The \"Someone Likes you message\" is generated when you add that person to your friends list. This also gives the person you added the ability to see any Private pictures you have posted to your profile.
If I find a couple I will normally add them to my friends list then contact them in a few days to see if they are interested. This way they will have had a chance to look over my profile and pictures.
I personally normally do respond to the \"Someone likes you message\", but it\'s a timing issue. If I\'m too busy I don\'t.
Chris
If I find a couple I will normally add them to my friends list then contact them in a few days to see if they are interested. This way they will have had a chance to look over my profile and pictures.
I personally normally do respond to the \"Someone likes you message\", but it\'s a timing issue. If I\'m too busy I don\'t.
Chris
Unless they\'re screaming hot nymphomaniacs, no. We very rarely respond to SLY emails.
-Roger (& T)
-Roger (& T)
We agree with \"Chammy\". To us, it\'s just as easy to type \"SLY\" on the subject line and in the content of the note add a personal touch so that the recepient KNOWS that we really do like them etc...and make our \"privates\" visible. As recepients of a \"SYL\" message, while flattering....unless there\'s a personal note accompanying the message we assume someones taking the lazy way of showing off their own pics and assuming we\'ll do the same.....which we don\'t. Our humble $.02
We will usually respond to \"Someone Likes You\" but we do not always extend the same back to them, unless they have photos in their own private gallery AND THEN only if we are actually interested in them. Normally we just write back to say \'thanks\' and invite them to email us with more detail if they are truly interested.
Personally, we think the \"Someone Likes You\" feature should be what Swingular used to have, \"Blow A Kiss\", whereby you let someone know you like their profile via a quick acknowlegment, like a wink or a kiss, but not allowing access to your private gallery. There should be a separate invitation, to allow access to your private gallery (face shots, etc.), like \"You\'re Invited To View Our Private Photos\".
Most people here use the \"Someone Likes You\" feature because they want a quick way to say \'hi...we like your profile\'. Swingular should bring back the \'kiss\' or \'wink\' so folks can send a quick note of interest. When we scan profiles looking for fun, new friends we don\'t always have time to compose an email. We all have busy lives and many of us have limited time to scan profiles and send in depth, meaningful emails. Especially when the people you are writing to may not have the least bit of interest in our profile.
We say have a feature to send a quick \"Mmm...You Look Nice\" then, if the respond in kind, you can sit down and compose a detailed email to continue the dialogue, exchanging private gallery pics when an interest has been established at both ends.
Michael & Cheryl
Tampa, Florida
[email protected]
Personally, we think the \"Someone Likes You\" feature should be what Swingular used to have, \"Blow A Kiss\", whereby you let someone know you like their profile via a quick acknowlegment, like a wink or a kiss, but not allowing access to your private gallery. There should be a separate invitation, to allow access to your private gallery (face shots, etc.), like \"You\'re Invited To View Our Private Photos\".
Most people here use the \"Someone Likes You\" feature because they want a quick way to say \'hi...we like your profile\'. Swingular should bring back the \'kiss\' or \'wink\' so folks can send a quick note of interest. When we scan profiles looking for fun, new friends we don\'t always have time to compose an email. We all have busy lives and many of us have limited time to scan profiles and send in depth, meaningful emails. Especially when the people you are writing to may not have the least bit of interest in our profile.
We say have a feature to send a quick \"Mmm...You Look Nice\" then, if the respond in kind, you can sit down and compose a detailed email to continue the dialogue, exchanging private gallery pics when an interest has been established at both ends.
Michael & Cheryl
Tampa, Florida
[email protected]
Each one of the \"Somebody Likes You\" emails has this line of text in it: This is only a standard courtesy message sent to you by the Administrator, not this member.
As for a reply, almost everyone I have receieved has been responded to, either in email, chat room or private messaging system.
Every once in a while there is that stray one that I sit back wondering who they are... But I figure, if they really like me.. They will find a way to let me know. (Email is a wonderful thing!)
As for a reply, almost everyone I have receieved has been responded to, either in email, chat room or private messaging system.
Every once in a while there is that stray one that I sit back wondering who they are... But I figure, if they really like me.. They will find a way to let me know. (Email is a wonderful thing!)
We think that it is better to email someone personally, not use a canned message, like that. Yes, the adminstrator sends it but why add someone to the friends listwhen you havent even talked to them yet to see if everyone would be a match? Show that youare for real and truly interested in someone - send an email in your own words instead.
Generally yes its only polite thing to do
We used to reply to anything that was sent to us but now rarely reply to someone adding us to their favorites list or any other type of kisses or winks that other sites use.
