As a single male, It\'s not always the easiest thing to do to find compatible people that enjoy getting together. I make a point of always respecting others, and thier wishes. But recently, for some reson, in couples ads some have found it necessary to be very rude in thier descriptions. For example, an excerpt from a profile:
\'We understand that swinging means sharing not lending so single males are NOT welcome, look someplace else, don\'t waste your time nor ours trying to contact us.\'
Is that true? \'Swinging means sharing not lending\'? If so, there\'s alot of great couples out there who have the wrong idea about swinging! I\'ve had some great times with alot of friends, and never got that attitude at all. Are we all sadly mistaken? I thought swinging was a couple exploring their sexuality. (?)
I\'m sure there are probably single males out there that become a nuisance, I\'ve gotten some of the messages myself. But there are also single females/couples that will pass this profile/couple by because of the tone set with that remark. (there\'s one such couple reading this over my shoulder and agreeing as i write this!).
Just food for thought.
\'We understand that swinging means sharing not lending so single males are NOT welcome, look someplace else, don\'t waste your time nor ours trying to contact us.\'
Is that true? \'Swinging means sharing not lending\'? If so, there\'s alot of great couples out there who have the wrong idea about swinging! I\'ve had some great times with alot of friends, and never got that attitude at all. Are we all sadly mistaken? I thought swinging was a couple exploring their sexuality. (?)
I\'m sure there are probably single males out there that become a nuisance, I\'ve gotten some of the messages myself. But there are also single females/couples that will pass this profile/couple by because of the tone set with that remark. (there\'s one such couple reading this over my shoulder and agreeing as i write this!).
Just food for thought.
We are open to single guys. However, It\'s a once in
a blue moon kinda thing. Our mail is full of single guys all
the time. They add us to their Friends list without even saying hello.
Typically with no or 1 pic.
We do have a statement about cheeting and agressive guys.
Twice we have gotten into messy divorces and had to listen to that crap
Several times I had to take over when a single guy got to pushy.
We do play with single guys, But you have to understand couples are our main
attraction. A single guy is just a treat for her.
a blue moon kinda thing. Our mail is full of single guys all
the time. They add us to their Friends list without even saying hello.
Typically with no or 1 pic.
We do have a statement about cheeting and agressive guys.
Twice we have gotten into messy divorces and had to listen to that crap
Several times I had to take over when a single guy got to pushy.
We do play with single guys, But you have to understand couples are our main
attraction. A single guy is just a treat for her.
Where did all the responses to this thread go!
You say swinging is exploring sexuality, they say it\'s sharing. You\'re both right and so is everyone else with their interpretation of what swinging is. Everyone is entitled to feel the way THEY wish when it comes to stepping outside of monogamy. If they want to feel that singles have no place in swinging.. it\'s their right to feel that way. Be revengful... tell them that there\'s no place for couples in swinging... see what you\'re left with! LOLOLOLOL I think they call it DATING !!!!!
shareing ,,, exploreing .... it just depends on how and who is saying it my friend... my wife and i have been swinging for about 5 or 6 yrs now and find that alot of the single guys are rude and pushy .. not all of them ,, see we play with single guys most because it hard to find compatible couples in our area that are real .. and we find that that when it comes to couples and single guys alot of couples act as if they have a plague or something so let us say if your gonna get something your gonna get it no matter who your playing with ..to bad your not in our area we would have no problem playing with ya ..all we can say is thier loss ..
In the two years I have been in the lifestyle I have found very few rude people, I have found that there are many couples that are looking for males that are couple friendly and once they find a male they feel good around they want to play often.... in there case also a good man is hard to find....lol....Have a great 2006. Mike
All the lifestyle sites that we have come across seem to have a problem with single guys contacting them. It only takes a few bad apples to spoil the whole bunch.
We like the fact that this site offers the ability to block single men if we so desire.
We like the fact that this site offers the ability to block single men if we so desire.
No its not necessary to be rude, but unfortunatley alot of people are.
Kind of sad they were not taught better manners huh?
Its just as easy to say no thank you without being rude, but some can\'t resist. Even when someone writes and asks a stupid stupid question.....after rolling my eyes and thinking what an idiot, I reply nicely...
Golden rule still applies.....do unto others.......
Kind of sad they were not taught better manners huh?
Its just as easy to say no thank you without being rude, but some can\'t resist. Even when someone writes and asks a stupid stupid question.....after rolling my eyes and thinking what an idiot, I reply nicely...
Golden rule still applies.....do unto others.......