Here is a subject we would like to see kicked around some. Just wondering what's with men holding onto the non groomed pubic hair? They certainly would not go to work or out shopping with their spouse with the hair on their head disarranged or different length's. So what makes them think that pubic hair resembling a troll doll is attractive to others when swinging? We have been told by some that "it's a manly thing" In this day in age we just think it's gross. We shave ourselves and have had a few people get ticked off when we ask them to a least trim below to play with us. Oh and here is the REAL kicker............ They think it's sooooooooo cool that I the female is shaved smooth for their oral pleasure!
LOL!!!- I keep it trimed and always touch up before going out on the town!
The question should go for either sex! Perhaps some can't let go of their attachment to a neanderthal based belief that it's "manly". I for one agree with you, it's discourteous to any partner in or out of the lifestyle. Hopefully we connect with partners who do take bath's, brush their teeth, put on clean clothes and comb their hair... lol... (deodorant and colon, optional)
Personally I prefer to be shaved, and yes there are those who do disagree with my opinion. I do wonder tho "what are they thinking". I guess I'm being selfish. Simply put, I enjoy the attention, "the long attentions", if you know what I mean (wink). Putting a spittoon next to the bed is well... wrong, and you can't unsee something that's just wrong.
Hugs,
Alan
Personally I prefer to be shaved, and yes there are those who do disagree with my opinion. I do wonder tho "what are they thinking". I guess I'm being selfish. Simply put, I enjoy the attention, "the long attentions", if you know what I mean (wink). Putting a spittoon next to the bed is well... wrong, and you can't unsee something that's just wrong.
Hugs,
Alan
omg, I think I just threw up a little in my mouth....
Yeah that's a pic of a guy who wanted to play with us............... the answer was HELL NO!
HAWKEYECOUPLE wrote:
Yeah that's a pic of a guy who wanted to play with us............... the answer was HELL NO!
Soooo don't blame ya there...I love my man shaved with a little trimmed "landing strip" of sorts on top...but I know not all guys like to do that, so they at least have to be nicely trimmed...I am waxed and I figure the least they can do is take a little time and effort down there if they want me to enjoy going down on them...and I do sooo love to do that
You know when you eat corn on the cob and you get some of the corn silk stuck between a tooth. Yeeeeah... I don't like that so much. :P I don't mind SOME hair, but it better be groomed down nicely. If I want to floss my teeth I'll go grab some actual dental floss from the drawer. :P
Yeah that's a pic of a guy who wanted to play with us............... the answer was HELL NO!
I keep myself shaved and like it when do the same. I mean some hair is ok but it has to be kept trimmed at least
To each there own. I prefer hair on myself and my women. If god would have wanted us to shave all our body then he wouldn't have given us hair. But as I say if you don't like me the way I am then move on to the next one. I am who I am.
Pride & Joy
Pride & Joy
Yeah and if GOD wanted us to swing he would of made the world one big orgy too! Lets keep GOD out of it friend.
PRIDEJOY wrote:
To each there own. I prefer hair on myself and my women. If god would have wanted us to shave all our body then he wouldn't have given us hair. But as I say if you don't like me the way I am then move on to the next one. I am who I am.
Pride & Joy
So you like women with hair under their armpits and on their legs? That's how "God" made us right...so what's wrong with a little upkeep...you don't have to shave completely, that is everyone's choice but a little grooming and hygiene shows that you care for yourself as well as your partners...
HAWKEYECOUPLE wrote:
Yeah and if GOD wanted us to swing he would of made the world one big orgy too! Lets keep GOD out of it friend.
Amen!!...ohh...ahhh...errr, wait...nevermind...lmao
To the single male in Ogden, I have to say a colon is not optional. Did you possibly mean cologne?
JIMANDANNA wrote:
To the single male in Ogden, I have to say a colon is not optional. Did you possibly mean cologne?
OMG... rflmao...
That... perhaps is taking personal hygiene too far. I don't think I personally need that much info about a partner. Lets leave the hi-colonic to the spa elite and stick to cologne.
Thanks for the note.
