We understand some people can\'t have pictures in their profiles. They need to be discreet about the adventures and we respect that. But we need photos so we know who we are meeting. We always meet inpublic places and would be a bit weird walking up to every couple in the bar asking if its them. And your meeting us so unless they are planning on showing up with mask or bags on their heads, they can share.
havent had much issue with that though, its when we do get the picture the quality is so poor we can\'t tell any details anyway. We had a couple (not from this site) send us a pic tonight and the picture is so grainy we can barely make out who is who, if it werent for the fact its their wedding photo and she has a dress on. Needless to say they are both over 40 so we\'re assuming married for a few years anyway, so how accurate is the photo anyway???
They were also nice enough to send a second photo...of her breast in a bra. Can\'t see anything else. We thought that was a thoughtful jester cause we really wondered
Have you had as much fun as we have with others photos???
havent had much issue with that though, its when we do get the picture the quality is so poor we can\'t tell any details anyway. We had a couple (not from this site) send us a pic tonight and the picture is so grainy we can barely make out who is who, if it werent for the fact its their wedding photo and she has a dress on. Needless to say they are both over 40 so we\'re assuming married for a few years anyway, so how accurate is the photo anyway???
They were also nice enough to send a second photo...of her breast in a bra. Can\'t see anything else. We thought that was a thoughtful jester cause we really wondered
Have you had as much fun as we have with others photos???
If nothing else at least a few body shots, or shots with the faces blurred. Or you can put them in the \"friends only\" pics. Everyone should have some type of pics up, but thats just our 2 cents worth.
Happy Holidays all!
Tandvplay
Happy Holidays all!
Tandvplay
We have run into similar issues. We have had people say they don\'t have a digital camera so they can\'t share pictures. We nicely refered them to Sam\'s Club and Wal-Mart where they can get regular pictures put on CD. Funny that we never heard back from them. Pictures are truly a must and we also don\'t email pictures. We have pictures of our faces in our private gallery.
Happy Holidays everyone!
M & S
Happy Holidays everyone!
M & S
We agree. If they are serious about meeting then the least they can do is send a viewable photo......After all, they\'ve already seen ours right?
My favorite statement is \"You will not be disappointed\"
When we were new to the lifestyle we met with one couple,who told us we wouldn\'t be disappointed. No photos, but we were new..... well....lets just say that was the last time we
met without photos for a \"date\"
We will do a meet and greet at a club party without viewing photos, but only after we make it clear that there are no plans, just a meet and greet.....
Let\'s face it, its all about attraction, if its not there in the beginning, its kind of a moot point to meet, so without pics how do you know if any attraction is there.
My favorite statement is \"You will not be disappointed\"
When we were new to the lifestyle we met with one couple,who told us we wouldn\'t be disappointed. No photos, but we were new..... well....lets just say that was the last time we
met without photos for a \"date\"
We will do a meet and greet at a club party without viewing photos, but only after we make it clear that there are no plans, just a meet and greet.....
Let\'s face it, its all about attraction, if its not there in the beginning, its kind of a moot point to meet, so without pics how do you know if any attraction is there.
Real simple rules for us.
1- No picture means no thank you
2- No verification means no thank you
3- Only exceptions to rule 1 and 2 is you better have references that we know and trust or again, no thank you.
Can\'t be that hard to figure out!
Mo & Gary
1- No picture means no thank you
2- No verification means no thank you
3- Only exceptions to rule 1 and 2 is you better have references that we know and trust or again, no thank you.
Can\'t be that hard to figure out!
Mo & Gary
We were asked to meet a couple for dinner one night. No photo but they had seen ours so we took the gamble. We dressed and drove the 30+ miles to dinner. No problem, we had their cell phone number. Well we called them when they were 30 minutes late and got no answer. We had a nice dinner but without the couple that was to meet us. Two months later they contacted us again telling us they would be going to the club in a nearby town. Once again we went. Once again they didn\'t show up. From now on,,,,, No photo of your FACE, no date. We have seen genitals, heck we have them ourselves. Lets see your faces. 
We\'ve learned from the past. Even though these people have sent bad pictures we always arrange meetings at places that we know we will have a good time, so in the event we are stood up we don\'t let it ruin the evening.
We agree that sometimes people need to be discrete,but if others are looking through profiles on these sites,they must have an interest in swinging.
