So who is down to give their significant other a hall pass. I truely enjoy hearing of your experiences. Good or bad?
Thanks
R and G
Thanks
R and G
Nope, not iinto it.. We enjoy our experiences together.
Simples
Simples
We've done hall passes but only for special occasions. Like when one of us is going out of town and going to be meeting people we already know, or for good friends birthday present sort of things.
It worked out great for us recently for the Mr. and we are working on one for me 
But our friends were amazing and she and my hubby have great sexual chemistry and she is above and beyond respectful to me. If all parties involved are comfortable, honest, and respectful, why not? Plus it was so hot to have him tell me everything they did and he couldn't wait to have me after talking about it.
But our friends were amazing and she and my hubby have great sexual chemistry and she is above and beyond respectful to me. If all parties involved are comfortable, honest, and respectful, why not? Plus it was so hot to have him tell me everything they did and he couldn't wait to have me after talking about it.MISPLACEDTXN1969 wrote:
We see no issues with "hall passes". With that beins said, if a couple gives a hall pass, they should have listed in their profile that they "play alone" because it is the same thing.
Mr Misplaced
Exactly. I get emails all the time from male halves of couples that claim that their other half gave them a hall pass and yet when I check their profile it says NO on Play Alone. Yeah. Not gonna happen. I've gotten to the point that in order for me to play alone with the male half his wife better be the one who helps set it up. There might be other single females that have no problem helping some guy cheat, but personally speaking, I subscribe to the the whole "wives make the rules and they are the boss" mentality and you don't disrespect the boss. Period.
LUSCIOUS_74 wrote:
It worked out great for us recently for the Mr. and we are working on one for me
Let us help you with arranging your hallpass. Hope thats not to hypritical willing to aid in the hallpass process but not grant them..
The Simples...
I read the question as..
I didn't read...
I don't think they need to hear if you allow it or not. It reads as though they wanna hear the experiences of those that do. Just sayin'. We've contemplated the Hall Pass thing. I think it's healthy, if you're both secure and consenting. I agree with the fact that, as a couple, both of you should make the other party aware that both of you are consenting to it. No one should be hiding anything because someone's consent might be based on their own version of morality, like the "no cheating" thing.
Don
So who is down to give their significant other a hall pass. I truely enjoy hearing of your experiences. Good or bad?
I didn't read...
So are you or are you not down with hall passes.
I don't think they need to hear if you allow it or not. It reads as though they wanna hear the experiences of those that do.
Just sayin'. We've contemplated the Hall Pass thing. I think it's healthy, if you're both secure and consenting. I agree with the fact that, as a couple, both of you should make the other party aware that both of you are consenting to it. No one should be hiding anything because someone's consent might be based on their own version of morality, like the "no cheating" thing.Don
TRIXIEE wrote:
As I contemplate where I 'fit in' now as a single female, I know I WILL NOT be a home wrecker nor will I participate in a 'cheating spouse' situation.
TRiX
Read my profile. I flat out tell people where I stand with the whole cheating thing. Since I have put that in, "the offers" have cut down considerably. Most people have a don't ask don't tell mentality. Not me. Cheaters do not deserve discretion.
We dont do hall passes, we have an open marriage. We dont actively seek out experiences on our own, and prefer our experiences together. However, we have very busy lives and do not spend every moment together to monitor each other. How boring and tiring this would be. No expectation that one sits home if another is working or doing something else. Occasions have arose where one or the other wanted to play with a friend, or couple on their own, and the other wasnt available. Or the single person was not open to playing with a couple. These have all worked out great, and we have awesome stories to share with each other, which usually creates a week or more of rabid bunny sex in our bed 
I think the basic understanding of a hall pass, is that it is issued for a period of time, one night, one encounter, with the expectation that the individual using it will be with another partner. And that the person receiving this will not have repercussions of anger or hostility for "going alone". We dont agree that our partners sexuality and acts they may partake of are that of our own personal discretion. We are individuals, and do not control each other, even within the confines of marriage. Fidelity, of course is expected within our marriage, but we also think that fidelity is not in itself tied to sexual acts.
Awesome party last night, btw. Thanks for having us.
Awesome party last night, btw. Thanks for having us.
The thought of going out with someone on a "date" is not appealing to me at all (the female side of swingsets). I enjoy my spouse on many different levels so I don't see myself being with someone alone. My favorite part of this lifestyle is being able to say this all out loud ;o I like swinging together . . . it's such a turn on for me. The rare times I've been with someone alone at a party just doesn't seem as fun to me without my hubby and his partner. Just me . . . of course . . .
