Anyone have any pet peeves in the lifestyle?
Mine are people who don't show up when you made a meeting time and people who drop off the planet after you have been talking for a while (as in multiple times over emails/chat/text/calls). If you decide you aren't interested or you really are doing this to excite yourself but not gonna follow through on it, that is cool but don't make someone wait at a bar/restaurant/coffeeshop when you have no intentions of showing up. If you had an emergency come up, actually call or text and say hey this happened...Simple courtesy!
Mine are people who don't show up when you made a meeting time and people who drop off the planet after you have been talking for a while (as in multiple times over emails/chat/text/calls). If you decide you aren't interested or you really are doing this to excite yourself but not gonna follow through on it, that is cool but don't make someone wait at a bar/restaurant/coffeeshop when you have no intentions of showing up. If you had an emergency come up, actually call or text and say hey this happened...Simple courtesy!
Bingo! Both of those issues are fairly common and quite frankly suck! ..and not in a good way! Honesty, being up front and having the courtesy to respect others time, Money and effort should be the norm. Deceit and blowing smoke isint what any of us are here for... PEACE~
People who either don't read profiles or refuse to believe it applies to them.
Standard generic greeting emails that scream "I'm sending this exact same email to everyone, hoping someone will take a bite".
Spouses who are dragged into doing something they really don't want to do.
People who think that just because I'm bi comfortable I will do any pussy. Bi comfortable is just a nice way of saying I'm SELECTIVE.
Standard generic greeting emails that scream "I'm sending this exact same email to everyone, hoping someone will take a bite".
Spouses who are dragged into doing something they really don't want to do.
People who think that just because I'm bi comfortable I will do any pussy. Bi comfortable is just a nice way of saying I'm SELECTIVE.
TRYST42 wrote:
Public, whoops I mean Pubic hair...BBLLLUCK.
A page of nothing but "rules". You'd think these people was the King of England.
Agreed...if I need a printout to refer to whilst engaging in shagging, already lost interest....why be so complex?
Wanna come hang out in New Orleans....No rules... no hangups.no kings just us... love ya all... relax...
Hate to say it but, "hygiene issues." We know that it might not be possible to "freshen up" immediately before meeting someone however, if you smell like you and soap are mortal enemies, are sticky and/or slimy, or are just unacquainted with the general concept of bathing, don't expect to play, or be invited back.
Couples who are looking for replacements. These are couples who have one or both of them looking to find a new partner, and go about it like looking for a new job while keeping their current job. This is DRAMA waiting to meltdown, and is totally NOT cool.
The afore mentioned "fakes and flakes."
Kiss (or Fuck) and tell the whole world. We don't mind those who tell their partners the details of our encounters, in fact we would expect it. But those who feel they have to tell the whole world what we did, how we did it, and how much they did or did not enjoy it, that is just wrong.
Couples who are looking for replacements. These are couples who have one or both of them looking to find a new partner, and go about it like looking for a new job while keeping their current job. This is DRAMA waiting to meltdown, and is totally NOT cool.
The afore mentioned "fakes and flakes."
Kiss (or Fuck) and tell the whole world. We don't mind those who tell their partners the details of our encounters, in fact we would expect it. But those who feel they have to tell the whole world what we did, how we did it, and how much they did or did not enjoy it, that is just wrong.
JOEBOWLER wrote:
Ours is when the first message you get from people is "Im horny, wanna?"
Oh my god. I know. WTF. I appreciate blatant forwardness and honesty but seriously, people, let's face it, you ("you" as in general) are NOT hot enough, sexy enough, cute enough, or ANYTHING enough to think that hitting someone up with that line the first time you communicate with them is going to work. That only screams desperation and desperation is tacky. And tacky is NOT sexy.
people that take pics of themselves thru the mirror.... use the mirror to see the viewfinder while holding the camera so it takes a pic of you not the mirror!
Wow, I am surprised no one has brought up single males yet. I thought that was the taboo pet peeve 
Good posting everyone! I agree with the list of rules so long that it is ridiculous!!!! Don't touch her here, don't kiss her here only here...
Also as a single guy I can't stand when a couple is meeting you and she is into it but he is giving you an evil eye the whole time you are talking to them or his wife or flirting with her. And no i dno't ignore the hubby! I always talk to him and chat with him before hand and during the meet .. .but makes it very very uncomfortable if it is obvious that hte hubby is pissed that this is a single male encounter where all the pleasure is for her...
Also as a single guy I can't stand when a couple is meeting you and she is into it but he is giving you an evil eye the whole time you are talking to them or his wife or flirting with her. And no i dno't ignore the hubby! I always talk to him and chat with him before hand and during the meet .. .but makes it very very uncomfortable if it is obvious that hte hubby is pissed that this is a single male encounter where all the pleasure is for her...
