Swingers Forum - Please be safe out there!

ABCCOUPLE wrote:

I think we all could do a little better in this department. Especially in group situations, after party's, etc. I think oral sex is perhaps the one area where some of probably should be more careful. We have a loose rule if it doesn't look good or smell good, then stay the hell away from it. However, I'm sure there is inherent risk there as well. I agree with Maston_Thrust.. Condom use should not be the only warning for safe sex in the lifestyle. I think Education is important as well. Couples should take their sexual health responsibly. We get STD checks, but we could be doing this more often though. Sorry for the edit of my previous post, but rethought it somewhat. I think parties can be incredibly fun, but also dangerous. Most cases you know which couples you play with in any given situation. But parties can pose a more dangerous situation, mix that with alcohol and you may not remember the name of that person you blew in the bathroom. Perhaps a host at some of these private house parties or hotel after parties would consider buying a few extra condoms, dental dams, and latex gloves for those attending. Yes, safe sex is my responsibility, but no one is perfect all the time. Perhaps the local communities that play on swingular could also throw out suggestions to make play safer. Such as where to get inexpensive STD tests, or information that maybe helpful for couples and singles to play safe. Thanks again Mast.. very timely and good information. This is a pretty positive article on swinging and STD's.. it says basically the same. Play safe.