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Is this possible on this site?

Ummmm.... You've been a member here since 2008 or so? I've only been on here since late last summer but it's plainly obvious to me that there's a huge number of couples who like to have two women play.

It seems like a good start would be to change your profile from Bi-Comfortable to Bi-Sexual, and make it very clear that you are interested in playing with other women.

Look through other profiles that show a Bi-Sexual woman and contact them. Hopefully you'll be able to make some "contacts".

Also you might try putting up a booty call...they work sometimes

lol Please27...I can see how it would look that way but after the other posts I saw this morning I am assuming that is the wife posting...but good question, a little clarification would probably generate a little more response

PIXIE46 wrote:

I posted a question like this one back in april. I got bashed and trashed. We have revamped our whole entire profile. Just make sure you are very clear on your profile as to what you loking for.

Well, I certainly think that your profile HAS to match what you're looking for, otherwise you're just wasting peoples time. I used to be on here as a "Single Female" but I was sure to make it clear that I was married and played alone with my husbands permission. Things have evolved so the profile has as well. I'd rather people know exactly where I'm coming from. For us, it works best if everyone is just straight forward, up-front, and honest about boundaries right from the start. (Obviously ESPECIALLY between married partners but also between you and potential playmates). Anything less and people get a tad p-o'd and distrustful!

Oh, and Pixie, it seems like your profile looks great as it is now and folks would know exactly what expectations were.

My "bi" ness stems from I can enjoy play time with a woman IF I feel a sexual attraction. Sadly, most women I do not. I honestly need sexual chemistry to enjoy it. However, a few women have made my heart race, my pussy wet, and my knees knock. And trust me, those few occasions have ROCKED. Also a lot of my hesitation stems from most of my experiences being with couples is the male half is totally into me but I sense the wife is only doing it to make her partner happy. When the male is all over me and the female is holding back it makes you think something is wrong and next thing I know I'm not having a good time either. I really hate that.

I've gone the whole range....bi curious, bi sexual, to bi comfortable. Which right now is even a stretch. Until I fully heal from my car accident and other "stuff", I'm not feeling sexual 90% of the time. The other 10% Im purple dildo comfortable. LOL.

BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

My "bi" ness stems .....I've gone the whole range....bi curious, bi sexual, to bi comfortable. Which right now is even a stretch. Until I fully heal from my car accident and other "stuff", I'm not feeling sexual 90% of the time. The other 10% Im purple dildo comfortable. LOL.

AH HA, "purple" dildo, huh? That just proves it, you're Bi-Sexual for sure!!

Oh, and I loved your comments about gals doing things just to please their husbands....I HATE that.

I have a thing for purple. I blame Dave. It's his favorite color. Kinda grew on me. I did go thru a pink phase too. But don't think I could use a pink dildo. That for some reason seems like it would be more a prissy princess type dildo. Or for a flaming queen.

Neither of which I am.

Yet.

BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

I have a thing for purple. I blame Dave. It's his favorite color. Kinda grew on me. I did go thru a pink phase too. But don't think I could use a pink dildo. That for some reason seems like it would be more a prissy princess type dildo. Or for a flaming queen.
Neither of which I am.
Yet.

Hey, at least ya have something to work towards, you know, a goal!

And I re-read my comment above your post about hating it when a gal does things just to please her husband and it doesn't sound like what I meant! I think we all (hopefully) do things to please each other, I guess I just meant doing something sexually to someone else just to please her man. I know for a fact that my hubby does NOT want me to do things to other people unless it just really turns us BOTH on. Otherwise, what the heck's the point and might it not cause problems/resentments to creep in later??

I am trying to put a small group of ladies together that would like to meet once in a while, in my home, for "play". I have placed an ad for this idea on Craigslist and got more men then women. (Not surprised) I made it very clear I am a women and was welling to meet for coffee to confirm.. Spent days answering emails that went no where.... Why is this such a tough thing to do?

