Swingers Forum - Curious where did you meet?

I met Deepbluz on Craigs List. It was supposed to be a one night stand and over 2 1/2 years later it's on/off (currently off). He's the one who introduced me to Swingular. He has a profile here but hardly uses it. (rolls eyes). I've dated a few single males from here....it's a little weird versus meeting them in a traditional setting.

My STBX (who does NOT play) and I met online too. But that was 13 years ago. But when I first approached him about opening our marriage up he was totally cool with it.

I don't really believe in the whole "Mr Right" or "soulmates". I just think there are people I like fucking more then others and people who piss me off less then others.

Where do I meet "that guy"? LOL

Im still single.... bored.

Tater>>>>>single here too winks lol

We met on Myspace. He agreed to pick me up at the airport at 1AM after a trip home to my family and we stayed together that night and every night after. Moved in together after a month of knowing each other. I (wife) told him I really wanted girls and he graciously agreed to threesomes 2 months into our relationship and from there went on to couples and then married after 8 months. Always keep your options open!

great input guys... just trying to figure out where are options to meet nice singles girls these days

We met two years ago on MySpace. Many people put their noses up to such a thing but really we think its a completely reasonable place to meet someone. As a 20-40 something single person your options to go socialize become increasingly limited unless you consider church socials or crowded noisy bars "prime teritory. At any of those your main criteria for hitting a person up is if they are "hot". Not to say physical attraction isn't key but conversely we had discussed politics, religion, philosophy etc ad nauseum by the time we actually got around to meeting. We knew we had something in common and it has worked out wonderfully for us. What the hell she sees in me I still don't know but I count my blessings every day.

We met in Jr High school. We were introduced by some friends who had met at Classic Roller Skating. Lol. That's when you know it's true love. It took us years of experimentation and pushing boundaries with friends before we got into the lifestyle.

We met at the bar basically had a one night stand. She got pregant I moved in a month later and has been rockin for the last 13 years. Wouldnt change a thing. I introduced it to her bed about 2 years into our relationship about another woman joining us. then start telling her how hot it would be for her to bring a guy home from work and let me watch them fuck each other in her car in front of the house. Then it became a reality when she became friends with a couple she worked with that were swingers. It was so dam hot woooo hoooooo

He was at a friends bachelor party and I was the stripper. Sixteen years later and he still loves to watch me take my clothes off!

we met at a bar,she tried to set me up with her girlfriend who said she wasn't interested because i looked like her brother. been together for over 10 years. just talked about it as a possibility and went from there.

we met in a strip club! i was on stage and he was a customer. we have only full swapped once and im still not sure how i truely felt about it. i think im more into the women. i worked as a stripper for almost 12 years and being in a sexually charged atmosphere like that its easy to be open minded. xoxoxo Lovea

I meet James on match.com. We hit it off and he is the love of my life. We have been married for six years and recently started into the lifestyle. I was reading the paper at lunch one day and saw this article about skinny dipping at Caliente Spa and Resort. I called him at lunch and I jokingly asked him if he wanted to go and he was all excited about it. James could not stop talking about it when I got home from work. We looked up their website and some the comments stated they had a bad time because they allow some sexual activity in the pool. Apparently some people went to the resort during a swinger convention and we thought that was cool. We started to talk about if there were other swingers there and we both got excited about the possibilities. We went to Caliente and we got used to the idea of being naked in public. We found out we enjoyed it. We did not meet another couple at Caliente therefore we searched for swinger websites and here we are. We met a few nice couples here and enjoy the lifestyle. I guess I should be careful how I joke with my husband.

I cannot believe how many people found their spouses based on the intent of purely having a sexual relationship with them, and it evolved from there ---- WOW ---- sort of REALLY surprising to me! But Sweet!

kinda funny how many wives were strippers when they met their significant other.