Im sure differant women like differant sizes, But what size would be considered Large / Med / Small .
mine would be considered small or non existent ... wonders if i was born a hermaphrodite .
hehe, you'd only be a hermaphrodite, Kelly, if you had a pussy too.
You can search the Internet for the anatomical averages, broken down for ethnicity and a thousand other ways to look at it. Probably something like this for westerners:
<5
5-7
>8
You can search the Internet for the anatomical averages, broken down for ethnicity and a thousand other ways to look at it. Probably something like this for westerners:
<5
5-7
>8
WESEE wrote:
hehe, you'd only be a hermaphrodite, Kelly, if you had a pussy too. You can search the Internet for the anatomical averages, broken down for ethnicity and a thousand other ways to look at it. Probably something like this for westerners: <5 5-7 >8
Are those numbers for hard or soft?
Enquiring mind's want to know.
hehe, you'd only be a hermaphrodite, Kelly, if you had a pussy too.
You can search the Internet for the anatomical averages, broken down for ethnicity and a thousand other ways to look at it. Probably something like this for westerners:
<5
5-7
>8@weese ....what makes you think i don't have one of those too ?
You can search the Internet for the anatomical averages, broken down for ethnicity and a thousand other ways to look at it. Probably something like this for westerners:
<5
5-7
>8@weese ....what makes you think i don't have one of those too ?
@weesee hmmn < 14
What about girth. What's the averages for that?
i love my dick.
NOT THIS AGAIN!
Don't shoot the messenger...BUT ACCORDING TO STUDIES AVERAGE GUY IS 5'9" AND AVER. DICK SIZE IS 6".
However also depends on Thickness. Also the more LIMP a guy is the more it will grow.
So just because a guy is 6" limp doesn't mean you'll have a 10" dk hard, conversely if your 3" limp you may finish at 8". If you keep thinking about it, well then forget.
Positive for you only about 2 inches are needed to reach "G" spot depending on the position.
Also only about 60% of women reach orgasm "JUST" using vaginal intercourse only.
Bottom line it's really not just about DICK size or TIGHT Pussy's, it's about the total experience.
Don't shoot the messenger...BUT ACCORDING TO STUDIES AVERAGE GUY IS 5'9" AND AVER. DICK SIZE IS 6".
However also depends on Thickness. Also the more LIMP a guy is the more it will grow.
So just because a guy is 6" limp doesn't mean you'll have a 10" dk hard, conversely if your 3" limp you may finish at 8". If you keep thinking about it, well then forget.
Positive for you only about 2 inches are needed to reach "G" spot depending on the position.
Also only about 60% of women reach orgasm "JUST" using vaginal intercourse only.
Bottom line it's really not just about DICK size or TIGHT Pussy's, it's about the total experience.
best pick up line i've ever heard my buddy use was "my dick cant reach the bottom of a tuna can but it can split the slides "
It IS about the total experience! Amen to that, MASSMN! In the past, I have been litereally scared away from cocks that I deemed to be too small or too damn big. Now, many years later, what the hell was I thinking when opted out either way!?!?! I needed to get over myself and relish the entire experience. I guess we live and learn. - JJ
If it's not a; BBD, BWD, BAD, BHD, or any other BD who cares? Am I right girls?
AYLA5639 wrote:I would like to see the guy that is 8" soft, by the time he got hard he would pass out LOL[/quote]CARRIERMAN wrote:Are those numbers for hard or soft? Enquiring mind's want to know.
[quote=WESEE]hehe, you'd only be a hermaphrodite, Kelly, if you had a pussy too. You can search the Internet for the anatomical averages, broken down for ethnicity and a thousand other ways to look at it. Probably something like this for westerners: <5 5-7 >8
As John Holmes once said............
"Yeah, I got a full hard on once, but before I could use it, I passed out from lack of blood to my brain."
I found myself in a conversation with some rather sexually experienced ladies discussing this topic. The general consensus was that, "if it's smaller than 5 or bigger than 8, it's fucking useless..."
