Totally curious (espcially being so new to this), how do most of you out there feel about kissing. I'm not even really sure how I feel about it. How many are ok with their partners doing it as long as they don't see it, how many ok with seeing their partners do it, how many are not ok at all with their partners doing it?
Personally speaking....no kissing=no sex. I've done the no kissing during sex thing and quite frankly it sucks. I ~love~ kissing so it has to be part of the act for me. So if I meet a couple and No Kissing is one their rules I have to decline playing with them. It's just something *I* need to be able to play. However there are lots of people who prefer to have kissing saved for only their SO. I say if it makes your uncomfortable then don't do it. Fine other like minded playmates so that your experience is a good one. To each their own.
xox
Tammy
(but thanks for making me want to orally molest someone right now! LOL)
xox
Tammy
(but thanks for making me want to orally molest someone right now! LOL)
With us we've agreed that the girls can kiss all they want. Aside from that the only other kissing, on the lips that is, will be done with your own partner only.
We love kissing... You can tell by the passion in a kiss just how in to you the other person is..You can also tell just by watching your partner kiss someone just how in to them they are.. For some of us this is also a turn on, When i can see that she is totally turned on by the way she is kissing someone....Well wow..
I guess in the short version without foreplay sex just isn't the same and for us kissing and making out is just part of foreplay..
Just my two cents (which with taxes and inflation is probably only worth one cent)
Lucky
I guess in the short version without foreplay sex just isn't the same and for us kissing and making out is just part of foreplay..
Just my two cents (which with taxes and inflation is probably only worth one cent)
Lucky
Me I like to see my girfreand kiss a guy, i like to kiss the woman to, but if french kissing I don't like it that much.
We both love to kiss, it is a must. Can't let these lips go to waste 
MORGANCOUPLE wrote:
We love kissing... You can tell by the passion in a kiss just how in to you the other person is..You can also tell just by watching your partner kiss someone just how in to them they are.. For some of us this is also a turn on, When i can see that she is totally turned on by the way she is kissing someone....Well wow..
I guess in the short version without foreplay sex just isn't the same and for us kissing and making out is just part of foreplay..
Just my two cents (which with taxes and inflation is probably only worth one cent)
Lucky
How is it that you can answer a question like this EXACTLY how I would answer it...oh yeah cuz you're my soul mate and we think a like...and we talk lol...but yes kissing is a huge turn on for me...have done the no kissing with another couple (only the girls can kiss) and it just isn't the same...nothing sets my orgasm off when I'm right there and lean down and just go at the kissing....not the same when you have to side step to the neck or somewhere else...kisses...Naugh-Ty
P.S. Maybe that's why I sign everything "kisses" and I don't hand shake either...always hugs...if I shake your hand then chances are I don't like you at all lol
Agreed Blue
I concur with BlueEyes. Kissing is just as erotic as any sex act...
Mav
Mav
An erotic passionate kiss gets all of the juices flowing. What is this only the girls can kiss? Either we all get some or none of us get some is how we work.
Ah yes, to kiss or not to kiss. Do what feels good for you. That said, let us look at this logically. You kiss your mother or uncle or aunt or some such and you profess that kissing is more personal than intercourse. Then I can
So this is my 2 cents: sex with your SO is different then sex with another person, so why is kissing not the same? When I am with anyone I love to kiss, lips, ears, neck, chest, nose... its just part of the fun but when I am kissing john it is emotionally but when I am kissing a FB it feels completely different but still a turn on.
That being said Blueeys always says it best
Like I don't think I would be comfortable playing with non-kissers, it would be awkward for me being I am so oral.
That being said Blueeys always says it best
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
I say if it makes your uncomfortable then don't do it. Fine other like minded playmates so that your experience is a good one. To each their own.
Like I don't think I would be comfortable playing with non-kissers, it would be awkward for me being I am so oral.
Who said that sex and emotions were logical.
Nothing gets me more relaxed and ready to play than kissing. And it's fun to be face to face with someone, close enough to whisper about all the things you plan to do with that person in a few minutes. It is intimate, but I don't really want to feel distanced from someone I'm about to fuck.
We LIKE kissing...Yes indeed! and have to agree with others here....oral sex seems just a little more personal to us...
And, YES, we like THAT too! LOL Ahhh..guess we're just hopeless.....
And, YES, we like THAT too! LOL Ahhh..guess we're just hopeless.....
kissing is a the best. it is a good messuring tool, if you are a good kisser then you are a good at OTHER things. it is our turn on to watch and be watched. Lips are like Basken robins ice cream, more that 31 flavor of lips mmmmm mmmm
(spelling is off and i dont care, but you can correct it if you want)
(spelling is off and i dont care, but you can correct it if you want)
Wow....thought there would be a little more of a divide....but the concensus is pretty clear! Awesome points! The majority has swayed me!!! j/k didn't really need to be swayed I love to kiss too and if I can kiss almost 60 at Mardi Grais (many years ago) without even knowing their names, pretty sure I can do it without it causing any unwanted feelings...hehehe
I love to kiss too and if I can kiss almost 60 at Mardi Grais (many years ago) without even knowing their names, pretty sure I can do it without it causing any unwanted feelings...hehehe wow, it is so strange to me that would be ok with letting your partner fuck another person, but dare not kiss, cause you might fall in love? fucking weird. I mean thats like a a damn sundae with no cherry on top. And what the hell are we here for if there are no cherries
I think regardless if I am in a relationship or single (swinging or otherwise), if you aren't willing to exchange bodily fluids with me, than we can't possibly open up and be connected enough to please each other. No way no how, my mouth is not missing lips.......either set
And if you're a shitty kisser , you're not getting pussy.
