is now married, but that, in itself, was riddled in drama created by nosy, big mouthed people who always want to start shit instead of minding their own business. If you decide you like someone for a while and are seen with them more than not, people say you are "exclusive" and try to put false damage on your marital status. Get a life, assholes.
So...single males?...Enjoy yourselves...be respectful...and don't get too excited thinking you're every married couples answer to their failed marriage..swingers, when they are stable, are out there for fun. We may want the occasional single, we may not. It's about choice. My choice, at this time, is to refrain from said single guy, lol...but kudos to those of you "gettin some"...it's all in fun. Or at least it's supposed to be.
Single males?...hmm..I've had plenty of single males over the past 5 years who make their pointless attempts at hooking up with me and or my husband in a three way scenario. Granted, I am about as adventurous as you can get. I have no specific problem with the single guy hitting on me, but the drama that tends to wrap itself around me after is just something I don't need or want. I was very into a single guy a couple of years back and he did actually become one of my best friends to this day and is now married, but that, in itself, was riddled in drama created by nosy, big mouthed people who always want to start shit instead of minding their own business. If you decide you like someone for a while and are seen with them more than not, people say you are "exclusive" and try to put false damage on your marital status. Get a life, assholes.
So...single males?...Enjoy yourselves...be respectful...and don't get too excited thinking you're every married couples answer to their failed marriage..swingers, when they are stable, are out there for fun. We may want the occasional single, we may not. It's about choice. My choice, at this time, is to refrain from said single guy, lol...but kudos to those of you "gettin some"...it's all in fun. Or at least it's supposed to be.
Everyone should have the right to post. Scroll past it if there is no interest. Simple. I'm mostly disappointed that they don't show cock. he he To each his/her own. Nothing wrong with single guys as long as they are respectful and we've met several who are. It can't be any worse than the married men who pretend to be their wives/girlfriends when I put a booty call up specifically searching for women. Let's all stop taking things so seriously, play safe and enjoy the lifestyle. Sheesh!
Mrs. Utcplbif
Mrs. Utcplbif
I do not see why a SM can not post a Booty Call. It is part of the site and as such should be open for all to use. It would let people see who is looking and would be a place to start looking if they are looking for a SM.
Lol, thats prolly why you don't hear to much about Jesus' later life. After that whole water to wine trick, that guy could have had some serious play!
I have found that some of the single males that post on there arnt single at all. Take me for instance. I am the male half of a couple. My wife has her own profile on here to. You shouldnt assume that just cause it says single male that it is. And I know a few single males that we hang out quite a bit with and are very respectful and alot of fun to be around. We are on here to meet great people and have some really good friends on here. We wouldn't trade our experiences from here for anything. To all our friends on here that we have meet with and those who we just talk to, Thank you for being you.
And for those who just come on here to cause problems, I am sorry for the things that have gone wrong in your life that made you that way. Just leave the rest of us alone and let us live our lifes the way we want to. You have no place trying to tell others what is right and wrong in their version of the lifestyle. Everyone is different and it should stay that way, Otherwise it would be really boring.
And for those who just come on here to cause problems, I am sorry for the things that have gone wrong in your life that made you that way. Just leave the rest of us alone and let us live our lifes the way we want to. You have no place trying to tell others what is right and wrong in their version of the lifestyle. Everyone is different and it should stay that way, Otherwise it would be really boring.
Wow now ain't this a mess?? Question, what if you were married and have become accustom to meeting with singles and couples for years and all of a sudden you divorce and still want to be a part of the life style. If you have paid for the service and the serives allows both women, men, both the married and single to use the sight so be it. Question again, when a woma post something looking for female only is there a complaint? If a male is looking for male is the a complaint? I say the doors swing both waysand let everyone use the site according. If there is a single male looking for a good time or bithday wishes, hot tubbing or just looking for friendship, let them be. If you don't need or want that persons offer, move on. Isn't it that simple. I think if anyone really had a complaint it should be no one. Cant we all get along?
