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Women say "size doesn't matter" but in a recent conversation among just women I found out it does matter!...I was surprised that out of 7 women all 7 agreed... size DOES matter....what is your input? me personally, I like DEEP penetration, so I guess for me it matters
of course it does, we just tell men it doesnt. lol but thats the truth. oh and they know it too.
doesnt that look like fun
VERY sexy pic!! thanks for your honesty
Size isn't important to me, well in a way it does matter but not the way you think. Personally I prefer a man that is average or smaller. His cock just hits my spots better and makes me cum better. I once in a while do like the feeling of being filled, however some of the men with the large cocks like to just ram it in and to be honest it hurts. So instead of getting the full feeling I would rather be satisfied and not hurt the next day. So just my two cents.....smaller is better, for me. Now if we are talking thickness, well a short thick cock....yummy!
you just have to take contol of those boys who want to hit it hard. the pic you see, he was so attentive to me it only hurt a few times but well worth it.
true, you gotta take control...I love a little pain anyway
OK so size does mater. Does form count too? I mean things like thickness, taper, big head, little head, curved not curved, veiny/smooth, etc.? I'm thinking this might be a varied as women and cocks are..lol
I have had small, average, large, and TOO BIG. I prefer around 7 inches. Since my hysterectomy, my ability to "accommodate" has shrunk. Too deep and it hurts like hell.

But I will say, I either have the world's longest easiest to access G-spot or I've been lucky enough to be with men who know how to use their tool because even with a small dick, I have always been able to cum.

I keep telling you people...it's not the size of the ship, but the motion of the ocean. :D
Figured i throw a mans perspective in here and see what kind of response i get :D i still to this day have never measured myself in anyway except by the enjoyment seen on a womans face. if anyone asked though, i'd say i'm average possibly a bit on the thicker side, but i really don't care.if its average, big, or small. the women i truly enjoy being with the most have never complained and keep cuming back for more. granted i'm not the best fit for every woman i've been with but i usually find other ways to make up for it. i think to everyone size does matte, but it depends on personal preferences and the activity your attempting, i.e. anal, dp, dvp etc...
@slowhand, thick is also nice.... for me I have had a large cock so long maybe I am spoiled...I have had smaller men rock my world yes...however am I being closed minded by not trying small men? recently met a VERY small man and not sure how to handle it.
CURIOUSCPL91 wrote:

@slowhand, thick is also nice.... for me I have had a large cock so long maybe I am spoiled...I have had smaller men rock my world yes...however am I being closed minded by not trying small men? recently met a VERY small man and not sure how to handle it.



Well there has to be enough there for you to feel it's there..lol Though nothing beats that perfect fit when you find it.
TRIXIEE wrote:

I agree with Tammy ... hysterectomies leave us with a "brick wall" and someone who is too lengthy is NOT fun for me either. Been told by my GYN that I have a smaller than average pelvis & after some GYN surgery last summer, my *cookie* has been tightened ;). 6-7 inches is perfect & girth is a plus =)

TRiX


God isn't that the truth...hitting the brick wall hurts like hell!!!!

I love average men...once in a while it's nice to have a large man but then you can't get down and dirty and just be fucked or it hurts too much...I think thicker is nicer than longer but even that can be uncomfortable...idk maybe like MENAGE said it's the size of the woman that counts and I've even had the smaller men tell me I'm nice and tight so I guess I would prefer they know how to use is rather than quantity :)
Oh I do have one favorite single male friend who is nice and thick and long too...next to hubby he is my favorite cock and love to have my go at it every chance I get but he knows how to use it without hurting me :)
The average Vagina is around 5-1/2 to 6 inches deep. beyond that, the only size that would matter is girth. You can have a 9" cock, but if only 6" is being inserted, what does it matter? Again, length only matters to a certain degree.

Another factor we have to consider is this. Women's vaginas also vary in size. Some women like em bigger because they have larger/deeper vaginas. I am an average joe and I've thrown my hotdog down a few hallways. Not my favorite thing. You can't please everyone one..

