This is the Mr Half. My FIRST post. Wow, I'm a virgin again!
I've a question as to how folks handle being on here as a couple? Do you ultimately get individual accounts (obviously adds to the expense)? Or how do other people know who's posting...the Mr or the Mrs?
I've been on here with the Mrs. (she's a goof-ball on here!) which is fine. Here I am now though without her -- kinda feels weird like I'm an impostor or something. I wish there was like a blue light or pink light we could turn on next to our name so that people would know which gender was online or posting. I've read through some other posts and most often there's no indication whether a post was made by the female or the male half. I guess ya just assume it's the opinion of both?
I joked about being a virgin at the top. That's only half joking. The Mrs was on the other day, I look over her shoulder and see "DVP who likes it" or something like that. DVP? Delightful Vaginal Penetration? Hey, who doesn't love that! When I found out what it really stood for I'm sure I did one of those GIANT Jaw-Drops. I thought I was kinky enjoying sloppy seconds, "But at the SAME Time?" Some a you folks sure got me beat in the kink department -- which is just awesome, BTW!
Anyway, this is a pretty cool place and it seems like most people on here have been really supportive of my Mrs. -- I'm kinda protective, and I think she acts like she's got a thicker skin than what she actually does. So...Thanks!
(Great, My first post turns out to be a rambling, boring, super-long thing! Oh well)
So...any hints on how YOU handle it when BOTH of you are on the same account?
I've a question as to how folks handle being on here as a couple? Do you ultimately get individual accounts (obviously adds to the expense)? Or how do other people know who's posting...the Mr or the Mrs?
I've been on here with the Mrs. (she's a goof-ball on here!) which is fine. Here I am now though without her -- kinda feels weird like I'm an impostor or something. I wish there was like a blue light or pink light we could turn on next to our name so that people would know which gender was online or posting. I've read through some other posts and most often there's no indication whether a post was made by the female or the male half. I guess ya just assume it's the opinion of both?
I joked about being a virgin at the top. That's only half joking. The Mrs was on the other day, I look over her shoulder and see "DVP who likes it" or something like that. DVP? Delightful Vaginal Penetration? Hey, who doesn't love that! When I found out what it really stood for I'm sure I did one of those GIANT Jaw-Drops. I thought I was kinky enjoying sloppy seconds, "But at the SAME Time?" Some a you folks sure got me beat in the kink department -- which is just awesome, BTW!
Anyway, this is a pretty cool place and it seems like most people on here have been really supportive of my Mrs. -- I'm kinda protective, and I think she acts like she's got a thicker skin than what she actually does. So...Thanks!
(Great, My first post turns out to be a rambling, boring, super-long thing! Oh well)
So...any hints on how YOU handle it when BOTH of you are on the same account?
This is the Mrs half.... I guess I won't be just a voyeur today...
It seems to me that like with everything else in the lifestyle--make whatever works for you two work for you two.
We run one account on here. It's nice that when we are apart we can both access it at the same time and look at the same things and then we chat about things either on yahoo im or talking on the phone of course. We just pretty much try to make sure to tell which of us or if both of us are doing the communicating when needed...If there is no distinction as to which one it is I for one assume it is the opinion of both, or will ask if it seems important.
We also don't make too many comments on the forums and such (what has been said is primarily by me) If we both said a lot we probably would go ahead and run 2 accounts so there would be less confusion in that department.
This site is especially great for 2 financially in that we paid one time for a lifetime membership that was even less sometimes than we have paid for just a month on other sites.
Don't know if this helps much...just thought I would throw a few thoughts out. One thing that never hurts we have found is try something and if it isn't working try something else. Keeping communicating between the 2 of you is the most important.
Oh and it won't take you long to catch on to the abbreviations and hidden meanings used in the lifestyle....and the more you "use" them the easier they will be to figure out new ones too.
It seems to me that like with everything else in the lifestyle--make whatever works for you two work for you two.
We run one account on here. It's nice that when we are apart we can both access it at the same time and look at the same things and then we chat about things either on yahoo im or talking on the phone of course. We just pretty much try to make sure to tell which of us or if both of us are doing the communicating when needed...If there is no distinction as to which one it is I for one assume it is the opinion of both, or will ask if it seems important.
We also don't make too many comments on the forums and such (what has been said is primarily by me) If we both said a lot we probably would go ahead and run 2 accounts so there would be less confusion in that department.
This site is especially great for 2 financially in that we paid one time for a lifetime membership that was even less sometimes than we have paid for just a month on other sites.
Don't know if this helps much...just thought I would throw a few thoughts out. One thing that never hurts we have found is try something and if it isn't working try something else. Keeping communicating between the 2 of you is the most important.
Oh and it won't take you long to catch on to the abbreviations and hidden meanings used in the lifestyle....and the more you "use" them the easier they will be to figure out new ones too.
Hey there Mr Funcpl0023, Usually with us, we tell whoever were talking to if its her or I. Most are pretty receptive to that. Though we have found that a few would prefer us to have separate accounts. We figure it this way. If we have separate accounts we play separate. Which we do not. But I personally can understand wanting a marker light on the profile. Though I think some would abuse it. But that is just my opinion. As for lifestyle info. I think this site is probably one of the best around in that department. I can look around the forums and always find the answer. Its great that we as members of this lifestyle have a outlet like this where we can get info and openly discuss the information. Just my two cents lol 
Delightful Vaginal Penetration... you just made my day. But now I will have to clean my computer screen cuz I spit soda all over it. 
hahaha
As for the topic on hand, Mark & I have had just one profile the whole time we've been on the site. People sometimes ask if its MR or MRS but anybody who knows us, knows that I'm the only one that uses the keyboard when online. Mark only knows how to clicky with the mousey. :P (JK. He's smartlike and such, he just doesn't do online socializing type things.)
hahahaAs for the topic on hand, Mark & I have had just one profile the whole time we've been on the site. People sometimes ask if its MR or MRS but anybody who knows us, knows that I'm the only one that uses the keyboard when online. Mark only knows how to clicky with the mousey. :P (JK. He's smartlike and such, he just doesn't do online socializing type things.)
