Just wanted to give a shout out to Jay and Tiff for putting on another HUGE SUCCESS!! The party was GREAT! We had a ton of fun and met some cute new friends! Unfortunately we had to leave a lil early so we didn't get to go to any after parties but I'm sure they were fabulous too. Two thumbs up!! Best party we've been to this year!
(I was in the hot pink and white plaid shirt w/ the white mini) Hit us up if we talked and met!
Sassy
(I was in the hot pink and white plaid shirt w/ the white mini) Hit us up if we talked and met!
Sassy
Hey Sassy, we didn't meet but we definitely enjoyed watching you show off!
Wow! that was one hell of a night. What a blast for our first time! Oh and the afterparty was out of this world 4 hot women and 4 lucky guys!? Damn!
So sad we had to miss this party...I had the cutest cowboy boots...See you all at the party in June we hope!
REALWOOD wrote:
Wow! that was one hell of a night. What a blast for our first time! Oh and the afterparty was out of this world 4 hot women and 4 lucky guys!? Damn!
Ha, maybe we left too soon. grin
good turn out lots of sexy ladies there. ..very friendly crowd.
Yes, what a great time, we absolutely had a blast. Thanks to all of you that we meet, we hope that we get to see you soon. Im still smiling. So many hot people so little time
AVATARS wrote:REALWOOD wrote:Ha, maybe we left too soon. grin
Wow! that was one hell of a night. What a blast for our first time! Oh and the afterparty was out of this world 4 hot women and 4 lucky guys!? Damn!
AVATARS, Lets Fish......
We had a great time and met some fantastic people! As usual, I think we spaced a few screen names; definitely drop us a line if we chatted.
And of course, any excuse to pull out some of our glow-ey costumes is a good one
And of course, any excuse to pull out some of our glow-ey costumes is a good one
Great party, met lots of great people. Unfortunately, we arent good at remembering names haha.
I had a lot of fun. It was great meeting you sassy. You are even more beautiful in person. I look forward to other parties.
GREAT PARTY!!! This was our first party and everyone was so nice. We met some fun people we would like to met again. We had to leave an after party to soon with out saying thanks. So thank for the invite 344 and everyone there.
Indeed...it was a great party. Kudos to Jay and Tiff and all of those who assisted in bringing together a wonderful blend of people and experiences!
~J
~J
(Swingular and Elite work very hard to put on these monthly events for it's members, and that's just what they are. We do these so that all the members have a place to be safe, fun and themselves. These are your parties, and you tell us how they go or what you want.)
I beg to differ that these parties are for you members, when some were booted off the RSVP list, because they were not your type of bodies that you wanted at the party, I don't believe that's all members, just because one person is not someone's type they might be someone else's type.
I beg to differ that these parties are for you members, when some were booted off the RSVP list, because they were not your type of bodies that you wanted at the party, I don't believe that's all members, just because one person is not someone's type they might be someone else's type.
We had so much fun and liked the location a lot... Specially so close to the hotel that we didn't have to drive afterwards giving us a chance to drink as much as we could! Great Party T&J, keep up the great work!
ps. Great after-parties indeed!
ps. Great after-parties indeed!
Really enjoyed ourselves with our friends and new ones we met. Very hot indeed!!!
sara n josh
sara n josh
The party was great. We had a lot of fun.
We did not get a reason for deleting the RSVP, but a friend that got the location email was told not to let out the location so that they could have their types at the party, hey it's ok, but it should be stated in the event that HWP couples only or something to that affect.
TIABEAR wrote:VEGASGACOUPLE wrote:
(Swingular and Elite work very hard to put on these monthly events for it's members, and that's just what they are. We do these so that all the members have a place to be safe, fun and themselves. These are your parties, and you tell us how they go or what you want.) I beg to differ that these parties are for you members, when some were booted off the RSVP list, because they were not your type of bodies that you wanted at the party, I don't believe that's all members, just because one person is not someone's type they might be someone else's type.
Interesting comment...
If members RSVP's were deleted, it would be nice to know the reason-afterall, if it's a Swingular party and they're paid members, they should be allowed to attend, right? And how are you supposed to know what parties you're allowed to attend if your RSVP gets deleted? Do you get a reply with your RSVP deletion?
However... in all fairness, having thrown our own party, we can understand not feeling that certain couples will fit in with the "crowd" you're attempting to form...
