Swingers Forum - Are older women sexy

The postings wandered into the subject of age and ageing and that has me to thinking. How we see age has to affect the way we approach people and whom we choose as possible partners. Throughout my life I have heard women movie stars and women in general complain about getting older. We have all heard the opinion that men become distinguished as they grow older and that they (the women) simply grow older and the implication is that they are less attractive. That has never been my opinion but that is just me. In general I find that as women mature they get sexier and more interesting in every way. Maybe that is because I am older as well. I would like to hear what other men and even women on here have to say on the subject. If you think they simply get older are you willing to stick your neck out and say so?

I'm going to take the scientific approach here.
Men reach their sexual peak at around age 18-25. That's when their bodies start releasing the most testosterone and other hormones. They also release something else called pheromones. It's sort of a musk that can be inhaled. We really can't smell it, but it has a very interesting effect on the opposite sex.
Well women have the ability to release pheromones as well. And, as in the case of the male, the female pheromones are released mostly when they reach their sexual peak. Guess when that is........Right around age 35-45.
At those ages women, like men at peak, become more aware of their sexual desires. The difference is that they are wiser, and more mature, thus WAY more creative in bed then men at 18-25. Add to the fact that even after men peak their bodies are still producing the hormones thus creating a pool of willing mates that can vary from ages 18-60, whereas women are often reluctant, to a more open sex life, between the ages of 18-35. Also, the female pheromones have the same effect on men as the male pheromones have on women. Ever wounder why you hear WAY more cases of younger guys with older women then you do young women with older guys?
So do women look better as they get older? I wouldn't say so. I think they look just as beautiful at 40 as they do at 20. Are they more desirable? DAMN STRAIGHT! Are they sexier? Well that goes without question.

TONY_SUSAN wrote:

You tell me

Ok she is GD hot. But hold on to your balls because she will yet suprise you.

I will let you know when I get old(er) *straight face*

xox
Tammy

My first wife was 16 years older then I and I feel maturity helped make her sexy. She knew what she liked and took the time to enjoy things. She was secure enough with her sexuality to explore. I think in general, yes women can be more sexy rather then just good looking as they age.

I guess it's just a matter of preference. I still have men 18-80 tell me I'm hot and wanna get with me. As far as appetite goes, I have sex way more then I did when I was younger. For some of us the peak never stops lol

HELL YES...do I need to say more?

Well if we're going to split hairs over terminology, how does "seasoned" ladies grab ya? lol

Whatever you, me or anyone else chooses to call them - they're a true gift to ALL of us.

GLAZEDDONUTFACE wrote:

CARRIERMAN wrote:

Well if we're going to split hairs over terminology, how does "seasoned" ladies grab ya? lol Whatever you, me or anyone else chooses to call them - they're a true gift to ALL of us.

Seasoned? Good God man! we're not talking about cooking now, are we? LOL!

Hey, I've know a lot of women who could REALLY cook - in the kitchen OR the bedroom.
And experience is the key to both.

Women Rock! Age is only number that affect cog and alcohol purchases. Love who you are no matter what moment of life you are in. The best time is always now and if you live like that it can only get better!
Ms Share (smiling but excited to see what happens tomorrow)

CARRIERMAN wrote:

MILFABBV wrote:

I'd like to say thanks - really. I am a coming of age women - 34 - and feel like sex took over my body this year! It's really crazy. The 1 downer is that I don't have the body of a 19 year old or 25 year old - I've had 3 kids - that kind of says it all. My boobs sag a little, my butt and thighs are larger, my stomach is not as tight as it once was - thank God my face is still pretty and my breasts (despite a bit of a floppiness) are still quite beautiful to look at. So - I've been wondering - would men, younger, older - still find me attractive. My husband says he thinks I'm hot - but then - I would be to him. Any takers?

Tell ya what - and this is strictly one man's opinion. Given a choice, I'll take a WOMAN with saggy natural tits and a wrinkled ass over a Bay Watch GIRL with silicone tits and a nip-and-tuck ass any day of the week. I haven't even looked at your profile pics, and yet I know you're sexy as hell. Wanna know why? Because attitude counts for more than looks. And it's obvious you "get it".

That's a real classy statement,,speaks of your character, glad you said it,,,hugs to a well spoken guy,,, heck now that I'm older,,,, lol,, I know how to have fun with it,,,,, from me, Mrs. R

I think older women are FAR sexier than younger ones. Don't get me wrong, younger girls are sexy also, but there is something about a confident woman that knows what she wants and what makes her feel good and isn't afraid to tell you. Plus, older women seem to be out of the "game playing" stage when it comes to actually being in a relationship. I think having kids plays a part in what makes older women sexy for me...