OHBABY wrote:
How about out of date pictures, have your pictures be within the last 6 months to a year at least!
Tiny little Icon size pictures that you can barely see, and blurry pictures! Really??? Today's camera technology and people can't take clear shots?
Soooo question then...I am always putting up new pics...are ya'll saying I should take down the others? We have some older pics in with our newer pics...is that a "pet peeve"?? Of course we haven't changed that much and they're usually of a party or with someone else, etc, etc...
Kisses...Naugh-Ty
My pet peeve is people that start threads called "here's a thread for bitching and negativity".
Mental note. Put children in a closet when company comes over. You guys would have a better chance not being pawed at by the dog then the kids. 
T4REAL69 wrote:
Mmmmm how about people who complain about certain pet peeves they have and then turn around and commit the same or similar offenses....now why does the word hypocrite come to mind!
Good point. But I thought it was spelled "hippocrit". I really should use spell-chek more often.
Pictures that are so small... You need a microscope to see them.
LUCKY_N_CUPCAKE wrote:Oh yes, and for the sake of Pete, Flush first if you're gonna cam shot in the Latrine folks.MR_TRIXIEE wrote:And the things you see in the background of those mirror shots!
people that take pics of themselves thru the mirror.... use the mirror to see the viewfinder while holding the camera so it takes a pic of you not the mirror!
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
Mental note. Put children in a closet when company comes over. You guys would have a better chance not being pawed at by the dog then the kids.
RFLMAO... Oh... so... true
anyone that says, we cant post pics or get on cam because of our job...but come meet us...right, thats gonna happen!
people who don't have the courtesy to reply to people who have sent them a message.its not hard either yes or no most of us are man or woman enough to accept the answer.but to not even get a reply is just plain rude
Not a pet peeve but a comment. Please don't take digital photos of your old Polaroids. Just because they are now digital does not make them new.
What is everyones consensus on how old pics should be? no greater than 2 yrs? 20lbs?
Thanks
What is everyones consensus on how old pics should be? no greater than 2 yrs? 20lbs?
Thanks
Ok so I just realized we are guilty of complacency, the majority of our pics are over five years old. I guess time flies when you are "Having Fun". On the up side we have something to work on this week.
Bob
Bob
#1 Pet peeve....PET PEEVES! Please, if you don't like it, don't go near it!
How about people who invite you ax a friend & either
have no private pics or ones that show nothing? Then
there are the fake couples where the male seems to have
a lifetime hall pass or the ones who mail you again &
again & again. The best one is they have a high profile
job & can't risk showing any face pics even in private.
We take that one as they know if you see what they really
look like you'll never want to meet them.
have no private pics or ones that show nothing? Then
there are the fake couples where the male seems to have
a lifetime hall pass or the ones who mail you again &
again & again. The best one is they have a high profile
job & can't risk showing any face pics even in private.
We take that one as they know if you see what they really
look like you'll never want to meet them.
HELLO_KITTY12984 wrote:
My pet peeve is people that start threads called "here's a thread for bitching and negativity".
Just my thought, while there are some that just look like attacks this one appears to have some merit. A list of things that are not acceptable and need attention.
For me if I were to meet someone that I would expect to be intimate with I would be scrubbed with Ajax, or almost. Cleanliness is VERY important, not that you have to smell like a bar of soap but please clean yourself. I once worked in a restaurant and had to clean booths and cleaning the seats, well they smelled like someone's ass. So you get my drift.
As well you need to be on your best behaviour till you know the people better. Just a matter of courtesy, give these people your time for reasons of decision and comfort. Sort of being a guest in the house of someone you have a lot of respect for. Patience can be good for a potentially good time.
As for my peve since being a member, people who talk a lot and start to arrange a time then stop. The other would be that there has been no meetings anyway after 6 years.
Good to have a rating system I guess. Use it wisely.
Take care.
Rick
I get tired of all the endless texting, e-mails and them wanting more pics. It seems to me that all they want is to get off on my pics and they had no intention on ever showing up. It also bugs the hell out of me when you set up a time and a week later you get a message saying something came up but now they are free, hello if you want to play at least have the courtesy to same something sooner. My most favorite, I had sent a message to a guy that was all psyched up about meeting and coming to play, we had the place and the time, well you guessed it no show, no call, no text, nothing until a week later at 2:16 am I receive a message from him. That is plain and simple inconsiderate and rude especially when some of us get up early for work come Monday morning.
