So I have a question? I have been a swinger for 10 years. Out of that 10 years, been with mmf, ffm,fff,etc...but I have never played with a married man without his wife. I have been recently getting a lot of married men contacting me to play alone. What is etiquette on this matter?
I think it's weird and it makes me extremely uncomfortable. I would hope the Mrs, knows but you never know. I prefer when the Wife asks me to play with her husband , alone or otherwise. Honestly, when it comes to swinging, I prefer the Female half. But, when I'm with a man, I like to double team. I mean if I'm gonna have sex with someone just us, it won't be a married man who can sneak away for the weekend. IDK, maybe its just the Mid-west prude coming out, lmao, but I would prefer not to be contacted by married men playing solo. I will revise my profile I guess. Am I the only one that feels this way, and what do the better halves think of this?
I think it's weird and it makes me extremely uncomfortable. I would hope the Mrs, knows but you never know. I prefer when the Wife asks me to play with her husband , alone or otherwise. Honestly, when it comes to swinging, I prefer the Female half. But, when I'm with a man, I like to double team. I mean if I'm gonna have sex with someone just us, it won't be a married man who can sneak away for the weekend. IDK, maybe its just the Mid-west prude coming out, lmao, but I would prefer not to be contacted by married men playing solo. I will revise my profile I guess. Am I the only one that feels this way, and what do the better halves think of this?
I would say we need to play together as a couple first. Then if you would like to play with the husband on his own, so be it. That way there is no hard feelings and you can really let loose. Being a married man, I think playing alone is fun, but only with the wifes permission. That way I can let loose as well. Hey, next time we are in Vegas, we should meet for drinks.
I think the same thing. Sure that be great.....
I agree hun...the only way there would be solo play with a married man would be after we had all been together and she told me it was ok herself...if I were a single female of course...but I guess it could happen as couples but we don't play alone...unless it's me and another female...but I still prefer he be there *giggles* kisses...Naugh-Ty
So long as the other persone knows. Let the good times and fanticies go as far as you care to take them.
B&M
B&M
it is all good.
We just do see it ever happening, We would consider it say after we had been with the couple first and the female half asks. We just think they are cheating. But thats us....
Simples
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PASSION4GROUPFUN
my point exactly, even your profile is a lie.. if not why not list as couple and have a few pictures. I guess by having your pics in your private album is supposed to want women to add you as a friend to see them. Just wish there was some sure way to screen.
Mr Simple....
my point exactly, even your profile is a lie.. if not why not list as couple and have a few pictures. I guess by having your pics in your private album is supposed to want women to add you as a friend to see them. Just wish there was some sure way to screen.
Mr Simple....
Swingers talk a lot about commitments and open relationships. However they are in a minority position when it comes to numbers. If you are married and want a divorce and your partner will not give you one, should you be forced to have her approval to swing? It is easy for us to say do this or do that. But some things are not easy to do. I spent 10 years being emotionally separated from my wife before my divorce. Due to certain circumstances, divorce was not even a consideration during that period of my life. But for me, sex with others was not a consideration either. However, I sure understand why some men would make it an option. We all have opinions and there are no easy answers and no right or wrong ones that are set in stone. There are only the ones that are right for you. It sounds to me that you have already made up your mind though.
bob handles the situation extremely well... he hands the phone to liz.. and liz gives permission!... done deal!
WHY IS IT THAT EVERY HOT COUPLE OR SINGLE WOMAN ARE FROM UT. FUCK WHAT'S UP WITH THAT? EVERY DAY I READ THE HOT VIEW'S AND IT'S ALWAY'S PEOPLE FROM UT AND THE GIRL'S ARE ALL PIN UP'S. I ALWAY'S THOUGHT UT WAS A BIG HOLY CHURCH STATE THAT IT WAS OK TO HAVE UP TO 10 WIFE'S AND 100 KIDS AS LONG AS YOU COULD FEED THEM. WELL I MUST BE FUCK UP BECOUSE THAT'S NOT WHAT I SEE OR READ. I WISH IT WAS LIKE THAT HERE IF IT WAS I'M SURE MEN WOULD NOT HAVE TO CHEET SO MUCH JUST TO GET SOME NEW PUSSY FOR TIME TO TIME. LOVE UT PEACE.