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Where are all the couples with men that are looking to further SEX. Most women would agree that they would love to give a man the sensations that they (if they do) enjoy of anal sex and dont be fooled women all know that the male prostate is basically the same as a womans G-spot and you know how they are about that lil goody HIT IT RUB IT ABBBBUUUSE IT PLEEAAASE!. I do not believe that women enjoy watching men kiss however. You want your lady friend to enjoy anal dont you. And if she does I am sure that she would want to give you the same pleasure. If nothing else I am sure it is one of her dirty lil fantasies. Women have more and dirtier fantasies than we have ever tried to cum up with guys.

I was told about 9 yrs ago by a regular swinger in the lifestyle for yrs. that all swingers are bisexual. Which made sense, swingers are people that enjoy the fullness of sex and wants to share the diversity of it with others. So where are all the men that are comfortable enough with their sexuality to at least be interested in what women are enjoying about sex.

We cannot be the only couple in SE Mi that feel this way. Do we need to move to UT there seems to be lots of nice profiles there! Congratulations Utah!
You guys are just ahead of the times, \"I\" on the other hand
am not,,, My wife has this fantasy also.
Like I keep telling her, the imagination is a great thing
so she should keep some things there not to mess them up.


Yea,,Yea, I know,,,,,,,,,,,,,Neanderthal
\"Bi_Mi_cpl\"..I have to agree somwehat...lol

While the statement \"all swingers are bi\" doens\'t count me, I do however enjoy my wife with a strap-on. It was something we tried once and we enjoyed it. And the way i figured it, 1 million gay guys can\'t be wrong..lol.
Please forgive the directness of this statement:

Not all swingers are BI sexual.
Not all men are interested in anal activity of any kind, male or female.
Not all women are interested in putting a finger in her man\'s ba-chunga to \"stimulate\" his prostate. Thank whomever you worship.
Not all people who differ with anal sex are in denial. They simply may not have any interest.

Just our .02 cents.

Luvbugs!








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V and V

I understand the not bi I also to the point that I really find nothing stimulating about 95% of mens bodies sorry ladies I dont see what you see in us. Oh well just keep luvin us! and agreed there has to be something enjoyable to gay guys also!!
WELL SAID Luvbugs.........

I had a guy on yahoo tell me that ALL women are bi, (LMAO) and that I wouldnt know if i was bi until I tried it. (by the way he was a very pushy married man who\'s wife is bi)

I told him how did he know he wasnt bi till he tried it..... He said that\'s different and signed off LOL........
Well fun4us hopefully he signed off to try it;) there is no bi sexual fulfillness of watching your partner have sex w/ someone else or are you just watching your spouse have sex?? this is both to fun4us and lovebug
No, I do not get any thrill or sexual fulfillness from watching the female playing with my man....I do however love to see him enjoying, and there fore get turned watching him.....

I am not sexually attracted to women at all..
Fun4Us is not bi. Nope, no way. Truer words have never been spoken!!

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Happy Holidays...

Christian
We agree that it is not a denial. One can not generalize that a group of people are all the same. Things are not black and white.

The reason for the great personals from UTAH is that seems to be were this site started... spread the word in your area. We belong to SLS site as well but this site has a better feel to it.

Hope we did not offend... just our 2 pennies
Im am bisexual i am moslty oral tho, dont mind a finger or anal prob down under, have had some freinds (couple) do me with a strapon while i sucked hubby (for her) he had his eyes closed lol, felt good but im a truck driver by trade and i kinda like to take it easy on my bottom end lol ...Hope everyone had a merry christmas!
i get a prosate checked once a yr thats more ass play then i need lmao



peace
I the Male in this relationship find it totally hesterical that a \"STRAIGHT\" guy has enough BALLS to come out and say I love it when my wife does me with her STRAP-ON but I\'m not BI or GAY, it\'s just not the same.

OK............................................

Take a blind folded guy get several women with strap-on\'s doing him until he\'s well opened, then have a nice big GAY black stud come in and fuck him silly.

I\'m guessing you\'ll end up with a convert, ......................................................... with a very sore ass.

But thats just MY 2 CENTS
RED64ANDME
heheh Gotta love ur humor! how\'s things going?
The statement that all guys are bi is only really true if you chose your definition of bisexuality VERY carefully. If you believe that a man admitting that another man is attractive/good looking makes him bi (even if he has NO interest in that guy, just is willing to admit that he would be considered an attractive person) than yes, every guy is bi, just as every woman would be bi if they would admit that they think some other woman is attractive. Short of a *VERY* lose definition of bisexuality such as that, in the real world that most of us live in, no, not every guy is bi.