With that being said, size matters to guys as well. ;) Just as a female with a small tight vagina, doesn't want a 12 inch long bullfrog shaped cock, a guy with a 6 inch dick doesn't want a sloppy 12 inch deep gash. ;)

Just sayin...
will I been told my 7.5 thick cock is to big but most change there mine after and I do know they likes my moves when they are cumming
mnm
hey lvrsply - this is paul - give me a shout - love to see you again
Ok, man-up!
I agree with TIABEAR, girth is where it's at (with decent length). Love a large head for the same reasons. Definitely want a man that knows how to use.
I never measured till after I joined this site. I've always considered myself to be of an average length. When it comes to sex though, I've always gone with the philosophy that, if you want to please a woman, learn all you can. Attention is key, whether it's taste, touch, sound, or feel. Pay attention to what feels right for her, and it'll come back to you every time.
tell the truth has any woman ever said to a man your dicks to small? oops maybe to an ex husband. lol
Well, it looks like size vs pleasure is very subjective on the part of the women. Let me propose a controlled experiment wherein the control is my averaged size unit and the variable is, well all of the lovely ladies here on swingular. I am willing to sacrifice myself in order to establish a nice hard baseline on which compare all future arguments.
Bob
nice try bob hope it works.
Somebody has to be willing to sacrifice to advance mankind.

Just to keep it unbiased though I propose a double blind study, the first time I will wear a blindfold and the second time the lady will be blindfolded. I truly just want to keep this on a scientific basis.
Bob
Ok I am not a well endowed man but that has never stoped me from pleasing a partner. I have been told that my penis is a fine size and that I say its much smaller than it is. but let's talk about firmness I have had many partners complement me on how firm my penis gets when aroused and have had quite a few convos about how men who were larger just didn't have the same firmness what's everyones take on that
hey jo lvrsply - try mail me here or my call my phone. paul
Well then kudos!
Sure it does. For any woman there has to be a too big and a too small and the simple dynamics of the human body should tell us this without question. Physically, pleasure in sex depends a lot on each person
Well if they like to "stretch the envelope" then for the woman with a size fetish it is a factor but there are always plenty of fun ways to fill the desire. And what fun it can be..lol
well...yes....big loose pussies are no fun....
RIDER270 wrote:

well...yes....big loose pussies are no fun....
Speak for yourself...lol I think they can be very fun. What ever works and feels best should be the guide.
RIDER270 wrote:

well...yes....big loose pussies are no fun....


If you've encountered big loose pussies, obviously someone better endowed than you are has already been there.
CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:

RIDER270 wrote:

well...yes....big loose pussies are no fun....


If you've encountered big loose pussies, obviously someone better endowed than you are has already been there.


Need a new keyboard now. And more coffee.....;)
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:

[quote=RIDER270]well...yes....big loose pussies are no fun....
If you've encountered big loose pussies, obviously someone better endowed than you are has already been there.
Need a new keyboard now. And more coffee.....;)[/quote]

Glad to be of service.
SMOOCH!
There's also the school of thought that tight little pussies are for guys with little dicks..lol So for those women size is also a factor. I do have to laugh at the common assumption that a loose pussy is the result of being abused by a large penis instead of actual factors like genetics or number of children passing through it. Accusing women of having a loose vagina's usually indicates small penis..lol
There's nothing more exciting for me then to open my pussy, pull my lips apart, show my wet juicy hole and wait for that big headed cock going in. I like thick mushroom headed cocks. I love to be pounded, sometimes it may hurt a little but wow what a hurt, I have even had to take my self out of my body so in my minds eye I can see my pussy getting pounded and I can't feel the pain. Sometimes I have even felt like I am flying because the fucking is so amazing. NOW IM ALL HORNY AND NO COCK IN MY HOUSE, DAMN.
Holy Hell, OMG. Is the fugging horse dead yet? This is a swingers site. If I prefer larger than what's available, I can always add another guy to the mix, there's a little more to sex than a dick and 2 are better than one anyway(hee hee, at least 2 me!). If I prefer smaller than what's available, I can always add another guy to the mix. If I'd like something in between ... well you get the idea.

So the big question is whether, as a man, you're willing to share your gal with someone else versus the one guy with 2 girls as seems to be the standard pattern here. :)
BORNBRIT wrote:

There's nothing more exciting for me then to open my pussy, pull my lips apart, show my wet juicy hole and wait for that big headed cock going in. I like thick mushroom headed cocks. I love to be pounded, sometimes it may hurt a little but wow what a hurt, I have even had to take my self out of my body so in my minds eye I can see my pussy getting pounded and I can't feel the pain. Sometimes I have even felt like I am flying because the fucking is so amazing. NOW IM ALL HORNY AND NO COCK IN MY HOUSE, DAMN.


See I knew I liked you for a reason..lol I'm free this morning......:)
all things being equal, attentiveness, foreplay, firmness,thickness, good looks,after that bedroom door is closed, all you girls will take the 7 inch cock over the 5 inch cock. and we women all know it. and the guys do to!
Hey Jo - did you guys move to farmington?
BornBrit ~ wow now that was fawking hot ! Wow !
OK, someone opened the door to the subject of tight/loose pussies - so I gotta add my $ .02.
Yeah, this is ONE man's opinion, butt it's based on a LOT of experience.