I think regardless if I am in a relationship or single (swinging or otherwise), if you aren't willing to exchange bodily fluids with me, than we can't possibly open up and be connected enough to please each other. No way no how, my mouth is not missing lips.......either set
And if you're a shitty kisser , you're not getting pussy.
Ah, the great kissing debate has cropped up again! A couple of years ago, when I engaged in this debate, we were a "only the girls can kiss" couple. We have since started kissing MF, simply because it was something new we wanted to try. Guess what, it's not that serious! To be honest, we had some GREAT experiences before we kissed (I even had someone tell me she thought it was extra hot to not be able to kiss becuase it made it a little "taboo") and we have had some GREAT experiences that included kissing. Kissing is just another activity a couple can chose to share or not, just as some couples don't do anal with others, some don't do penetration, some don't play sepreately, and the list goes on and on. I really doubt that there is anybody who does EVERY single possible sex act with those that they play with. So, if a couple excludes a certain act from their play does that mean they don't have fun, are "insecure," don't deserve to be here, because they don't fit into someone else's little box of what constitutes swinging???? Absolutely not! We all have our own desires in this lifestyle and I can guarantee you that we can all find someone we click with who will accept whatever "boundaries" we might have and still have a great party! If kissing is something you require, there are people who will agree and obilge. If you don't want to kiss, there are plenty of people for you too (whether they are also a "no kissing" couple or whther they are an open-minded, "kissing" couple who accepts others' points of view). And, for as many years as we have been doing this, I still just don't understand why folks have to be so judgemental and make assumptions and question the couple's (or single's) motives just because they are different from their own.
Mrs.
Mrs.
Personally KISSING is the most sensual and erotic thing 2 people can do.
It connects the MIND, BODY and soul together. Even strippers refuse to kiss their regular's.
If I was married it would be a NO NO, if it's a girlfriend that's different there's NO future comment.
It connects the MIND, BODY and soul together. Even strippers refuse to kiss their regular's.
If I was married it would be a NO NO, if it's a girlfriend that's different there's NO future comment.
Personally KISSING is the most sensual and erotic thing 2 people can do.
It connects the MIND, BODY and soul together. Even strippers refuse to kiss their regular's.
If I was married it would be a NO NO, if it's a girlfriend that's different there's NO future comment.
It connects the MIND, BODY and soul together. Even strippers refuse to kiss their regular's.
If I was married it would be a NO NO, if it's a girlfriend that's different there's NO future comment.
GOTTA KISS CAUSE IT MAKES ME HARD!! And for sure, no green or dark teeth or red gums!!
Kissing is the best. I see it as a preview of more intimate things to come. Great kisser typically equals a great lover in my experience, and a bad kisser....
I just want everyone to know that I took a poll and I was told repeatedly over and over that Im a GREAT kisser. Just sayin. And judging from instant erections I keep feeling up against me while my tongue is dancing in their mouths, I feel I must respect the masses opinion and believe it.
On a side note....nothing hotter then you shoving your tongue in mine and letting me taste myself after you've gone down on me. Or tasting your SO on me after I've gone down her.
On a side note....nothing hotter then you shoving your tongue in mine and letting me taste myself after you've gone down on me. Or tasting your SO on me after I've gone down her.
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
On a side note....nothing hotter then you shoving your tongue in mine and letting me taste myself after you've gone down on me. Or tasting your SO on me after I've gone down her.
...hell yeah! Have to agree with you on that one, Blueeyes!
I only look sweet and innocent. I'm as depraved and scary as they cum.
Oh and I cum hard and fast. Several. Times. Over.
Oh and I cum hard and fast. Several. Times. Over.
Ok BLUE, I'm there without a kiss after reading yours. HOT STUFF! Thanks!
TATERTOT1982 wrote:
And if you're a shitty kisser , you're not getting pussy.
Whheewww....I'm ok then cuz I've been told I'm a FANTASTIC kisser....can I have my prize now? *giggles*
Kisses...Naugh-Ty
We are kissers, much more passion in a kiss..Just my two cents
WORTHW8IN4 wrote:
As long as the breath is okay why not. I have a hard time getting it up without kissing. Maybe carry some tic-tacks with you. What really bothers me is a pussy that smells or tastes bad. What do you do? A tick tack wont work down there. It has happened to me more than once. I have suggested taking a shower together to avoid any embarrasment, Thank God for hot tubs. I know that most woman are very aware of this and take care of themselves and probsbly are more concered than us guys.
Ok...ummmm....EEWWWWW...what a subject to bring up in a kissing thread....yuck...never been a problem for me (the mrs here) or any girl I've been with...but then again I'm very picky about my girls and if it isn't apparent they take care of themselves then it's not happening...maybe you need to take a step back and examine the girls you are choosing??
Kissing is part of foreplay!
If you can't handle the kissing part then you certainly
should not be in the lifestyle. We have ran across a few
like that who have so many rules you don't dare do anything.
There are many who just plain & simple don't belong in in
this community. Too many pretends, wanna be's etc. If your
going to do it then do it!
should not be in the lifestyle. We have ran across a few
like that who have so many rules you don't dare do anything.
There are many who just plain & simple don't belong in in
this community. Too many pretends, wanna be's etc. If your
going to do it then do it!