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I recently had a conversation on this
Very rarely do we bring it up before sex, there would be no need to have to get revved up for sex cause everytime i look at my partner she makes me horny(no talking required)look at the pictures for proof...From time to time we talk about what we have done or what are fantasies are but it usually starts as texts while we are at work and then it make us horny ...but as for everyday we just enjoy each other...but everybody has their own thing so who can say what is too much...but we have also only played a handful of times
I think CANDJ23 said it pretty well. We might text while we're away from each other, but it usually ends up as action when we get back together. Other than that we enjoy each other when alone, and let our experiences outside be what they are.
HOTTIENAUGHTYLILBLND wrote:

No talk needed for one another not that their is not any dirty talk during sex mostly my hubby to me but as said I dont need to do anything to get him going he always wants it from me ... He has to wait six weeks to get it for now I just had surgery but I still help him as much as I can for now . LOL .


What a trooper! ;)
Hey Hottie,
I learned a long time ago that a woman is so multi talented that a few weeks without the main course is only a small detour. The Mrs. has had several surgeries and procedures in the past that has put her out of commission for weeks so we know the routine, as a matter of fact it was her OB that reminded us of a lot of that. He was an awesome guy! But good luck on the recovery.
Oh, and as far as the fantasy talk goes it is fun to have some of it from time to time. I (the Mr.) could probably go on with it a lot longer than she could and it is fun to talk about a time when she got with another guy (damn it only happened once) and I sat back and watched. It was a lot of fun to compare notes or just hear about what it felt like for her. BUT, everytime we do that it is good for a second round of hot sex.
Hey Hottie,
I learned a long time ago that a woman is so multi talented that a few weeks without the main course is only a small detour. The Mrs. has had several surgeries and procedures in the past that has put her out of commission for weeks so we know the routine, as a matter of fact it was her OB that reminded us of a lot of that. He was an awesome guy! But good luck on the recovery.
If I understand the question, you are asking about how much sex talk is focused on third parties joining in. Once in a while we will talk about secret fantasies we have, but rarely.

I suppose that it would be easy to become numb to our partners if all we ever thought about were other people.
yes curvy, we have sex talk and play but it is like with her toys and or real life toys, lol sometimes it is fun to add and sometimes it is fun to have just us and be just us. kind of the how we make love and the other is more for sex or just fucking. 2 and a half cents worth there