Are you in the Lifestyle For......
Sexual Enhancement of your Relationship
Friendship Enhancement of your Relationship
not many answered from Utah and we live in utahso we stil dont have a clue what others her in Utah r looking for.
Poet
Sexual Enhancement of your Relationship
Friendship Enhancement of your Relationship
not many answered from Utah and we live in utahso we stil dont have a clue what others her in Utah r looking for.
Poet
I wouldnt say it was an enhancment of our sexual relationship. We enjoy sex with one another already and enjoy playing with others just as another experience. We like the \'Making a porno\' feeling of playing. We enjoy it more if its people we really like and if we get into some very energetic situations.
we look to meet others who are open minded and enjoy the same things we do sexually, if a friendship is made all the way great, if it is just great sex and that is it, that is ok as well.
Chele
Chele
We guess for us......we got into it because we love SEX
For us...it\'s definately intimate friendships!!! We already have a great sex life...but extending our intimacy beyond our relationship to include friends....now that is icing on the cake!
We are in it for fun experiences and to meet new friends. So both!
Friendship is the main thing but sex is a close second :-)
The sex was already off the charts....but even though we have always been close enough to feel like we were one, we have never felt closer than after we started playing..a big part of it is the secret thing..like yesterday at Christmas when family would ask what we were up to....and we would have to look at each other and just smile...
Art and Dawn
Art and Dawn
We got into the lifestyle because of having SEX with new friends, But we\'ve discovered that most down this way aren\'t worth another oppertunity unless a friendship was established first. So for US, SEX WITH FRIENDS is the best. And SEX just to have SEX with someone just isn\'t an option any longer.
We already have a great sex life; we love making love to each other. But we also realized that variety is nice. So instead of cheating, we jumped into the lifestyle. Friendship or sex? For us it\'s friendship with added benefits. We liked how SWMTCPL\'s described it: \"intimate friendship\".
R and J
R and J
Why does it have to be one or the other, we enjoy the lifestyle for both reasons!
Sex? Friendship? Come on people!
We got in to the lifestyle for the FOOD. We have met every kind of person from every walk of life and I have to tell you...a lot of them could really cook! Intimate late nights entangled in each others bodies, making sexy little noises and doing sexy little things.....sure.
When we\'re done, feed me dammit! Great sex really works up an appetite!
OMG. Anybody else? LMAO.
Luvbugs! (mRs.)
(s)
We got in to the lifestyle for the FOOD. We have met every kind of person from every walk of life and I have to tell you...a lot of them could really cook! Intimate late nights entangled in each others bodies, making sexy little noises and doing sexy little things.....sure.
When we\'re done, feed me dammit! Great sex really works up an appetite!
OMG. Anybody else? LMAO.
Luvbugs! (mRs.)
(s)
we all do it to Enhance our sex life
need i say more.
kristylynn
need i say more.
kristylynn
YES........................
Food.. Now there is a great reason.. Food is important to replace all the calories burned off through the night...
Wish I was hungry at this moment!
Wish I was hungry at this moment!
Hopefully and Ideally BOTH
We are in it for both reasons, we want to establish long term friendships with people we meet, and if we have mind blowing sex, huge bonus! Our lovemaking is awesome, and we just love exploring our bi side with like minded others.
Ron & Chrissy
Ron & Chrissy
We\'re in it for the sex first but very selective, if a friendship develops that is great.
We are in it for both reasons, casual sex is fun, but sex is always better for us when there is a bond with our playmates. our motto:
You don\'t have to play to be friends, but you have to be friends to play.
Just the way we feel.
You don\'t have to play to be friends, but you have to be friends to play.
Just the way we feel.
LMAO @ Mrs Luvbugs
Great sex and Great food. PRICELESS
Oh we are good cooks by the way... wink wink
Mr somd
Great sex and Great food. PRICELESS
Oh we are good cooks by the way... wink wink
Mr somd
Definately both now...
Originally it was to experience something new....
Then we met people, and wow we have made some lifetime friends, some of which we have had sexual fun with, some we never will, but the friendship is still there strong as ever.
These are people who we can call in a pinch and say hey we need some help would you mind....and the only question they ask is when......
Great fun, great friends....... .
Originally it was to experience something new....
Then we met people, and wow we have made some lifetime friends, some of which we have had sexual fun with, some we never will, but the friendship is still there strong as ever.
These are people who we can call in a pinch and say hey we need some help would you mind....and the only question they ask is when......
Great fun, great friends....... .
We would have to say both, but probably more for the friendships. We have met some wonderful people since joining this site. Even though we are very selective with whom we\'ll play, we still count many people from here friends even though we don\'t play with them.
Why be just friends, when you can be friends with benefits.
