just a thought. if your going to advertise a house party in the public party zone and then screen your guests for only the beautiful people to attend, shouldnt that have been the fucking booty call section?.....
mostly talking in general but the party tonight in saratoga springs comes to mind. have many dear friends on here that rsvp'd yet are now feeling snubbed cause they cant get a reply or and address.
i'll kick them in the snobhole. hahaha
"snobhole"....haha...now that's funny
I suspect someone thought it would be fun opening up their private home for a party and got overwhelmed with responses (way more than they could handle in their home\neighborhood). It happens - especially if you haven't done it before. If it was on the Event list on the front page then yeah, I'd see that as something to be addressed. If it was in a forum then I'd recommend getting over it - people need to have something of a thick skin if they're going to be on here very long. Not sure what party you are talking about so this is an unbiased opinion.
fyi...it was on event list on front page....hence the point of this whole discussion....and as another point....every email deserves a reply. dont say rsvp and we will get u address and then bail
Fair enough. I agree it was in bad form, and life is too short to hold grudges - it was also thoughtful of you NOT to call them out by name.
BOTHHANDS wrote:
it was also thoughtful of you NOT to call them out by name.
And against the Terms of Service...not allowed to call people out on the public forums
Let me make one thing perfectly clear:
THERE IS NO DRAMA IN THE LIFESTYLE!!!
THERE IS NO DRAMA IN THE LIFESTYLE!!!
This is a grat post for me I or we have had some hous party some good and the last one was a GRATE turn out but after reading this post I have leard to put ant the end of are invites all is wellcum as long as there is room for all.
DAMN THERE WAS A HOUSE PARTY?
LILDEVILZ wrote:
fyi...it was on event list on front page....hence the point of this whole discussion....and as another point....every email deserves a reply. dont say rsvp and we will get u address and then bail
Amen. Has happened to us a few times. Starting to get a very definate "opinion" of some of the "Too pretty for you" folks here. We're now finding a good use for the "notes" section of their profile...yep. AND...trying to grow thicker skin. But..rude..is rude.
Sorry if I'm out of line...but LilDevilz sort of touched an exposed nerve.....
Anyone else looking for a date for the prom? Oh sorry. This is sooo Jr.High School! Lol make your own party and quit your snivling. You can't force anyone to be like you want them to be. Cordial or otherwise. Just say "fuck it" move on...
Wow way too much drama! I was not feeling well Friday but Saturday night felt better and RSVP'd to the party in question. Did not receive a reply so stayed home, made love to wife (always a good party). Sure, it would have been nice to receive a "sorry due to budget, space, age (fill in blank) we have limited the number of people attending. Thank you for your interest and hope you have a great weekend" response. If this is the worse thing that happened this weekend you're taking this lifestyle way to serious.
Advise to any one throwing a party be as courteous to those taking the time and interest to attend as you would like them to be respectful to you.
Advise to any one throwing a party be as courteous to those taking the time and interest to attend as you would like them to be respectful to you.
Dont sweat it people we were there they just had way to many people !!!!! They are really nice people and I dont think they ment to hurt anyones feelings ......
Badboy8p
Badboy8p
We are not mad but we RSVP'd to the party in question 8 days ago and immediately they ask us a face pics of us, we quickly respond with our pic but we did not got any answer back,so Friday afternoon we send another message just for to know if they want us to the party or not,Saturday we finally find an answer said because of the huge response they had to limit how many guests they can invite and tried to keep it within their same age range.
This is ok we respect that,but we talked with a couple who got the invitation and they are older than us,so we don't think our age was the real problem but maybe they don't find us to much attractive for invite us to the party.
We think is more honest say the true and not to find excuses.
This is ok we respect that,but we talked with a couple who got the invitation and they are older than us,so we don't think our age was the real problem but maybe they don't find us to much attractive for invite us to the party.
We think is more honest say the true and not to find excuses.
Are you folks saying if you post a party in one place or another on this site it changes the hosts ability of choosing who attends? Where do you read those rules. This is all about personal fantasy is it not? I think I might have read the party notice and if it is the one I remember it was a very young couple that said to "make sure to read our profile to see if you think we are compatible, and we are looking for folks near our own ages". I say have your own party this week and invite who you wish this is a free country.
Monika and Ryan....it wouldnt be a good party without you guys....love ya too and will have to get a rockin party going again soon!