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A friend stated that the only reason a man would desire sex outside of marriage is that his wife is unable to meet his needs. Any comments?
that would be a ton of bs for me personally. My wife tkes care of all my needs and wants and desires and we still like to fuck others
Um well, considering where we are, I really don't think very many people are going to agree with that one. My husband is VERY well taken care of in AND out of the bedroom. We aren't here for "needs". We are here for fun and fantasies and desires. If your "friend" in in the LS, they are in the wrong freaking place.

Mrs. C
If one of them is stepping out on the other, you could make a case for it. But I think you'll find that people here do it because they are really into their spouse and want to find greater fun with them.
She must not enjoy the lifestyle or she would not make such a statement. If she does not you should not be in the lifestyle. Both should enjoy each other and be in love. We are both very fulfilled at home but enjoy others from time to time.
What WESEE said.
That may verywell be the way for men in the vanella world. There are women that do not like sex but you will probably never find a woman that is living this lifestyle that does not love sex. So the only way that would happen is if she was draged into this lifestyle.
COUNTRYBIKERS wrote:

Um well, considering where we are, I really don't think very many people are going to agree with that one. My husband is VERY well taken care of in AND out of the bedroom. We aren't here for "needs". We are here for fun and fantasies and desires. If your "friend" in in the LS, they are in the wrong freaking place. Mrs. C


Well said...Amen, Ms Coountrybiker.
HOOLIGANS wrote:

This is a troll post.

pass, thanks


oh thank god. I thought i was the only one who noticed some major flaws in their profile.
BIGSEXIE wrote:

A friend stated that the only reason a man would desire sex outside of marriage is that his wife is unable to meet his needs. Any comments?


Generally speaking, when someone uses the word 'only' in reference to the entire population; you can safely discard anything they say on the topic as rubbish.

There are scarcely few statements that hold true for all men, or for all women.
Your friend seems to be stuck in the mindset that every man must think and feel in the same way he does.

Just my $0.02
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

HOOLIGANS wrote:

This is a troll post. pass, thanks
oh thank god. I thought i was the only one who noticed some major flaws in their profile.


oops..Sorry ...Have to disagree here, friends. We know Ms BigSexie..Very real, and genuine sweetheart..definately NOT troll..or a troll post....nope.
TIFFND wrote:

BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

[quote=HOOLIGANS]This is a troll post. pass, thanks
oh thank god. I thought i was the only one who noticed some major flaws in their profile.


oops..Sorry ...Have to disagree here, friends. We know Ms BigSexie..Very real, and genuine sweetheart..definately NOT troll..or a troll post....nope.[/quote]

Then my apologies then. I was just confused by the differentiating pics profile information.

xox
Tammy
No worries BlueEyes, I was just as cornfused....but hey thats just me most of the time:)