I've always wondered if a 6 1/4" hard girth good?? Dono, but its been doing me good for years now..hehehe
I've never checked length.. Might have to sometime..haha
Biggest thing to remember is that flaccid does not dictate hard/"actual" length. Some men show length before, others don't. So, if a man only has an inch soft, doesn't mean we don't have a hell of a lot more hard. lol
And there definitely is such thing as TOO BIG!!! Sometimes I love to just have the hell fucked out of me and if you're too long then it hurts 
Girth: The Canc
[quote=MAVENX]Girth: The Canc
Of course this is just my opinion, but I think mr. JNK has the absolute perfect dick. No voids, full and fat, and the perfect length... my favorite "blunt instrument," to use a line from Casino Royale, yummmmm... He never realized he had a big dick until we started fooling around with other people and we kinda figured it out. Since he never thought he had any size advantage, that meant he actually learned how to please a woman too, lol!
I agree that variety is the spice of life though, and since we're kinda new to this, its fun to see the variety of shape, size and style of the guys we've fooled around with. That being said, I agree with the person who said anything b/w 5-8 inches is best - though I might say 6-8
Regarding the science behind dick size - on an episode of HBO's Real Sex they said 5 1/4 inches is average and that the guys that are smaller when flacid tend to be larger when erect - something about more "fillable" voids in there that cause it to go smaller when soft and can fill up with more when erect. Which is why mr. JNK always thought he was small
BTW - the JNK is our initials, although it would work for his "junk" as well, lol!
I agree that variety is the spice of life though, and since we're kinda new to this, its fun to see the variety of shape, size and style of the guys we've fooled around with. That being said, I agree with the person who said anything b/w 5-8 inches is best - though I might say 6-8
Regarding the science behind dick size - on an episode of HBO's Real Sex they said 5 1/4 inches is average and that the guys that are smaller when flacid tend to be larger when erect - something about more "fillable" voids in there that cause it to go smaller when soft and can fill up with more when erect. Which is why mr. JNK always thought he was small
BTW - the JNK is our initials, although it would work for his "junk" as well, lol!
It's not the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean. However, if I have to row across the ocean in a dingy, please tell me the other accessories rock.
I have been with the proverbial small dicked man and it was great sex. And I've been with a man who's dick could have it's own social security number and that's been great too. I think the man attached to said dick is what makes the experience.
But I'm not ashamed to admit that there has been more then one occasion I have had dick envy and wanted to unscrew a very pleasing cock and take it home with me to play with at my own leisure but no one has taken me up on it yet. LOL
I have been with the proverbial small dicked man and it was great sex. And I've been with a man who's dick could have it's own social security number and that's been great too. I think the man attached to said dick is what makes the experience.
But I'm not ashamed to admit that there has been more then one occasion I have had dick envy and wanted to unscrew a very pleasing cock and take it home with me to play with at my own leisure but no one has taken me up on it yet. LOL
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
It's not the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean. However, if I have to row across the ocean in a dingy, please tell me the other accessories rock.
I have been with the proverbial small dicked man and it was great sex. And I've been with a man who's dick could have it's own social security number and that's been great too. I think the man attached to said dick is what makes the experience.
But I'm not ashamed to admit that there has been more then one occasion I have had dick envy and wanted to unscrew a very pleasing cock and take it home with me to play with at my own leisure but no one has taken me up on it yet. LOL
Get some of those "form your own" dildo kits. I bet you could convince a guy or two to keep it hard long enough to mold one for you.
Well Trixie I guess that leaves me out now
I saw a % study a number of years ago (wish I had saved it.. as this comes up occationally). Naturally my bigest interest is where I fit in the figures (in the 90% range for me)Big, big smile. I knew a couple who ran a swingers mag. years ago and saw the defination of Hung (2 hands full with a piece left over). The ladys say it's not the size as long as it's enough (now what is "enough"?), it's how it's used. I've been too large for one lady and not large enough for one. I think we all seek the perfuct fit and variety is one of the spices of life. Aint research is a wonderful thing!