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Two Peeves. First is ridiculously narrow age ranges. OH, "we want a couple between 29.5 to 30 years of age". Just shows such narrow mindedness. I always wonder if they miss out on amazing fun because the other person had one too many or few months on the planet. You younger ones crack me up because you think us over 40 folks are old, spent, gross, over the hill, or what not but YOU will be there so much faster than you think.
Second is "send face pics" as the first thing in a reply. Believe it or not there are some here who do have professional or other issues that they can't afford to. Or simply don't want to throw their faces at whom ever asks for them. Remember, A picture may paint a thousand words but 5 minutes of conversation will tell you more than a thousand pictures. Sure at some point you have to see and decide. But does it always have to be the first damn thing all the time and all decisions are based on it? I've met dozens of people without having seen a face pic. WHY? Because I'm meeting a person not a picture.Sometimes we click other times we don't. They have all be interesting and some turned out great The pic is merely a reference. A momentary instant frozen for future viewing if you will. Some are photogenic other aren't. If I only had a buck for everyone in this lifestyle that turned me down for a pic and later played with me after meeting me at a party or M&G..lol
Second is "send face pics" as the first thing in a reply. Believe it or not there are some here who do have professional or other issues that they can't afford to. Or simply don't want to throw their faces at whom ever asks for them. Remember, A picture may paint a thousand words but 5 minutes of conversation will tell you more than a thousand pictures. Sure at some point you have to see and decide. But does it always have to be the first damn thing all the time and all decisions are based on it? I've met dozens of people without having seen a face pic. WHY? Because I'm meeting a person not a picture.Sometimes we click other times we don't. They have all be interesting and some turned out great The pic is merely a reference. A momentary instant frozen for future viewing if you will. Some are photogenic other aren't. If I only had a buck for everyone in this lifestyle that turned me down for a pic and later played with me after meeting me at a party or M&G..lol
Single dicks posing as a couple.... enough said.
Not having the common courtesy to respond to an email. Since I grew up with manners it just seems damn rude not to. I've politely turned down women that I was not attracted to.
STOP using your drivers license weight on your profile. C'mon we know the difference between 20+ pounds!
Be honest with that, like height please.
Be honest with that, like height please.
HANDM wrote:
STOP using your drivers license weight on your profile. C'mon we know the difference between 20+ pounds!
Be honest with that, like height please.
But that is an official government document. Always trust the government.
no pet peeves...Everyone has their own preferences...and on this site there is someone for everyone...If u like under 40 there are a few and over 40 there are thousands haha...Age to some people does make a difference...It shouldnt but if u are almost as old as my parents..sorry peoples... i realise in 15 years when i am over 40 that 25 year olds wont want to sleep with me. so suck it up...but overall its a great site and have loved the experiences we have had..
FANTASYBCUMSREALITY wrote:UTAHPLEASURES wrote:
(A)Ladies Hairy armpits
(B)Does that text you 15 minutes before you get to them
(C)Does that email you and say lets to something this week. You follow with an email.(Email read) and no respond
Ours is when someone accepts your friend request, reads your message/messages and doesn't respond. Even a simple, "Thanks for the message, I'm/we're a little busy now, but let's discuss later. Thanks!", would be nice.
We end up deleting profiles on our friends list shortly after.
The worst when you go to respond to an email and you have been blocked WTF.
My point with the face pics was that it's the very first thing they want most every time. No hi how are you just Send face pics. Of course we all want to know and yes pics usually need to be exchanged but cum on.
the only little pet peeve I have it getting a request from a couple and finding no male pics in the public file but plenty of ladies. I must admit the ladies are beautiful but if its a couple then I need to be attracted to both. Most of the time I will not friend a couple unless I can see both of them in their public pics.
BORNBRIT wrote:
the only little pet peeve I have it getting a request from a couple and finding no male pics in the public file but plenty of ladies. I must admit the ladies are beautiful but if its a couple then I need to be attracted to both. Most of the time I will not friend a couple unless I can see both of them in their public pics.
This is usually only because the male isn't as hot as the wife LOL I've noticed many profiles like that and recognized the women from their pictures and completely understood WHY he didn't have any pics up.
My pet peeve are the men that use their women to attract playmates for them, like their wife is a trophy. I know a couple that is like that....his wife is cute with nice boobs, a nice figure and is a fun, social butterfly...she brings in the male part of the couple and after they arrange to meet, the other wife meets her husband (who is average in looks). After meeting she sees that he has a good personality and they tend to hook up
He is a nice guy but I don't think he would have a lot of luck on his own and he never seems to try to hook HER up LOLOH!! My other pet peeve is when other couple see that a woman has a Couple status on their profile yet they email her like she is a single woman for a threesome. They don't try to talk to you to see if you and your partner play separately...they just assume that because you are on the sites that you will play with them by yourself.