Why be just friends, when you can be friends with benefits.
Friendship here... Sex is fun, but when your giving to pleasure to someone its nice to know that someone is a friend!
Amanda & Peter
Amanda & Peter
Thought I started doing this for sex, but it turned out that I prefered making friends first. Much nicer to have sex with a friend :m
We enjoy it for both reasons also!we love each other and enjoy friends,and the one\'s with benifits is a extra plus!
We like meeting people and making friends. We must say we like ones that we can enjoy a lot of sex with. We enjoy the recreational part of it all. It is nice to know the people you play with! Must admit would not know many of the people if not out to have sex with them. As a couple we like watching each other with others and then enjoying ourslves with each other! So which is it cant have one with out the other, but with out the sex would not be happing. We do have a great sex life with out swaping it allows us to ejoy it in different ways.
Our relationship doesn\'t need enhancement. We\'re a great team as-is. Extramarital sex is just plain fun for us, period.
-R
-R
we would have to say for both reasons
Friendship first and then what ever seems to come natually to us!
we are in it for the sex.... but it seems you always end up with friends.
being brutually forward it is all about sex
We are looking for both fun experiences and to meet new friends. So both as well.we have great sex together so that part is covered.
xoxoxox
Jodi & Luke
xoxoxox
Jodi & Luke
both! Either!
CALNSYNUT, we like you thinking and agree.
Dwan is looking for Friendships while finding her Sexual Enhancements. Poet is looking for Sexual Enhancement and if a friendship comes from it then even better as long as the Sexual Enhancement continues, he\'s tired of the once in awhile get togethers.
Since our Relationship is very strong and with this lifestyle we have found that there is no lie\'s to each other he knows what he wants and he tells me befor and always after if he hooks up with someone as for me I like him to always be there when i\'m doing my Sexual Enhancements but I am also Getting tired of the wam bam thank yous we get when they can only prefor once and the only reason they come around is when they seem to can\'t find it any where else..
Poet & Dawn
Since our Relationship is very strong and with this lifestyle we have found that there is no lie\'s to each other he knows what he wants and he tells me befor and always after if he hooks up with someone as for me I like him to always be there when i\'m doing my Sexual Enhancements but I am also Getting tired of the wam bam thank yous we get when they can only prefor once and the only reason they come around is when they seem to can\'t find it any where else..
Poet & Dawn
We look for both, funny how one can come easyer then the other at times. Some times sex can be so easy but a good friend ship is very hard to maintaine. Then you have the other side when it is just friends with out sex for us this is ok but what do you do when it starts to turn from friends to sex and then its over all together. That sucks!
This is a great topic funny how some can answer this so quickly.
For the most part we truly want both have come close at times but always a but hmmm.
This is a great topic funny how some can answer this so quickly.
For the most part we truly want both have come close at times but always a but hmmm.
Yup. We like the people. Not all of them. Especially the ones who follow Dominique around like puppies. . .or the ones who tickle my palm when we shake hands or are on the dance floor.
As stated; \"Sexual Enhancement of your Relationship or Friendship Enhancement of your Relationship\" I don\'t think either is right for us... We were not and are not trying to enhance our relationship... Our relationship was good when we started, but it has gotten better as a result of being in the lifestyle..
We originally got into the lifestyle because B was bi but hadn\'t experienced it yet. I guess that would be Sex ...period.. But as we got deeper into the lifestyle we acquired friends and sex with friends can be fun.. Hell. Friends who you can just talk freely with about sex or anything is relaxing, even if you don\'t have sex with them. If a couple is in a good stable relationship without jealousy and gets into the lifestyle.. it will enhance their relationship..without trying and by the nature of the beast, sex will result if you wish.
Just my opinion... and my 2 cents.. Worth exactly 2 cents after inflation.... LOL
We originally got into the lifestyle because B was bi but hadn\'t experienced it yet. I guess that would be Sex ...period.. But as we got deeper into the lifestyle we acquired friends and sex with friends can be fun.. Hell. Friends who you can just talk freely with about sex or anything is relaxing, even if you don\'t have sex with them. If a couple is in a good stable relationship without jealousy and gets into the lifestyle.. it will enhance their relationship..without trying and by the nature of the beast, sex will result if you wish.
Just my opinion... and my 2 cents.. Worth exactly 2 cents after inflation.... LOL
Both - definitely! We started out with a strong relationship (married 23 years) and have made great friends, some with benefits, and strengthened our relationship at the same time. It is truly the best of all worlds!
For me its both, friendships first, because thats just me. Don\'t get me wrong sex is great, but sex with people you have a connection with, enjoy their company in or out of the bedroom, now that is priceless.
Are we all looking for sex benefits with posible friends if the sex is enjoyable? :q
P&D
P&D