Good morning everyone! My question this morning is about how well people change their sexual encounters for their partners. Most people have their bag of tricks that they bring with them, but sometimes your magic isn't the show they were expecting. Personally, I'm all for the guidance and direction. Tell me what you need, where, and how you want it to give you the pleasure you seek. Yes, there is a certain vulnerability that, in the end though, we are here for pleasure, right? I have found in all of my experiences, if I'm willing to give (within reason and comfort), that when my partner reaches their state of bliss, they'll turn around and make sure you join them. So I guess the next question, is... Are you willing to ask and let them show you the way?
I'm not saying that anyone is a bad lover here, or that my bag of tricks is empty. Rather I am trying to say that there are things I might overlook based on my experience with others, when that's the one thing the current partner is looking for. I don't have all the answers going in, so instead of driving around lost for an hour while she's stuck waiting for the next exit...ask for directions, and I think you'll be pleasantly surprised at how fast you'll reach your destination. Thanks everyone, and have a great day!
I'm not saying that anyone is a bad lover here, or that my bag of tricks is empty. Rather I am trying to say that there are things I might overlook based on my experience with others, when that's the one thing the current partner is looking for. I don't have all the answers going in, so instead of driving around lost for an hour while she's stuck waiting for the next exit...ask for directions, and I think you'll be pleasantly surprised at how fast you'll reach your destination. Thanks everyone, and have a great day!
SPEXDEX wrote:Sounds perfect to us!
Good morning everyone! My question this morning is about how well people change their sexual encounters for their partners. Most people have their bag of tricks that they bring with them, but sometimes your magic isn't the show they were expecting. Personally, I'm all for the guidance and direction. Tell me what you need, where, and how you want it to give you the pleasure you seek. Yes, there is a certain vulnerability that, in the end though, we are here for pleasure, right? I have found in all of my experiences, if I'm willing to give (within reason and comfort), that when my partner reaches their state of bliss, they'll turn around and make sure you join them. So I guess the next question, is... Are you willing to ask and let them show you the way? I'm not saying that anyone is a bad lover here, or that my bag of tricks is empty. Rather I am trying to say that there are things I might overlook based on my experience with others, when that's the one thing the current partner is looking for. I don't have all the answers going in, so instead of driving around lost for an hour while she's stuck waiting for the next exit...ask for directions, and I think you'll be pleasantly surprised at how fast you'll reach your destination. Thanks everyone, and have a great day!
Thx!
I would like to add that you shouldnt be afraid to explore new things either. When we got married there was something that the wife had never tried (I am not going to say what it was cuz she would kill me) but let me say that once she tried it she freaking loved it. In fact now she asks for it on a regular basis. She often says that she would have never guessed in a million years that she would have liked it until she tried it but now she cant imagine going without it. Just saying...
An open mind is always a good thing. There are plenty of things I haven't done in this world, sexually or regular, but I'm always willing to try, how I ended up here, and it's been good so far!
Thank you very much!