OK, Obviously someone had to be the first one to suggest getting into this lifestyle.
Was it you or her and how was it brought up, If u remember.
Was it you or her and how was it brought up, If u remember.
does it really matter?
wife 
I believe it was the hubs that brought up firt. And it took me a while to get use to the idea of swinging. I was always the "good" girl! lol. But this lifestyle has definitely brought us closer and just FUN!
I was introduced to Swingular by Deepbluz, boyfriend at the time. He has been a member for several years before I joined. I was curious and he helped me make the jump, ironically he isn't into it too much anymore. He's kinda shy and reserved. 
Sadly there are a lot of ladies who are missing out on his talents. Anyway, I love it here, and while I don't think this is a forever lifestyle for me, it's good for now.
xox
Tammy
Sadly there are a lot of ladies who are missing out on his talents. Anyway, I love it here, and while I don't think this is a forever lifestyle for me, it's good for now. xox
Tammy
Scorp, u2 can pursue us any time 
see u2 soon
see u2 soonNot sure anyone will believe us but it happened simultaneously. We never really talked about it in detail, had curiosities about a good friend who had said she had an open relationship, and yet we never really related it to our relationship. One night, several years ago, it just happened, with us at the same exact moment. We have had the same smile on our faces and feel the same intense "euphoria" after every moment we've had the pleasure of enjoying since that night.