I am an older single male and understandably I find it is a bit difficult changing lifestyles. The first change is to being single after being married for most of my life. The second difficulty is changing to this lifestyle. Of course the age doesn
Not sure how to help you with your overall question but just can say...Just Be Yourself. And go with a friend ...a wing man so to speak.
But I do have to say your daughter's boyfriend is an idiot and please stop taking advice from him. I go to clubs by myself for a variety of reasons....
1. Need a break from the kids
2. In the mood for that particular club and whomever I am seeing, isn't.
3. Meeting friends..either old ones or hoping to make new ones.
4. People watch.
5. Drink, dance, be silly.
6. Im on the prowl.
7. Want to socialize with others without taking my clothes off.
8. Want to eat good bar food and flirt.
9. Want to have a cocktail and just chill and decompress.
Depends on my mood and the time of the month.
But I do have to say your daughter's boyfriend is an idiot and please stop taking advice from him. I go to clubs by myself for a variety of reasons....
1. Need a break from the kids
2. In the mood for that particular club and whomever I am seeing, isn't.
3. Meeting friends..either old ones or hoping to make new ones.
4. People watch.
5. Drink, dance, be silly.
6. Im on the prowl.
7. Want to socialize with others without taking my clothes off.
8. Want to eat good bar food and flirt.
9. Want to have a cocktail and just chill and decompress.
Depends on my mood and the time of the month.
chances are if you are going to a swingers club thats what one would be there for. Sometimes I just dance and chill, but thats only when the people don't turn me on. Every time I go to the Red Rooster I just danced lol....
TATERTOT1982 wrote:
chances are if you are going to a swingers club thats what one would be there for. Sometimes I just dance and chill, but thats only when the people don't turn me on. Every time I go to the Red Rooster I just danced lol....
Oh hun...you're forgetting we don't have "swingers clubs" here...just regular dance clubs lol Kisses...Naugh-Ty