Swingers Forum - An out of this world (or state) encounter

We love traveling to other states and countries to party. We just attended a BDSM dungeon in DC, our First Dungeon. It was a very hot night. Other cities we have had great party experiences are San Francisco, several clubs there. LA, Sea Mountain inn in Desert Hot Springs, Vancouver, A great on premise club, pricy but fun. We love to travel, in good weather we fly to destinations of 800 miles or less in our own plane, room for 4, and if your felt up it wont be by a TSA agent.... its around a 4.5 hr flight to Long to any California costal City. little over 2 to vegas, or Denver.

But we have found in the last little while that Utah has quite the private party scene. much cheaper than the club scene, and not near as many restrictions. Tis the season. we hope all have a great Holiday season.

December parties we are aware of.
Dec 3. wait thats us, Birthday party for Mr. Simple, and Mrs Pierced Couple at Habits.
Dec 10 party for the kinkier side of folks.
Dec. 11 Recons (Pre-Ban) annual Christmas Party
Dec. 18 Bar Crawl.

then it looks like admin is attempting to keep up, with new emphasis on meet-n-greets and parties. We all benefit.

Something for everyone we suspect in December.

The Simples.

We like to travel, and we try out the on premise clubs wherever we go. In Sept we went to what is supposed to be the top rate swingers club in the world, just outside Amsterdam (called Fun4Two). It's by invitation only, but if you are ever traveling in that area, you won't want to miss it (so email us and we'll let you know who to contact to get in).

We like the local parties, but it seems to us that many of them have too much talking and drinking and too little nudity and fucking. Paula is always the first one to get naked - at a club or a house party (Sounds like we'd get along well with THEXECS, huh?) We love to watch and be watched.

L&P

We would definitely be interested. We have experienced and participated "on-site" play at a few of the private parties we have been to, which was amazing! We have said we would like to see a little more play at the parties, just because it is an amazing experience, some have been very "tame" but fun of course. It would be great to see some more "play parties!"

BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

ok. question for you all... Do you think it's easier to get in the frame of mind and get down pretty quickly because you are in a "couple" situation? As a single person (and I've only been to one house party and I had a great date for it) I'm kinda leary of it. Seriously, I think I would have to have a few drinks to loosen up before I just started molesting someone. (Tequila makes me horny as hell! LOL) I'm "thinking" that going with a date/partner/spouse would make it easier. Am I wrong? xox Tammy (who might be slightly more prudish then she thought. )

Hmm..Ms TiffnD might be better to reply to this then me..but what the hell...I'm not bright enough to know when to leave things alone, sometimes..LOL

Short answer...No. But...Have to say have not ever been in the "single" situation. But..have beeen to a number of different parties and such where they have been present. They have seemed to being doing "just fine"..lot's of attention from everyone..including couples. Let's be honest. Must couples would LOVE the opportunity to add a single lady to their playtime, for a bit...these are the types of situations most folks fantasize about. But..my experience, here too..is with the ladies that tend to play in the Bi- something arena...and I have NEVER seen these girls have a problem becoming very intimate friends..VERY fast! I just hang on for the ride..and hand 'em towels..LOL

We just came back from Paris and had a blast as several on site places... One night we were invited to the owners private birthday party and there were so many people that the walls were dripping sweat... We also were invited to a fetish party in a basement cavern/make shift dungeon. Place was get but the people were lame...

So we have two places to have an on site party and have been kicking it around for awhile. If you are interested we are on the brink of just putting it together.... We are thinking professional attire, dinner, screened/invitation and BYOB.... Interested get in touch...

SarahandRobert, we are definitely interested.
L&P

[quote=MR_TRIXIEE]hey blueeyes I offered you tequilla at our house party and you passed.... what gives? lol /quote]

Uh, I didn't need tequila. I was already hot and bothered by the time I walked in your front door. It was C's fault. There was some serious foreplay going on before we left my house. LOL

TRIXIEE wrote:

SIMPLEPLEASURES wrote:


December parties we are aware of.
Dec 3. wait that's us, Birthday party for Mr. Simple, and Mrs Pierced Couple at Habits.
Dec 10 party for the kinkier side of folks.
Dec. 11 Recons (Pre-Ban) annual Christmas Party
Dec. 18 Bar Crawl.
Something for everyone we suspect in December.

The Simples.

AND ........ the Northern Nights (m&g) Christmas party on Saturday, December 4th =)

TRiX

Oh yeah I so cannot wait for this one. Be great to see everyone again.