I dont understand why people dont have real honest pictures up. Why in the world would you want to meet someone without showing them what you really look like. Also people will post in booty call and have one picture up that doesnt show anything. Its like if were meeting to hookup show me now with an honest picture so we dont end up in an awkward cituation.
lets see, rules of engagement, no friendship requests with no photos of him, unless she is really hot!
to much age difference, leaving nothing to talk about, unless she is really hot!
a guy whos wife doesnt seem to want to be there , unless she is really hot!
oh screw it no rules if she is really hot!
to much age difference, leaving nothing to talk about, unless she is really hot!
a guy whos wife doesnt seem to want to be there , unless she is really hot!
oh screw it no rules if she is really hot!
BORNBRIT has the best hair. love it. i want it.
BORNBRIT has a lot more than just the best hair and I want it too..lol You do too LVRSPLY
INVITESOME wrote:HANDM wrote:
STOP using your drivers license weight on your profile. C'mon we know the difference between 20+ pounds!
Be honest with that, like height please.
But that is an official government document. Always trust the government.
ouch... the pain from the laughter!!!! Stop it my belly hurts, my face is going to crack!
i think these are all amazing thoughts. one that is the worst for me as a single male, the challenges we face because of a lot of guys out there who have ruined it and tainted the view on us. there are still a lot of really good single guys out there and it sux that there are those who have either gotten into this for the complete wrong reasons, or is just disrespectful of buondaries, requests, and limits.
T4REAL69 wrote:LVRSPLY wrote:
lets see, rules of engagement, no friendship requests with no photos of him, unless she is really hot!
to much age difference, leaving nothing to talk about, unless she is really hot!
a guy whos wife doesnt seem to want to be there , unless she is really hot!
oh screw it no rules if she is really hot!
Now damn if that doesn't sound like the truth....lmao! Oh and LVRSPLY....yeah you are REALLY HOT!
HANDM wrote:
STOP using your drivers license weight on your profile. C'mon we know the difference between 20+ pounds!
Be honest with that, like height please.
Isn't it funny how people tend to exagerate measurements when talking of height, breast size or penis length/girth,,, but so underestimate their weight? LOL
Makes it hard for us tall, slender fellows that are hung like a horse to understand!
STOP using your drivers license weight on your profile. C'mon we know the difference between 20+ pounds!
Be honest with that, like height please.
Isn't it funny how people tend to exagerate measurements when talking of height, breast size or penis length/girth,,, but so underestimate their weight? LOL
Makes it hard for us tall, slender fellows that are hung like a horse to understand!
Okay I have a new one that came up last night. And I vented about it in the chat room but here goes (thanks to all those that let me vent in there last night!)
It sucks that all males are put in the same category (which i understand...but I am willing to prove i am not like the others) . ..but it is annoying as hell when a couple decides that because they are a couple and I am a single male, they can make whatever demands they want of me and if I am like hey that is not something I am in for, start getting pissed off. Don't ask for every pic in the book if you have NO pics to share. That is annoying as hell. I have face pics and get on cam and come say hi. But for you to say show me this and show me that but not be willing to share ANY pics is rude and obnoxious and then when I say hey I am willing to share pics but you have to SHARE AT LEAST ONE. And if you arn't going to don't tell me I am being demanding...Especially if you asked for pics first and I never did. Then to have the call to say NO MEANS NO. Sorry, I asked you one time and said fair is fair. . .if you don't want to that is fine just say this won't work out but don't lecture me on how to be appropriate!
Thank you.
It sucks that all males are put in the same category (which i understand...but I am willing to prove i am not like the others) . ..but it is annoying as hell when a couple decides that because they are a couple and I am a single male, they can make whatever demands they want of me and if I am like hey that is not something I am in for, start getting pissed off. Don't ask for every pic in the book if you have NO pics to share. That is annoying as hell. I have face pics and get on cam and come say hi. But for you to say show me this and show me that but not be willing to share ANY pics is rude and obnoxious and then when I say hey I am willing to share pics but you have to SHARE AT LEAST ONE. And if you arn't going to don't tell me I am being demanding...Especially if you asked for pics first and I never did. Then to have the call to say NO MEANS NO. Sorry, I asked you one time and said fair is fair. . .if you don't want to that is fine just say this won't work out but don't lecture me on how to be appropriate!
Thank you.