Further,don\'t you have to be a paying member to see the pics on this site?Or,as someone suggested put face pics in your private album.
There is really no excuse for not having face pictures on here somewhere.
we feel it is good manners to have face pictures.Not necessarily to see how attractive one might be,but to actually see who one is talking to.
Further,don\'t you have to be a paying member to see the pics on this site?Or,as someone suggested put face pics in your private album.
There is really no excuse for not having face pictures on here somewhere.
we feel it is good manners to have face pictures.Not necessarily to see how attractive one might be,but to actually see who one is talking to.
We find this topic interesting, only because we have also gotten the cold shoulder after someone has contacted us first telling us how much they like our profile and then when our reply is hey we like your too but how about some photos of the two of you so that we can see if there may be an attraction for the two of us we either get no reply or a photo of just the female or as someone else said, a VERY grainy photo that is terrible.
Not sure if some couples realize that its usually the female half that makes the yea or neys and if the male half of the other couple is not interested in showing himself then we are not interested in meeting.
We had one local couple contact us on a different site and wanted to meet for drinks.. They sent some \"distant\" pictures but we thought lets take a chance...so we said great we will schedule something.. What is best for you.. This went back and forth for a few emails then we decided that after the holidays was good.. We then get an email from them telling us how good my wife looked in her black boots the night before (we were at my company
Not sure if some couples realize that its usually the female half that makes the yea or neys and if the male half of the other couple is not interested in showing himself then we are not interested in meeting.
We had one local couple contact us on a different site and wanted to meet for drinks.. They sent some \"distant\" pictures but we thought lets take a chance...so we said great we will schedule something.. What is best for you.. This went back and forth for a few emails then we decided that after the holidays was good.. We then get an email from them telling us how good my wife looked in her black boots the night before (we were at my company
That is exactly why we feel we have so much trouble in this lifestyle. My hubby has NO PROBLEM saying whats on his mind. And when something such as that happens he usually writes the person or couple back and tells them Very Politely that if they are SO CONCERNED with someone finding out they are HUMAN and do like to do somethings that at times other may not approve of. Then they are in the WRONG LIFESTYLE. It\'s also an oppinion of his that if they are so hung up on that then they most likely won\'t be good playmates anyway.
We had a date not too long ago where the people who showed up were NOT the people in the photographs (The heads were cropped out on the photos)
Now to meet we need face shots. We both work and have the same risk in public exposure as anyone else...yet we post our photographs and we even go out of our way to put some photos on the profile that we think are less than flattering so you can really see what you are getting. Like it has been said before, if you don\'t want your face out there, cool, put them in your private shots and share them only when you have a good feeling about someone.
In a small town we can understand the hesitation, but hey, they are going to see you when you meet anyway...
We really like to see something before we will commit to meeting....but again a lot of it is that gut feeling.
Art and Dawn
If we ever are confronted by family or coworkers the first going to said to them is: what were YOU doing on that site???
Now to meet we need face shots. We both work and have the same risk in public exposure as anyone else...yet we post our photographs and we even go out of our way to put some photos on the profile that we think are less than flattering so you can really see what you are getting. Like it has been said before, if you don\'t want your face out there, cool, put them in your private shots and share them only when you have a good feeling about someone.
In a small town we can understand the hesitation, but hey, they are going to see you when you meet anyway...
We really like to see something before we will commit to meeting....but again a lot of it is that gut feeling.
Art and Dawn
If we ever are confronted by family or coworkers the first going to said to them is: what were YOU doing on that site???
We don
We have been using computers to find \"special friends\" BEFORE there was an \"Internet\".
It was called \"BBS\" back in the day, we had a 500K Modem as compared to today\'s 5600K modem.
Sending photos wasn\'t possible, all the legitimate couples had a PO Box, and you had to mail photos. We have been around this for a while and we don\'t miss that routine or the dial up modem.
Here\'s our check list of things we avoid totally:
(1) Anyone on a non-paid account.
(2) Profiles with no photos, we can understand those that can\'t post public faces but you can post body styles. If hubby honks at the beer truck to have it pull over we would like to know ahead of time, we are not \"gym rats\" or what some might call \"Fit\" but just like an old bridge I do have a weight limit.