Is it slightly annoying that the same SM's are always on the booty call because the have the day off and are looking for fun? Sure, I always have to wonder how they get so much time off work lol
Is it slightly annoying that the same male half's are always on there cuz they have a hall pass? Sure
Is it worth getting all worked up over, starting a thread and fueling the fire on an already touchy subject? I don't think so!
Easy solution, just ignore what annoy's you, there are much larger things in life to worry about! Instead of worrying about what irrites me, I find I'm a much happier person if I concentrate on what I enjoy and what brings me pleasure
This site has no restrictions on who can be here or who can post anywhere because everybody is looking for something different, that's what makes it so fun and exciting. So find something that trips your happy trigger and have fun!
Kisses,
Naugh-ty
Is it slightly annoying that the same male half's are always on there cuz they have a hall pass? Sure
Is it worth getting all worked up over, starting a thread and fueling the fire on an already touchy subject? I don't think so!
Easy solution, just ignore what annoy's you, there are much larger things in life to worry about! Instead of worrying about what irrites me, I find I'm a much happier person if I concentrate on what I enjoy and what brings me pleasure
This site has no restrictions on who can be here or who can post anywhere because everybody is looking for something different, that's what makes it so fun and exciting. So find something that trips your happy trigger and have fun!
Kisses,
Naugh-ty
NAUGHTYGIRL101 wrote:
Is it slightly annoying that the same SM's are always on the booty call because the have the day off and are looking for fun? Sure, I always have to wonder how they get so much time off work lol Is it slightly annoying that the same male half's are always on there cuz they have a hall pass? Sure Is it worth getting all worked up over, starting a thread and fueling the fire on an already touchy subject? I don't think so! Easy solution, just ignore what annoy's you, there are much larger things in life to worry about! Instead of worrying about what irrites me, I find I'm a much happier person if I concentrate on what I enjoy and what brings me pleasure
SMOOOOOOCH!!!!!
SEXYUSCFAN wrote:
I would just like to say to all the Single Males out there New and Old. The bootycall posting area of this site is not for SM's . If a couple wants a single male they have a stable full to choose from. Stop flooding the Bootycall Postings with desperate attempts to get laid. It is annoying and classless. Learn the the lifestyle is about before you join a site like this thinking that it is just a place to find hot sluts that want cock.. cause it isn't. No one cares its your day off and your horny? lol.. With that said. If the SM's don't start learning the lifestyle they might just remove us all from the site. And please also stop getting in the chat room on cam and asking every single person on if they want to see you jerk your cock,. NO ONE DOES....
What are you the voice of a single male??? Wow lets hope not!!!
Really...? it's entertaining to see what some Jack Wagons will post. Everyone doesn't like the same thing and that's what makes it interesting. Single males do serve a purpose, as does single females and couples... Perhaps some people need to figure out where they fit in, or perhaps don't. I've met some very nice couples and females who do seek discretionary meetings. But simply, thank you for making your own point.
Kindest regards,
Alan
Kindest regards,
Alan
HOTFIRELOVERS wrote:
What are you the voice of a single male??? Wow lets hope not!!!
He is definitely the voice of "a" single male, but by no means "The" collective voice of single males.
He just wanted some attention, and he got it.
I must have been offline when SEXYUSCFAN got appointed webmaster. We are all equal on this site. If the management wants to make booty call page for couples only they know how to it. I'd be too embarrassed to make such a post.
THOUGHTGARDEN wrote:HOTFIRELOVERS wrote:He is definitely the voice of "a" single male, but by no means "The" collective voice of single males.
What are you the voice of a single male??? Wow lets hope not!!!
lol .....hugs to thought garden!!!!