We feel if someone is interested then they will take a couple of minutes and compose a message to us. We are not going to spend much time composing a thought out message to anyone that just saw a pic on our profile, clicked the mouse button and moved on. If we get a message from someone and it appears that they took the time to read our profile and sent us a message then we will respond in kind. If they send a \"one liner\" then we\'ll usually send a \"one liner\" back. If it\'s obviously a \"form letter\" that we occassionally get then we probably won\'t reply to that either. All we really ask is if you are interested in us then let us know by taking a minute or two and compose a real message to us.
When we get a message that someone added us to their favorites list we can\'t tell if they are \"bookmarking\" us for future reference, asking us in a round about way to see our private pics or showing some kind of interest.
We agree with some of the others and think it would be a very good idea to have a different feature for adding someone to your buddy list without having to open up your private pics.
We feel if someone is interested then they will take a couple of minutes and compose a message to us. We are not going to spend much time composing a thought out message to anyone that just saw a pic on our profile, clicked the mouse button and moved on. If we get a message from someone and it appears that they took the time to read our profile and sent us a message then we will respond in kind. If they send a \"one liner\" then we\'ll usually send a \"one liner\" back. If it\'s obviously a \"form letter\" that we occassionally get then we probably won\'t reply to that either. All we really ask is if you are interested in us then let us know by taking a minute or two and compose a real message to us.
When we get a message that someone added us to their favorites list we can\'t tell if they are \"bookmarking\" us for future reference, asking us in a round about way to see our private pics or showing some kind of interest.
We agree with some of the others and think it would be a very good idea to have a different feature for adding someone to your buddy list without having to open up your private pics.
Quite frankly we use the friends list to bookmark people who we think are someone that we\'d like to know.. OR.. several cases people that we know from other sites tht we\'ve talked to before or met... If someone pots us on their friends list or sends a wink or ... we will generlly send a not back thanking them and asking their intention, particularly if they are quite a way from us. I think we could travel to at least 12 states From San Francisco to Montana to VT to VA to DC to FL to TX.. We couldprobably keep busy for several years just traveling and meeting people that have invited us.. One never knows. Sometimes you see someone that is stunning and you send a compliment and add them.. They respond and you start to correspond.. One never knows when you will be in their area or them in your area.. To us the lifestyle is about friendship..so that\'s the way we respond...
You never know what will happen if you say; \"I got your wink or smile or I see that you added us to your friends list. WOW! good looking couple or you are a beautiful lady or OMG what a good looking figure or you are gorgeous and see where it takes you.
Hjugs
Ray
Oups... That was was supposed to be HUGS not H Jugs... LOL...
Happy New Year
You never know what will happen if you say; \"I got your wink or smile or I see that you added us to your friends list. WOW! good looking couple or you are a beautiful lady or OMG what a good looking figure or you are gorgeous and see where it takes you.
Hjugs
Ray
Oups... That was was supposed to be HUGS not H Jugs... LOL...
Happy New Year
We really only answer them if we are interested in them too.........And we only add the ones we are interested in also
No we don\'t, the people who have sent us that message aren not even with 300 miles of us. If they were planning on visiting our area they should send us a follow up mail. We think its more people trying to get us to open private pics, thinking since they opened theirs we will open ours. We dont allow access to photos until we decide that we are going to meet.
\'Mask ( lemme ask) you sumthin? If them people caint taike the time to write us a proper e-mail on the co-puter, n they dont even live in yur nayborhood or yur state even!...dont you think they kuwait (can wait) for you to reply?
Git er done!
Luvbugs!
Git er done!
Luvbugs!
Sort of new here so we have been added to many friends..really so many its bee hard to try to say hello and noticed you peeked at our profile......but do aleast try to get to most of them.......if you add us to your friend list...Please say hello or aleast if there is some interest......LeAnn&Billy
We will reply when there is email a statement made or a question asked. But there is a lot of people that are looking for erotic email and really we would rather meet and made erotic memories.
we add people to our friends to let them know that we are INTERESTED
but we also give them time to reply to us ,,if no reply
we then remove them,,,
and most don\'LOL
its a good why to let them know you like what you see & read
its like taking the first move
kristylynn
but we also give them time to reply to us ,,if no reply
we then remove them,,,
and most don\'LOL
its a good why to let them know you like what you see & read
its like taking the first move
kristylynn
When and if we add somebody to our friends list it is because we have already met or talked with them. If we add somebody as a friend we also always try to send them an email that we have added them to our friends list and if they are not comfortable with it then we assure them that we will remove them right away. Usually when we receive the someone likes you message, unless we already know them then we will send them a quick message of thanks and that we would like to learn a bit more about them before adding them to ours.
Mo & Gary
Mo & Gary
We reply to ALL coorespondance...One of our pet peeves is to get iggied and deleted...With the \"pre-written\" responses on this site, it only takes a second to say, \"No Thanks\"...we ALWAYS repy to every message we get...except from the administrators...
Just our two cents...
Just our two cents...