We've recently met a really nice cpl that we have alot in common with and really enjoy their company. They are a vanilla cpl and have no idea were in the LS. However whenever we get together there is always alot of open flirting and neither lady is allowed to get alittle wild with flashing and petting. How do we try to progress it further if were not sure if they're interested or even have the same feelings. We don't want to risk anything.
Just be honest with every on one of those flirting nights when every one is open minded take one step at a time.
In general conversation, mention an article you read recently (wherever) about the Swinging Lifestyle.
Their reaction should be a pretty good barometer of where you take the conversation from that point on.
Their reaction should be a pretty good barometer of where you take the conversation from that point on.
not that were ashamed of it, ut we deffinately dont want or need the drama of either of our families finding out then us having to deal with it. while we agree theres nothing wrong with it, im sure not all our families would agree and would put more than their 2 cents worth in. Our families do know several of our LS friends, they just dont know that we all play or are in the LS. Im really not sure if we told the new cpl what would happen.
You're in Florida, suggest an activity that is halfway to swinging and see what happens. YOu can hit Haulover Beach or one of the nudist resorts around the state.
See how they react to that and have fun
See how they react to that and have fun
All of us at one point were "vanilla" and introduced to the lifestyle either by seeking it out or by someone we knew. I was introduced to Swingular by Dave - irony is now that he actually prefers the vanilla lifestyle now and doesn't want anything to do with Swingular/swinging now. Anyway, the only way it happened was a frank open discussion about it. You don't have to sell it and act like you're in charge of recruiting but nothing wrong with a nonpressured conversation about it.
Be careful this could bite you in the butt !!!! Just speaking from experience .....
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