TRAVMETZ wrote:
Biggest thing to remember is that flaccid does not dictate hard/"actual" length. Some men show length before, others don't. So, if a man only has an inch soft, doesn't mean we don't have a hell of a lot more hard. lol
I have to admit, I fall into this catagory.
In the school gym class locker room and showers, I was always embarrassed (and frequently teased) about my itsy bitsy, teeny weeny weeny.
Once I got in the military, the teasing stopped, but my embarrasment and feeling of inadequacy didn't.
But once I got into the Swinging Lifestyle, and had exposure to other guys in an "erect" condition, it all went away.
TRAVMETZ is dead on - flacid size has NOTHING to do with erect size.
It's been my observation that most guys who are large soft don't get much bigger erect.
But it doesn't take much for my little buddy to turn into my biggest asset.
I'm reminded of the first words Adam said to Eve:
"Stand back - I don't know how big this thing gets".
mine is allmost 8" long but its over 5" around and biegirl likes it just fine she says its big,anything under 6" she doesnt care for
My dick is not big but it is also not small but it sure likes you girls one and all.....
JNK204 wrote:I have to say- I am a fan of all the variety, shapes and style's too. And so far I have been incredibly lucky, they have all seemed to know how to work it. That being said, I also am partial to the 6-8, since my Mr. rocks the 8 inch category! It is perfect in every way possible.
I agree that variety is the spice of life though, and since we're kinda new to this, its fun to see the variety of shape, size and style of the guys we've fooled around with. That being said, I agree with the person who said anything b/w 5-8 inches is best - though I might say 6-8
As far as dick size humm all it has to do is reach from me to you right??
As one Average guy I thought there was more to sex the put put peg P into slot V
i guess i heard from some gals, the guys with big dicks usually are and never learned there is more then to stick it in until he was done. guess i will take my ave size dick and magic tongue and sit in the corner now
As one Average guy I thought there was more to sex the put put peg P into slot V
i guess i heard from some gals, the guys with big dicks usually are and never learned there is more then to stick it in until he was done. guess i will take my ave size dick and magic tongue and sit in the corner now
WHYNOTSAYHI wrote:
As far as dick size humm all it has to do is reach from me to you right??
As one Average guy I thought there was more to sex the put put peg P into slot V
i guess i heard from some gals, the guys with big dicks usually are and never learned there is more then to stick it in until he was done. guess i will take my ave size dick and magic tongue and sit in the corner now
Can i join you in the corner?
Yeah, personally I am pretty tiny down there and while I do enjoy the stretch from time to time. I enjoy a lot of other things way more! I think it's more about how you use what you've got. If your big but don't care if you satisfy your partner, than whats the point.
just have fun with all size
Ladies have told me that girth is better because it affects their nerve endings much more intensely because more girth hence more nerve endings affected. Thank you GIRTH.
Size doesn't matter to me, but if it ain't hard then it ain't worth a fuck!
I've had small guys that feel much bigger when hard than large guys that are soft... and a lot of the larger guys cant seem to get it very hard, yet the smaller guys are like a solid glass dildo! Whats UP with that??? Pun intended - lol
I've had small guys that feel much bigger when hard than large guys that are soft... and a lot of the larger guys cant seem to get it very hard, yet the smaller guys are like a solid glass dildo! Whats UP with that??? Pun intended - lol
I have to admit, i've never actually measured...But at the same time i've never had any complaints so i figure it does the job lol. but i will admit, i am one of those guys thats very small soft and sees a pretty decent increase when hard. If i had to guess though, i'd say i fall in the 6-8in category and the only way i can describe girth is i'm about 3 of my fingers wide (linear)... The Mrs. just said that at times i'm too long for her, whatever that means lol. in regards to the use though, i'd say for the overall experience, it does come down more to how you use it than the actual size. I don't care what size, type, shape, real vs toy, etc...if you don't know what you're doing with it, you can still have fun but you miss out on a lot more.
Medically speaking The smaller you are soft the more you'll grow.
Contrary to what people think when ur Soft the Muscles are Contracted and when
you have a Hard-on the Muscles's are actually Relaxed.