WILDATLCOUPLE123 wrote:

oh and by the way if you have ever been with a women (even once) you should not use BI CURIOUS anymore.....you are BI SEXUAL ......HAHA

Gotta disagree with that one! The first time I had sex with a guy it actually wasn't too great. Yes, I'd lost my virginity, but because I'd made it with a guy that didn't automatically make me straight or bi. I didn't like it much, maybe I was gay? Took more "curiosity" and exploring to find out that I LOVE being with guys, just gotta be the RIGHT guys! I'm at the same point with the gals right now. To say that making it with a gal "even once" makes me bi is, I think, a little bit off base?
Just sayin!

WILDATLCOUPLE123:
As a single bi woman I can tell you I am real. Have met many people from the site. I think maybe either its the girls you are talking to or maybe you're just to hot for them and it scares them away.

Ok here is the thing. There are single bi women on this web site. We may be rare but we are real. However we get a lot of emails and friends request. So if you are interested in meeting one. Put the work in. Have interesting photos. Write to her more then once with some charming or sweet emails. If you see her online say hi. I am more likely to make a date for a night if you catch me online.
And for goodness sakes BE RESPECTFUL. We are people, not play things.

Well, I am very happily married with a husband that understands my attraction to women. I am not looking for a lover, just friends. Still want to do all the girlie things, like shopping, lunch, just getting together. But I'd also like a "girlfriend".. This seems to be a difficult thing here..

I would sooo love to be part of that small group!! If it gets going (or you need help getting it together) give me a shout!! How fun would that be!!

tricia

VEGASLOVE wrote:

I am trying to put a small group of ladies together that would like to meet once in a while, in my home, for "play". I have placed an ad for this idea on Craigslist and got more men then women. (Not surprised) I made it very clear I am a women and was welling to meet for coffee to confirm.. Spent days answering emails that went no where.... Why is this such a tough thing to do?

pick me!! pick me!! LOL

ORALSENSATION885 wrote:

Is this possible on this site?

I so agree!!

ALINEEDISU wrote:

WILDATLCOUPLE123:

Ok here is the thing. There are single bi women on this web site. We may be rare but we are real. However we get a lot of emails and friends request. So if you are interested in meeting one. Put the work in. Have interesting photos. Write to her more then once with some charming or sweet emails. If you see her online say hi. I am more likely to make a date for a night if you catch me online.
And for goodness sakes BE RESPECTFUL. We are people, not play things.

WILDATLCOUPLE123 wrote:

ALINEEDISU... Thanks for the advise.... I am always respectful.

I am sure you are, it was just general advice. The part about you being to hot for them was for you. ;p

WILDATLCOUPLE123 wrote:

oh and by the way if you have ever been with a women (even once) you should not use BI CURIOUS anymore.....you are BI SEXUAL ......HAHA

Here are some definitions we found. Seems to be accurate. Correct us if wrong. She changed to Bi-comfortable after her first few experiences. She enjoys women, but loves men. So sorta in between comfortable and sexual but more towards comfortable. Gotta love labels.

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Bi-curious

I like the term Bi-Selective...means basically that I am bisexual but it doesn't mean it will happen every time (which some seem to assume with bisexual)...learned this one from some early playmates

OK, after all these definitions I'm totally confused. What if you're Bi-Lingual? Does that mean that you can use your tongue in more than one place, on both men and women, or simply that some people might be born with two tongues?

FUN4MWF wrote:

OK, after all these definitions I'm totally confused. What if you're Bi-Lingual? Does that mean that you can use your tongue in more than one place, on both men and women, or simply that some people might be born with two tongues?

Two tongues?

I think I might have a new fetish.

BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

FUN4MWF wrote:

OK, after all these definitions I'm totally confused. What if you're Bi-Lingual? Does that mean that you can use your tongue in more than one place, on both men and women, or simply that some people might be born with two tongues?
Two tongues? I think I might have a new fetish.

And we all know you've been looking for one.