Babies: Aside from a cesarean birth, as long as the doctor knows what he's doing when he stitches it, there shouldn't be a LOT of difference between pre-baby and post-baby. Unless we're talking the same day.

Weight: As a general rule, I've found more "larger" framed women to have tight pussies than slender women. That doesn't mean to say the rule applies to ALL larger women or ALL slender women.

Tight Pussy: Yes, I've encountered a few VERY tight pussies in my life, but the tightness only lasts for a few strokes before it stretches to accomodate the cock. Remembeer - this is a BIRTH CANAL and therefore, subject to change based on what's in it at any given point in time. Of course there are some women who, through muscle control, can "Do The Tighten Up".

Loose Pussy: I've actually only ever encountered one I would classify as "loose" - incredibly loose, as a matter of fact. She was of medium build and had NOT had a baby in the 10 years preceeding our, uhhhh............. encounter. I swear I heard an echo when I came.

Wetness: I find the degree of wetness to be more of a consideration than tightness/size of a pussy. If it's wet and sloppy enough, it's hard to tell the difference between average, tight and loose.

OK, I have my suit of armor on and I have my shield handy - ya'll start throwing the rocks.
CARRIERMAN wrote:

OK, someone opened the door to the subject of tight/loose pussies - so I gotta add my $ .02.
Yeah, this is ONE man's opinion, butt it's based on a LOT of experience.

Babies: Aside from a cesarean birth, as long as the doctor knows what he's doing when he stitches it, there shouldn't be a LOT of difference.

Weight: As a general rule, I've found more "larger" women to have tight pussies than slender women. That doesn't mean to say the rule applies to ALL larger women or ALL slender women.

Tight Pussy: Yes, I've encountered a few VERY tight pussies in my life, but the tightness only lasts for a few strokes before it stretches to accomodate the cock. Remembeer - this is a BIRTH CANAL and therefore, subject to change based on what's in it.

Loose Pussy: I've actually only encountered one I would classify as "loose" - incredibly loose, as a matter of fact. She was of medium build and had NOT had a baby in the 10 years preceeding our, uhhhh............. encounter.

Wetness: I find the degree of wetness to be more of a consideration than tightness/size of a pussy. If it's wet and sloppy enough, it's hard to tell the difference between tight and loose.

OK, I have my suit of armor on and I have my shield handy - start throwing the rocks.

love it xxxx
SHAZAMER wrote:

LVRSPLY wrote:

all things being equal, attentiveness, foreplay, firmness,thickness, good looks,after that bedroom door is closed, all you girls will take the 7 inch cock over the 5 inch cock. and we women all know it. and the guys do to!


I disagree 100%, and you should get your facts straight. If you aren't behind those closed doors, how do you know? Please don't put words into my mouth. I think from this forum, you can easily see that everyone has varied likes & needs. Good grief. I actually find a larger than average-sized cock a turn off, as I'm not into pain, and have a very shallow tight pussy.
xoxox
Monika


Yep. What Monika said.

CARRIERMAN wrote:

OK, someone opened the door to the subject of tight/loose pussies - so I gotta add my $ .02.
Yeah, this is ONE man's opinion, butt it's based on a LOT of experience.

Babies: Aside from a cesarean birth, as long as the doctor knows what he's doing when he stitches it, there shouldn't be a LOT of difference between pre-baby and post-baby. Unless we're talking the same day.

Weight: As a general rule, I've found more "larger" framed women to have tight pussies than slender women. That doesn't mean to say the rule applies to ALL larger women or ALL slender women.

Tight Pussy: Yes, I've encountered a few VERY tight pussies in my life, but the tightness only lasts for a few strokes before it stretches to accomodate the cock. Remembeer - this is a BIRTH CANAL and therefore, subject to change based on what's in it at any given point in time. Of course there are some women who, through muscle control, can "Do The Tighten Up".

Loose Pussy: I've actually only ever encountered one I would classify as "loose" - incredibly loose, as a matter of fact. She was of medium build and had NOT had a baby in the 10 years preceeding our, uhhhh............. encounter. I swear I heard an echo when I came.

Wetness: I find the degree of wetness to be more of a consideration than tightness/size of a pussy. If it's wet and sloppy enough, it's hard to tell the difference between average, tight and loose.

OK, I have my suit of armor on and I have my shield handy - ya'll start throwing the rocks.


You nailed it, sweetstuff.
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

SHAZAMER wrote:

[quote=LVRSPLY]all things being equal, attentiveness, foreplay, firmness,thickness, good looks,after that bedroom door is closed, all you girls will take the 7 inch cock over the 5 inch cock. and we women all know it. and the guys do to!


