I've had some conversations with a few various people here, and realize that peoe that swing enjoy sex. We do as well, and may be in the majority, or just plain newbs, but what about the experience? I'm still a youngin in comparison to some here, but I was raised to respect women, and that when it comes to sex, it's about the pleasure. Not just pounding away at the body in front of you...
So I'm curious, are there many out there that seek the experience of the encounter vs. just getting fucked?
So I'm curious, are there many out there that seek the experience of the encounter vs. just getting fucked?
Yes there are many that pleasure with no pounding involved. They become you friends too. Respect is earned in most cases. Plus telling people how you feel will help too in knowing what they expect too.
Everyone is different. So different strokes for different folks. Just be real the way you two are and people will love that!!! (=
sara hotfire
Everyone is different. So different strokes for different folks. Just be real the way you two are and people will love that!!! (=
sara hotfire
I think there is room for any type of sex that two (or more) consenting adults want. I have this fantasy of being seduced into a quickie by a hot, dark, brooding, sexy stranger where flowers, opening doors, small talk have no room. But the first random average Joe to try to attempt that would find his balls up his ass and his dick being used as a straw in my drink.
IRL, I want/need to know that my partner CARES about my needs and actually wants to please me...(yes, it goes both ways) and will treat me like at minimum his partner if not a Goddess (
) Respect, manners, and realizing that I'm more then a cum receptycle will go a LONG way.
There's room for fantasises. Even dirty cum slut ones. But I guess it's how you treat the person right after the orgasm that determines if you're a pig or a decent human being.
xox
Tammy
p.s. only half a cup of coffee in me at this point. my apologies for spelling/grammar errors.
IRL, I want/need to know that my partner CARES about my needs and actually wants to please me...(yes, it goes both ways) and will treat me like at minimum his partner if not a Goddess (
) Respect, manners, and realizing that I'm more then a cum receptycle will go a LONG way. There's room for fantasises. Even dirty cum slut ones. But I guess it's how you treat the person right after the orgasm that determines if you're a pig or a decent human being.
xox
Tammy
p.s. only half a cup of coffee in me at this point. my apologies for spelling/grammar errors.
I have heard that when Casanova was asked about his many "adventures" and how he had been so successful in seducing so many women he responded that he genuinely loved all of them. So yes it can (should and in our case) be more than pound the hell out of the body in front of you, get off and get on your way (although that has some appeal, so long as the getting off is mutual).
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
I think there is room for any type of sex that two (or more) consenting adults want. I have this fantasy of being seduced into a quickie by a hot, dark, brooding, sexy stranger where flowers, opening doors, small talk have no room. But the first random average Joe to try to attempt that would find his balls up his ass and his dick being used as a straw in my drink.
IRL, I want/need to know that my partner CARES about my needs and actually wants to please me...(yes, it goes both ways) and will treat me like at minimum his partner if not a Goddess (
There's room for fantasises. Even dirty cum slut ones. But I guess it's how you treat the person right after the orgasm that determines if you're a pig or a decent human being.
xox
Tammy
p.s. only half a cup of coffee in me at this point. my apologies for spelling/grammar errors.
Well, there's nothing wrong with the fantasy of a quick seduction. Truthfully I still think that it'll be the right words at the right time to make it happen. If/when I would seduce it would be more of what I think about who I'm talking to, and creating that sense of desire. Then telling them what they need/want to hear. In rare cases, I'll concede the idea that some women want the "I'm gonna fuck you so hard, you'll have a concussion from your head hooting the wall so hard", excuse the language. I have never pounded, fucked, or nailed any woman. The reference to Cyrano was a great one, it is creating the feeling that at that moment that woman is the only one in the world, she is the water for your thirst. Now that doesn't mean there has to be the attachment that most think would come with it either, passion does not equal emotion. With that being said, thank you for all your input!
Chivalry should not be dead.....just my 2 cents.
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
I think there is room for any type of sex that two (or more) consenting adults want. I have this fantasy of being seduced into a quickie by a hot, dark, brooding, sexy stranger where flowers, opening doors, small talk have no room. But the first random average Joe to try to attempt that would find his balls up his ass and his dick being used as a straw in my drink.
IRL, I want/need to know that my partner CARES about my needs and actually wants to please me...(yes, it goes both ways) and will treat me like at minimum his partner if not a Goddess (
There's room for fantasises. Even dirty cum slut ones. But I guess it's how you treat the person right after the orgasm that determines if you're a pig or a decent human being.
DAMN!
xox
Tammy
p.s. only half a cup of coffee in me at this point. my apologies for spelling/grammar errors.