Pushy and/or selfish people. They're the reason we haven't played or gone to a party is almost a year. This isn't just males, though. With one couple the guy kept fucking me when I asked him to stop because it was starting to hurt.. he didn't and the wife was egging him on and telling ME "no no it's fine, he's so good!" I finally had to push him off of me and run to the bathroom because he tore me and make me bleed! Another single male invited us over and as soon as he came, pulled out and ran to the bathroom, changed and went to his living room with hubby and I left flabbergasted and naked on the bed. The best part was the next day when he asked if we'd want to come back that weekend because he'd had so much fun. WHAT?! NO!
carolina:
i totally agree with you man..not most are like that.
i totally agree with you man..not most are like that.
As you can all probably guess from the thread I started today...my pet peeve is PEOPLE WHO DON'T READ PROFILES!!! Its there for a reason! UGH
*Amber
*Amber
we never read the profile when she is really hot.
VLADTHEIMPALER wrote:well we really like you cuz your real and not fronting like so many on this site, with all the complaining.LVRSPLY wrote:
we never read the profile when she is really hot.
I still have read your profile....yet, I just stare at the pictures! LOL!
How about people who "say they are looking for friends" but once you play,(even more then once) They start to blow you off (and not in a good way). If you only want to fuck, just say so. Why make others believe you are in it for friendship as well. There are some of us that can see beyond the bedroom. Listing all your likes "cards, dinner, movies" and never wanting to do anything but play, is not friends.
Don't know if it's really a pet peeve, but when you send a kind word or two to someone, especially those on your friends list, and notice they have read your message but didn't feel you were worth the 30 seconds it would take to click (reply) and say "thank you" or even "sorry, we changed our mind". Makes a couple really start doubting themselves and wondering if all the heartache is worth chasing the dream. Shrek & Fiona
LOL everyones making valid points ... I loved the bi comfortable statement ... Yes if my wife is bi curious or even bi friendly doesn't mean she's into every pussy lol , agree with hygiene issues, agree with not showing up , our favorite was told us to hang out in town for an hour and a half and than canceled on us leaving us to drive back and hour and a half lol. Our other favorite is married couple male visiting from OUT of State he is looking for fun but you've never met other half and never will lol People are human we all make mistakes LOL We have been in the lifestyle enough to create a long laundry list of annoyances to be truthful we're just on here to make friends and avoid the speed bumps in life LOL whether thats things or people
Flaky people. People who seem too scared when it comes to having sex. We don't like spending too much time in the butt-sniffing stage. We understand comfort levels but,we are all swingers and you can't learn to swim by sticking your toe in it. Either get in or get out.
Married guys posing as single guys or claiming to have a hall pass. Then, for some reason or another, we can't meet with the Mrs. As if we can't see through your bullshit.
And last on my list: We did a couple of bukkakes. It was fun but, we are over it now. We don't need any more offers. If we get any more messages that say, "Hey, would you like a cum facial tonight?" we will ignore it. It is a fantasy which has been fullfilled. Thanks but no thanks
Married guys posing as single guys or claiming to have a hall pass. Then, for some reason or another, we can't meet with the Mrs. As if we can't see through your bullshit.
And last on my list: We did a couple of bukkakes. It was fun but, we are over it now. We don't need any more offers. If we get any more messages that say, "Hey, would you like a cum facial tonight?" we will ignore it. It is a fantasy which has been fullfilled. Thanks but no thanks
Pet Peeve: No response. We are ok with people not wanting to be on our friend list or meet us. If we send an introductory email, be considerate enough to send at LEAST a "no thanks"....its that simple really.
Everyone has pet peeves and everyones will be different.....Nobody can make everybody happy all the time.....Many of the things listed above irritate me as well but hey life to short to go through it irritated......You know what the old song said....You take the good you take the bad you take it all and there ya have the facts of life.....
If it bugs ya find other peeps move on happy fucking to all....
Lucky
If it bugs ya find other peeps move on happy fucking to all....
Lucky
CURIOUSNEW2010 wrote:
Pet Peeve: No response. We are ok with people not wanting to be on our friend list or meet us. If we send an introductory email, be considerate enough to send at LEAST a "no thanks"....its that simple really.
Or a party invite, or a reply to a booty call...c'mon people we don't care why you don't or can't come...how long does it take to say.."Sorry..not this time"?
We HATE ginormous penis warts...unless they're shaped just right and in a spot that rubs on our G-spot/prostate.
Evil
Evil
EVILDOERS wrote:
We HATE ginormous penis warts...unless they're shaped just right and in a spot that rubs on our G-spot/prostate. Evil
Hmmmm....thinking we still may dislike them..just a little..anyway! Hope we never have to make THAT call..LOL
You know what my pet peeve is?!? Psycho stalker types that you meet only ONCE and tell them you are not interested in continuing the friendship but they continue to text you on a almost DAILY basis!!!!! Seriously get the F-ING clue! (sorry long day, needed to rant!)