I agree with you 100% USCFAN. The time has come for us to stand up and unite. It's time to abolish sex slavery by eliminating every single male on this site. I'll take the lukewarm water pistol and you take the cat dancer, let's do this!
well you what the single males paid to be on this site too and i do remember seeing something that said lifetime membership so i don't think they can get rid of all the single males on here.But there are good points on both sides of this topic.I as a single male have posted on the booty call list maybe 3 times in the last few years but i have responded to many request to only get nothing not even a no thank you or even a f%#$ off.this site seem to only want to bash the single males.I am on here to make friends witch i have done and have fun and from time to time hook up with someone.I have played with several couples that enjoy the company of a single male.
VLADTHEIMPALER wrote:
Hey wait a minute... What about Jesus?.....
Can we all just agree to not discuss Jesus on a sex site....i have this disturbing secret. I think the pics of him are HOT and I'm sure I'm going to hell over it.
okay i admit i have not read all the post here..But wtf!! If people don't like a SM bc then move the fuck on. It's not like SM are personal emailing you and if they are.. well post a new forum with the appropiate subject. BC are for everyone.. especially SM, hell it's the hardest for us and thats no secret.
Personaly the BC list as been postive for me and many others and yes couples do like SM too (yes it's true) So back off haters, no one is bothering you and kiss my overly tan ass (ouch i burned it)
Personaly the BC list as been postive for me and many others and yes couples do like SM too (yes it's true) So back off haters, no one is bothering you and kiss my overly tan ass (ouch i burned it)
Bob Denver isnt allowed to post on BC either! Sheesh!
NAUGHTYGIRL101 wrote:
Is it slightly annoying that the same SM's are always on the booty call because the have the day off and are looking for fun? Sure, I always have to wonder how they get so much time off work lol
Is it slightly annoying that the same male half's are always on there cuz they have a hall pass? Sure
Is it worth getting all worked up over, starting a thread and fueling the fire on an already touchy subject? I don't think so!
Easy solution, just ignore what annoy's you, there are much larger things in life to worry about! Instead of worrying about what irrites me, I find I'm a much happier person if I concentrate on what I enjoy and what brings me pleasure
This site has no restrictions on who can be here or who can post anywhere because everybody is looking for something different, that's what makes it so fun and exciting. So find something that trips your happy trigger and have fun!
Kisses,
Naugh-ty
Agreed. Perhaps the OP meant for it to be some helpful advise. If you ALWAYS(or very nearly) have a BC up it makes folks wonder why. Are you not getting any takers? Are you THAT repulsive? Do you have a job? Do you really have THAT much money that you don't have to work? Do you have a perpetual "hall pass" because not even your spouse who is supposed to love and enjoy your company finds you so repulsive that they would rather you be gone? When one is seen to be looking all the time, these are some of the questions that folks start to ask themselves. Fair? No, but who promised you that life would be. Right? Perhaps. But hey, we have the freedom to ask ourselves such questions. So yes put up that BC every day if that's your thing, but perhaps you would have better success if you didn't.
There's also a possibility the original poster is trying to suck up to all the couples by portraying himself as being unlike the typical, dreaded Single Male.
PICK ME, PICK ME - I'M DIFFERENT!!!
It's the old ploy of make everyone around you look bad and you'll shine by comparison.
Oh, and by the way:
I definately WAS promised that life would be fair - I have it in my contract.
Now - if I could just find that damned contract.
PICK ME, PICK ME - I'M DIFFERENT!!!
It's the old ploy of make everyone around you look bad and you'll shine by comparison.
Oh, and by the way:
I definately WAS promised that life would be fair - I have it in my contract.
Now - if I could just find that damned contract.
Well its a good ploy for him...cause the post started off good haha...So whatever his game is he knows how to get himself noticed over the 500 other single men
Another single male bash! Gawd, I'm tired of it.
Some women, couples and men like to see naked men on cam. If you don't want to watch, turn it off.
I enjoy nudity period.
As for the booty call, why discriminate with anyone?
I thought discrimination was illegal these days.
Some women, couples and men like to see naked men on cam. If you don't want to watch, turn it off.
I enjoy nudity period.
As for the booty call, why discriminate with anyone?
I thought discrimination was illegal these days.
It is - everywhere except the street where SEXYUSCFAN lives.