Ok, I have to be totally honest here. I ALMOST wish our RSVP had been deleted before we paid $25 for a pretty crappy birthday..... YES we did meet A FEW and I mean FEW nice couples, we saw 2 couples who we were VERY happy to see.(hopefully you know who you are) But for the most part it seemed like everyone wanted to be in their own little click. I don't know if it is just this group or what... We have been to 3 other parties and had a BLAST!! But we feel like we wasted $25. We ended up leaving pretty early (around midnight) because we just didn't feel like we fit in with the clicks... I felt like I was back in high school...
On the plus side, we were pretty happy with the hotel and its location!!! We liked that we were able to just walk/run back (darn rain) We enjoyed watching some of you show off
Some pretty hot bodies out there!!!! We could tell that T&J put a LOT of time and effort into this party. Fun location for the theme, I don't think you could have done any better with that! It was nice that the music wasn't too loud!! Hopefully we can make it to another party and have a better experience!We had a great time as usual! It was nice to see old friends and meet alot of new ones, we arent good at remembering names so if we chatted and you want to talk more send us a message, Thanks again to Tiff and Jay
Another amazing elite party!!!!!!!!!! And thanks so much for having a photographer at the party. They just keep getting better. Can't wait for the next one. 
VEGASGACOUPLE wrote:
We did not get a reason for deleting the RSVP, but a friend that got the location email was told not to let out the location so that they could have their types at the party, hey it's ok, but it should be stated in the event that HWP couples only or something to that affect.
That's not what it says on the invitation. It says to please not reveal the location to anybody extra for privacy reasons. Unless you have someone you know that you think really really neeeds to check out the party and you think they can fit in and follow rules as well. Says NOTHING about body types whatsoever.
Also, this party is not "hwp" couples only. there are awesome people of all sorts of body types that attend. if you'd go, you'd know.
for all you people know, the "deleted" from the rsvp list is a site glitch. i've had the site glitch on my profile and clean out my entire friends list. doesn't mean i'm being a jerkhat and cleaning out "ugly" people. it means its a glitch.
anywho... that's my 37 cents about it. personally, i would write a calm and respectful email to tiff&jay and ask them directly about stuff like this. you might get an answer you want, might not, hey, maybe people are busy and you wont' get a response at all, but at least you could say you tried and went about it nicely as opposed to the responses being posted here.
VEGASGACOUPLE wrote:
We did not get a reason for deleting the RSVP, but a friend that got the location email was told not to let out the location so that they could have their types at the party, hey it's ok, but it should be stated in the event that HWP couples only or something to that affect.
That's not what it says on the invitation. It says to please not reveal the location to anybody extra for privacy reasons. Unless you have someone you know that you think really really neeeds to check out the party and you think they can fit in and follow rules as well. Says NOTHING about body types whatsoever.
Also, this party is not "hwp" couples only. there are awesome people of all sorts of body types that attend. if you'd go, you'd know.
for all you people know, the "deleted" from the rsvp list is a site glitch. i've had the site glitch on my profile and clean out my entire friends list. doesn't mean i'm being a jerkhat and cleaning out "ugly" people. it means its a glitch.
anywho... that's my 37 cents about it. personally, i would write a calm and respectful email to tiff&jay and ask them directly about stuff like this. you might get an answer you want, might not, hey, maybe people are busy and you wont' get a response at all, but at least you could say you tried and went about it nicely as opposed to the responses being posted here. *shrugs*
Oh. For the next party, I vote we invite some of those waiters. Yup. truefacts. 
HELLO_KITTY12984 wrote:
Oh. For the next party, I vote we invite some of those waiters. Yup. truefacts.
That was hilarious!!! There was a young blonde one and he smirked so much I think he joined in the fun halfway through!!! lol
Loved meeting alot of new people. Very great night for us!!!
sara
HOTFIRELOVERS wrote:HELLO_KITTY12984 wrote:
Oh. For the next party, I vote we invite some of those waiters. Yup. truefacts.
That was hilarious!!! There was a young blonde one and he smirked so much I think he joined in the fun halfway through!!! lol
Loved meeting alot of new people. Very great night for us!!!
sara
haha. i loved the blonde fauxhawked one. i teased him all night long. :P
We were VERY entertained by the waiters!!!!! We were laughing so hard at their reactions!!!
Thanks ABC We met you at the Vday party You definitely are great at making ppl feel welcome and at ease!!!