PEBBLEROCK wrote:
Don't know if it's really a pet peeve, but when you send a kind word or two to someone, especially those on your friends list, and notice they have read your message but didn't feel you were worth the 30 seconds it would take to click (reply) and say "thank you" or even "sorry, we changed our mind". Makes a couple really start doubting themselves and wondering if all the heartache is worth chasing the dream. Shrek & Fiona
Shrek and Fiona my ass.
*SMOOCH TO BOTH OF YOU*
xox
Tammy
p.s. But I will apologize for falling asleep in the middle of texting. My bad.
PEBBLEROCK wrote:
Don't know if it's really a pet peeve, but when you send a kind word or two to someone, especially those on your friends list, and notice they have read your message but didn't feel you were worth the 30 seconds it would take to click (reply) and say "thank you" or even "sorry, we changed our mind". Makes a couple really start doubting themselves and wondering if all the heartache is worth chasing the dream. Shrek & Fiona
I feel the SAME way!!!! It is a pet peeve to me!!!!!
PEBBLEROCK wrote:
Don't know if it's really a pet peeve, but when you send a kind word or two to someone, especially those on your friends list, and notice they have read your message but didn't feel you were worth the 30 seconds it would take to click (reply) and say "thank you" or even "sorry, we changed our mind". Makes a couple really start doubting themselves and wondering if all the heartache is worth chasing the dream. Shrek & Fiona
Could Not agree with you more. Often they get deleted off my list.
UTAHPLEASURES wrote:
Could Not agree with you more. Often they get deleted off my list.
You've got some DAMN HOT pics on your profile!
We love everything about this lifestyle so far..of course we dont want flakes or overly pushy people ..but in our few experiences we havent had that issue..I guess cause when we meet up we just want to fuck (no time to make best friends)
Respond, if you are on someone's friends list and you have received an invitation from them via email, that's ALL. xoxo.
We have a few pet pieves
1. People who make multiple dates at same time then bail on most cause they chose one but never said they had other options....
2. People who bring there kids....
3. men that force there women to be inito swing.
4. couples out of state wanting to just trade pics to whack it to.
5. Most single guys. People will msg you if they want usually but cheezy lines and tryin to boast your sexual prowess instant blocked...
6. people with all kinds of street thug names come on be real.
1. People who make multiple dates at same time then bail on most cause they chose one but never said they had other options....
2. People who bring there kids....
3. men that force there women to be inito swing.
4. couples out of state wanting to just trade pics to whack it to.
5. Most single guys. People will msg you if they want usually but cheezy lines and tryin to boast your sexual prowess instant blocked...
6. people with all kinds of street thug names come on be real.
How about the women who have "bi-curious" on their profiles and when you chat with them it turns out that they ARE actually bi-curious...defined as: curious about what a bi-sexual woman can do FOR them with no reciprocation. If you are bi-friendly and just kiss or play with breasts, that's fine, tell us. If you truly are bi-curious and we click, that's fine as well, just let us know.
Other pet peeve...the gals that email him back and asking if he plays alone ( I do have him send emails bc I am not on the computer much). It is in our profiles, we play together. It also doesn't mean that I have a problem with the three of us having playtime...even if I am not as attracted to you as he is...I can always just take pictures with your permission Be respectful to me as his partner in life and you will get a lot farther. A little respect= a LOT of pleasure. However, keep in mind, WE have invited you to play with US and *I* am the one who will decide if *I* want to help pleasure you or just team up with you to pleasure my man. Just because I enjoy tasting and caressing a nice, clean kitty when the woman's personality and the chemistry with us is right doesn't mean you should expect it (and if you are a true bi-sexual woman...don't force yourself on me either...it's a 2-way street).
Last, but not least....the ones who email me "are you busy this weekend?" No photos, not "Hello, how are you", not "wanna chat sometime"... just that question. READ MY PROFILE...it tells you what we expect, that we don't play alone, to send pics, to be respectful and that I am NOT single.