Alan
PRIDEJOY wrote:
To each there own. I prefer hair on myself and my women. If god would have wanted us to shave all our body then he wouldn't have given us hair. But as I say if you don't like me the way I am then move on to the next one. I am who I am.
Pride & Joy
I agree with individuality, but to drag god into it is totally senseless. If your egocentric nature only allows you to see what you want to... then be it. Many people have died in the name of god because someone disagreed. grow up... "I'm just say-in".
Kindest regards,
Alan
Women: Tight trimmed bush or shaved. I like them both.
Men: Trim it tight and shave the junk.
I know that you women go through a lot more than we men do and have done it for a long time. So I am all up for raising the bar of male grooming standards. It is not that difficult to trim and shave both the north and south end. I am not into complete body shaves and don
Men: Trim it tight and shave the junk.
I know that you women go through a lot more than we men do and have done it for a long time. So I am all up for raising the bar of male grooming standards. It is not that difficult to trim and shave both the north and south end. I am not into complete body shaves and don
PRIDEJOY wrote:
To each there own. I prefer hair on myself and my women. If god would have wanted us to shave all our body then he wouldn't have given us hair. But as I say if you don't like me the way I am then move on to the next one. I am who I am. Pride & Joy
I think such a comment is like saying that if God wanted us to have clothes we would have been born with them on us. As a nudist at heart I think that it is a great line. But it has little to do with reality. Food, medicine, clothing, and all the other trappings of civilization only come with work or effort. Unless you still wipe yourself with a stick and leaves, I suggest you thank your God that we have had enough intelligence to create the trappings of civilization and raise your standards of hygiene just a bit.
I think you all should cut Pride some slack. He didn't capitalize "god" and I don't think he was bringing religion in to any more than a casual reference.
I mean seriously, I'm a militant atheist and I didn't take offense.
Now, he should burn in hell for all eternity for the no shaving comment, but that's a completely different issue. Just kidding.
I mean seriously, I'm a militant atheist and I didn't take offense.
Now, he should burn in hell for all eternity for the no shaving comment, but that's a completely different issue. Just kidding.
Who wants to go to the Dentist to get a haircut ? Oh bad joke! Shave it it's much better for everyone.
On the other side of the coin, think of how much more money a Beauty Salon could be making if they offered Pubic Perms.
Afros were SO '70s.
Afros were SO '70s.
I got to figure out a way to barter waxing services. Waxing is costing me $60 each time. And shaving is getting OLD and it doesn't quite "do the job". But I do love a fresh clean naked pussy for females. I like naked on men too but if they are at least trimmed short I can deal with it. Ironically i do love hair on a man everywhere else tho.
I'm the only one that I've seen that likes a full bush on a woman??? I love the look of my cock going in a tuff of hair, yet finding the delight that there is to find. I love the "discovery" of what's behind the bush. There are two cons though. It's MUCH tougher to keep clean and from what I've learned over the years, that's as much the motivation as anything for women to shave but also word around the campfire is, during oral there is much less stimulation. SO, I can see both sides. As for on me, I don't have much Hair anywhere, so I've never given it much thought, maybe I'll mow and see what happens.
It's just personal taste. It's not respect. People easily fall into the trap that what they like or want is right and the rest is wrong. We are and like trimmed/shaved, but most of the world is not shaved.
And just so I get on everyone's bad side, I think it is not kind to publish the picture of the person who propositioned you.
And just so I get on everyone's bad side, I think it is not kind to publish the picture of the person who propositioned you.
WESEE; I agree with you that the publishing of the pic in the original is inappropriate. I've always felt like this community is a pretty safe and understanding crew. With that in mind, I don't feel like posting that pic is in line with the spirit of this site.
YAWN! This would be funny if it weren't so absurd. So, you would mean to imply that the shaving habits of and individual would totally discount them as a worthy and worth-knowing person? Interesting. I have no particular preference either way; I figure that is up to each individual. I also think it's up to each individual to discard playmates for any reason that suits them; all well and good.