KITTYBEAR4U wrote:Thanks, Yeah, I think being able to see the same things that are "happening" on that username is nice -- better than having separate accounts since, after all, we ARE a pair!
.... We run one account on here. It's nice that when we are apart we can both access it at the same time and look at the same things ... We just pretty much try to make sure to tell which of us or if both of us are doing the communicating when needed... ...
FUNCPL0023 wrote:This further convinces me that it's best for us to stick with one account. I suppose a separate account WOULD make it seem as if we play separate. The Mrs does play with single guys on her own sometimes, but other than that we're always together (oh, crap, I'm going to get a ration of shit from guys for that aren't I? OK, never mind. Really how we roll is that I screw any girl that comes within 10 feet of me and usually take on 7 or 8 girls at a time, totally satisfying them all as they share my 12" long coke-can-sized penis. Yeah. That's my story. And I'm sticking ... oh, never mind!)
...we tell whoever were talking to if its her or I. Most are pretty receptive to that....We figure it this way. If we have separate accounts we play separate. Which we do not.
HELLO_KITTY12984 wrote:Kitty, somehow I doubt you like being called this, but you are just a DOLL! I love your profile and pics. I'd be all over you like a bee on honey, but I really did read your profile and understand that my 12 inches would be a bit much for you. (LOL -- thank goodness for private vs public photos or you'd call me on that one REAL quick!) But seriously, we sound like the same as you guys. The wife is more the socialite and I'm just along for the ride, attending whatever "dates" or parties she sets up. I won't be on here a LOT myself -- but once in awhile. (Glad to help you soil your screen BTW!)
Delightful Vaginal Penetration... you just made my day... I have had just one profile the whole time we've been on the site. People sometimes ask if its MR or MRS .... He's smartlike and such, he just doesn't do online socializing type things.)
HOTTIEINSOUTAHCOUNTY wrote:Further convincing me that just one account is appropriate for us.
We have two accounts although at this point only this one gets used. When we post we just sign it with whoever is responding.
Thank you "guys!"
Seperate accounts, we usually preface any posts with which of us are posting...
My lady friend and I (we now play as a couple) were both on Swingular with our own individual accounts - which we still have.
Once we got together, we formed a joint account with both of our names combined.
Our joint profile refers folks to our individual accounts, and our individual account profiles.
Me - CARRIERMAN
Her - FLGEEKGIRL
Us - CARRIERMANandGEEKGIRL
We wanted to be as honest, truthful and up front about everything as possible.
We hope everyone agrees that we did it all in the proper way.
Once we got together, we formed a joint account with both of our names combined.
Our joint profile refers folks to our individual accounts, and our individual account profiles.
Me - CARRIERMAN
Her - FLGEEKGIRL
Us - CARRIERMANandGEEKGIRL
We wanted to be as honest, truthful and up front about everything as possible.
We hope everyone agrees that we did it all in the proper way.
We had only one account for a long time and we would just sign at the bottom Mr, Mrs, Lucky or Naughty or something like that...now we have 2 accounts because we each have a laptop and we liked to both chat at the same time but just because we both have an account DOES NOT mean we play without each other...WE ONLY PLAY TOGETHER...both accounts are couple accounts and they both say who our other half is...so I guess for you it depends on if you both like to chat, if you have 2 different computers, etc, etc...
NAUGHTYGIRL101 wrote:Oh, this is gonna get sooo weird! I'm posting now to a thread that my husband started! But ditto everything he said. Well, except the 12" penis part. If he's got a 12" penis than I gotta get shopping for my new Double D bra cause this plain ol' D-cup is gettin' too tight!
We had only one account for a long time and we would just sign at the bottom Mr, Mrs, Lucky or Naughty or something like that...now we have 2 accounts because we each have a laptop and we liked to both chat at the same time but just because we both have an account DOES NOT mean we play without each other...WE ONLY PLAY TOGETHER...both accounts are couple accounts and they both say who our other half is...so I guess for you it depends on if you both like to chat, if you have 2 different computers, etc, etc...
You can see that we have a similar sense of humor! And he's sweet about being protective of me -- I knew I married that guy for some reason!!Anyway, Naughty, yeah, you state clearly what your playing expectations are. I just read an email from a man interested and who wants "friendship" status. His couples profile clearly states IN CAPITOL letters that they do not play separately or in separate rooms. But his email says he does. Well, I guess this is off topic again (dang I keep doing that!) but that irritates the crap out of me. For her. But in the interest of the Non-Drama mantra that everyone promotes here, I suppose that's what the delete key is for! So I used it. I wouldn't want to meet someone who was that dishonest with their own spouse anyway.
We have separate accounts...I, as most know am outspoken, I don't just use these amazing lips for kissing
We try to keep our profiles very similar and we both love to be on at the same time, get in chat at the same time - yadda yadda. It just works for us. The only thing that creates a bit of a conundrum is that my sexy hubby often gets confused for a single male, people just don't seem to read his profile to realize he is not, and before anyone freaks out, nothing is wrong with that, but he is married to me. And believe me...I am the lucky one!
We try to keep our profiles very similar and we both love to be on at the same time, get in chat at the same time - yadda yadda. It just works for us. The only thing that creates a bit of a conundrum is that my sexy hubby often gets confused for a single male, people just don't seem to read his profile to realize he is not, and before anyone freaks out, nothing is wrong with that, but he is married to me. And believe me...I am the lucky one!