I disagree 100%, and you should get your facts straight. If you aren't behind those closed doors, how do you know? Please don't put words into my mouth. I think from this forum, you can easily see that everyone has varied likes & needs. Good grief. I actually find a larger than average-sized cock a turn off, as I'm not into pain, and have a very shallow tight pussy.
xoxox
Monika


Yep. What Monika said.

CARRIERMAN wrote:

OK, someone opened the door to the subject of tight/loose pussies - so I gotta add my $ .02.
Yeah, this is ONE man's opinion, butt it's based on a LOT of experience.

Babies: Aside from a cesarean birth, as long as the doctor knows what he's doing when he stitches it, there shouldn't be a LOT of difference between pre-baby and post-baby. Unless we're talking the same day.

Weight: As a general rule, I've found more "larger" framed women to have tight pussies than slender women. That doesn't mean to say the rule applies to ALL larger women or ALL slender women.

Tight Pussy: Yes, I've encountered a few VERY tight pussies in my life, but the tightness only lasts for a few strokes before it stretches to accomodate the cock. Remembeer - this is a BIRTH CANAL and therefore, subject to change based on what's in it at any given point in time. Of course there are some women who, through muscle control, can "Do The Tighten Up".

Loose Pussy: I've actually only ever encountered one I would classify as "loose" - incredibly loose, as a matter of fact. She was of medium build and had NOT had a baby in the 10 years preceeding our, uhhhh............. encounter. I swear I heard an echo when I came.

Wetness: I find the degree of wetness to be more of a consideration than tightness/size of a pussy. If it's wet and sloppy enough, it's hard to tell the difference between average, tight and loose.

OK, I have my suit of armor on and I have my shield handy - ya'll start throwing the rocks.


You nailed it, sweetstuff. [/quote
i thought bigger girls liked a little bigger dick.
Wow!!!
LVRSPLY wrote:

i thought bigger girls liked a little bigger dick.


We know you like a little bigger dick, but again, you should only speak for YOURSELF. Not all women think like you.
im sorry i will leave a the little dicked men to you.
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

LVRSPLY wrote:

i thought bigger girls liked a little bigger dick.


We know you like a little bigger dick, but again, you should only speak for YOURSELF. Not all women think like you.

just read your profile, and saw you have certain conditions to meet or make friends. MAYBE YOU SHOULD ADD LITTLE DICK ON THERE!
LVRSPLY wrote:

BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

[quote=LVRSPLY]i thought bigger girls liked a little bigger dick.


We know you like a little bigger dick, but again, you should only speak for YOURSELF. Not all women think like you.

just read your profile, and saw you have certain conditions to meet or make friends. MAYBE YOU SHOULD ADD LITTLE DICK ON THERE![/quote]
by the way your profiles is the most warm and friendly profile i have seen in a long time. check it out people.
Wow...maybe someone should start a blog about angry pussy lol...be lovers not fighters : ),
LIVETHEMOMENT wrote:

Wow...maybe someone should start a blog about angry pussy lol...be lovers not fighters : ),

OMG thats funny!
lvrsply - your profile is not accepting emails, send me a friend request so we can chat
Paul
LVRSPLY wrote:

just read your profile, and saw you have certain conditions to meet or make friends. MAYBE YOU SHOULD ADD LITTLE DICK ON THERE! by the way your profiles is the most warm and friendly profile i have seen in a long time. check it out people.


Honey, if whining about me and my profile is all you got, then you need a hobby. Cuz I'm not it. I don't care what anyone says. Forum-stalking is NOT flattering. I really don't need nor want your attention. Funny. We keep having this same conversation and you keep showing up like a bad STD. How much attention do you need from me anyway? *insert rolling eyes and sarcasm*

There is a "IGNORE MEMBER" button. Feel free to use it. Seriously.
My god
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

LVRSPLY wrote:

just read your profile, and saw you have certain conditions to meet or make friends. MAYBE YOU SHOULD ADD LITTLE DICK ON THERE! by the way your profiles is the most warm and friendly profile i have seen in a long time. check it out people.
Honey, if whining about me and my profile is all you got, then you need a hobby. Cuz I'm not it. I don't care what anyone says. Forum-stalking is NOT flattering. I really don't need nor want your attention. Funny. We keep having this same conversation and you keep showing up like a bad STD. How much attention do you need from me anyway? *insert rolling eyes and sarcasm* There is a "IGNORE MEMBER" button. Feel free to use it. Seriously.
My god honey you are such a turn on. I love the way you just hand it to them in a hand basket. Now I have to go play with my overlly average self. lol
Not that size matters but couldn't help but notice that SASHA BONILOVA has some really big ( . Y . )
COWBOYOPIE85 wrote:

My god honey you are such a turn on. I love the way you just hand it to them in a hand basket. Now I have to go play with my overlly average self. lol


ROFLMAO. Have fun with that. :D

p.s. over average? Ouch. ;)
No just went along with the topic is all. lol
LVRSPLY wrote:


i thought bigger girls liked a little bigger dick.