I guess the question is who would be interested in a play party, meaning if you go you just won't stand there and just to watch... if you don't feel like swapping you don't have to, but at least have some fun with your spouse/significant other while watching a few people (if not to say a lot) having fun, hey still no means no.

what we have encounter is that sometimes you get into the whole drama of getting to know the other cpl, now we don't know if my hubby is ok for her, or if the other husband is too jealous, or if she is a lil bitch, or if she feels threatened by me. if they are too old or too young, and now what are they going to say... anyways for personal Experience and preference WE DON'T WANT TO DATE YOU... or sometimes even getting to know you that well, in the long run many of this things brings too much drama.

but really who would be interested?

I need more house party experience. I was reading the other thread about the "Can't Say No" party idea and that's the very thing that I am deathly afraid of. I've been on the receiving end of someone who refused to take NO for an answer. You can imagine how horrific that was. But I will admit that the whole "masks and robes" concept is slightly intriguing. Dangerous but sexy.

I just hate the whole RULES thing where you must go along with everyone else and not at your own pace. Just because *I* don't want to be buck ass naked in front a group of random strangers doesn't mean they can't be. You have to wear this, you can't wear that, you must remove your clothes within this amount of time. If that's the case then lets call it what it is. It's not a party. Its an orgy. And while I appreciate Tequilas help in loosening me up, I still want to make that choice myself. Not because I'm getting pressured.

Oh but to clarify something, if I ever have plastic surgery and get this excess skin off and the girls fixed, I'm gonna be buck ass naked at your front door.

2TOHAVEFUNWITHU wrote:

We just moved here from California were we were part of a swingers group and kinda thought it was going to be the same out here. But we have found out there is huge differences out here lol. We are used to going to meet and greets at bars or motels and if you like someone you leave and play with them.the we are used to going to house partys which have been some of the best times of our life's lol. The house partys would have anywhere from 30 through 50 couples and there would be games and music and bring your own bottle share a bottle. They would have stripper poles and it would be a no pressure atmoshphere. The bold would end up naked and the others didn't have to if they choose not to. It was a great time there were private rooms and a couple big sex rooms were people can walk in and watch or they can ask to join. Was kind of looking forward to doing the same out here then found out the partys are nothing like that. We want to attend a meet and greet and meet new people and hang out. We are really good friends with the swinger group in bakersfield ca and they are opening a club and we are looking at getting a bigger house and they,suggested that we use there name for the swinger group and throw some house partys. like we used to go to. But I'm not sure that would work out here to well because people are a lot more private and from what we have heard from the couple couples we talked to people are to afraid to go to a big house party because there afraid of someone else seeing them there which we understand. But if we end up getting the house we qre looking at we will have a big enough place to host and we will have the same kind of setup and games that we had in bakersfield. Would there be anyone interested in going to a big house party only swingers and everyone have a good time in a no pressure environment? And sexy fun couple if you throw a party count us in we would love to go to an actuall party and meet new people and if you like someone you can actually play and have a good time and if you need assistance we can help also.

If respectful, single men are allowed I would love to attend a house party like you described. I used to belong to a group here in UT that would throw monthly parties at a local hotel that were run a like the house parties you are describing. There would be a large meeting room for everyone to meet and mingle with games and some light munchies. then there was always someone that would host the after party orgy in their room. Good Times were had by everyone who attended.

The problem we have noticed in Utah is that there
seems to be far more wanna be swingers than actual
swingers. There are quite a few who think if the
girls kiss or show their titties then they have had
a great swinging evening. To us it is a lifestyle not
a fad & the cool in thing to pretend to do. We almost
always avoid house parties & private parties for this
reason. In fact we almost prefer finding new couples
& singles in a regular club & converting them over
to swinging over meeting playmates here because
it's easier & usually less drama. Not to mention it helps
weed out the wanna be's & the ones who used a 20 year
old photo that was taken when they still had teeth or before
they put on that extra 125 lbs.

HOTFIRELOVERS wrote:

I love you ABC Women you described utah parties very well. You are AWESOME!!! We have had soooo much fun and we are non drama people. However most parties have one or two that make it not as fun but you chose to respond how you want. Looks do not matter as much to us. We just like having a good time. That is what I hope everyone is trying to do. We enjoy all the parties soooo far keep them coming!!! goooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo swingers!!!!

Yeah...what they said! Have to agree..ABC has it dead on..in our experience!

Yes We would be interested. Figured you had received enough opinions and lectures.