Would you ever agree to a meeting without having pics first?
We saw this posted elsewhere and responded yes, if a trusted friend would vouch for the person we are going to meet. Well it ended up we were one of two couples that would trust the words of a friend and meet anyway.
We feel the word of a friend is more dependable then a few pics, that can easily be faked, out dated, our touched up. We don`t expect any different results, thinking most will require a pic first on here as well. Bottom line, you have to do what is right for you. No wrong answers can be given.
We saw this posted elsewhere and responded yes, if a trusted friend would vouch for the person we are going to meet. Well it ended up we were one of two couples that would trust the words of a friend and meet anyway.
We feel the word of a friend is more dependable then a few pics, that can easily be faked, out dated, our touched up. We don`t expect any different results, thinking most will require a pic first on here as well. Bottom line, you have to do what is right for you. No wrong answers can be given.
We would be happy to meet someone based on only a friends input! However, we have very few friends outside the lifestyle that would be comfortable even talking about the lifestyle let alone know someone they can vouch for. Also, i would have to know and trust their taste in a sexual partner. We have done "blind" dates before, and as our friend said, they were VERY nice, but physically there was no attraction (a new friendship did develop so not all was lost). In a nut shell, trusting friends is not a problem for us, however, having friends to trust is lol. So until we have many more friends to trust, we will obviously keep using the picture method.
As for doctoring and outdated pics...we accept that everyone has at least a few outdated pics(we have a couple we use just because we really like the pic or it was very sexy and fun). But honestly people...if almost all your pics are older than a year...get with it. We want to know what you look like now!! People change as do their bodies and though not everything is about the physical...it does play a HUGE part in determining who we play with.
As for doctoring and outdated pics...we accept that everyone has at least a few outdated pics(we have a couple we use just because we really like the pic or it was very sexy and fun). But honestly people...if almost all your pics are older than a year...get with it. We want to know what you look like now!! People change as do their bodies and though not everything is about the physical...it does play a HUGE part in determining who we play with.
Pics just open the door for more investigation. If you are too lazy to post pics you will probably be that way in bed.
That's what cams are for. To prove you match your profile and pictures.
Yep, they are necessary.
LALA69690 wrote:
We met people once without pix and will never do it again. If you are unwilling to show some part of yourself, there is usually a reason=reason enough in our opinion to stay away.
I agree, and I also agree with you fuzzyandjuggs...recent pics, and pics of BOTH OF YOU! Most of the time there are only pics of wifey. If you don't have both, you won't get our attention...
I think people are missing the point of the original post. NPNUDISTCPLE, if i understand correctly, was talking about the possibility of meeting someone a friend vouches for. However, if we are talking about meeting someone here from the site...without a doubt, there must some form of pic exchange. we're not about to meet anyone from this site without seeing and most likely chatting to you first.
Listen this is about SEX and for us there has to be some kind of attraction, not to say we are perfect or that we are looking for perfection but you have to have some kind pictures for us to know if we are interested. They don't have to naked but you have to let us see what we are getting into after all you have seen ours some old some new.
I have to agree with HiBright, if it is someone from a site we belong to we would expect them to have pictures available. If they don't belong and we are meeting them through a friend then depending on the friend we would be willing to meet people sight unseen to at least see if there was any interest and chemistry.
a pic is so much better than zero.
i think poeple should have a pic w profile
as far for topic meeting w no pic maybe,
i think poeple should have a pic w profile
as far for topic meeting w no pic maybe,
we wont even meet based on pics, no webcam...forget it. to each thier own but thats just us
We have met couples that we liked as people but were not our type physically. We knew of friends that had a preference for that type of build on their playmates, so we put the two couples together. Even if a friend was standing up for said new possible playmates, we would still prefer to see a pic just out of curiousity. Our cam is broken and we just got a new computer. With very busy lives, there was a short time we didn`t have any newer pics to offer if we needed to.
It`s nice to see more of you feel as we do about trusting a friends judgement that a person might be a good fit for US, but we do hope one thing comes out of this posting. We hope those that may read this but have no pics on their profile see how important it is to have pics if they ever want to meet someone.
It`s nice to see more of you feel as we do about trusting a friends judgement that a person might be a good fit for US, but we do hope one thing comes out of this posting. We hope those that may read this but have no pics on their profile see how important it is to have pics if they ever want to meet someone.
I didn't take time to read other posts ...I know we like to see pix and preferably face pix as opposed to dick shots ... we post ours and expect the same ..