That's the end of my rant for now LOL
Other pet peeve...the gals that email him back and asking if he plays alone ( I do have him send emails bc I am not on the computer much). It is in our profiles, we play together. It also doesn't mean that I have a problem with the three of us having playtime...even if I am not as attracted to you as he is...I can always just take pictures with your permission
Be respectful to me as his partner in life and you will get a lot farther. A little respect= a LOT of pleasure. However, keep in mind, WE have invited you to play with US and *I* am the one who will decide if *I* want to help pleasure you or just team up with you to pleasure my man. Just because I enjoy tasting and caressing a nice, clean kitty when the woman's personality and the chemistry with us is right doesn't mean you should expect it (and if you are a true bi-sexual woman...don't force yourself on me either...it's a 2-way street). Last, but not least....the ones who email me "are you busy this weekend?" No photos, not "Hello, how are you", not "wanna chat sometime"... just that question. READ MY PROFILE...it tells you what we expect, that we don't play alone, to send pics, to be respectful and that I am NOT single.
That's the end of my rant for now LOL
Husbands that sit and watch and then chime in and tell you how she likes it. WTF if your not playing shut up and let her do the talking.
A lack of pics of the male in a couple. We don't accept friend requests from those without a pic of the male in their public album. Blurred faces are completely understandable in the public album but we need something to go on for both halves of the couple.
Reason for first pet peeve is people who don't have public pics, send friend request, you accept, they don't float your boat so you delete them then they send nasty emails because they didn't do it for you.
Reason for first pet peeve is people who don't have public pics, send friend request, you accept, they don't float your boat so you delete them then they send nasty emails because they didn't do it for you.
CRAZYFOXTCU wrote:
A lack of pics of the male in a couple. We don't accept friend requests from those without a pic of the male in their public album. Blurred faces are completely understandable in the public album but we need something to go on for both halves of the couple.
Reason for first pet peeve is people who don't have public pics, send friend request, you accept, they don't float your boat so you delete them then they send nasty emails because they didn't do it for you.
I agree with you to an extent, there are no pics of myself in the public album, because there are people on the site that we would prefer to stay anonymous to, so we have to be somewhat picky in who we allow. On the other hand, the nasty email you mentioned is ridiculous. If people aren't in to each other, so be it...
I have seen a couple of posts that refer to age-related peeves. Our pet peeve is that as an older couple, we're often totally ignored. Or if not ignored, people are often rude. We'll be introduced, then they will turn their backs and resume talking to someone else. We're older than most of you, we get it! But to dismiss us is rude. We don't expect to play with couples in their 20s, but we feel that a couple in their 50s shouldn't dismiss us out of hand.( Maybe they're looking for that couple in their 20s.)
Another peeve is people who will contact us and only want to play with the wife. Each of us has a hall pass, and either of us can play alone, but most times we much prefer to play as a couple. Women do sometimes age more gracefully than men and remain more attractive. This does not mean that the male partner doesn't have something to offer. If she's hot, and he is not so much, he probably has other qualities. After all, the hot woman chose him as a lifemate.
I could say more on both of these subjects, but you can fill in the blanks.
Jim and Anna
Another peeve is people who will contact us and only want to play with the wife. Each of us has a hall pass, and either of us can play alone, but most times we much prefer to play as a couple. Women do sometimes age more gracefully than men and remain more attractive. This does not mean that the male partner doesn't have something to offer. If she's hot, and he is not so much, he probably has other qualities. After all, the hot woman chose him as a lifemate.
I could say more on both of these subjects, but you can fill in the blanks.
Jim and Anna
PLEASE27 wrote:
How about what we love about the lifestyle??? I'm going to say BOOBIES and FUN! Oh yeah..... and orgasms!!!
I love to watch the pleasure! The different perspectives on the sexual experience, and of course the play time!
I think what bugs us the most is that some folks think just because you want to meet them to get to know them that you are going to play the first time you meet. We also do not apriciate the Old pictures or not having pictures of both people. We all age and change we try our best to keep pics up to date not years old.
If pictures are over a year or two old, that's a little bit far out for imagination...
People that dont accept your invite to ther friends list they accept the cansel after they look at your private photos i do a lot of traveling across the country in my 45ft prevost motor home to take care of some celeberitys horses and train some race horses i do the KY derby every year and im in the paddock every year checking horses being a vet and meeting some famous people some of whom that i train and take care of there horses i am very bi and not realy interested in men at this time i ride a harley and will be going to sturgis for bike week then to LA and on to vegas and back to florida so maybe we can hook up i will have my roommate with me she is hot and bi and likes men and anal sex so let us know and sen an invite and stop being a horses ass...................Wanda
My pet peeve is friend requests and no pictures of the male half, or if there are a couple of pictures they are tiny or blurry so you can't tell what they look like anyways.
