Well have read the bi curious males post. We figure its time to see if there is another side to this story.
I am the Bi curious female part of a couple. Having yet had no experiences, I look forward to meeting the right woman to have them with. But I was wondering if there are any other women out there with an ammount of shyness (not sure if thats the right way to put it) about being with another woman.
Having seen my man giving oral and feeling totally turned on by it. I assume (and we have talked) that he would feel as turned on watching me. But I\'m still a little reserved about it.
Peter tells me that in the lifestyle there are many different ways to swing and that I should only do what I feel is right and what I want to do when I want to do it. \"Were in no hurry, we have our whole lives to enjoy friends and fun\".
Your thoughts?
Amanda & Peter (who is taking is annual shower)
I am the Bi curious female part of a couple. Having yet had no experiences, I look forward to meeting the right woman to have them with. But I was wondering if there are any other women out there with an ammount of shyness (not sure if thats the right way to put it) about being with another woman.
Having seen my man giving oral and feeling totally turned on by it. I assume (and we have talked) that he would feel as turned on watching me. But I\'m still a little reserved about it.
Peter tells me that in the lifestyle there are many different ways to swing and that I should only do what I feel is right and what I want to do when I want to do it. \"Were in no hurry, we have our whole lives to enjoy friends and fun\".
Your thoughts?
Amanda & Peter (who is taking is annual shower)
A good post. I know the wife is a little reluctant to try the bi side. I have had a theory for a long time that she is so sensuous that if she does it she will like it. Well she has had one experience that was not good, the lady was too rough. She is keeping an open mind. Recently in the midst of a foursome the other lady kissed her and fondled her breasts. She found that as turned on as she was it was nice. She felt comfortable enough she returned the favor and also sucked on the lady\'s nipples. She found she liked it. There is still a reluctance about the female bi oral but she is keeping an open mind about it. I am sure she will try it when comfortable.
Your hubby is right there are so many different levels. I would recommend taking your time, and when comfortable try it a time or two and if you don\'t like it then don\'t do it again. If you find you do, and most ladies who are bi say once you try you are hooked on it, then rock and roll. :-)
The key thing is to be comfortable with who you are with, know your hubby wants what you want and do what feels good. :-)
Your hubby is right there are so many different levels. I would recommend taking your time, and when comfortable try it a time or two and if you don\'t like it then don\'t do it again. If you find you do, and most ladies who are bi say once you try you are hooked on it, then rock and roll. :-)
The key thing is to be comfortable with who you are with, know your hubby wants what you want and do what feels good. :-)
I hate to be speaking fro my wife, but since shes at work and Im on vacation, you are stuck with me. So here goes nothing. For the longest time she was curious, but neither one of us knew how to move on to the next level. So we went to an off premise club and just watched what was going on for a few nights. After we figured things out then we started talking with people and found thsi one couple and explaine dour situation (being new to the lifestyle). Well the female was fantasticaly understanding of this and she took the time to work with my wife (for lack of a better term) at a pace my wife was comfortable with. First flirting, touchign and caressing. Finally she leaned over to kiss my wife and BLAM, thats all the encouragement my wife needed 
. But the key to this was finding someone who was both understanding and patient and who would respect my wifes limits.
As for my thoughts on bi females? Not trying to be a typical male, but whats not to love. Its a huge turn on for me to watch my wife with another woman or women.
. But the key to this was finding someone who was both understanding and patient and who would respect my wifes limits.As for my thoughts on bi females? Not trying to be a typical male, but whats not to love. Its a huge turn on for me to watch my wife with another woman or women.
Great feedback.
Thanks!
Amanda
Now I really must get to work.. lol damn Job!
Thanks!
Amanda
Now I really must get to work.. lol damn Job!
I myself am still in the \"bi-curious\" stage. I have had one experience with a woman and totally loved it. However was still a bit reserved as I didn\'t want to seem too aggressive, nor too passive...so I was and still am hesitant at times. I am more comfortable if a woman initiates the contact with me.
I LOVED the touch, smell, and taste of a woman, but with the limited experience didn\'t really know what to do and how. I know what I like, but that doesn\'t mean that she will enjoy what I enjoy.
I also am a bit intimidated by women that have been with several other women, as I don\'t want them to think \"This chic has no idea what she is doing\". My husband would like to see me with an \"experienced\" woman, and if she understood my situation I would LOVE to be with an experienced woman.
I guess the main thing is to find someone that you are comfortable with in and out of bed that way you can express what you do and don\'t like.
Just my 2 cents worth.
Ms. Lil_Unpredictable
I LOVED the touch, smell, and taste of a woman, but with the limited experience didn\'t really know what to do and how. I know what I like, but that doesn\'t mean that she will enjoy what I enjoy.
I also am a bit intimidated by women that have been with several other women, as I don\'t want them to think \"This chic has no idea what she is doing\". My husband would like to see me with an \"experienced\" woman, and if she understood my situation I would LOVE to be with an experienced woman.
I guess the main thing is to find someone that you are comfortable with in and out of bed that way you can express what you do and don\'t like.
Just my 2 cents worth.
Ms. Lil_Unpredictable
No hurries or worries here! hehehe