That said, there are a LOT of \"straight\" guys in the lifestyle who are anything but straight. Don\'t get me wrong, I\'m not saying all the guys in the lifestyle who say they are straight are lying about it, I don\'t believe that at all myself, but I know from experience that there are a lot of bi or bi curious guys in the lifestyle that for one reason or another don\'t admit it. Most couples would probably really be supprised at how many e-mails bi guys get one some sites (Not much here for me, but on another site I am currently on), from single straight men or couples with a straight guy looking to \"give it a try\".

I believe this is primarily because of the stigmatism that is associated with male bisexuality, there are a lot of couples that will not meet with a man or couple where the guy is bi because they are afraid he is going to be out to try something with the straight male.

-Peter
TBC LOVE that comment very good!!!! LOL

And also not all women are BI either, I realize the majority are, but I\'m in the Minority on that.... No gals sexually for me....just no interest in that.
My usernam is TOUNGNR69 Lets talk
Im always ready EMAIL ME [email protected]
All swingers are Bi
no ass play for me either, yeiks! I cant stand a prostrate exam let alone anything bigger headed up that orifice .....lol im open to pretty much anything that feels good, but that aint it .. lol:s
I am very sorry to offend all the homophobics out there especially you fun4u. I myself did not mean to generalize anyone or any group. (actually I think the guy that made the comment \"all true swingers are bi\" was flirting with me) Everyone and their experiences are different and that diversity is what makes it all the more entertaining. I do understand that pressure for anything is not fair nor acceptable. I am not forcing anyone to conform to my ideals I will defend mine however. As a person who has expanded upon experience and I am just looking for people who are equipped and capable of looking outside the box.

A bad experience in any way will leave a bad taste in ones memory. Just Like a person who does not take the time for foreplay...how boring. Or does not take their time to please the partner they are with. 35 seconds and dressed again DOES become more challenging with multiple people. I myself do not wish to be fit into such a limited confine of existance I understand that many a person has had a bad experiences anal or otherwise. This, you could mostly blame on the one giving it. And that some are not interested in trying in the first place. I mean why would you try something like even having sex in the first place. Its vile and disgusting in nature. But we do it for pleasure, which had better be why you are here. But some of you have taken such offense to a topic that I assure you, has to do with pleasure. I have had more negative responses than I would have ever imagined from a group of people that are known for enjoying things that \"some\" people would take great offense to or even consider immoral.

And to those of you who like to fall back on a prostate exam. The doc isnt wanting you to \"GET OFF\" in his examination room. He would have to charge more. And I think it would void your insurance coverage. Just like the nice cold speculum that women just LOVE to have their gynocologist shove in their crotch and stretch them open, but they still let us put stuff up there. So there IS a difference between an exam out of necessity and an act done for pleasure.

Thank you for all your comments

Lee
WE agree with you 100% BI_MI_CPL_4UR_PLESUR...just wish you were somewhat closer to us...a good time could have been had by all ;)
Get between us thank you and I like your handle just what I was looking for and would love to if not so far away:((
bi mi cpl, you didnt offend me you asked peoples opinions and I gave you mine......
** As a person who has expanded upon experience and I am just looking for people who are equipped and capable of looking outside the box.**

\"Capable\" is a very strong word in this instance. I do not believe that anyone who has expressed opposition to male anal activity is in fact INCAPABLE of perceiving it as you do. There simply isnt any INTEREST in that particular activity.

And homophobe? Very liberal use of that label indeed. There are many heterosexual activities that do not hold interest to us.

Water sports, rimming, heavy bondage, heavy spanking, beastiality, cross dressing, food play, ass play, etc. The list goes on. There are some truly outstandingly nasty things that very heterosexual people do that we would never touch. What then would you describe that as? Believe me, thats not a box I want to ever think in.

We are both completely capable of understanding YOUR apparent desire to play in this way. It seems to us that based on your previous statements (that you may have rectified, we didnt read all of the threads) you seem INCAPABLE of accepting that others may not find it as alluring as you do, fort whatever reason(s) they see fit.

I (mR. Luvbugs!) am not a homophobe because I do not want anything in my ass. Hey, most of the time I dread large bowel movements, and they are headed OUT. I can only imagine something headed IN. Geesh!

No harm intended. Just our .02 cents.

Luvbugs!




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