Isn't that why you get the option to view cams? Seems pretty evident that you get to decide what/who you watch...
i have had some luck on the booty call...met a great fun gal here on the site... Just my two cents..
NOT FOR US.... Just sayin
We would consider a BC from a bisexual SM. Why do straight SMs look for couples when they're only interested in her?
LOVE wrote:
We would consider a BC from a bisexual SM. Why do straight SMs look for couples when they're only interested in her?
You said a mouth full there !
LOVE wrote:
We would consider a BC from a bisexual SM. Why do straight SMs look for couples when they're only interested in her?
Because not every couple looking for a SM has a bisexual male.
The same reason a straight female looks for couples when she's only sexually interested in him. You are simply borrowing something that obviously doesn't belong to you on a temporary basis and then returning it without the cost/drama of dealing with being in a relationship. You get what you need, he gets something different, said couple talks about it later which hopefully lead to them having some major hot sex and the next day I then send a text to him thanking him for spending time with me and one to her thanking her for her generosity.
However I am with you on the whole bisexual male...single or couple. That. Is. Just. Hot.
However I am with you on the whole bisexual male...single or couple. That. Is. Just. Hot.
JONJOY17 wrote:
Wow! I think this topic went way off course. Wasn't it really about flooding the BC list? We posted once before looking for a couple, I will say we definitely had more sm reply than couples, but it didn't really bother us, we just ignored them. My suggestion, and it's just a suggestion don't hammer me! Maybe get a couple free BC postings a week, and then charge for additional postings? Something like that... Just an idea
If im not mistaking, there is a setting one can chose to filter whoever, SM, SF, or Couples.
y dont we let this post die.....there is a button for filtration on there so u can see exactly what ur looking for.. i.e. single males, couples, or females...so lets stop bashing and just click the one simple button so everyone can stop bitching back and forth
and why is that. I have posted one in 5 months. and it was for boating on the lake. Not just"free today wanna play."
SLCSEXADDICT wrote:LOVE wrote:
We would consider a BC from a bisexual SM. Why do straight SMs look for couples when they're only interested in her?
Because not every couple looking for a SM has a bisexual male.
Exactly. Mark likes to watch me with some strange. We only invite straight males ever.
I don't see anything wrong with single males using the booty call list. I surf thru it to see if there are any single males of interest looking to hook up before I start blind emailing people at random.
totally disagree with this. We might not be looking for sm but if we were it would be nice to know where to look. that being said the main reason I disagree is that this lifestyle is about freedom and for someone who acts like they know all about it and claim that other people don't they sure want to put limitations on things just like people who disagree with this lifestyle in general.
BADBEHAVIOR wrote:
totally disagree with this. We might not be looking for sm but if we were it would be nice to know where to look. that being said the main reason I disagree is that this lifestyle is about freedom and for someone who acts like they know all about it and claim that other people don't they sure want to put limitations on things just like people who disagree with this lifestyle in general.
Well said. Instead of complaining I suggest we all simply learn how to use the filters that admin provides for us.
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
The same reason a straight female looks for couples when she's only sexually interested in him. You are simply borrowing something that obviously doesn't belong to you on a temporary basis and then returning it without the cost/drama of dealing with being in a relationship. You get what you need, he gets something different, said couple talks about it later which hopefully lead to them having some major hot sex and the next day I then send a text to him thanking him for spending time with me and one to her thanking her for her generosity.
However I am with you on the whole bisexual male...single or couple. That. Is. Just. Hot.
Thank you for actually answering my question.
In the land of Love, SM's of all varieties are in great abundance. I guess it never occurred to me that one might actually have to go hunting.
BLACKSLC wrote:
I think someone is trying to score brownie points. Haaaaa The booty call list is for everyone on this site. As we have all learned, there is a need/want for everyone on this site.
think black is onto something here.
So Im a SM and I want pussy, Who's down to fuck? Wrong forum/arena?
