I am the male half of our couple and we had an experience last night that has me a little worried. An old friend of mine that is not in the lifestyle came over to play cards. We got very drunk and my wife got frisky. She ended up sucking our dicks outside. By the end of the night, he was eating out my wife, she was sucking my dick, and I was sucking his dick. As far as I know he is not bi and he didnt know that I was. We all really enjoyed ourselves, but when the wife and I woke up this morning he was gone. What should I do?
text or email, saying you are ok with what happened and you are ok to never discuss again or if he would like to talk about it you are willing to do that too....
Destroy the video. 
A simple "I won't tell if you don't" text is enough. That lets him him know that even tho it happened you aren't going to obsess about it and it doesn't have to a big deal. If he needs to talk to you both about it, he knows where to find you. If he'd rather not, don't push it and treat him like you did before you all played. If, in the end, he can't deal with it, then consider it a lesson learned. It sounds like he was a willing participant. Let him deal with his head issues his way.
But kudos on the bi play.
xox
Tammy
But kudos on the bi play.
xox
Tammy
How about a quick e-mail...............
"What happens at our house - STAYS at our house."
"What happens at our house - STAYS at our house."
All very good advice, I agree most with Carrier, it lets him know what happened was personal and private and you intend to keep it that way.
thanks for everyones advice. I sent a text and he replied "had a blast do it again soon" so i guess everything is ok.
CONGRATZ on converting a mere friend into a brand new Lifestyle playmate.
Can we all count on you to eventually share him with others, and not be greedy? lol
Can we all count on you to eventually share him with others, and not be greedy? lol
so i have a kind of off topic question.. so unfortunately we know some family/friends on this site and we tend to get a little weird about it. i blocked one of the couples we know.. just so we couldnt accidentally run into each other.. but will they be able to see things we post.. comments on forums, comments on user profiles?
so i have a kind of off topic question.. so unfortunately we know some family/friends on this site and we tend to get a little weird about it. i blocked one of the couples we know.. just so we couldnt accidentally run into each other.. but will they be able to see things we post.. comments on forums, comments on user profiles?
SPYDER_MYKE wrote:
so i have a kind of off topic question.. so unfortunately we know some family/friends on this site and we tend to get a little weird about it. i blocked one of the couples we know.. just so we couldnt accidentally run into each other.. but will they be able to see things we post.. comments on forums, comments on user profiles?
The only thing they are blocked from is actually contacting you. All your forum postings, your actual profile is still available for them to see.
CAM_COUPLE1981 wrote:
thanks for everyones advice. I sent a text and he replied "had a blast do it again soon" so i guess everything is ok.
Hey, drinks on me, right?
hmm. well. that kinda sucks. lol.
I'm with T4REAL69, Stop drinking!
PHOTOGUY wrote:
I'm with T4REAL69, Stop drinking!
not exactly the advice i was looking for