How do we meet these people on short notice without going to a meet and greet?
We have met some awesome people through house parties and even BBQ's. No pressure and we have always had a lot of fun. 

surf though the members on line find someone you like and send them an E-Mail and say hi.
hi there, we & another couple are having a halloween costume party on sat the 23rd in no ogden if you want to come..e-mail us & we'll give you the details if your interested.home party's are the best...kisses A&G
MrStacy is right. Just look around and e-mail people! We've met a TON of cool peeps that way!u
We single males have a haarder time, but it only took a few days on Craigslist posting thusly: 62-year old male seek ne friend for adult fun. Can be single female, single male, or married couples. I am very friendly and seek friends first. If you are married I will only agree to meet if your spouse is involved every step. I know there adult entertainment sites in Portland and would love meet with you.
I have had no problems finding couples who enjoy a m-f-m relationship. Men; way to easy to find. Females: scarce as hen's teeth.
I have had no problems finding couples who enjoy a m-f-m relationship. Men; way to easy to find. Females: scarce as hen's teeth.
you could always come to the halloween party... don't be scared.
This was a great start! The parties are great, and you will probably have a pretty amazing welcoming committee 

Thus sent our friend request!..lol
xox
D&T
xox
D&T
we are new and we have gone to 2 meet and greet. they had a side party that we could not go to .but since then nothing for us newbie. we have had quite a few of really pushy people. asking the question that you would ask someone after being with them before. we are shy but need the helping hand to start if off.