FUN4MWF wrote:

WILDATLCOUPLE123 wrote:

oh and by the way if you have ever been with a women (even once) you should not use BI CURIOUS anymore.....you are BI SEXUAL ......HAHA
Gotta disagree with that one! The first time I had sex with a guy it actually wasn't too great. Yes, I'd lost my virginity, but because I'd made it with a guy that didn't automatically make me straight or bi. I didn't like it much, maybe I was gay? Took more "curiosity" and exploring to find out that I LOVE being with guys, just gotta be the RIGHT guys! I'm at the same point with the gals right now. To say that making it with a gal "even once" makes me bi is, I think, a little bit off base?
Just sayin!

WILDATLCOUPLE123 wrote:

OK ,mabye your right Hottie.... Its just that the word Curious means eager to learn more.... mabye I am just confused with the words.... Never really used that word. LOL sandy

Let me get this right Mrs WildATLCouple...YOU just called me a "Hottie?" And you're the one standing up there on that motorcycle with those boobs that I would die for and skimpy bikini? Now just a minute there, bucko, I think maybe you got it backwards!!!

Nice new pics, or at least ones I've not seen before. Speaking of which, would ya have yer husband quit waving that big ol' thing a his around? He could poke somebodies eye out with that!

Oops...here I am drifting WAY off topic again, sorry!

A lot of people have double profiles so that they can be both use the site at the same time (ie chat, etc) or two singles are now a couple. Most singles that I know that are part of couple are honest, pointing it out in their profile. Also some couples choose not to play together, therefor, having a couples profile would be false advertising since only one of them is available. Again, honesty in said profile is paramount in this. It's the douchbags who lie about their relationship status that piss me off. Basically your garden variety cheating snakes. And I have been lied to by several people who have a couples profile but for some reason, their other half is NEVER around, is too busy to play, is constantly at work, suddenly been hospitalized, out of town taking care of a sick family member, etc. Uh, yeah. I'm thinking where there's smoke there's fire.

Ok. So that's my opinion on it Pixie46. I'm sure someone else can also enlighten you too.

PIXIE46 wrote:

I have a question, It's alittle bit of a detour from this topic. I have to ask it. Why do so many single females and males have single on their profile? But the first word on it is WE ( as in couple).

Yeah, DITTO what BlueEyes said. I was on here first as a "Single Female" although I've been married all along. Nobody got upset with me though 'cause it was very clear in my profile that I was married but playing alone (with permission...heck we've been married 25 years, I ain't jeopardizing that for some playtime!). That situation has changed so profile did too! Like BlueEyes, and MOST other folks on here, I think it's just being straight-forward and honest that matters. The deceptive folks just suck and I suspect that if they are married, they ain't gonna be for long!

ALINEEDISU wrote:

WILDATLCOUPLE123:
As a single bi woman I can tell you I am real. Have met many people from the site. I think maybe either its the girls you are talking to or maybe you're just to hot for them and it scares them away.

Ok here is the thing. There are single bi women on this web site. We may be rare but we are real. However we get a lot of emails and friends request. So if you are interested in meeting one. Put the work in. Have interesting photos. Write to her more then once with some charming or sweet emails. If you see her online say hi. I am more likely to make a date for a night if you catch me online.
And for goodness sakes BE RESPECTFUL. We are people, not play things.

YES~ Wink

GLITTERGIRL wrote:

pick me!! pick me!! LOL

OK, take a breath, your invited!

ORALSENSATION885 wrote:

Is this possible on this site?

Some women really get off on reversing the role and having a man share cock with her
I love how it makes her so wet and ready to enjoy

I love 69ing her while he's in her too that's a favorite cause then I can
taste them both and he can slip between her juice box and my mouth

ummmm

so if are a bi woman and would like to be on the other side for a change
let me know

also I'm very oral for a couple and love being orally bi in a 3way

I love seeing girls kiss too and when they wear those white bobbie socks too

or those cute angle bracletts

but I have to atmit I do love licking pussy the most

I like to snatch kisses and kiss snatches

Sincerely,

Clittyflicker

omg!!!

NAUGHTYGIRL101 wrote:

omg!!!

Is it just me or do you feel the need for a chasity belt?

BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

NAUGHTYGIRL101 wrote:

omg!!!

Is it just me or do you feel the need for a chasity belt?

LOL, yeah, that, some rubber gloves, hip wadders, and a chemical suit. Super duty.