We aren't fans of non-kissers. Seriously?!?! This isn't Pretty Woman people. Kissing one pair of her lips is just as "special" as kissing the others. Besides, what in the heck are you supposed to do with your face if not kiss?? "Hey Joe, pretty nice weather we are having lately don't you think?" LOL
RICHNKAY801 wrote:BWAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHA now that's funny shit and totally true. But we also respect the fact that some couples have a kissing rule and that's up to them. Frankly, we find it almost silly, but it's a personal decision. Example: "Oh yeah tongue punch her in the baby-maker and ram that shaft in her like you're churning butter, but would ya mind not kissing her??? That's kinda personal."
We aren't fans of non-kissers. Seriously?!?! This isn't Pretty Woman people. Kissing one pair of her lips is just as "special" as kissing the others. Besides, what in the heck are you supposed to do with your face if not kiss?? "Hey Joe, pretty nice weather we are having lately don't you think?" LOL
our biggest pet peeve is when poeple send a friend request and have no face pics or just a pic of the female half....its a package deal dont be shy...atleast have them in your private pics
PEBBLEROCK wrote:RICHNKAY801 wrote:BWAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHA now that's funny shit and totally true. But we also respect the fact that some couples have a kissing rule and that's up to them. Frankly, we find it almost silly, but it's a personal decision. Example: "Oh yeah tongue punch her in the baby-maker and ram that shaft in her like you're churning butter, but would ya mind not kissing her??? That's kinda personal."
We aren't fans of non-kissers. Seriously?!?! This isn't Pretty Woman people. Kissing one pair of her lips is just as "special" as kissing the others. Besides, what in the heck are you supposed to do with your face if not kiss?? "Hey Joe, pretty nice weather we are having lately don't you think?" LOL
this was hilarious, and well put! roflmao
Pet peeves....
depends on if the mood meds have kicked in or not.
laugh. it was supposed to be funny. (yes, the meds have kicked in)
depends on if the mood meds have kicked in or not.
laugh. it was supposed to be funny. (yes, the meds have kicked in)
fantasy seeker -- I've lived in many states and i'm new to this lifestyle. Here people not even in the lifestyle drop off the face of the earth w/o any follow-up. We call it the *utah poof-ers*. There cannot always be chemistry live, but common coutesy for others....in life....in this lifestyle, should always be common ground. In short, yes, i have the same pet peeve.
KURVYSQUIRT wrote:
fantasy seeker -- I've lived in many states and i'm new to this lifestyle. Here people not even in the lifestyle drop off the face of the earth w/o any follow-up. We call it the *utah poof-ers*. There cannot always be chemistry live, but common coutesy for others....in life....in this lifestyle, should always be common ground. In short, yes, i have the same pet peeve.
I have to say there are a few people that are almost scared when I send them a message afterward. Even just the "how are you" message. I guess they're the poofers, but a lot of people think that that's gonna be it... I couldn't agree more what was said here.
Pet peeves are as follow:
*Hairy puss
*Cancel of date 1 hour before meet
*Non kissers
*Huge as toes tails ( Come on please )
*Cat/Dog hair all over the clothing
*Hairy puss
*Cancel of date 1 hour before meet
*Non kissers
*Huge as toes tails ( Come on please )
*Cat/Dog hair all over the clothing
In the defense of non kissers...there are some ppl out there that just don't know how to kiss or are too aggressive of a kisser. If someone isn't a good kisser, it's a HUGE turn-off for me so I usually limit the kissing. Soft kisses are nice but I don't usually go for the "teenager in the backseat" kissing with playmates (there are exceptions, usually female exceptions bc they are soft and sensual). I understand that just because a guy (or girl) may not kiss me the way I like it (sloppy slobbery kisses, trying to swallow my face, aggressive, or just plain boring), doesn't mean that we can't have some fun....so why ruin it by trying to get thru bad kissing and fighting to stay interested/turned-on? Just stating my side and maybe a few others LOL
I know it was already said... but I need to say it again... profiles with no face pictures of either person... even in the private section... is ANNOYING as hell.
If you can't put a normal, face/body picture (fully clothed) in your private section, you probably shouldn't be on this site. I'm sure most people have all kinds of those pictures on their facebook accounts, yet they won't put them out here... makes no sense to me AT ALL.
Personally, I would rather see a fully clothed, hot woman than a naked woman with no face...
If you can't put a normal, face/body picture (fully clothed) in your private section, you probably shouldn't be on this site. I'm sure most people have all kinds of those pictures on their facebook accounts, yet they won't put them out here... makes no sense to me AT ALL.
Personally, I would rather see a fully clothed, hot woman than a naked woman with no face...
People who complain too much!!!! this is just for a good , dirty, sweaty time...No complaints yet in our 6 months of having orgies
Where's these orgies being held at?
when we do booty calls haha...!!!! but the problem is we like daytime fun more than nights or weekends
Couples who get possessive or territorial over other couples.