SEXGODSXXX wrote:
we are looking to have asexy girl come play with us on june 1st it's rachel's b-day and she want's another girl and me pleasuring her all night if you can help let us know
Join the waiting list.. lol
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SWINGSETS wrote:
The thought of going out with someone on a "date" is not appealing to me at all (the female side of swingsets). I enjoy my spouse on many different levels so I don't see myself being with someone alone. My favorite part of this lifestyle is being able to say this all out loud ;o I like swinging together . . . it's such a turn on for me. The rare times I've been with someone alone at a party just doesn't seem as fun to me without my hubby and his partner. Just me . . . of course . . .
We feel the same.
Never had and experience like that. Sounds awesome!!! Love some of the couples we have met that play that way. They are awesome. We have been approached many times but feel its not for us as of right now. There are many reasons also why we do not do them. However that does not mean we will not in the years to come. However right now we are completely happy with no hall passes!!!
sara n josh
I still think the question was directed to those that do it, not asking why you don't and giving your judgment on it. Just sayin. They want to know, of you that do, what are the pros and cons. That's how I read it.
I think its a mixed bag. James talking here. It was fun planing it but after all was said and done I found myself being a little insecure. I know me of all people, the perfect male specimen. You women really can have anyone you want any time you want it and since we don't own you we definitely cant make you think what we want you to think. A friend asked me what do i want them (my misses) to think, I guess she was right when she made me realize all i want is to be that person that she chooses everyday. But make no mistake if she chooses poorly I'll be dragging her back by the hair. Just kidding, kinda. If I was going to give any advice only do hall passes with your friends that you both know.
Correct tequilarose. And oh yeah. sorry I havn't gotten back to you as of late.
we do hall passes as long as things are kept fair. so if he gets a hall pass to play then i get one after. we do hall passes because sometimes it can be hard to get 4 people together do to work schedules and kids. with us hall passes work and are alot of fun.
we have done hall passes in the past and will prob continue to do them in the future. yes, its difficult to cooridante 4 people's schedules. yes, its fun to get some one on one time every now and then. yes, they are usually saved for special occasions like when one is out of town. (we just recently each had one when she went out of town on business. she hooked up on the road and I hooked up here at home) we also agree with keeping it fair. If she gets one then I get one. Let me say though that these hall passes are very RARE. we much prefer to play together. we got into this together and definitely prefer to play that way. all in all we've found it to be a very enlightening experience and in my opinion thats what this is all about...trying new things, opening new doors and expanding our horizons. (i call it adding to our resume) as long as there is open and honest communication between husb and wife and both are on the same page as to why you're getting a hall pass, we think they can be a healthy experience.
In two weeks the wife will be out of town for two nights. We both have hall passes but also know the people we may play with. Since it hasn`t happened yet we don`t have a story to tell. We do know the sex between us when we get back together is going to be some of our best ever!
Figured we jump in here. We both have free-passes to go out on our own if we want to, and have had a lot of fun doing it. We wouldn't say its been any more or less fun then when we're out as a couple though, just something a bit dif and very enjoyable. So there you have it.
WEFLY wrote:I want.
Hall Passes - TEQUILAROSE (Don) I so love you, SO direct!
For me, I've had some wonderful experiences that will truly last a lifetime!
One particular gentleman is an amazing lover and I do consider him my friend as well.
HOT, HOT, HOT
I'm hoping you don't mind I share.
We met at the Grand America (blind date) and I knew instantly when I saw him who he was from his photos. Tall, beautiful and such a gentleman.
We talked for about an hour, gazing at each other - his online name was ever so suitable for he truly made me feel as though I were the only woman alive.
I didn't know what to expect but after our conversation I had no doubt I was safe and excused myself to the restroom, called my spouse to let him know all was well.
We drove to his condo, and immediately upon arriving, I felt enveloped in his essence;
Sensual, seductive and not in any type of hurry.
My god it was truly a fantasy come true.
We spent 5 hours exploring each others bodies and mind. Stopping to eat, drink some tea, chat and enjoy some amazing feats of sexuality.
I have NEVER been explored and dominated in such a sensual safe way.
Because I am VERY selective in my choice of men, I don't just jump at any whimsical fancy. Pretty faces are nice but - it's all about how I am made to feel.
If someone is only after a quick fuck or to conquer another pussy - I usually can figure that out in an initial meeting wether on the phone or e-mail. I refuse to feel like a cheap slut who is only there for a man's fulfillment of self gratification.
I expect to be treated with kindness, adoration (I really don't have to be there ya know) and with a huge appetite to fulfill some of my deepest desires.
When all of these items are met, it's truly a lasting experience that both of us can remember.
When I arrive home, I share with my husband my experiences and we both learn new things that only enhance our relationship.
I am not out to find a new love nor am I trying to replace my husband; I am married to the kindest, gentlest, driven man alive (to me anyway.)
He's my best friend and we share everything.
