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My wife and I are looking for an attractive, physically fit single (or married) male with whom she can model. This has long been one of her fantasies and he must be willing to do nudes with her in a temptingly erotic/bordiour-ish fashion. Please send any submission photos of you through Swingular.

The ideal candidate is:
- In his 20's or 30's
- Muscular
- Minimal Body Hair
- Fit
- Attractive Face
- Will include an articulate, thoughtful note as to why they would be the right model candidate for her.

The non-candidate (the applications we will immediately throw away) will:
- Send photos of his wanker
- Will be fat and unkempt
- Be generally unattractive :-/

We are only going to accept ONE application. Before any photo shoot, she will want to have lunch or dinner with you to see if she "connects" and feels comfortable with you. If she has fun, we will probably do more.

We're excited about this photo-shoot and look forward to working with a hot guy.
I'm the one taking the pics so that would be somewhat problematic . . . add to that her fantasy is to take these pics with a DIFFERENT guy. :)
wish I could, but I guess you are too far away for me. darn.
I'm honestly surprised more SM's haven't been all over this opportunity....
We've already received several emails. The day is still young and there is much hunting to do. :)
Maybe the required essays are dissuading them.
THOUGHTGARDEN wrote:

I'm honestly surprised more SM's haven't been all over this opportunity....

LOL Come on we are all fat and old..LMAO J/K
Wanker?
Regarding the "essay" comment . . . we have been underwhelmed by the blunt and thoughtless nature of some invitations to play. Some guys put no effort whatsoever to swoon or be enticing - as though they were the pinnacle of sex and attraction and that the mere sight of their pickle would have a woman quivering in lust and wantonness. To the contrary, sex is so much more than rubbing body parts together. The best sex involves the proper care and feeding of largest and often underutilized sexual organ - the mind. We would suggest that sex is best when its 90% mental and 10% physical. That isn't to say that sex alone isn't awesome and that various sex acts can't consume much of one's exchange - but to ignore the law of attraction is to miss out on the highest potential of what sex has to offer.

For this photo shoot to work, we want fireworks; the kind of fireworks that are only attained by those who are deeply sexual - not just sex-craved. Please appreciate the force of this distinction.

So, to the extent that we can weed out the meat-heads who think only with their fleshly little helmets . . . the guys who can't muster the intellectual or social discipline to be human and treat us as such . . . to the ones who pound out indiscriminate invitation after invitation anxiously waiting to fuck whomever, whenever - well that's just not our bag of tea.

While we're rather interested, we're not that desperate. :)
I would be more then happy....who wouldn't? I am up there from time to time.
BACKATIT wrote:

To the contrary, sex is so much more than rubbing body parts together. The best sex involves the proper care and feeding of largest and often underutilized sexual organ - the mind.


Well-said :)

~J
BACKATIT wrote:

The ideal candidate is: - In his 20's or 30's - Muscular - Minimal Body Hair - Fit - Attractive Face



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BTW, you're free to require the essay. I wasn't saying that it's wrong. I meant it in a light-hearted way.

Regarding the issue of manners and conversation, I think it's a good lesson for single males and for couples too that it's preferable to us (and I think to almost everyone) that there be some friendly interaction beforehand. We are fine with meeting for sex, but when someone contacts us and basically says "when can you have the pleasure of me using you?", it's a turn-off. Now we're not into a courtship either, but it's nice to have some connection and exchange pleasantries first.

And, it helps with a problem currently being discussed in another thread in which guys can't perform.

Hey, just an idea, but I'll throw it out there. Let this community pick a guy FOR you!
WESEE, great idea about community pick! We would need to reserve veto rights, but have at it. :P

Truth be told, the essay thing (even though we weren't really looking for an essay so much as a dissertation) seems to be working. We've received several very strong candidates who meet the physical criteria as well as have charming personalities.
Who would want to demean themselves with that condescending attitude of yours...rather pass and wank it if I get that hard up.
BOA582 wrote:

Who would want to demean themselves with that condescending attitude of yours...rather pass and wank it if I get that hard up.


BOA582, did we hurt yo feeweeings? Sowwy. **We love how you take offense to our explicit requirements. It may surprise you to realize that many single (and married) men think so much with their fully erect dicks that they become just that. Moreover, it has been said that a "stiff dick has no conscience" . . . to that we would add "or sensibilities" which have lead to our aforementioned frustrations . . . have you read this thread or did you just jump to the end and pre-ejaculate your thoughts?


JOSECUERVO39, thanks for the referral!

MONKEYCHEESE137, send us some pics so we get a full sense of your various endowments. :)