Within recent weeks we have met with a few friends and some new ones and have found a majority of the time the guys peter out early and resort to some; as she puts it "laim oral skills". After so long of trying to go with it, she fakes the O and hopes they quit or gives me the signal to intervene and save her. Is there any advice the ladies can offer to improve the average oral skills of the average guy?
Maybe someone needs to do a video "clit 101", "G-spot for dummies"
While I don't mind pitch hitting, enough is enough, pay attention learn to listen, your not licking a stamp.
Maybe someone needs to do a video "clit 101", "G-spot for dummies"
While I don't mind pitch hitting, enough is enough, pay attention learn to listen, your not licking a stamp.
LOL! OK, this is just my opinion; but I like a softer tongue technique. Most guys tighten up their tongues to make them almost finger-like. Fingers can be very nice, but a tongue is a tongue, and I like it a little more relaxed. Also, some teasing, please. Stay off the clit at first. Use your tongue and your finger tips for lots of contact other places... but leave the clit out of it, until I beg for it. Make me suffer for a few more minutes beofre you finally land on that clit, and I will cum like a rocket.
I agree with OHBABY! You know when you are doing it right shen she cums or squirts all over your face. That cannot be faked! You have to be flexable and get in tune with what she wants. Sucking on those lips or not, hard or soft lick/suck of her clit or not, Get your toung in as deep as you can while your upper lip is gently pressing on her clit................The number of techniques are too many to list. You gotta want to please her before your get yours, all the better for all. Ill be watching for any mroe tips you ladies may have.......
I agree with all. I like the teasing and you have to get me going. I like the soft tongue, but i also like it when the man gets into it. Its fun and hot and feels amazing. I feel sometimes men are unsure when they are going down. But maybe thats just me. I Like it soft but hard too. I can't cum with oral not unless the man is really into it and is using the best skills soft and hard. Giving me a mix of the best emotion you can have. Thats when i let out and I am all over the place.
I think Oral sex is different for everyone just like Sex. I feel maybe the best way of knowing how the woman like it is if you talk to her about it before the time comes of meeting and playing. Just my opinion.
I think Oral sex is different for everyone just like Sex. I feel maybe the best way of knowing how the woman like it is if you talk to her about it before the time comes of meeting and playing. Just my opinion.
Communication is important. If you can't tell a man (or a woman) what you like and don't like, you get what you get. Every woman is differnt and likes different things. I like it when a lady tells me what she wants me to do. I think of it as verbal foreplay. If she wants me to just control the situation, then I take control. I do like to know what she likes though.
Mrs. Daisy and I are brutally honest with each other think about it, if your lady gives you a blowjob that is just OK or maybe she did something that hurt or maybe tickled too much and you pretend to like it, you have now sentenced yourself to a lifetime of bad blowjobs.
Don't be rude to your partners, just be honest and help them please you. Ladies and gentlemen, your verbal skills are the key to you having a good time as well as your listening skills. If you can't ask, you can't have.
Mrs. Daisy and I are brutally honest with each other think about it, if your lady gives you a blowjob that is just OK or maybe she did something that hurt or maybe tickled too much and you pretend to like it, you have now sentenced yourself to a lifetime of bad blowjobs.
Don't be rude to your partners, just be honest and help them please you. Ladies and gentlemen, your verbal skills are the key to you having a good time as well as your listening skills. If you can't ask, you can't have.
Seriously? Like lickey this spot, kissie that spot directions or something? If the recipient of any sex act isn't able to communicate to the giver what's feeling good, and what ain't, it seems a tad ridiculous to ONLY blame the giver.
Cry me a river.
Cry me a river.
FUN4MWF wrote:
Seriously? Like lickey this spot, kissie that spot directions or something? If the recipient of any sex act isn't able to communicate to the giver what's feeling good, and what ain't it, seems a tad ridiculous to ONLY blame the giver.
Cry me a river.
Exactly what you said. The recipient needs to learn to communicate with the giver and let he/she know what feels good. Sex isn't a guessing game people. You have to be open about what triggers you. Different strokes for different folks. What works for one might not work for another. So, ladies, if you have a tongue anywhere near your pussy, let the giver know what's working and what's not. Your orgasm might depend on it.
Ok, this is almost like giving oral to a guy. Guys, if she's not doing it like you like it, tastefully let her know. I did this with my mrs. and now she blows the minds of every guy she does it to. It's not that hard to do either, just tell her to think of it as the straw of a McDonalds triple thick shake. Wrap you tongue around the bottom in a U shape and put a little suction on it while sliding up. Keep your tongue wrapped around it and release the suction on the way back down. Vary the speed and suction, and remember, most of the nerves for a guys "g-spot" are just behind the head of his member. So tongue the grove here and there. Get playful.
In any case, as far as oral with the ladies goes it's better for both parties to be into it. Ladies, you have to let us know if we are hitting "your" spot. It seems like if there are 40 women in a room, and you get to go down on them all you will have to figure out 40 different ways to do it. So guys keep at it until they let you know. Ladies, let us know when we hit it. And guys again, if what your doing doesn't seem to be getting her to arch her back and scream OH OH OH YES YES YES, or squeeze her legs together like she's trying to crack you head like a nut while screaming, then try something else.
Oh, and even if you do find that "right spot". Don't just linger there forever. Remember where it is and go try to find another spot. If you can find at least 3 spots that driver her nuts, then switch back and forth around them, she will remember you.
One more thing guys. Women are multi orgasmic. If you do get her to "O", don't stop there, keep at it. When she can't breath she will let you know she's done.
You know you did it right when she can't move afterwards and just lays there a twitches just a little while trying to catch her breath.
Yes, I know all this from experience.
In any case, as far as oral with the ladies goes it's better for both parties to be into it. Ladies, you have to let us know if we are hitting "your" spot. It seems like if there are 40 women in a room, and you get to go down on them all you will have to figure out 40 different ways to do it. So guys keep at it until they let you know. Ladies, let us know when we hit it. And guys again, if what your doing doesn't seem to be getting her to arch her back and scream OH OH OH YES YES YES, or squeeze her legs together like she's trying to crack you head like a nut while screaming, then try something else.
Oh, and even if you do find that "right spot". Don't just linger there forever. Remember where it is and go try to find another spot. If you can find at least 3 spots that driver her nuts, then switch back and forth around them, she will remember you.
One more thing guys. Women are multi orgasmic. If you do get her to "O", don't stop there, keep at it. When she can't breath she will let you know she's done.
You know you did it right when she can't move afterwards and just lays there a twitches just a little while trying to catch her breath.
Yes, I know all this from experience.