Hall Passes - well... they're rare (sort of) but when I have one - I make sure it was worth every second I'm away from my love!
Incredible story, and exactly what it should be. Just pure pleasure. Thank you for sharing.Can be very fun, and (for us) creates a more craving toward each other later. However, sometimes just saying that we enjoy it at times, can be a GREAT lifestyle filter. Those that are politically against it seem to be the ones that harvest a fair amount of drama, and those that open/neutral to it seem to be pretty rock solid. Not always the case, but interesting none the less.
Hall Passes - TEQUILAROSE (Don) I so love you, SO direct!
Why thank you madam and you are SO hot!
yup love em.
She has an anytime pass Well, actually she doesn't need a pass because she's the teacher. LOL! It's a total turn on for me for her to tell me afterward that she met someone. I'm good with it because I know she's not looking for another relationship. It's purely for the fun and excitement of it. The excitement it brings to our relationship is more than that of being with someone else.
Joe
Well, actually she doesn't need a pass because she's the teacher. LOL! It's a total turn on for me for her to tell me afterward that she met someone. I'm good with it because I know she's not looking for another relationship. It's purely for the fun and excitement of it. The excitement it brings to our relationship is more than that of being with someone else. Joe
depends on situation...as long as the everyone involved is comfortable with it..i see no problem with them
Just curious why this is listed in pictures and not some other area? 
Actually I gave my wife a hall pass with our unicorn that is now in our lives ... she plays with her while I'm around but so far not without me ... we both tend to want to be around and watch LOL
lol thats a good question swinginwithyou ... I just answered it from the front of the home page but yeah why is this in pix fun ??
I gave my wife a hall pass but she hasn't used it yet
ROCKINCOUPLE71 wrote:
If you both are in this lifestyle why the hell do either of you have to have a hall pass. The whole idea for us is to experience this together and get off watching each other with some one else in the same room. Hall pass is not for us.
That is a very strong opinion you have, my answer would be that not everyone feels exactly like you do. I'm in a very close relationship and I would never do anything to jeopordize my marriage. That being said, we enjoy and welcome almost any new experience. I have used my hall pass, now its my wifes turn (we keep it fair, offers?) I'm looking forward to hearing about what a great experience she has. We do play together and love doing it, but we love any new experiance that comes our way. But we respect anyones opinion and aren't judgmental about it.
I'm with Rockin on this one.....
We will NEVER give each other hall passes. We are in this lifestyle TOGETHER and it will stay that way But, thats just us
We will NEVER give each other hall passes. We are in this lifestyle TOGETHER and it will stay that way
But, thats just us ROCKINCOUPLE71 wrote:
If you both are in this lifestyle why the hell do either of you have to have a hall pass. The whole idea for us is to experience this together and get off watching each other with some one else in the same room. Hall pass is not for us.
I agree with this as well, but to each their own. If we have learned anything here, it is that all of us can look at any idea, and see it a thousand ways. We all have our wants/desires, the hard part is finding the mutual interests in those we choose to share them with.
Well said spex
In this community, there's room for every type of swinging from same room soft swap couples to orgie loving fuck the whole room hanging from the light fixture swingers. Only 2 rules.
1. Don't take what you can't give.
2. Stop if it doesn't feel good.
1. Don't take what you can't give.
2. Stop if it doesn't feel good.
Well what happens if giving is your idea of taking? Just lucky?
Sounds like lucky is a good way to describe that. We are in a way still learning about hall passes but at the same time we aren't. I (female) have had them and he loves hearing about them. There is something sexy about telling your S.O. about the naughty things you did with someone else. But he hasn't had a chance yet to have one (wanna be the first?) and that makes me sad because I wanna hear about what he does, but he has to do something first!! Things that are different with another partner what positions felt better or new and things like that. All in all they are a good idea because its human nature to want what you can't/aren't suppossed to have and sharing isn't always going to satisfy that need. But as it has been said what works for us isn't going to work for you all the time
The only way a hall pass could ever work is if the female joins a couple and that couple does the same for us first or after...a swapping of sorts since there is no such thing as a hot single girl that actually plays
I see, alot of anti hall pass comments here.... We do hall passes, Its worked out fine~! It could be said that we (kind of) keep a tit for tat score in our heads but its casual~ PART of our hall pass mentality for us, is due to our occupations & scrdualing. Example: Recent party, She'd like to go because a number of our near & dears are going, And weve specificaly been invited to join them! PROBLEM, Were not physicaly a couple that night... Daddys 1800 miles away in Motor City. & Momma WANTs to go.