LVRSPLY wrote:BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
I think there is room for any type of sex that two (or more) consenting adults want. I have this fantasy of being seduced into a quickie by a hot, dark, brooding, sexy stranger where flowers, opening doors, small talk have no room. But the first random average Joe to try to attempt that would find his balls up his ass and his dick being used as a straw in my drink.
IRL, I want/need to know that my partner CARES about my needs and actually wants to please me...(yes, it goes both ways) and will treat me like at minimum his partner if not a Goddess (
There's room for fantasises. Even dirty cum slut ones. But I guess it's how you treat the person right after the orgasm that determines if you're a pig or a decent human being.
DAMN!
xox
Tammy
p.s. only half a cup of coffee in me at this point. my apologies for spelling/grammar errors.
You put "damn" in my response WHY?
"The first random Joe to try to attempt that would find his balls up his ass and his dick being used as a straw in a drink"
THAT'S WHY!
THAT'S WHY!
LVRSPLY wrote:
"The first random Joe to try to attempt that would find his balls up his ass and his dick being used as a straw in a drink"
THAT'S WHY!
Ok. You were responding. The way it quoted and posted on the thread made it look like you putting words in my mouth so to speak. Thanks for clarifying.
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:LVRSPLY wrote:
"The first random Joe to try to attempt that would find his balls up his ass and his dick being used as a straw in a drink"
THAT'S WHY!
Ok. You were responding. The way it quoted and posted on the thread made it look like you putting words in my mouth so to speak. Thanks for clarifying.
Note to self, do not seduce blueeyes...the last place I want my penis is in someone else's coke...
SPEXDEX wrote:
Note to self, do not seduce blueeyes...the last place I want my penis is in someone else's coke...
Oh it's not the seduction that gets people castrated. It's the misguided notion that I'm so easy and they are so undeniably hot/sexy/gifted that they can get away with it. Somethings are just better in my head...hence why it's called a fantasy. No way can it be better IRL then my imagination. LOL
SPEXDEX wrote:BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
[quote=LVRSPLY]"The first random Joe to try to attempt that would find his balls up his ass and his dick being used as a straw in a drink"
THAT'S WHY!
Ok. You were responding. The way it quoted and posted on the thread made it look like you putting words in my mouth so to speak. Thanks for clarifying.
Note to self, do not seduce blueeyes...the last place I want my penis is in someone else's coke...
[/quote]thats why i responded, pretty rough.
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:SPEXDEX wrote:
Note to self, do not seduce blueeyes...the last place I want my penis is in someone else's coke...
Oh it's not the seduction that gets people castrated. It's the misguided notion that I'm so easy and they are so undeniably hot/sexy/gifted that they can get away with it. Somethings are just better in my head...hence why it's called a fantasy. No way can it be better IRL then my imagination. LOL
Sounds like a challenge...
P.S. It would prolly have to be a zippy cup for me if the beverage is cold...
SPEXDEX wrote:
Sounds like a challenge...
P.S. It would prolly have to be a zippy cup for me if the beverage is cold...
lol. I'm drinking hot coffee right at the moment.....
well im in my mid 40s and granted im not as sexy as i sometimes pretend iam. but god bless those men who let me, no worries of castration here boys. or for that matter even a scolding.
lvrsply ~ you are incredible sexy ! ~ ! ~ ! I would like to do naughty things with you for as long as you would allow me to
your sweet thank you.
Ok, I remember chivalry. That means taking the time to say that the lady is first and foremost and should be treated in the most wonderful ways possible. After 37 years I still open doors for my other half, sit her first and make her cum before me. The last part is the part I like the best. To go farther, I have always wanted to meet blueeyes and she would of course be due the same type of conduct, starting with opening the doors and working up from there. We men need to remember that the lady is precious and need to be treated that way constantly. For one, I look forward to making a woman feel like the special person that she is. OH, and lvrsply, I think you are drop dead sexy...
CRASH9500 wrote:
Ok, I remember chivalry. That means taking the time to say that the lady is first and foremost and should be treated in the most wonderful ways possible. After 37 years I still open doors for my other half, sit her first and make her cum before me. The last part is the part I like the best. To go farther, I have always wanted to meet blueeyes and she would of course be due the same type of conduct, starting with opening the doors and working up from there. We men need to remember that the lady is precious and need to be treated that way constantly. For one, I look forward to making a woman feel like the special person that she is. OH, and lvrsply, I think you are drop dead sexy...
Well stated, and I couldn't agree more, both about your statement, and about lvrsply!
WOW! thank you both
LVRSPLY wrote:
WOW! thank you both
Most welcome!
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