(3) 25 photos of her in 26 different poses, their dog, car and his motorcycle but not ONE SINGLE PHOTO of him. (RUN FOREST RUN)
(We have clear and current photos of us BOTH in our private album, we share those where there is an interest and the possibility of meeting)
(4) No written profile, or \"HI WE ARE A HOT CUPLE WHO WANTS TO HAVE FUN\" (Or something similar, if they don\'t have time to put a paragraph together we don\'t have time either)
(5) Profiles filled with genital photos, if I want to see those I\'ll subscribe to \"Dicks Unlimited\" or \"GYN Today\".
Things to watch out for:
If a photo is very blurry it\'s probably for a reason.
If they are a football field away from the camera and are not playing football...it\'s probably for a reason.
Be leary of scanned photos, digital cameras are dirt cheap these days, they may be showing you how great they looked \"back in the day\".
(I looked OK in my cheerleader outfit 25 years ago, if I put it on today you would need the jaws of life to get the bitch off me)
Postage size photos, who are these people and what the hell did they do to get a postage size photo?
Photos with junk and assorted filth in the background, they should call Merry Maid before the next big photo shoot.
Posting wedding photos CREEPS ME OUT!!!!
That\'s it, I\'m going shopping now!
Mrs. FL4fun :-)
It was called \"BBS\" back in the day, we had a 500K Modem as compared to today\'s 5600K modem.
Sending photos wasn\'t possible, all the legitimate couples had a PO Box, and you had to mail photos. We have been around this for a while and we don\'t miss that routine or the dial up modem.
Here\'s our check list of things we avoid totally:
(1) Anyone on a non-paid account.
(2) Profiles with no photos, we can understand those that can\'t post public faces but you can post body styles. If hubby honks at the beer truck to have it pull over we would like to know ahead of time, we are not \"gym rats\" or what some might call \"Fit\" but just like an old bridge I do have a weight limit.
(3) 25 photos of her in 26 different poses, their dog, car and his motorcycle but not ONE SINGLE PHOTO of him. (RUN FOREST RUN)
(We have clear and current photos of us BOTH in our private album, we share those where there is an interest and the possibility of meeting)
(4) No written profile, or \"HI WE ARE A HOT CUPLE WHO WANTS TO HAVE FUN\" (Or something similar, if they don\'t have time to put a paragraph together we don\'t have time either)
(5) Profiles filled with genital photos, if I want to see those I\'ll subscribe to \"Dicks Unlimited\" or \"GYN Today\".
Things to watch out for:
If a photo is very blurry it\'s probably for a reason.
If they are a football field away from the camera and are not playing football...it\'s probably for a reason.
Be leary of scanned photos, digital cameras are dirt cheap these days, they may be showing you how great they looked \"back in the day\".
(I looked OK in my cheerleader outfit 25 years ago, if I put it on today you would need the jaws of life to get the bitch off me)
Postage size photos, who are these people and what the hell did they do to get a postage size photo?
Photos with junk and assorted filth in the background, they should call Merry Maid before the next big photo shoot.
Posting wedding photos CREEPS ME OUT!!!!
That\'s it, I\'m going shopping now!
Mrs. FL4fun :-)
We take pride in our pics and update them every three months or so. We want people to know exactly what we look like and who we are.
I cant imagine why people who use a website like this one to meet other people who are supposedly \"like minded\" refuse to post pics. We wont even deal with them anymore. I dont care about your job, or any other hogwash you want to try to put over on others to justify your position. You can bet those very same people are looking at YOUR profiles admiring your pics, perhaps contemplating contacting you for a date!
If someone from outside was to see our pics or profile somewhere, and it has happened to us before, then so be it! Even if your boss or your co-workers were to find out, it is a private matter. You dont need to discuss it with anyone, no matter who they are! This is who we are! This is what we do! They may not like it, agree with it, or understand it...but thats not really our issue is it?
Just our .02 cents.
Luvbugs! (mR)
I cant imagine why people who use a website like this one to meet other people who are supposedly \"like minded\" refuse to post pics. We wont even deal with them anymore. I dont care about your job, or any other hogwash you want to try to put over on others to justify your position. You can bet those very same people are looking at YOUR profiles admiring your pics, perhaps contemplating contacting you for a date!
If someone from outside was to see our pics or profile somewhere, and it has happened to us before, then so be it! Even if your boss or your co-workers were to find out, it is a private matter. You dont need to discuss it with anyone, no matter who they are! This is who we are! This is what we do! They may not like it, agree with it, or understand it...but thats not really our issue is it?