However, to imply that there is some "unspoken" code or "requirement" is simply baffling. Perhaps we should also determine what kind of hair cuts/color treatments people should have? What kind of clothing? Tats or no tats? Piercings? Speech patterns and education levels?...degree or no degree? Breeding worthy? Where would it end? Who will be the authority on this subject? "You"? "Me"?
If you want to play with someone, do so. If not, let it rest. But to attack someone because they don't shave their pubic hair? ....and post their pic as some form of insult? Mean spirited would be an understatement. Should we all now closely examine your profile and determine your errors and lacking attributes???? I've met very few people that are without flaw, myself most included. But don't we all have some value? I don't want to play with just anyone either, but I don't attack basic and benign aspects of their person, simply because I have a different view.
I'm not meaning to be harsh, but if you had approached the subject in a harmless way, rather than posting a pic and implying something was inherently wrong with this specific person, I probably would have held my tongue. Are you open to close inspection, yourself? We should all ask ourselves the same question.
Be nice, be safe, have joy.
However, to imply that there is some "unspoken" code or "requirement" is simply baffling. Perhaps we should also determine what kind of hair cuts/color treatments people should have? What kind of clothing? Tats or no tats? Piercings? Speech patterns and education levels?...degree or no degree? Breeding worthy? Where would it end? Who will be the authority on this subject? "You"? "Me"?
If you want to play with someone, do so. If not, let it rest. But to attack someone because they don't shave their pubic hair? ....and post their pic as some form of insult? Mean spirited would be an understatement. Should we all now closely examine your profile and determine your errors and lacking attributes???? I've met very few people that are without flaw, myself most included. But don't we all have some value? I don't want to play with just anyone either, but I don't attack basic and benign aspects of their person, simply because I have a different view.
I'm not meaning to be harsh, but if you had approached the subject in a harmless way, rather than posting a pic and implying something was inherently wrong with this specific person, I probably would have held my tongue. Are you open to close inspection, yourself? We should all ask ourselves the same question.
Be nice, be safe, have joy.
While I do agree with the posts above me, I look at it this way...trimming and/or shaving is just like any other body hygiene...would you want to be with someone who didn't brush their teeth, get hair cuts once in a while, trim their nails, shave their legs or armpits (ladies)...any of the basic hygiene tasks?
I think it's completely different than judging someone because they have tats, what they wear, etc...this is a basic hygiene issue...nobody says you HAVE to shave, but at least do a little upkeep...I have seen men and women who don't shave but they do upkeep and that is attractive as well...
It is each our own personal preference and I'm sure that the original poster didn't mean for it to be cruel or harsh...I'm sure most of us, at one time or another, have started a post or said something then thought "yeah, I probably could have stated that differently"
In today's times there is no reason for anybody to look like they just stepped out of a 70's porn...unless of course that's what you and your spouse like...lol
I think it's completely different than judging someone because they have tats, what they wear, etc...this is a basic hygiene issue...nobody says you HAVE to shave, but at least do a little upkeep...I have seen men and women who don't shave but they do upkeep and that is attractive as well...
It is each our own personal preference and I'm sure that the original poster didn't mean for it to be cruel or harsh...I'm sure most of us, at one time or another, have started a post or said something then thought "yeah, I probably could have stated that differently"
In today's times there is no reason for anybody to look like they just stepped out of a 70's porn...unless of course that's what you and your spouse like...lol
70's porn has a special place in my heart. It was the first live action I ever saw when I was just a young lad. And once I figured out how to jerk off, you better believe I was doing it while watching bush on bush LMAO! In any case, I'll let it be known that I keep mine trimmed. I kinda like the view better when its trimmed up. Same for the ladies. Trimmed at least is considerate. In any case, to comment on the subject at hand, guys can go either way. I have met a few ladies before that prefer all natural on their men b/c it's more "manly". Like I said, personally, I like to keep mine trimmed/shaved but I dunno...there are ALOT of women out there that prefer the all natural hairy assed male. The way I look at it: I'll let my forest grow wild if thats what a sexy lady that sparks my interest wants. But I would still expect my ladies to be trimmed/shaved :P