We met you at the Vday party You definitely are great at making ppl feel welcome and at ease!!! ABCCOUPLE wrote:
This can happen often at any party actually. I'm not sure there is a surefire way to overcome it, but I often find that when I feel that people are being click"ish" it's sometimes my own problem. Looking at it later I realized I felt a little insecure that evening, or I just didn't put myself out there either. When a couple is new to these parties it is tough at times. Most people are naturally comfortable with people they've met before. It would be nice if some of the "more experienced" couples would put themselves out a little more, but people in general are shy. So don't be afraid, jump in there and let them know you wanted to meet them and say hello. People are also attracted to people who are happy and having a great time despite who is talking to them at the moment.
Not saying we are experienced but we love going around and randomly introduce ourselves and start talking to different people. We have never had someone tell us to go away and for us it makes the party that much more fun.
Sounds like we missed a good one 
We will definately be at the next one. I LOVED the Arabian Nights one.
Thanks to Jay and Tif for all they do!!
We will definately be at the next one. I LOVED the Arabian Nights one.Thanks to Jay and Tif for all they do!!
Nice try Tiabear, But I don't think any one will admit "Why This Happens". I think We must just assume that the "Computer Fairy's" Take some of the Invites and Wisk them away to "Never, Never land". Its sad but true!
FUZZYANDJUGGS wrote:TIABEAR wrote:
Okay but no one has still addressed why RSVP's get deleted...
And moreso, why they're deleted if an event is advertised as a Swingular event? Seriously, it just seems really unprofessional, especially if those whose RSVP's were deleted even went to the trouble to email and find out why, and then were (again) snubbed. I realize most of us haven't had this happen, but putting yourself in this couples shoes, or any others, it would be nice for those who lead these parties to at least speak up and address the issue.
Hello from the "computer fairy"
I am the party host for the Elite parties and am the only one that can delete RSVP's for my parties. I delete them for several reasons from the Single male limit being reached to people that have violated party rules at previous events, to just trying to get the best mix of people I can with the amount of people we can have in the specific location for fire code.As for these being open to the public. The Elite & Swingular events are a combined effort of Rob (Swingular) and Elite, but I handle everything to do with the parties in Utah. When it comes down to it they are still Under the Elite Utah Parties Terms and conditions. I mean come on people, We all do our best (all the local party companies) to throw fun ,safe, and successful parties for the specific group that each party company attracts and cater to. As for returning email. You send me an email 3 weeks out of the month and you're going to get a response, but the week of the parties I am incredibly busy getting everything lined up for everyone. Not to mention that week I get between 50 60 emails a day in regards to the parties. I just don't have the time to respond to all of them. I'm so glad that nearly everyone that attended had a great time and realizes the hard work, and hours we all poor into these parties to give this great lifestyle and it's members a place to call their own and to kick back, relax, and be ourselves.
I Hope this puts an end to all the questions, and we can move on to what these parties are all about,FUN.
Tiff and Jay
Thanks Computer Fairy
XOXOXXOXOXOOXOXOI bow to you "Oh Great One", Not all Fairy's Would be so gracious to answer back in such a timely manor. Sure Why Not? Now on to the Next Party!
thats it... i quit... lol
There are a lot of things to get bent out of shape about but this is not one of them folks. No one is perfect, give the guy a break. I know how crazy these parties are and sometimes things happen. Some people need to develop a little bit thicker skin and get over it. Plenty of parties in the future everyone.
I really haven't encountered too much exclusivity about these public parties, the only exception being single males. It's pretty difficult to get into a Fantasyer party as a single male and there is a good reason! If you want to go to these parties then bring a date, it's clearly posted in most cases.
As for couples who do not think they are HWP.. damn, has anyone looked at me lately, and I've never been asked to not come to any public parties. But that's probably because Mrs ABC is so gorgeous that they wouldn't dare tell me know
I really haven't encountered too much exclusivity about these public parties, the only exception being single males. It's pretty difficult to get into a Fantasyer party as a single male and there is a good reason! If you want to go to these parties then bring a date, it's clearly posted in most cases.
As for couples who do not think they are HWP.. damn, has anyone looked at me lately, and I've never been asked to not come to any public parties. But that's probably because Mrs ABC is so gorgeous that they wouldn't dare tell me know
Yeah, we all know if mrABC can go to the party..... :P
heehee. lubs yoooou. :P
heehee. lubs yoooou. :P
Well put computer fairy......I agree....on to the next party!!!!!!!!!!!