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My wife told me she has a fantasy of being tied down to the bed and blindfolded as she is ravaged by multiple men. We have already lived out most of our fantasies so I want to help her to do this. Does anyone have any advice of how to find the men. Anyone that has done this want to let me know the pros and cons. I am looking for any advice I can get.
A few pointers, based on experiences in Florida:

1.) Invite 2 or 3 times as many as you want to attend, yet still plan on less showing than desired. Theory is that they're simply RSVP'ing a lot of things, choosing the one that strikes their fancy at the moment of leaving home.

2.) Ensure they understand any and all rules BEFORE they're given the location and such. Keep in mind the more rules, the less will attend.

3.) Don't count on anyone looking the same as their pics, some will look better, some worse, we all photograph differently.

4.) Be prepared to have some try to do things forbidden in the rules previously laid out, there's almost always one asshole in a crowd. Handle it with tact and style.

5.) Always ensure safety, however you decide to ensure it. A naked woman in a room full of hard cocks can be a problem waiting to happen, especially if there's alcohol involved.

6.) If possible, have a fluffer or two. Some guys think they can easily do a gang bang, but once it begins, they may have some erection issues. Also, if someone else is fluffing, your lady can lay back and enjoy rather than trying to blow up someone and not being able to focus on what's being done on her.

7.) Most important one: ENJOY YOURSELVES!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am sure I am missing some, but there's plenty of members here who can assist. Uriah comes to mind!
The male half has been to a GB with a total of five guys. It is recommended for security reasons to hold the GB at a neutral location, like a motel. The men should be willing to chip in for the cost. Condoms are a must for all penetration. A LARGE supply of waterbased lube is recommended. Each guy should be required to lube up his penis with the condom in place before penetrating. You may not want the men to perform oral or finger stimulation on the girl to avoid soreness.

We had a great time. The girl was a real trooper. She gave BJs to each guy and got each guy off twice by penetration before it was over.

Good luck
thanks for the advice
Lucky did this for my birthday a while back and it was the best time ever!!! But definitely over invite...I would recommend inviting at least 4 times as many as you want to show...then with your positive RSVP's you'll get about half...it worked out great, we had 4-5 guys at any given moment...a couple were late and a couple had to leave early so it worked out...we did it at our home but we knew most of the guys anyway...it was amazing!!!

Now I have this fantasy of having a living room full of guys and we have a little bit to socialize, then I go in the bedroom and hubby blind folds me...the guys come in one at a time and have their way with me and I never take the blind fold off so I don't know which guy it is....mmmmmm!!!!
JSTJIM.... that is some of the best advice I have ever read on a GB. Thanks. You covered it quite well.
man thats some lame advice, you'd be lucky to have two guys show up with all that, and of the two you'd be lucky if one could get hard. things worked the best for us when we had a all guy party and she was the only girl, weve done gangbangs alot and never had any problems with guys except for no shows, flakes, scarred and nervous guys, alot of them cant get hard, have stage fright etc. but all have always been polite. You can figure that if you invite 40 guys 15 will show up and maybe 8 of the 15 will fuck her, it not an easy thing thats for sure. if you let everyone drink and bs get to know each other, then start out with YOU letting one guy in the room at a time youll have alot better luck, then if they (guys) get comfortable enough you can let more in the room with her,