Solution: Contact a KNOWN & TRUSTED "Knight of the Relm", Bestow "Punch you in the nose Athority" apon him for the night. He knows hes been charged ultimatly with her safety. therefore, Shes SAFE, She has a beloved Chaperone, Shes WITH friends, and if the party moves elswhere, shes welcome to go! Ill not begrudge my sweetheart an evening out just because it may go there... Shes a big girl, She knows what she wants. She can eat out, or come home for dinner~ She can have her usual, Or She can try a new dish if she cares to. But I KNOW shes going to the restrant! And the Matrede, has been well tiped before she gets there! And this door swings both ways at our house. Works for us!
Solution: Contact a KNOWN & TRUSTED "Knight of the Relm", Bestow "Punch you in the nose Athority" apon him for the night. He knows hes been charged ultimatly with her safety. therefore, Shes SAFE, She has a beloved Chaperone, Shes WITH friends, and if the party moves elswhere, shes welcome to go! Ill not begrudge my sweetheart an evening out just because it may go there... Shes a big girl, She knows what she wants. She can eat out, or come home for dinner~ She can have her usual, Or She can try a new dish if she cares to. But I KNOW shes going to the restrant! And the Matrede, has been well tiped before she gets there! And this door swings both ways at our house. Works for us!
Yes we love it! Hit us up! LnD
I (Mr. LetsGoNuts) have a hall pass under the following conditions, in the words of Mrs.
"He (Mr. LetsGoNuts) escorts another sf or wife-with-a-hall-pass to a lifestyle event, house party, or a private couple to couple meetup where they play as a couple with another couple(s). He is also open to being the second male for a *married couple* in MFM experiences."
One on one encounters are prohibited. This is what works for us.
"He (Mr. LetsGoNuts) escorts another sf or wife-with-a-hall-pass to a lifestyle event, house party, or a private couple to couple meetup where they play as a couple with another couple(s). He is also open to being the second male for a *married couple* in MFM experiences."
One on one encounters are prohibited. This is what works for us.
We started out only playing together. We found that jobs, kids, business and scheduling doesn't always allow us to play together. We have a very strong relationship and don't understan the concept of jealousy ( especially in the lifestyle). However, we do not judge those who do not play solo.
As for fair, we all know the Mrs is going to get more solo play opportunities. But, we still believe in fair play.
My question is, how do I ( Mr. Daisy) put myself out there and avail myself for solo play without appearing as though I am cheating or pretending to have a hall pass?
We are very suspicious of the "Male half has a hall pass" booty calls we see week after week. We have not posted booty calls for solo play for this reason. Mrs. Daisy would love me to find a little hottie that I could meet for lunch or a Saturday afternoon meeting. Is this just s pipe dream or can we make this happen?
As for fair, we all know the Mrs is going to get more solo play opportunities. But, we still believe in fair play.
My question is, how do I ( Mr. Daisy) put myself out there and avail myself for solo play without appearing as though I am cheating or pretending to have a hall pass?
We are very suspicious of the "Male half has a hall pass" booty calls we see week after week. We have not posted booty calls for solo play for this reason. Mrs. Daisy would love me to find a little hottie that I could meet for lunch or a Saturday afternoon meeting. Is this just s pipe dream or can we make this happen?
We both have hall passes, at any time we can make it work, and the interest is there. This is a recent addition to our profile, it has been amazing so far, and we know it can only get better. There is zero jealousy, we love the recap, and we enjoy the experience. We have not really "publicized" that we are available to do so, as we have found our fun with friends we already have made a connection with. We would love to expand this, and just like Mr. Daisies, we don't really find that "advertising" our availability is going to be interpreted the way we want. It is too bad there are not better ways to put yourself out there, both female and male, trust the responses you get, and the result would be people will trust my sexy husband will rock their world, and that the male will respect me (the Mrs.) and not be a douche bag. It is difficult to even put a booty call out there for a couple and get legitimate responses, or just the random "friend" request in hopes we are mind readers.
I think they are great!! Its a win win for everyone involved. I'm single but havnt always been... I love the entire of it.
I have experienced both good and bad encounters with the hall pass so I know exactly what you're saying about being respectful. Not to mention it really just boils down to how you were raised and what type of person you are. That being said id like to let you know that I would enjoy learning more about you both and if it feels right for everyone hopefully the Mr. Would give the Mrs. A hall pass to come to me...
ASSTASTIC2011 wrote:
I have experienced both good and bad encounters with the hall pass so I know exactly what you're saying about being respectful. Not to mention it really just boils down to how you were raised and what type of person you are. That being said id like to let you know that I would enjoy learning more about you both and if it feels right for everyone hopefully the Mr. Would give the Mrs. A hall pass to come to me...
Is this directed to anyone specific? Anyway, I just love your profile name, but I am an "ass" girl
It was directed to you Luscious. Lol thanks and in case you were wandering my profile name is legit... I really am asstastic friend me lets chat if you would like
friend me lets chat if you would like