SEXYUSCFAN: don't speak for me, don't make it seem like you are the only good single male out there..in my view this is your attempt at trying to look good in front of all the couples out there. Stop bashing on the rest of us to try to make yourself look better.
If you don't like the BC list, don't use it. If you don't want to look at a guy in the chat room, don't hit the camera button for them...not that I get on the cam and jerk off in the chat room but just saying...oh and by the way, there are a lot of guys of "couples" doing that too..
A better way to get noticd by couples is talking to them and being nice and getting to know them...
why don't you let everyone talk to who they want to talk to and enjoy what they want to enjoy..who made you the swinging rule maker?
If you don't like the BC list, don't use it. If you don't want to look at a guy in the chat room, don't hit the camera button for them...not that I get on the cam and jerk off in the chat room but just saying...oh and by the way, there are a lot of guys of "couples" doing that too..
A better way to get noticd by couples is talking to them and being nice and getting to know them...
why don't you let everyone talk to who they want to talk to and enjoy what they want to enjoy..who made you the swinging rule maker?
Heck my Mr said go find a sm to have fun with and tell me later,,heehehee,,, ummm, so where would I find them if they didn't post to the BC list or I hadn't already met them,,, on occasion we like single males and it's our choice,, this site gives us freedom and the choice to do what we want, when we want..... don't want someone else making it for us, just saying "if it don't float your boat, then bail" But by all means I don't want a flood of emails from sm,,but I'm always looking for a "few good men" Just wished my work schedule would give me some freedom,,,
yawn
mmmmm....."a few good men"......no kidding! All at once preferably. LOL
Last time I checked, Swingular is for singles, couples, straight, bis, and gays. Anyone can post what they are looking for at that particular moment. But feel free to bitch if someone tries to bring goats, children, roofies, or IRS agents who work part time as clowns. Those freaks need to be hung, drawn, and quartered.
Last time I checked, Swingular is for singles, couples, straight, bis, and gays. Anyone can post what they are looking for at that particular moment. But feel free to bitch if someone tries to bring goats, children, roofies, or IRS agents who work part time as clowns. Those freaks need to be hung, drawn, and quartered.
I thought we had the hole SM thing figured out?
1. If you want to come to the party bring a girl with you!
2. Don't be pushy or rude!
3. Be happy with what little you get!
Simple!
If my woman wants a single guy she can walk to the 7/11 in a tight skirt and a tube top. There will be a line down the block before I know it.
1. If you want to come to the party bring a girl with you!
2. Don't be pushy or rude!
3. Be happy with what little you get!
Simple!
If my woman wants a single guy she can walk to the 7/11 in a tight skirt and a tube top. There will be a line down the block before I know it.
SEXYUSCFAN wrote:
and why is that. I have posted one in 5 months. and it was for boating on the lake. Not just"free today wanna play."
So then you abused the BOOTY CALL then didn't you? Booty call isn't, hey lets hang out on a boat and chill out technically...What is your issue with someone using it to get laid, if you don't like it, just shut it and move on for god's sake, but don't tell us how the hell to use the site.
For the record, I have not used the BC I don't think lol...But you just bashed males for using it and then you used it...
what if i'm on a boat. on a boat. what if i'm on a motherfucking boat?
can i post a booty call if i'm looking for fuck a mermaid??
can i post a booty call if i'm looking for fuck a mermaid??
HELLO_KITTY12984 wrote:
what if i'm on a boat. on a boat. what if i'm on a motherfucking boat?
can i post a booty call if i'm looking for fuck a mermaid??
There are mermaids on the booty call?
Where have I been?
LOL
I was gonna go into a rant about cry babies and idiots on this thread but instead, I will use this as opportunity...in back in utah tonight.Any single ladies or couples wanna fuck?
JDTRUCKA66 wrote:
I was gonna go into a rant about cry babies and idiots on this thread but instead, I will use this as opportunity...in back in utah tonight.Any single ladies or couples wanna fuck?
only if its on a boat and you post it in the booty call section.
Done. Im on the list! Take a look lol