Isn't Dick size topic's getting old I mine does anyone ever bring up PUSSY SIZE?
If it's working and no one's complaining don't worry about it.
It's not just the size,If it is, then just use a dildo,it's more about everything that goes with it.
Contrary to what people think when ur Soft the Muscles are Contracted and when
you have a Hard-on the Muscles's are actually Relaxed.
Isn't Dick size topic's getting old I mine does anyone ever bring up PUSSY SIZE?
If it's working and no one's complaining don't worry about it.
It's not just the size,If it is, then just use a dildo,it's more about everything that goes with it.
I love my mans cock his is both big and wide. In all the right ways!!! ummmmmmm just thinking of his massive manhood is getting me a little wet if he was here lol!!!
I have been told by a lady friend that it is the hardness that counts most as OCEANCOUGAR mentioned, then girth and lastly length. But the cock is only a small part of the experience. Mine is 8" long and 6.5" in girth but I think the most important part of pleasing a woman is with the arousal the precedes intercourse. An hour long full body massage with slowly increasing sensual touching and then kissing will lead to much more satisfying orgasms for the woman (and for me) than a wham-bam-thank-you-mam experience.
I prefer to call flacid.. travel size. I have never had any complaints of it being too small. I have found that no matter what the size, it is all about how it is used. I had a friend who was quite small and women still said that he was amazing in bed. He just knew how to use it I guess. I am average size. Wish I could practice more though. Don't we all?
I can only say , you flung what you brung, so if they dont like it for what it is worth well. then if there is a second hookup email me and remind to bring my bigger dick if i can find it .
ive never seen it so im not sure what it looks like.
kev
ive never seen it so im not sure what it looks like.
kev
TRIXIEE wrote:NAUGHTYGIRL101 wrote:
And there definitely is such thing as TOO BIG!!! Sometimes I love to just have the hell fucked out of me and if you're too long then it hurts
Us *older* gals that have had our plumbing removed are left with a *brick wall* - at least that's what it feels like when the BIG boys are trying to please us - OUCHIE!!! No thank you =(
Same here hun...and a brick wall is describing it perfectly lol
Picked a gal up in a bar once.
Things went well, and we ended up leaving and going to a local motel.
Once in the room, we started to undress - (no formalities required).
She looked over my way, pointed and asked: "who you gonna satisfy with THAT little thing"?
I quickly replied: - "ME".
Things went well, and we ended up leaving and going to a local motel.
Once in the room, we started to undress - (no formalities required).
She looked over my way, pointed and asked: "who you gonna satisfy with THAT little thing"?
I quickly replied: - "ME".
ROFL!
the size does not matter it is how u use what u have
Who does these studies and where do they find the men for the studies. I'm a black man, 3" soft, about 8" hard and thick... as my wife says.... it grows on you! LOL
Of course this is just my opinion, but I think mr. JNK has the absolute perfect dick. No voids, full and fat, and the perfect length... my favorite "blunt instrument," to use a line from Casino Royale, yummmmm... He never realized he had a big dick until we started fooling around with other people and we kinda figured it out. Since he never thought he had any size advantage, that meant he actually learned how to please a woman too, lol!
AMEN!
I had 2 friends that would make John Holmes take a second look, so thought I was tiny. Didn't know that men are pretty much the same when soft (although there are showers and growers)....I am grateful I knew those two guys.
But I'm not ashamed to admit that there has been more then one occasion I have had dick envy and wanted to unscrew a very pleasing cock and take it home with me to play with at my own leisure but no one has taken me up on it yet. LOL
Just carry one of those dick mold kits, make one, and you can accomplish it without hurting him...
Size shoot I thought all it had to do was to reach frm me to you
never have any complains here, but most women have told me it all counts on what a guy can do with his hands, and mouth that matters the most, i also love to talk very erotic to women, seems to work them up and get them hot, i know most women i have been with have loved to soft touch of my fingers all over their bodies, after all that, they seem to be willing and acceptable of anything and any size, right ladies? never thought, i could ever please a woman just by sticking my dick in her and thats it.