LVRSPLY wrote:


just read your profile, and saw you have certain conditions to meet or make friends. MAYBE YOU SHOULD ADD LITTLE DICK ON THERE!

by the way your profiles is the most warm and friendly profile i have seen in a long time. check it out people.

SEXY37 wrote:


I read these blogs most the time for the laughs. I have certain opinions of most everything and try to respect others opinions as well. What I don't get is why some people need to be so damn crude, cruel, and mean. Grow up LVRSPLY. Your profile pic is very hot but your attitude and arrogant manner is a TOTAL turn off. Just my two cents worth.

Wow, Thankyou Sexy37, I really appreciate what you said. The quotes I put in up above don't even show the actual meanness of the attacks... I just don't get personal attacks like LVRSPLY is putting out there. What purpose does it serve??

I guess we're all having fun now? LVRSPLY seems like such a misnomer for a username right now. Get over yourself.
Must.Stop.Drinking.While.Reading.Forums.

Sheesh, I laughed so hard, I snorted and sprayed my keyboard.

That's 3 times today. :D :D :D

EDT: hahaha. Apparently, drinking too much. I just had to remove the word "NOT" in the first line. I'm a dork.
wow,ok I just wanted to know if I should give a man with a smaller than average penis a chance to show me what he can do, this man is SEXY as hell, but I didnt expect to see a penis that small.... so bottom line it's about the sex right?...so advice is stick to oral?
CURIOUSCPL91 wrote:

wow,ok I just wanted to know if I should give a man with a smaller than average penis a chance to show me what he can do, this man is SEXY as hell, but I didnt expect to see a penis that small.... so bottom line it's about the sex right?...so advice is stick to oral?


Well at least during oral you know you won't gag. ;)

In all seriousness, if you want him and the stars are aligned, then fuck him and see what he's got. Only you can decide what to do. Yes, I do say it's not the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean. But I guess it's a fair enough assessment to say (stealing someone else's quote here) that it's a lot easier to go sailing on a luxury yacht then a row a little dingy.

Don't be surprised if it turns out he has some skills you don't know about. And even if he doesn't, well, no harm no foul. You can kindly end the session and move on.
Thanks Blueeyesinutah........to be continued
i guess the plus sizes are upset with me. so what
LVRSPLY wrote:

i guess the plus sizes are upset with me. so what

LOL, What the hell are you even talking about? What kind of empty name-calling bullshit is that? Would you like to step on a scale with me there sweetheart? Let it go. Please. Just be civil.
is there a reason you care?
To bad a good topic got overtaken with rudeness... *sigh* I was enjoying the subject at hand.
ey
STITCHUTAH wrote:

To bad a good topic got overtaken with rudeness... *sigh* I was enjoying the subject at hand.


Hey Stitch! Long time...lol My thought was "HMM must be the fourth page where the thread degrades to what this one has..lol"

All the lady did was ask for some input about a guy she's considering.
OK...OK...OK!!!!

Blue and Lvrs...Quit the fucking bullshit!

LVRS...You being thin doesn't make you sexy, mindset makes one sexy. Big fake tits isn't doing it for you either. Get over yourself!!!!

Blue...Don't feed the troll, its bad for business.

As to size, it only matters if you want it to matter. Being a man who's blessed, I can tell you, its not all its cracked up to be.....

1.) I have never been deep-throated to the root.
2.) I have never had anal.
3.) I have to be extremely careful when penetrating, because hitting 'the back' isn't pleasant for most women.
4.) I can only use about 1/2 my penis, some can take more, some less, but average is about 1/2.
5.) I have had many women who view me as a 'challenge,' so I, in essense, become a walking penis.
6.) A standard is set by me, causing others to not 'measure up' for my woman.

There are advantages too:

1.) I get to play with women who wouldn't have played with me before they knew about it.
2.) If a guy is being a jerk, I will show him pictures, tell him I am bi, and the only way I will allow him to play with my lady is if I get to do him anally, this usually scares him off. Thankfully, I haven't run into a closet-bi guy yet =))
3.) It makes it easier to play towel or coat rack at parties.
3.)