Just our .02 cents.
Luvbugs! (mR)
..continued from previous soapbox rant.
Hey wouldnt it be COOL if people who didnt post pics did not have the ability to SEE pics either? LoL.
Luvbugs! (mR.)
Hey wouldnt it be COOL if people who didnt post pics did not have the ability to SEE pics either? LoL.
Luvbugs! (mR.)
Beth\'s boss called her into his office one afternoon
and asked \"is this you?\" with a red face she said yes.
He asked \"can I see your tits\" which she showed him
and she never heard another word about it.
You see, he was on the same site, What\'s he going to do,
Fire her, harass her,, I don\'t think so.
and asked \"is this you?\" with a red face she said yes.
He asked \"can I see your tits\" which she showed him
and she never heard another word about it.
You see, he was on the same site, What\'s he going to do,
Fire her, harass her,, I don\'t think so.
Luvbugs! (mR.)
Don\'t be startin trouble !!! LMAO
(And get your butts back down to Florida.... can\'t belive you moved to the FROZEN NORTH!
Don\'t be startin trouble !!! LMAO
(And get your butts back down to Florida.... can\'t belive you moved to the FROZEN NORTH!
You Floridians (yes, I said it the same way you would say YOU people) are all warm and cozy down there in your little tropical state.
I dont miss going to the beach every other day. I dont miss Miami, Tampa, and West Palm Beach\'s premeire swing clubs at all. I dont miss seeing the shuttle launches from (practically) my back yard when we lived next to Kennedy Space Center. I dont miss the triple sonic boom and the front row seat to every shuttle landing we had when they came home from space. I dont miss the crystal clear warm water, the dolphins playing under our dock, the manatees lazily swimming by, or the outstanding fishing.
My jet ski\'s.
My SHORTS.
Nope. I dont miss any of that crap.
I LIKE it when I look outside and my entire car is covered with a thick white blanket of snow. I love that sometimes, we have to leave 2 hours early to go 25 miles to Virginia on the beltway. I especially love it when I have to spend hundreds of dollars of my (what would otherwise be fun money) on stupid little things like jackets, gloves, hats, and scarves!
As we read your reply, and you know who you are, we laughed our asses off. Then we decided to share a little of the joy we have been experiencing since leaving Cocoa Beach in September!
Who would miss dirty \'ol back water Florida?
Luvbugs! (mR.)
PS- Our DJ business has picked up since moving here though....
I dont miss going to the beach every other day. I dont miss Miami, Tampa, and West Palm Beach\'s premeire swing clubs at all. I dont miss seeing the shuttle launches from (practically) my back yard when we lived next to Kennedy Space Center. I dont miss the triple sonic boom and the front row seat to every shuttle landing we had when they came home from space. I dont miss the crystal clear warm water, the dolphins playing under our dock, the manatees lazily swimming by, or the outstanding fishing.
My jet ski\'s.
My SHORTS.
Nope. I dont miss any of that crap.
I LIKE it when I look outside and my entire car is covered with a thick white blanket of snow. I love that sometimes, we have to leave 2 hours early to go 25 miles to Virginia on the beltway. I especially love it when I have to spend hundreds of dollars of my (what would otherwise be fun money) on stupid little things like jackets, gloves, hats, and scarves!
As we read your reply, and you know who you are, we laughed our asses off. Then we decided to share a little of the joy we have been experiencing since leaving Cocoa Beach in September!
Who would miss dirty \'ol back water Florida?
Luvbugs! (mR.)
PS- Our DJ business has picked up since moving here though....
\"Our DJ business has picked up since moving here though\"
My gawd Bugs then play me something upbeat, that was a sad story, but a funny one.
(But you can start laughing at us next Hurricane season... every state has a cross to bare. LOL
My gawd Bugs then play me something upbeat, that was a sad story, but a funny one.
(But you can start laughing at us next Hurricane season... every state has a cross to bare. LOL
Luvbugs! (mR.) ...Do we detect a bit of sarcasm there??? LOL.... We were wearing shorts on Christmas day... God how we get tortured down here!
Moved here from Providence RI.... and don\'t miss it a bit. (\"it\" being Ice, Snow & The Cold)
Mr. FLCpl4Fun
Moved here from Providence RI.... and don\'t miss it a bit. (\"it\" being Ice, Snow & The Cold)
Mr. FLCpl4Fun